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Romance / Friendship Bond by RelCapsules(m): 1:33pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
Enjoying Your friendship in your relationship. Friendship supersedes Mere Attraction. Spicing up your relationship requires a double edged task. It has to come from the both sides. You need to delve deep to the bones and marrow of your relationship fora sharper result. Let me hint us on some ways to improve your friendship in relationships. 1. Build a deep form of connection through communication. Talk about your daily activities, schedules, spiritual life, plans, et al. 2. Give advises on information received. Be a part of your partner's life by speaking a word of encouragement to start their day. 3. Speak your partner's love language. I had issues in this area and I had to build up my understanding on love languages. 4. Be your partner's secret keeper and motivator. Be quick to spot when they are weak and help them up. 5. Give little surprises in form of gifts and varieties. It doesn't have to be a car or a house, learn to give. 6. Learn the different personalities and temperament. Relate with your partner according to their temperament. 7. Support your partner's brand. Whatever they are into, bring in your ideas and lend a supportive hand by your contribution. This is just a few of what can help your relationships. Am ready to learn more tips from you. I await your feedback. Our blog made it to TOP 5 in the on going Nigerian Blog Awards. Please vote us (www.relationshipcapsules.com) as the best relationship blog in Nigeria in the on going competition on www.nigerianblogawards.com Thanks.
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Romance / Lovely Love Quotes For DP. by RelCapsules(m): 1:23pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
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Romance / The Diary Of A Woman In Love (what Women Really Want From Men) by RelCapsules(m): 12:49pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Every woman has different attributes that makes them feel unique and attractive. Men always feel that all women wants is just money and luxury, but do you know that there are some men with no cash that touches the heart of some women? A woman can like you because of what you have but you can only steal her heart by touching the right pedals. So beyond the common strategies used by men to woo ladies, there should be a common ground to get any woman. Most players always get ladies down easily because they know the tricks. I would highlight some basic tips here. So men , start smiling. Women love attention. Seriously, some men need to understand that women love more attention than they do. She loves to be cared and pampered for. When a woman is into you, she would crave for your attention than anything. Spending more time with other things and people would only make her feel like an option. Men, show her some care. Ask about her welfare, give her feedback. I really want attention. I love to be cared for. So many women wants that too. Continue reading here http://www.relationshipcapsules.com/2015/02/the-diary-of-woman-in-love-what-women.html?m=1 |
Romance / |must Read|: My New Year Resolution Is To Flirt by RelCapsules(m): 8:47pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Hello Readers, Am a male of 30 yrs. I made a new year resolution on 31st of last year December to flirt around this year because I believe am getting close to the last bus stop but this wishes has been affecting my relationship with Christ. Yeah, because most girls now adays want me to be committed to them before anything can happen. They don't trust me easily like before. They will want us to be friends and keep chatting before anything can creep in to the relationship. And I had my new resolution not to be fooled around again. Ishould just enjoy life as it comes. Am not dedicating my time and money on a girl. Am not frequent in church anymore. I don't even have the time to medidate on His words again. I use to see visions for people before, deliver messages to them but now it doesn't work that way. I know God wants me to be a pastor but I want to enjoy myself for myself for now. All I think about is the new fish am having around me now. Is friendship still necessary before relationships? What can I do to satisfy my wish and still keep my relationship with Christ? Response: Let me start by saying that you cannot serve mammon and God at the same time. You cannot either be cold or hot, you have to pick a spot. Living a life of pleasure can be enjoyable but it has no profit therein. For you to have made such resolution, it means you must have been hurt, depressed or shattered. Giving up isn't a solution, trying harder should be. The devil always use bad situations to showcase his worth and lead people downward. We must be aware of his vices and resist him at all times. You cannot enjoy your relationship with God if you are satisfying and feeding your flesh at the same time, you should kill it. Don't expect satisfaction from any girl if you don't value the relationship with your father. Humans can never satisfy you even if they can try. Friendship is very necessary for any relationship to breathe alive. You should stop expecting too much. Friendship opens you to characters and values you should spot in a potential partner. Don't be in a hurry to jump into any relationship. What exactly are you expecting from them? Sex? Sex? No way! It doesn't work that way. Focus on how to please Christ and not Self. It's a NO for pre-marital sex. All is vanity. Don't fall into this temptation. Work on your progress. If God is using you, then your downfall is going to be a disaster to your life and a thing of joy for the devil. May God help you. This is just a little of the advice given to him. Don't be fustrated to live a life of pleasure. Seek to satisfy God so you don't lose at the end. You have problems too? Are you depressed? Shoot us an e mail Admin@relcapsules.com For more relationship tips visit www.relationshipcapsules.com |
Romance / Hello Readers: Do I Allow Him Have Sex With Me To Keep Our Relationship? by RelCapsules(m): 2:03pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Hello Readers, Am Jane. I have been in a relationship for two years now and I have been struggling with my partner. We both love each other and have plans for marriage. When we started the relationship, I gave him some conditions which he agreed to. I told him no sex and no sleeping over at his house. He agreed to it and things went on smoothly. We usually go out on dates and visitation to friend's place which helps us overcome the temptation. Suddenly after one year, he started requesting for sex. I reminded him of our agreement but it fell on deaf ears. He threatned to leave me if I don't prove the love I have for him.He has stopped picking my calls and answering my chats. I really love him and I don't want to loose him. Have been thinking of allowing him but am also scared. My parents know about us likewise his. His friends and my friends are so eager for the wedding day. I can't imagine the shame of a break up. He is a cool guy and has been taking care of me too. We plan to settle down around August this year. Does it really matter that we involve sex as we plan ahead? Do you think I should let him or let go which seems so hard for me? Am so confused
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Romance / Questions You Should Answer Before Thinking Of Marriage by RelCapsules(m): 1:13pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
There is nothing that can be compared to preparing for marriage. It's not a new thing that people prepare more for their wedding than their forever living marriage. The usefulness of quality preparation towards marriage cannot be over-emphasised. There is no point trying to chase shadows. Love , love, love is what we all sing but how much do we love ourselves? Before you can claim to love someone, then you must have experienced that love personally. Its important to discover yourself before discovering a partner. Where are you heading to in life? Which direction are you taking? What is your vision? What are your life goals? Do you have a destination or you are just assisting everyone to their own destination? Do you have a purpose for living? Are you merely exisitng or living wisely? You cannot fanthom knowledge on your own. There are so much you can gain and understand from reading quality books and listening to messages that can enrich your minds. You also need to develop yourself with Christ. A life without Christ is a life that would be filled with crisis. Build your foundation with God. That's the only thing that can make sense in your life. That's enough to lead you to your promise land. When you are spiritually sound, then you can build a stong foundation with God in your marriage. Does God see you as a friend or you are so far away? Gain emotional strength. Learn to make useful decisions, take advises and most importantly, learn to forgive. Marriage is not for babies. Your partner would always, I repeat, they would always either conciously or unconsciously offend you and you just need to keep forgiving. How much can you forgive? Would you always run back to your parents and friends to report your spouse? You need to learn to drop every ego and pride and learn to say 'I Am Sorry'. Learn to take responsibilities. Stand to take correction. One problem I faced with taking correction is that sometimes I feel people just like to complain and maybe, they don't understand me but the truth is, they only correct to show love and concern. I only needed to work on myself. Sometimes we have good intentions but may end up using the wrong approach which people read meanings to. Don't try rushing into marriage, "the best of God cannot be rushed". You need to take your time to understand God, yourself before you can understand a friend or a partner. LEARN to cultivate friendships and be definite on what your friendship is all about. Don't make unnecessary friendship with a time waster. Don't love a time waster. Be specific about what you want. Don't be too desperate to settle down. Make sure you enjoy every bit of your singleness. Are you with someone who has plans for you? Learn to be independent. You should be an asset not a liability. What values do you have? Can your husband or wife trust you with their children and family? What business are you into? What vocational skills or trainings have you gotten? If you don't get a job for 3years, can you survive? Do you have marketing strategies? What usefulness can you give to the society? Are you relevant? Are you so all about sex? Is that the only reason you are in a relationship? Is it just about his or her money? Some people feel that marriage is a comfort zone. They feel marriage will bring all the goodies they need, so they don't need a source of income. Do you know your roles as a man or woman? Do you think women are weaker vessels in all ramifications or you think you cannot be submissive to your husband? Are you struggling with accepting your identity and gender? Become the best of who you are. Use your gender to make positive impacts. Your beauty should attract people to God's kingdom and not Satan's doom. Marriage won't change your mentality or personality, it would only change your status. Learn all you need to learn now before it's too late. Marriage won't stop you from flirting, so learn how to develop self control. Marriage won't conquer your usual state of Loneliness, learn to love yourself and enjoy your company. Marriage won't stop you from meeting and admiring new people but how much can you handle their closeness to you? Learn to respect your parent and sow seeds into their lives. Whatever you sow, you shall reap. Whatever life you live now will either destroy or elevate your future. Don't be a slave to the world, rather be a master to make things happen. So before you get married, think of your motive and the readiness of your heart. If you rush in too early, you may jump out too quick. Don't be too expectant. You may be disappointed. Get ready to face the good and the bad. Can you handle in-laws and neighbours properly? Are you dating or courting? Are you just looking for the right person or you are becoming the right person for your partner? Do you think love is all about receiving and not giving? Check your understanding. These are just some questions you should ask yourself but I await more from you. So are you ready? Breathe in and out and smile. Take bold steps now! Live healthy and stay purified! For more relationship tips visit www.relationshipcapsules.com 2 Likes
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Romance / Is It Wrong For A Lady To Propose To A Man? by RelCapsules(m): 2:41pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
What happens when the bush meat chases the hunter? http://www.relationshipcapsules.com/2015/03/when-hunted-becomes-hunter.html 7 Likes |
Romance / »»»singles Online Conference Today by RelCapsules(m): 10:16am On Aug 08, 2014 |
One of the most important elements in a courtship relationship is the emphasis on discerning marriage. One way a courtship differs from dating is that the couple has chosen to use this time together to discern whether or not marriage is their calling. It is not just a series of dates without direction. Some couples will have a fairly good idea early on in their relationship if they are called to marriage. A courtship should still give them time to allow them to grow in a Christ-centered relationship. Time spent wisely in a courtship can greatly bless the marriage that springs forth from it. Myself @folayemiITUNU (BBM 3305AD48) And @IamEmekaNobis (BBM 2A15C52B) Will be teaching on the topic #BenefitsOfCourtshipBeforeMarriage Venue: Twitter ( @relcapsules ) Date: Aug 8 (Today) Time: 7:30PM Pls re broadcast
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Nairaland / General / What The Bible Has To Say About Ebola Virus & Its Solution by RelCapsules(m): 8:57am On Aug 07, 2014 |
- For every situation, there is a solution from the Bible. Recently, a disease called Ebola has been causing havoc in the western part of Africa. It can be infected easily and kills faster. While the governments are working for the solution to cure and contain it, people continue to live in fear. As I was wandering about it, the Spirit opened my eyes to see what the Bible has to say and the solution it has for Ebola. The Bible called Ebola a pestilence - meaning a disease that spreads about, and the only certain prevention and cure for Ebola is the Shadow of the Almighty. If you can get the Shadow of the Almighty, you have nothing to fear about Ebola or any terrible epidemic. And where can we get the Shadow of the Almighty? The truth is that you cannot get the Shadow of the Almighty in any pharmaceutical stores or hospitals in the world, not even in the US. To protect yourself against Ebola where it’s existing, you need the Shadow of the Almighty, and the only place you can get the Shadow of the Almighty is to go under the secret place of the Most High. Here is what the Bible says: "He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High Shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty." "I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress; My God, in Him I will trust.”" "Surely He shall deliver you from the snare of the fowler And from the PERILOUS PESTILENCE." "You shall not be afraid of the terror by night, Nor of the arrow that flies by day, Nor of the pestilence that walks in darkness, Nor of the destruction that lays waste at noonday." "A thousand may fall at your side, And ten thousand at your right hand; But it shall not come near you.” – Psalm 91:1-7 If you have confessed your sins and been cleansed by the Blood of Jesus Christ and accepted Him as the Savior of your life, then you are dwelling in the secret place of the Most High and abiding under the shadow of the Almighty! What it means is that you are covered and secured with the Blood of Jesus Christ – you have nothing to fear about, even if you are living in the valley of Ebola virus. THE QUESTION As children of God, protected from Ebola virus by the Blood of Jesus Christ, should we fold our hands and see thousands of our fellow unsaved family members, friends, and countrymen falling by our sides? Should we seat down idle under the Shadow of the Almighty and allow Ebola virus to reach thousands of souls before we reach them with the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ and before they reach their destiny? Now, every child of God everywhere must rise up in prayer. PRAYER TO DESTROY THE FORCE OF EBOLA VIRUS While the Governments have no clue to contain or cure Ebola virus, we have the power of prayer through the Blood of Jesus to cancel the force of Ebola virus. PRAYER “Our God in heaven, we thank You for Your power and supremacy over all. We ask for Your forgiveness because sin had prevailed in our land before Ebola virus. We plea for Your mercy through Your Son Jesus Christ and ask You to heal our communities, countries, everywhere Ebola virus has reached. We declare healing for the infected and we destroy the power of Ebola virus from spreading further, by the power in the Blood of Jesus Christ. We ask the Gospel of our Lord JESUS CHRIST to spread all over our land. We take authority in the name of Jesus Christ and cause Ebola virus to cease. In JESUS name.” Amen Please pray this prayer, type “AMEN IN JESUS NAME” and spread/share the prayer as we silence the pestilence. God bless you Visit www.RelationshipCapsules.com for more. Or Add on BBM: 3305AD48 BBM CHANNEL C002C9D8D
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Romance / Ten Commandment For Women!!! by RelCapsules(m): 8:43am On Aug 07, 2014 |
1. Don't be in a hurry to move out of your parents house. 2. Don't wait for a man before you start living. You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman. 3. Stay away from alcohol. It has killed others and you are not special. 4. Don't entertain a wrong number call, especially at night. It's not the right way to find a lover. 5. Develop a healthy eating habit. Always take breakfast and avoid sweets. 6. Dress well: impression count. People will judge you by the way you dress even before they talk to you. 7. Don't use sex as proof of love. Sex is no proof of love, he'll leave you after the sex. 8. Don't marry for the money, else you'll become one of his possessions. 9. Add value to yourself - get a career. Don't be fooled that a man will solve all your problems. 10. Beauty is not everything. If it is all you have, you'll lose your place to someone beautiful, better, more matured and competent than you. Visit: www.relationshipcapsules.com for more Facebook: www.fb.com/relcapsules |
Romance / Ten Commandment For Women!!! by RelCapsules(m): 7:54am On Aug 07, 2014 |
1. Don't be in a hurry to move out of your parents house. 2. Don't wait for a man before you start living. You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman. 3. Stay away from alcohol. It has killed others and you are not special. 4. Don't entertain a wrong number call, especially at night. It's not the right way to find a lover. 5. Develop a healthy eating habit. Always take breakfast and avoid sweets. 6. Dress well: impression count. People will judge you by the way you dress even before they talk to you. 7. Don't use sex as proof of love. Sex is no proof of love, he'll leave you after the sex. 8. Don't marry for the money, else you'll become one of his possessions. 9. Add value to yourself - get a career. Don't be fooled that a man will solve all your problems. 10. Beauty is not everything. If it is all you have, you'll lose your place to someone beautiful, better, more matured and competent than you. Visit: www.relationshipcapsules.com for more Facebook: www.fb.com/relcapsules |
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