₦airaland Forum

tivta:
Empowering women is better than saving lifes? Empowering women is better than not being corrupt? My dear stop thinking on the surface, if Dora didn't do what she did would there be women to empower who mostly focus on gossip? You have no idea what length she went through to clean up the Drug market in Nigeria. Linda has nothing to offer humanity except gossip that will eventually lead her to trouble. I rather save lives than empower gossips

tivta:
See them, focusing on fame instead of lives touched, do you know how many lives Dora saved? She even had to fight her husband's people for selling fake drugs, seems you people don't know how many lives fake drugs have taken, just pray never to experience it. Linda cannot reach 1/5 of what Dora reached, imagine her success story is a house in banana island.

intruder15:
hmmm. Dis 1 is strong. Well, most posting comments are single. I included. Some married ones also gave suggestions, bt trust me wen i say none of them knows how u feel cuz they might ve been abused by their wives, bt never ve they been ''spat on''... So, nobody knows how u feel. I cant do dat to a lady. I wonder what gave her d guts to do dat. U know ladies. They like attention more than any other thing u could possibly give them. U know guys. We love fifa and pes like our lives depends on it. Not al though. Maybe she just de unveil d beef whe she get for dat console teh teh. How often do u two discuss hw ur day went at night before bed? Or u are still playing d game ensuring u win juve while she has slept off? These are d little things dat ruins marriage. If u know things u used to do back wen in sch, try and replicate it. If u do dat, and ur marriage still sucks, ''nwanne gbarie door'' in phyno's tone.

DICKtator:
If this is true, then come 2019, I am waiting for these so called elders that sold buhari to the people to come and discredit him and watch me vote for the Buhari again so that i spite them!!!!

Suleh620:
and u, u dont like hijab and scarves! see ur lyf. The woman who just received her own in the pic also wearing hijab. mtchew!! Deluded bigot

Lukmann1:
These is ways Inec want to sabotaged this election for APC to won it.

Dsdada:
And what have said? Nothing. Absolutely nothing!! You may as well make dogs, cats and mosquitoes your friends and relations!

tourgist:
I am not a fan of Pastor Chris but why do Nigerians always speak publicly against what they secretly desire.

For the guys against what the Pastor said it is either you are single or living in denial. and for the Ladies here i will say if you want peace in your home follow this principle and your husband will love you forever.

If you read the post properly you will see the part he said a woman has influence on her husband not by forcing her opinion on him.

The bible is clear on the issue of Marriage: Men love your wifes and Women submit to your own husbands. Women in the bible called their husband's LORD which means Master in Hebrew e.g Sarah, Ruth etc. A woman that submits makes it easier for the husband to love her.

I'm a christian and would not oppose this teaching because it is coming from Pst Chris, We should stop taking things personal.
Any Man who desires a woman that has same authority with him in Marriage, God will answer your prayer and give you your heart desires.

And for those saying he could not hold down his marriage: it takes 2 people to be married and when one party says i want out you can't force them, some of you will understand what i'm saying because there might be 1 or 2 people around who have gone through divorce, it could be your parents, sister, brother, cousin, uncle or aunt.

monex:
My understanding (and this is the largely orthodox christian interpretation) is that indeed it is a master-slave relationship where the slave is obligated to obey the Master while the master is obligated to love (seek/serve the slave's good before his).

so respect is not earned in marriage. the wife is obligated to respect and submit to her husband even if he is not worthy of her respect
love is not earned. The husband obligatorily seeks the wife's good even if she is malicious, wicked and undeserving of his love.

Loving someone means seeking the person's good. To seek someone's good, you need to understand the person and then know what is best for the person.