I understand your burdens. First, why have they refused to send you to school? Can't they fix you somewhere to learn a skill? However, I won't advise you to leave the house now, although you didn't state your gender. As a girl, do it for this season your glorification is coming. As a boy if you're above 18yrs, get out and work for yourself

It is funny how baby boys come online and cry in frustration. How on earth will you be giving her 100k monthly? That's about 35% of your salary. Which one do you save, pay bills, invest and do charitable works? I think you need to dump her immediately and stay single for 12months and thank me later. You would have saved N1.2 million in 12months

Relocating to a new location where no one knew me. It has a way of motivating one's hustling spirit

I am not there with you, but I feel if it is your elder brother, the aspect not giving you food is wrong. My cousin brother stayed with me for a year, I spent and make every expenses. I couldn't watch him go hungry even though I wasn't earning much. Kindness is not a gift but an habit intentionally inculcated. Your elder brother is not a kind person generally even with outsiders.


My advice to you is to try your best to see how you can eat or feed yourself. Don't let his attitude derail your focus.

Reach out to other people for help. Don't rely on him...