This is really sad and scary but not hopeless. there are good and bad cops worldwide, and if you look at it constructively we can say its the same defective system that intercepted the bad guys. so there is hope for Nigeria

I live in Abuja and something is happening. The scenario OP posted is rampant here to epidemic proportions. Worsening the environment is extremely high divorce rate mostly caused by rivalry, distrust and envy between the spouses. The men envy the women more here because it is easier for a pretty, intelligent, confident and ambitious woman to move up the corporate ladder or to succeed in her business. Men easily abandon relationships and marriages because cheap alternatives abound here. So let’s take a step back and look outside the box.
This trend suggests something, at that is…… there is a disconnect between the sexes because of changes in SES (socio-economic status) of women in Nigeria and Africa. Our Traditional matchmaking models are breaking down and cannot sustain today’s relationships
But the Good news is that there are also very good men available who are a little older divorced, widowed or still not married. These men are looking for a slightly more mature professional woman as a life partner But most of these educated/successful available men are also too busy and will never meet professional women at any forum. So you keep bumping into unserious people and funseekers
So to reconnect the disconnect. We need a proffessional dating service that can screen out jokers, kids and fraudsters to provide this much needed matchmaking. Family friends, clubs and weddings won’t cut it; this change I am talking about is like a hurricane and needs the power of IT to put the pieces back together
The service/site must strongly appreciate our local conditions and challenges not the the stuff out there now. Most of the dating services/sites are not designed for and cannot help our local situation.
So over to you NL programmers, there’s a hidden business opportunity here

To me, old age is always fifteen years older than I am.

Does this mean Ogun is not safe for Corpers. What of Monarchs Raping corpers, are we to withdraw corpers from that state. my personal opinion, the scheme is a waste of Graduates time and federal funds. national unity is at its worst ever and the scheme has not reduced ethnic hatred.