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No. This is so because sex isn't expensive. Any man whose intention of sponsoring your vacation to Dubai or anywhere at all is to have you pay back with mere sex isn't normal.

You all can crucify the lady all you want, the fact remains that she's literally right, regardless of how notionally wrong her assertion seems.

The unpronounced and bitter truth in a scenario like this is always that the man wasn't frank, diligent, and altruistic in his dealings with her from the inception of the relationship. If he were:

- Frankness: he would have secured a concrete consent and assurance of marriage from her before spending on her education, citing that he evidently didn't do so altruistically.

- Diligence: he would've seen her recent disposition beforehand because frankness exposes hidden opposing intentions.

- Altruism: if his major interest in her stemmed from selflessness, rather than lust and/or greed, he could've spent even more than he might have done without feeling used and lose out the very moment she decided to part ways with him. When your interest/deeds for someone is altruistic, you'll see yourself giving everything without losing anything.

In summary, there's nothing wrong in spending on someone you're in a relationship with, but spending on them doesn't give you the right to their liberty. So, it behooves on you to make sure that whomever you choose to enter into a relationship with is worth/deserving (this is about the quality of their soul, and their financial standing is irrelevant) all that you can offer. Of course, I don't hold a brief for the lady in question.

prenazy:
Ukwa is not complete protein oga, 100g ukwa contains 60g carbohydrates and just 2.2g. Protein.
lol.
It’s not even a top protein source but it contains multiple vitamins like magnesium, phosphorus, zinc and multiple others.

The way some of you're bold to exhibit your insufficient knowledge on things are both irritating and appalling.

What do you know about the term "Complete Protein?"

Once again, it's not a high-protein food (Protein Dense). However, the protein it contains is of high quality, providing all essential amino acids (9 amino acids), making it a valuable complete protein source, especially when compared to some other starches.

And the reason why it's not Protein Dense is because of its calories predominantly from carbohydrates (starch and fiber), with a single raw cup of it (around 220g) containing roughly 227 calories, with meagre 2.4g of protein, and 60g of carbohydrates.

Protein Dense, no. Complete Protein, yes. Words failed you.

One thing I have observed over the years is that an average Nigerian, and person in general, has a very poor and limited concept of business; thus, hardly sees business beyond mundane buying and selling or farming.

Let her conceptualize a multi-million dollars service company and start her journey with it with the N3M. I can assure you that with definiteness of purpose, gumption, and grace on her side, she'll have a multi-million dollars company within the next few years.

Money has always been the least among the most important capitals most people who lust about conquering the business world lack.

Nonsense.

Luxembourg has University of Luxembourg and The Miami University John E. Dolibois European Center (MUDEC). There used to be Sacred Heart, too.

And Vatican has Pontifical University.

Words might have failed the OP, but one irrefutable fact is that Dangote started with a definiteness of purpose, and that has helped him rise and remain on top. Kudos to him.

Meanwhile, you too, whether or not you have a huge seed capital, can replicate what he has done and get closer to his enviable height or even surpass him. Never say never.

In summary, definiteness of purpose and burning desire are the biggest assets you need to conquer your world.

Kudos to her. There have always been many of her supportive types everywhere, whether or not they have money.

For her and most of her likes, their moments of crassness have never literally been about their outright hatred for men per se but transfer of aggression towards men because of whatever challenges they pass through in their relationships or families with the men in their lives at any given time, while the minority among them are just the bandwagoners who don't have minds of their own and join them despite not having it bad in their relationships and families.

Unfortunately, the people in the latter group have always been the main losers in the end, because the ones in the former group, like this Toke, will always wriggle themselves out one way or the other before getting completely consumed.

Create your own life path and encrypt it. This entails postulating and inculcating your own life philosophy and building everything else around it. Everything else might become useless to you at some point in life, especially money, when you accumulate it in abundance or life challenges might take you to the rock bottom of your existence, but your philosophy, if well grounded, will always be there to serve as your major source of hope, strength, and happiness. 

And in all you do, always remember that absoluteness is of God and one he's with is the majority - you should find a better way that suits you to revere him always. You'll understand this better if you can do away with religion and enact your own concept of him.

In a situation like this, the nature of the bond of the union should form the basis of your decision. Thus:

- If you know that she married you majorly because of the quality of your soul, you owe it to your conscience to give up every other thing and stand solidly with her - in other words, you've to remember that it's for better and for worse.

- If you, however, know that she married you majorly because of your material possessions/what she thought you could offer her materially, consider leaving her to her fate and consider a second wife - securing a second wife will be cheaper and less stressful than stressing yourself looking for a medical or herbal solution with her.

Long writing cut short, it's all about gumption. The sky has always been the starting point of a gumptious person - I agree with you.

Infotubia9ja:
Nigerian women and nigerian men, let me educate you a little bit here.
Before you all ignorant girls come here and start claiming and taping from this post, make sure you know just one thing from that oyinbo/white man or woman before you start claiming relationship marriage.

Check their mental health status. 80% of them have serious mental issues and they use medications to subdue or minimize their mental issues. Before you start dating them, ask the. DO YOU HAVE ANY MENTAL ISSUE OR DO YOU USE MEDICATION AND IF YES WHAT TYPE OF MEDICINE DO YOU TAKE. Ask the name of the medicine and do your resach on that name before you say I DO. Because many of them dey mad and you no know. Thats why they leave their country and come over to africa and get married to you and you dont know pim till you follow am go back your eye go clear.
I am telling you because I see it every day happening.
Go read more about what they call DEMENTIA which is only common with only white people when they get to a certain age.
I will stop here for now just please go do your research and educate yourself before it turns to had I known know this and know peace.

The cause of the way most of you cap trash with boldness needs to be studied at one of the ivy league schools.

It's an established fact that all other races/groups are more susceptible to dementia and/or other forms of mental disorders than the Whites, with African Americans topping the occurrence chart.

He, or anyone else who's resourceful, doesn't have to soil his hands, be a Minister or in government, before he can build this type of country home. I mean, if you're resourceful and desire such, at most, within three years, you can raise enough money to build one for yourself.

Unfortunately, most of you aren't resourceful either by omission or commission.

But for insufficient provitional buffers to butter the needs of most poor people, the government has done well in most spheres of governance. Most people will start to understand and appreciate the reengineering on-going in the economy of the country within the next few years, especially if most of the policies are sustained.

Availability and consumption of too much information - misinformation rather - with little to no meaningful knowledge is the bane of progress for you and your likes.

Your advice can only hold true for you and your likes who do not have a game and capacity. In fact, the problem most of you have always had is that you always see yourselves as the standard in everything.

A man who has a high sex drive and fertile mind should take your advice seriously at his own peril. Everywhere, in the world, sex has always been one of the cheapest commodities a man who has a game and capacity can always obtain in abundance, at will, and on his own terms and conditions, too, in most cases. Funnily, when you find yourself in this category, your high sex drive notwithstanding, sex might become the least of the things to occupy your fertile mind because of its availability at your beck and call.

I'd have agreed with him, assuming that ours is a country that has less fundamental flaws, and the majority of the citizens have developed minds.

Unfortunately, ours is a country with too many fundamental flaws, with the majority of the citizens having undeveloped/underdeveloped minds; thus, the reason why mundane sentiments like religion and tribe have always reigned supreme over principle and conviction.

Enice:
What will now be the position of that Indian man? What's his name again, Devakumar Edwin

D. Edwin is still the Vice President of Dangote Industries Limited. Citing that Bird is the CEO of the refinery, which is a segment/subsidiary of the industry, he's under D. Edwin. Among all the executives, D. Edwin is next to A. Dangote in the scheme of things.

I wonder the reason this March 3, 2023 news has been put on front the page now, making it seem like it's a real and current news.

No, she's not right. In fact, it's irritating that you've even resolved to bend to her inordinate wish to "avoid problems."

​Your wish to avoid problems is like a man whose prayer point is to have a woman who will give him peace of mind - such a prayer point should come from a woman not vice versa.

​To strive to do what you know is just, whether for and against you, and your household in this regard in general, and stand your ground, regardless of the consequences, should always be your ambition.

It smacks of feeble-mindedness to shy away from that which is just, just for peace to reign. Peace can only be said to be priceless when obtained, maintained, and sustained within the confines of justness, and this should be regardless of whether you're the one making and contributing the most money or not in the union.

​Sop being servile. In the name of "to avoid problems and/or for peace to reign" more than 90 percent of men in relational union with women have been subjugated literally, even though notionally, the reverse is the case. No one, whether man or woman, deserves to be subjugated.

The zenith of living and fulfillment remains not minding losing anything or anyone on principle.

Her claim her may appear like a fairy tale to you lots, but don't be surprise that it was her reality. I have an associate that has given a lady approximately equivalent to two hundred million naira between this year January and today for something more non necessity than this - the good thing is that he has been doing it for fun, even though the lady in her little mind must have been thinking that it has been a result of her smart shenanigans.

It's not everyone that unwinds the way you do.

Uniquely, they have always won on even number years.

Kudos to them.

Provided that she's independent-minded, go ahead with her.

I hope that you'll be enlightened enough though, to know the traits of an independent-minded person so that you'll not mistake them for disrespect whenever she exhibits them.

Also, I hope that you'll be enlightened enough, too, to differentiate an independent-minded woman from a stubborn woman and do well to avoid the latter so that you won't become either an abuser or abused in the union, depending on the strength of your grit and ethical leanings in general.

Never say never five times.

This borrowing isn't bad, citing the policy formulation template in place. In fact, it'll be a catalyst to the exponential growth for many, which the citizens have yearned for over the years. The only problem, however, lies in the implementation. Without a just EFCC and diligent technocrats to man the implementation judiciously and professionally, respectively, the country will be left worse than it's in the next five decades.

Majority of our problems as a country are fundamental problems, but the good news is that we're on the right course of becoming a truly great country in all important spheres of life.

frog12:
o se my man. or na woman you be?

if marriage ended in 2016, why are nigerians finding out now??
so you get fake couples in the aso rock for 7 years?

"why are nigerians findings out now" you said? Well, mere subjects or nobody's like you aren't meant to know about a whole lot of things. A whole lot of stakeholders, however, know. Scram.

She has the right to maintain the cosmetic nature of her relationship with PMB post his death, like she has done ab initio of it, which is for obvious reasons. But that doesn't outright nullify the fact that their marriage ended in 2016.