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9jatriot:
How can an Ambassador, which is more or less like a civil servant job, where you are sent far from home, be better than head of a parastatal at home?
Fayose is not a young man anymore to be galavanting up and down.

Is this envy or just a measure of the quality of his intelligence? It is this measure of intelligence that are also known to support lamba king though.

His sentiment is understandable. This is so because the international and sovereign representation assigned to an ambassador outranks a domestic agency head - a Director General - even though in a Civil Service Rank, a typical career ambassador and a Director General of a parastatal are equivalent to a Grade Level 17 or equivalent position.

Anyone who knows how things are run at the presidency will know that Hon. Gbajagbiamila has no hand in what happened. In fact, "Prince" Adeyemi himself isn't even the masterminder of what happened; he was simply used as a shill, with his full knowledge anyway.

It's either that all of you who have crucified her don't have data to watch the video or you lack discernment and comprehension. She didn't make the video for bragging purposes but as a sort of advice and guide to younger women so that they would not have to go through what she went through because of the absence of someone to guide her through her younger adult ages.

Crucifying her for her frankness is evil.

Clear evidence that people who do not like to lose on principle always lose disgracefully. If either of them were a practitioner of knowing when/not minding losing on principle, the lady would still be alive and well today, while the man would still have his freedom.

Meanwhile, any man who's informed about the workings of hookup women would know, after listening to the lady's video, that her "Abuja story line" is just one of the hookup fishing story lines. There was no man in Abuja that invited her over, for which she supposedly sought advice from the offender, no. That story line was her gauging the offender's willingness to mingle with her, and the rest is history now.

He obviously spoke metaphorically. If he had spoken literally, that isn't a healthy love nor a healthy relationship in general. Any person, no matter how dear they are to you, or entanglement, no matter how important it is to you, you cannot leave on principle if circumstances require it; it cannot be said to be healthy.

Stop equating being understanding to being spineless. I wonder why you small people keep propounding and propagating all manner of nonsense from your parochial enclaves.

Being understanding means genuinely comprehending someone's perspective while still maintaining your own boundaries. Being spineless, however, means abandoning your own standards, values, or well-being to avoid conflict or keep others happy.

Metrofox:
nah, whites are not as entitled because from 16 ,17 you start your own hustling, you get exposed to working even in high school to fend for yourself so you can appreciate the value and effort that goes into making money. Here you see 31yrs old opening his mother's pot so he's able to make ridiculous demand from family members

A typical needless counter from someone who, realistically, I wager, hasn't left any of the shores of Nigeria or lived and interacted intimately with the whites and obviously lacks comprehension. LOL. The ending clause in my submission, "even though it could be more severe among Africans due to obvious reasons," implicitly shows that I acknowledged, among other things, that Africans do feel more entitled to a "black tax," or whatever name one might wish to use as its substitute, even though it's universal.

If the Argentine team wins it, he's deserving of it. The same applies to other players in other prospective winning teams.

Imagine Rio Ferdinand pretending as if it doesn't happen among the whites and all races in general; the practice, no matter which name one wishes to term it, is universal, even though it could be more severe among Africans due to obvious reasons.

Fun fact! She forgot to add that her advice should only be implemented where the single mother of the class she has advised against is a Nigerian living in Nigeria, especially a broke one. But if she's a foreigner, especially a foreigner from a developed country, regardless of her color or financial or mental standing, she's an exception. LOL.

Truly, gold-digging knows no gender or bound. Average Nigerian women suit average Nigerian men; both are made from the same pot.

Whether "school na scam or not" is subjective. What I am certain is objective is that it is not the only way to make it - education is a constant in importance, though.

From Senegal to DR Congo to Cape Verde to Egypt. It is pathetic. However, these heartbreaking collapses are rarely about a lack of innate grit. Instead, they stem from recurring tactical, physical, and psychological flaws in game management rather than an absence of heart.

Tactical indiscipline and deep blocks are part of the recurring patterns that undo African sides on the biggest stage. After taking leads, teams often retreat into an overly defensive "low block" to protect the score. This invites relentless pressure, surrenders midfield control, and practically guarantees conceding.

Then you also have loss of concentration in critical minutes. If you observe well, you'll see that opponents of elite stature, like the Argentina national team, the Belgium national football team, and the England national football team, are ruthlessly conditioned to punish any slip in focus. When fatigue sets in late in matches, defensive lapses frequently occur.

And, of course, depth and tactical flexibility also contribute to the woes. When major teams go down, their managers can introduce world-class substitutes or shift their tactical shapes to overload the defense. The structural rigidity of African teams often leaves them unable to counter-adjust once the momentum shifts.

Psychological pressure and momentum are also part of the woes. A single mistake or conceded goal can trigger panic, causing teams to lose their composure. Conceding in the 86th or 90th minute creates a psychological domino effect that is difficult to stop.

So, while Egypt, DR Congo, and Senegal, etc., have no shortage of world-class talent, they are ultimately undone by structural issues and lack of experience closing out matches under immense pressure.

If only you knew the huge number of Nigerians who were living in Cape Verde before some incidents that happened in late 2005 that changed a whole lot of things. Even at that, there are still relatively a good number of Nigerians living there presently.

And don't allow some "beautiful photos from small island markets" to deceive you, because there have always been severe resource limitations there. A whole lot of Cape Verdeans live in some West African countries like Senegal, Cote d'Ivoire, etc., "hustling."

Trojan8:
Only gold diggers would read your story and try to use your sister's age as a basis for her to marry such a man.

IF she tries this nonsense that she's about to do, I can bet you that she would regret it.

Both of them are on different wavelength and that's a major problem. Add that the man doesn't seem to know how to make decisions for himself.

Terrible combo.

As her brother, I'll advice that you do EVERYTHING legal within your capacity to make sure she doesn't make such a mistake. It's your duty.


Cc Gentlesoul2021

Say after me:

. . . "I can bet you that she will (not would) regret it.

. . . "Both of them are on different wavelengths (not wavelength).

. . . "As her brother, I'll advise (not advice).

In summary, I won't be surprised that the "supposedly uneducated and directionless man" in this story will best you and your ilk in real quality education, ambition, and every good index in general.

My only personal problem with what you have said about the man is his said future purpose - that is, his aim toward pastoring. That aside, evaluate that man based on his mentality and interest in your sister; if he has a healthy mentality and genuine interest in your sister, allow them to continue, provided that your sister is comfortable with his future purpose of pastoring. Nothing stops a man with a healthy mentality, definiteness of purpose, and genuine interest in the woman in his life from reaching the zenith of success, regardless of his present status.

The very moment an average African man redefines his concept of respect and an average African woman eschews self-absorption, this very problem will be reduced to the minimum level.

Greed and low self-esteem will finish this type of guy and his likes.

Let me burst your bubble; your position doesn't hold true where the person who invested more financially did so altruistically or even intentionally and checked out emotionally first.

In this case, the person more emotionally attached to the benefits (immediate or prospective benefits) of the relationship, who might be the person who never invested financially rather than the person who invested more financially, suffers greater, more immediate anguish when the relationship ends.

In summary, the reason . . . . is subjective.

Your post speaks of exploitative daters knowingly or unknowingly. And according to you, "A phone or video conversation can reveal a lot. If the conversation has no chemistry, no curiosity, and no genuine interest while both people are still strangers, meeting in person rarely changes that." Well, this means that you know nothing about exploitative daters, because exploitative daters would use niceness to finish you off on the phone, via video, or in chatting conversations to prepare you to long for quick physical meetings with them.

The fact is that the success rate of exploitative daters depends heavily on the number of lustful daters available. So, if exploitative daters have been cashing out big time, it simply means that there've been a huge number of lustful daters. To be on the safer side, always come into equity with clean hands - you can never go wrong with altruism backed by diligence. Those who don't like to lose anything in principle will always end up losing dishonorably and painfully. And those who aren't discerning and frank will always be consumed by the devourers around them.

The primary problem in the union is an issue of two incomplete people who had the expectations of becoming complete by the other party once they'd become married, whereas the reality is that each of you should strive to be complete in your individual selves while the union will be a vessel for complementing each other - couples are meant to complement each other, not complete each other.

And you, in particular, knowing the type of personality trait you have, frankness is one of the personality traits you ought to have sought in a woman to marry.

All that said, at this juncture, strive to conquer yourself without trying to conquer her and love her without hating yourself. E go better.

Curious345:
Looks like content to me .. very few men got the money for DNA test. Bruv it's 400k

Poverty, is that you?

There's nothing wrong with what you have done so far, and you ought not have any reason to despair, even if the relationship ends, assuming that you've been altruistic in particular and diligent in general in doing so. Unfortunately, citing the connotations of your submissions, there's an absence of both altruism and diligence in your actions.

Improved national energy policies have helped, given that the primary causes of the explosions were circulation of substandard and expired cylinders and unregulated retail filling stations.

The luck/grace factor is one thing any accomplished person who's honest can't deny - and, of course, it either happens naturally or is created.

Premature graying is most strongly driven by genetics and accelerated by underlying medical conditions, vitamin deficiencies, oxidative stress, or smoking.

RainMoreDFARMS:
Why miss

Is she not married?

Ms - written as "Ms." in standard written English - serves as the female equivalent to Mr. It's a neutral, professional catch-all title for any woman, regardless of her marital status. It's unlike "Miss," which is traditionally for unmarried women or young girls.

RIP to her.

geoworldedu:
That's my view exactly.

It did. It's secured significant political and strategic advantages from the war, successfully avoiding the original U.S. and Israeli goals of regime change or unconditional surrender.

As a neutral, there's no gainsaying that Iran won politically, while Israel/the US won militarily.

I wonder why you small people have a hard time reading through information before posting and commenting - both the mod that erroneously put his age at 41 instead of 46 and the commenters who have erroneously concluded that he's broke and has been signed to play football are guilty of this nonsense.

He has been signed to market the club, not to play on the pitch.

Lovelink1991:
They must have changed their immigration law just like UK and other countries because such decision must have been made in the EU meeting

Both you and the creator are simply farming for engagement.

She's obviously a content creator because the German immigration authorities base residency decisions on the legal status of the marriage and the foreign spouse's employment, financial independence, and length of time in Germany. German law does not require a separated spouse to sign documents consenting to their partner's deportation. Never!

Although some women, and of course some men, can be a handful sometimes, the main action that has led to where they're now was caused by the husband. And it's not necessarily because he is a bad person, but because of a misconception and misrepresentation of how to have his wife support him financially in running the home and a lack of proper thought presentation and delivery in general.

Your first crash course as a man ready for a committed relationship should be knowing how to bring out the best in your woman - women are quite malleable - and embracing the philosophy of not minding losing anything on principle rather than being subjugable. The latter is necessary in case you mistakenly got involved with someone who's toxicity personified.

Their marriage as it is presently can still be rebuilt if the man knows his way around because the woman I've listened to in this video is very malleable, so it's easy to bring the best out of her and have her start glowing with him, glowing too. Her decision to throw in the towel, though hasty, is understandable under the mentality they used to enter into the union.

In summary, strive to conquer yourself without striving to conquer your woman (and vice versa), and love her without hating yourself. Lack of mutual altruism and diligence is the root cause of the problem they've - and this is the cause of more than 90% of problems in other marriages.