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teetalks:
it is quite unfortunate that alot of people do come here on nairaland and post
story from their own favourable side of view, you have succeded in painting your
boyfriend(sorry faincee) black at your own risk, and obviously most of your expected +ve responses
came from the female folks, None , i mean no single one of them imagined you may
possible be seeking their opinion base on this falseful story, CAN i ask you
a question, WHY WOULDNT YOU WANT TO PICK UP THE CALL IN HIS PRESENCE
TO CLEARIFY THIS LACKING TRUST ISSUE, in the first instance?
whatever led him calling you all sort of names according to your made-beleif story
i agree it is wrong of him, i am on the fence on this one-sided story, search within
your heart and make up, IF YOU WEIGHT HIM A YOUR UTMOST PRIOIRITY YOU WOULD
HAVE PICKED THE CALL AND MAKE YOU STAND KNOWN TO HIM, regardles of who comes first or last,
wake up girl , you are talking about your husband to be, not boy friend, you need to be
straight with him the earn all his trust

You have a point. I did not pick up the call because I don't have to pick up the call. This was someone I have not spoken to in 9 months. I felt the person I was spending time with is more important.

Anyway, I have had enough of the fighting and bickering. I am determined to leave all my ills BEHIND with the year 2006.

Ezinwannem:
He does not have respect for for and u want to marry him. He disrespects u at this stage of relationship, what do u think will be the outcome when you finally say " I DO", PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

Thanks for all your insight.

Truth me, I have asked him the same question on numerous occasions but, I do not receive an answer. I am so scared, my mom has already broadcasted the coming introduction to everyone. This is one of the hardest decisions that I ever have to make. We have stopped short of punching each other. This is the last thing that I expected in my life.

Hi Everyone,

I need your insight and two cents on this matter. I have been in a relationship with Dele going on almost two years now and we 've been engaged for precisely one year. Here is my wahala. We are having things that I consider serious problems in our relationship. Most of it stems from Trust, Jealousy and Insecurity. My man does not trust me at all for any reason and he is insanely insecure. Within a month of meeting, Dele accused me planning to sleep with another man because the guy called me and I didnot pickup the call. This guy was interested in me way before I even met Dele and I had not spoken to me in almost nine months until he called because he was in town visiting his relatives. Since, I did not pick up the call Dele accuses me that I would have pick up his call and slept with him if he did not make an unscheduled visit (his birthday weekend). Everytime we have a quarrel, he refers to the incident of my "fu*k buddy". I can't put everything in words and it hurts so much especially since it is not true. I was sick recently, and he commented that if it was STD then I should let him know because he knows that I would not tell him. Dele calls me names like bit*h, wh*re. The last straw was this past weekend, when he visited me for my birthday but stormed out later in the day that he was leaving early. I thanked him for ruining my birthday and I would not forgive him for it. His response was to return inside, pickup his gift, and said at least it was better than *the birthday gift I gave him two years ago when my my fu*k buddy was calling to visit me. Then called me bit*h and stormed out.  Our familes are about to meet formally in about a week, and begin planning a marriage ceremony. I am so confused. I wonder if I should call it off.