He could not see the collapse of his building that killed numerous foreigners he is busy seeing far distance and he could not pray about the collapse of his building............since he is very good at "prophediting" plane crash why did he not specify the location he just said around the region the region around Ukraine and Russia is atleast Europe not in Egypt where the crash took place. even when his predictions is obviously faulty people are still forcing and directing it to the real event.

And so what?

@Thandolwethu or whatever you called yourself You are just a typical example of an average south African with their low mentality and distorted brain as a result of apartheid and slavery which the black south african still suffer till date. Just like a child that grows up with an abusive father and mother, who is bound to be a depressed child. The distress suffered by black south african in the hands of the minority whites has caused so much damage to all present generation of Black South African that it will take so many generation to breed a black normal and well thinking south African without barbaric tendencies either online or physically in their God forsaken country.

I am a full blooded Nigerian....I have never been to south Africa and I will never see any reason to visit a country of barbaric people. my opinions are based on my studies, research, my contribution while in primary school to the end of apartheid in south Africa. I will just give you these few proven points to educate you about South Africa.

1. The Gap and difference between whites Minority SA and Black SA is like that of Heaven and Earth. even after an end to apartheid. the blacks remain very poor due to lack of education, laziness, their drunkenness. they prefer to live on benefits. no innovative idea, no business idea just leaving like prisoners in hostels and receiving money from government to drink.

2. The minority whites owns more than 80% of both SA land and resources and the clueless black in Government cant see any reason to promote equitable distribution of wealth.

3. Apart from the fact that some Nigerians are in SA doing business and doing very well which should be normal because they are hardworking and very innovative. South african are also in Nigeria but none was ever attacked. why will your barbaric country men keep attacking fellow blacks?

4. Your distress and the distortion of your brain was caused by whites minority and till date you cannot correct that by educating your people, instead you keep blaming foreigners of taking your jobs. its only in south africa that a street tout will be blaming a medical doctor for taking his job.
5. No doubt about it south African is your country and you have all the priority both for education and setting up business, why on earth is it so difficult for your country men to set up business or get themselves educated instead of destroying businesses of hardworking foreigners?

6. For your information, Nigeria is not in any way competing with SA because there is no bases for that.... Nigerian was never in slavery just as SA was and is still is today.

7. Nigeria people are very hardworking with banks and business all over africa........For MTN we have GLO, and other networks. The end of south African Businesses in Nigeria will not affect our economy in any way. we will still remain the number one economy in Africa.

8. Show me a representative of a people and I will tell you the mentality and reasoning of that people........ Just like your fellow black south african people. You have a president dancing naked in the name of tradition, A president who claims he slept with HIV person without getting infected. A president who does not see anything wrong with doing the bidding of the minority whites just because he can enrich himself to mary more wives and get more drunk like every other black south African.

9. south African has never in any way contributed to Nigerian freedom or sponsored any nigerian party in anyway but Nigeria and many other African country have done that for SA.....we supported financially the ANC party.

10. I get so angry when you country men see killing of a fellow human being as nothing ......this is simply because they have no value for life......the same way they were killed during the apartheid has made it normal for them.

11. If foreigners are taking your jobs why are you focusing on only blacks? there are Arabs, Chinese, Indians Europeans etc in your country why cant you touch them as well?

my conclusion is for everyone to bear with SA.....It will take many generation to have a normal and well thinking generation from SA blacks.

Thandolwethu:
I start by imploring you to read this letter with an open and unbiased mind as this will enable you grab the full gist of my message.
I am a full blooded South African, born and bread in Soweto. I have never been to Nigeria and my impression of your Country is formed by the behaviour and actions of the many Nigerians who live in SA and what we hear and read from the media about the goings on in your country.
I deliberately joined Nairaland today as I noted that alot of you are on this Forum hence its a good platform to pass my message. Suffice it to say that i will delete this account after this message. I will read your responses with keen interest.

1. There is no question that there was xenophobic attack on Foreigners in SA in the past 3weeks. What is in doubt is the scale of the attack. I have noted that Nigerians have overtly blown the crises out of proportion by spreading lies and wrong informatiom concerning the crisis. The idea that South Africans are going round SA cities killing, maiming and burning Foreigners is a lie. Only 7 people have been killed so far and of these 7, 3 are south Africans, 2 Ethiopians and 2 Mozambican. The world media is in agreement with these figures. While its 7 lives too many that doesnt give credence to the news going round in Nigeria that we are killing and burning Foreigners. If thats true then there would be more people dead.
STOP BELIEVING WHATYOU READ AND WATCH ON social media as most are lies and fabricated figments of the imaginations of mischievous Nigerians in other to stoke the flame of discord between Nigeria and SA.

2. Why are Nigerians up in arms against SA with xenophobia when the war in Nigeria is far worse than here in SA. Boko haram is killing thousands your people everyday and theres no end in sight meanwhile no Nigerian has been killed in this Xenophobic attack. That is why Nigerians throng our embassies in Lagos and Abuja seeking Visas to come to SA and escape the despicable living conditions in the slums of Nigeria.

3. This recent Xenophobic attack was predicated on the fact that Foreigners commit so much heinous crimes in SA without impunity and we are tired of all these. We have our own criminals here so we cant add more problems from foreigners.
A. NIigerians are the kingpins of drugs killing our children and society. Your brothers drug our girls into prostitution. They con our people with fraud and 419. They hack into our bank accounts stealing millions.

B. Zimbabweans are involved in robberies and car hijackings

C. Mozambicans kill our farmers and take our jobs for peanuts leaving many South Africans jobless

D. Ethiopians and Somalians open shops to do illegal activities and pollute our communities. Theres a Somalian shop in every 2 houses on every street in SA. No Country can allow that.

SA has its own issues but we would like to solve them without the added problems of Foreign crimials.

If you like burn down shoprite and close MTN its your people that will suffer because these companies employ millions of Nigerians. They will simply go jobless.

Thank you

Where image of fake story about foreign child attacked by xenophobic mob comes from
http://www.politicsweb.co.za/iservice/rubber-bullet-did-this--daily-sun

Fake photos misrepresent xenophobic violence
http://ewn.co.za/2015/04/17/Fake-photos-misrepresenting-xenophobic-violence

Internet boasts false images of xenophobic violence in South Africa
http://observers.france24.com/content/20150417-south-africa-durban-immigrant-xenophobic-false-photos

Thanks

gbosaa:


www.lc2international.tv

why is everyone quiet about the link for the match online? this is wicked.......if anyone knows a link why not help by sharing before the match is over?

jnrbayano:
Why does your friend now wants to do what he should have done during courtship?

Exactly that was what I told him when he was complaining........ the girl has been riding on him since marriage and he wants to tell me he knows what he is doing. I have always told him to try and take charge and take serious action.

Godmother:


Lolz. I was going to ask this same question.

@OP
A woman's place is beside her husband. If she loves the man she should try to make the marriage work and relocate to meet the man. Its even ok that the hubby wants to get her another job and is not insisting that she stays home as a full time wife. But let him secure the job first and then convincing her might be easier.

Also, does the hubby have full proof that she's cheating on him? It could be he's the insecure type and the fact that they stay in separate towns is playing on his insecurities.

The hubby has proof from their communications, am sure he is not being insecure the girl is just trying to play smart on him. they always arrange to see each other and the guy has not tried to monitor them. the girl ex is always coming to Ibadan on assignment.

DickDastardly:
Errrrrm......I only see an insecure husband here. The insecurity stems from the uncertainty that usually accompany long distant marriage. How sure is he of all this allegations?
Has this your guy comfronted the wife about her continued contact with her ex? What was her reply? Though she has no reason still keeping up with her ex, especially in distant relationship where the line of trust is very thin. Did you mean your guy got her a job in Enugu and she rejected it? If so, she is lost and needs to be found ASAP. Something tells me she's already addicted to something sweet in that ibadan and you know how irrational addicts are with reason and common sense. Its not late for them though. What does your guy do? Can his salary sustain the family till the wife secures a job in Enugu? If so, here goes.....

He should man up and bring back his wife down to Enugu with immediate effect. They should both manage their finances till she hooks up with something. But i see a devicive woman here. Something tells me she will still not want to come down. If she insists on not comming down then its officially confirmed that "SHE HAS REALLY BEEN FVCKING HER BRAINS OFF WITH THE SAID GUY".
When the later becomes the case, let your guy contact me so we can work out the best exit plan, especially the type "WHERE THE WOMAN AND HER LOVER GETS REWARDED MAXIMALLY FOR THEIR CARELESSNESS"
Goodluck to him

I can testify to the fact that the guy is not insecure he is a gentleman to a fault or do I say religious guy. we where leaving together about 10years ago when he met this girl. I warned at that time that the girl was wild that he should start fucking the girl but he was doing gentleman. I cant even imagin he was keeping the girl all the while without touching her only to marry her recently still without touching her before marriage and the girl was busy fucking other guys in school. As for the evidence this guy has gone through her phone record to see these conversation. he even has some silly conversation of what these two ex did before marriage and afterwards even text message conversation. he decided he was going to call and warn the guy to stay clear from his wife but i told him to cool down so we can track them and catch them in the act but he does not want that. MY guy has a very good job that can sustain both of them even with a children. As for me i would not waste any time in ending the marriage for me marriage is not a do or die.

I just have to post this since i have no place to run to. My friend has been complaining to me about his new wife, the latest got me thinking and am kind of confused of what to tell him. He got married to his wife less than one year ago and there have been leaving apart since the marriage. he lives and work at Enugu while the wife lives and work at Ibadan. All effort to bring his wife to Enugu has proved abortive in the past with the wife giving her work as the excuse, he has even tried to secure a job for the wife but all to no avail. from the info I have, its like the wife has told him some lies even into marriage like pretending to be a virgin while she was not. the worst of it all now is that she is very much in contact with her Ex who lives very close to Ibadan even when he is already married with 3 kids. my friend even discover sometimes she uses code to discuss on phone with the ex when there are together. As husband and wife in two different location, the wife cannot call her husband for up to 10mins with her credit except when she is bringing issues but the wife can spend her own credit to call the ex for up to 40mins. he is really confused and really need to do something now before it is too late. from the way he spoke to me i feel he still loves his wife, I dont know what to tell him. Your comments and suggestion will be welcomed so i can get back to him.

Thanks for taking so much time and putting up this examples..... Like you said, am not perfect myself.

Thanks....@dmcdad Right now am not sure if I would be able to tolerate that..... I see her trying to make effort to change but like you said its just her nature. I dont want to believe she is really begging because of $$$ because she has been with me in my struggling days and even now that she knows my worth, she has never demanded anything from me...

I was her first guy and we dated 3 yrs b4 I left Nigeria. She really loves me and I very much loved her before I left Nigeria I already made up my mind to marry her. My problem with her is that she is too reserve and does not know how to relate with both my friends and family. and sometimes she take for granted little things that she knows i take very serious. She always keep saying sorry for things she suppose to do and even after saying sorry she does not take the correction until I get angry with her. For these and some few reasons I decided to call it a quit. Ever since I explained to her How we cannot cope together and the reason we should break up... she felt very bad and was down for so long after almost three month she kept calling and begging me and trying to do all the things that caused the problem, but I still kept mute.... she is still saying she cannot do without me.
Do I still give her a chance as this is the second time we are having such problem? She is decent homely and ready to learn but I think I got very tired of her slow way of learning and her unsociable attitude.
Am very far away from Nigeria and may even find it difficult to get any Nigerian Girl except from online or any form of arrangement which I strongly would not take as an option. As for settling wit Oyinbo it is also not an option for me.
Since she is still begging and saying she cannot do without me, does taking her back mean just pity or do I just let her Go? useful and logical advice would be welcome.....Thanks

Sometimes I get very angry and disappointed reading some post here. How can people be so myopic in their thinking to the extent of making themselves inferior. Try to wake up and face challenges and get this straight. it is a fact that corruption and bad governance has made Africa so backward but that does not take away the individual talents and brains in Africa. the whites are not in any way special or better than the blacks. the only difference is the blacks lacks the opportunity to put their brains into use in Africa. don't be surprise there would be a black man with or behind this knowledge. they are lots of black people that are names to recon with in all aspect of science. IF YOU HAVE NOT HEARD OF GIFTED HAND ( Ben Carson) Google and find out, He has performed more miracle than this and he is a complete black immigrant in America. there are alot of people like that in all fields just because there is no platform for them to put their knowledge into practice in Africa. WAKE UP AND STOP LIMITING YOURSELF BY LOOKING AT THE WHITE MEN AS BEING BETTER OR DIFFERENT.