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hii.im only son(age 18) to my parents.i have 2 younger cousin sisters(my dad's brother daughters) and 2 elder cousin sister(my mom's sister daughters).of my dad's brother daughters one cousin sister is small of age 9 and other cousin sister is of age 14.my cousin sister(age 14) lives in another town with her parents.we were enemies when we were child.but i dont know what happend.she came to my town for holidays.she was 5 days in our house.we shared everything she tells her problems and i was telling my problems and about my girlfriend.we used sit upto late night till 12am and chat in our house while our parents were sleeping.now she went back to her town.but before going she fought with me because of my cousin sister(age 9).she did'nt spoke with me when she was going back to her town.but later she texted me saying sorry.its been only a day but iam missing her really.i can't understand one thing we were enemies but now we turned into good friends.now i miss her badly .plz tell me why this is hapening to me.why i miss her so much?

mariannlove: hv'nt u heard of this african china's song, if u love sumbdy walk up to her nd tel am u love am ooo, it does no harm, no crime at all Go guy xpres urself k!

thanx

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]Oh man, you just messed up my name it's "Mr Knowitall." not "mr. know it all" i dont know who that is. No you are actually wrong Ive loved someone who didnt love me back....but the difference is...that I i took a step back and slowed down.....the guy was gone for 3-years without any communication.....maybe im crazy, but if i was him, I wouldnt think im comming back to a girlfriend after that.....I cant advise him to keep loving this girl if its not being reciprocated.....if i was his bro ill tell him to "slow down and take it easy, its going to hurt but 'thats all you can do' relax"...[/quote]thanks for your advice.you were right.yesterday she called me and said she's not intrested and want to break up with me it hurted me so much, but after few hours i called her and said okay i acept it.but i cant forget her.its hurting me so much. can u say how to overcome sad

ItsModella: how was she showing you love 3 years ago? like in what way was she showing you that she loves you?

i cant express it in words but she used to love me so much...

ItsModella: You didn't talk to her for 3 years? how on earth were you communicating with her?

It is safe to say that you were not in a relationship in the first place cos I don't see how a relationship can survive for 3 years without seeing each other let alone not talking to each other. Is she really your 'girlfriend' or some girl you've been chasing for all these years?

she is my girlfriend.she loves me much before 3 years,but now wheni say that i love her she's also sayin that she loves me but she's nt showing me that kind of when when she was doing before 3 years

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]yeah I kinda knew it....I really dont blame you for the "border Line obsession you have for this girl"....I think it an age thing..you got going on.....because if you was a grown men talking like this...then something would be wrong......all I can say is just get ready for the pain, heart break, cant eat, cant sleep etc etc.....the sooner you get her out of your system the better your life will be....or you could do the reverse psychology thing...act like you dont care about her and see what happens....dude I just dont know what else I can tell you.....[/quote]thanx for ur sugesstion

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]I just gotta ask you man....what is your age range?[/quote]19

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]LOL you guys are silly....Dude, is this girl the only women in the world?...if its that serious man...let me see your pic....depends on how you look, I might be able to hook you up with a sweet tender-roni....[/quote]i agree she is not the only women in the world. many girls proposed me too i can shift to them ,but she is my first love n i dont wanna loose her

rokiatu: You dont have a problem my friend.

A man who is crazy in love needs no advicr cuz he will act it.

Trust me if you show a woman that you once had a past with so much love affection attention and care those feelings she had for u are gonna come rushing right back. You dont need to see her face before you can show her how much u luv her. Get her email, call and text her often, use other means of communication if possible. Her loving u shouldnt be ur worry right now, showing her and making her feel ur love should mission right now. Show it in every way you can.
My brother you need to get up. In this time and age, this is not the time to be naive about stuff else u will leave behind the rest of the world.

thanx

Yoshiyuki: Ok, so you were in a relationship with this girl and she was in love you. You disappear for 3 good years and do not bother to even send her a text message or to call her. Now you want to know how you can make her fall in love with you again abi?
I don't mean to judge you but it's obvious you don't care about this girl. For heaven's sake, put yourself in her heels and imagine if someone did that to you, how would you feel? Personally, I think you should leave the poor girl alone in peace but if you have convinced yourself that you really love her then don't put any pressure on her. Just be a good friend to her and maybe with time, she might take you back but you don't deserve her that's for certain

ok i will try to be a good friend to her lets hope she take me back

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]I dont understand you type writing...please write so i can understand.... maybe im not as educated as you or something....[/quote]im poor at writing posts so i cant explain it in detail i want to know that she has intrest on me?

alutacontinua: Even though ur english is 'discombobulating' i'll try to assume I understand you.

First question dt i would lyk you to answer is "why did u not call or text her for 3 years?" Did u misplace her phone number or der was no network in your area?

i misplace her phone number and i was also busy with my syudies

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]Dude, I have no idea what you just wrote [/quote]you mean you did'nt uderstand my words or you dont know what to do?

2buff: And still your mind is still too obtuse to understand the question Yoshi asked and to answer it appropriately.

I think in general, romantic relationship is not for everyone.

i understood what yoshu said and im asking him suggestions what to do to bring that love back on me if you have suggestions put it on

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]this is what im gonna tell you.....and this is what i live by....."if you love a women so much, to the point that you feel like you need her, or cant live without her, then you are no longer in love you are obsessed with that person and that's not good nor healthy for you sanity" thats what i live by...Love with common sense.....you are obsessed with this girl take a step back...and look at the situation again....[/quote]what to do with my girlfriend she says that she loves me even know after 3 years also.how can i decide whether she's intrested in me or not?

Yoshiyuki: Ok, so you were in a relationship with this girl and she was in love you. You disappear for 3 good years and do not bother to even send her a text message or to call her. Now you want to know how you can make her fall in love with you again abi?
I don't mean to judge you but it's obvious you don't care about this girl. For heaven's sake, put yourself in her heels and imagine if someone did that to you, how would you feel? Personally, I think you should leave the poor girl alone in peace but if you have convinced yourself that you really love her then don't put any pressure on her. Just be a good friend to her and maybe with time, she might take you back but you don't deserve her that's for certain

after leaving her for 3 years what hapend is,i called her after 3 years and i said that i love her she's also sayin that she loves me,but,i cant feel from her that kind of love when she was before 3 years...i want that kind of love which was before 3 years back .what to do ?

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]this is what im gonna tell you.....and this is what i live by....."if you love a women so much, to the point that you feel like you need her, or cant live without her, then you are no longer in love you are obsessed with that person and that's not good nor healthy for you sanity" thats what i live by...Love with common sense.....you are obsessed with this girl take a step back...and look at the situation again....[/quote]ok thanx i will try to bring me back to normal..but i like it "love with common sense"thanx bro

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]I understand where you are coming from....but that 3 year gap was a natural way of dissolving the relationship....the fact is that people change.....the girl that loved you 3 years ago is no more.....shes a new girl now....let her go man...its going to hurt...but any other way, youll just be wasting your time...[/quote]but i cant leave her like that.can't you give me some sugestions so that i can tell her i love her much..give suggestions i try my best if not im gonna leave it

Yoshiyuki: Seriously, i thought this was a joke but i feel you need to move on because if you have been chasing this girl for 3 years and haven't gotten her, you are never going to get her. You hold all the aces but you don't know it yet. Focus on your career and make money. Take time to look and smell good. You don't have to have a million dollars to get girls but look like you have it anyway. Forget all the B.S you hear, Ladies are attracted to a man with self confidence not necessarily money. there are so many pretty and intelligent ladies out there and the beauty of being a man is that we are attracted to almost all of them so you can take your pick. There are not only plenty of fish in the ocean, there are crabs, lobster, oysters, prawns, e.t.c take your pick bro.

thanx for that but i did'nt said that i did'nt get her. she loves me much, but i left her for 3 years i did'nt even txt or call her.after 3 years i called her and now she's not showing that kind of love when she was doing before 3 years .i want some advisces make her know that i love her as i do before and even more

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]this sound like a joke to me......bit if its not a joke, then your situation it too complicated for your level of maturity.......I can understand trying to get a new girl you like to love you....but i dont understand why you trying to get your "girlfriend" to love you...i though that was a prerequisite....dont cling to any women....do what you can do but if not working for you...move on..[/quote]k thanx i wil try my level best.im not trying to get my "girlfriend" to love.before 3 years when i left her she was loving me so much and now she not showing me that kind of love and i want it to gain back

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Approach her from the scratch. Forget the 3 years and pretend it doesn't exist, else you'll be carrying unnecessary baggages from the past and expecting her to reciprocate. . . 3 years is damn too much! [/color]

yep i can forget those 3 year how can she, i did'nt even care her then how can i know how she is feeling towards me know.i cant even meet her right she is in another city.give me some adivise so i can express my love towards her through mobile coz i cant meet her

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]My God...what is the deal with guys are clinging to women like this....why do you want to kill yourself over one women? if shes not "showing much love towards you" forget it, move on chalay....its not a big deal...just one women, find another one....[/quote]its a bad idea i like her n love her hw can i forget her......give me suggestions so that i can make her love me more

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Yoshiyuki: You could start by learning to speak English. For the life of me, I cannot make out a word you said.

hey sory for that i cannt write like damn fuckin newspaper so al could understand by the way im good at speaking english

i love my girlfriend i was far from her for 3 years with out even takin to her and now i caled her and said i love her i asked her wether she forgot me she said i was almost about to,before 3 years she was loving me so much but now she has changed she's nt showng much luv towards me. they got transfered to other city i cant even meet her.tell me,i want to get her know that i love her much how can i manage it by calin on phone,plz help me i want her to love me,please give me advise