Yoshiyuki: You could start by learning to speak English. For the life of me, I cannot make out a word you said.

Mr knowitall.:
My God...what is the deal with guys are clinging to women like this....why do you want to kill yourself over one women? if shes not "showing much love towards you" forget it, move on chalay....its not a big deal...just one women, find another one....

sexkillz: Approach her from the scratch. Forget the 3 years and pretend it doesn't exist, else you'll be carrying unnecessary baggages from the past and expecting her to reciprocate. . . 3 years is damn too much!

Mr knowitall.:
this sound like a joke to me......bit if its not a joke, then your situation it too complicated for your level of maturity.......I can understand trying to get a new girl you like to love you....but i dont understand why you trying to get your "girlfriend" to love you...i though that was a prerequisite....dont cling to any women....do what you can do but if not working for you...move on..

Yoshiyuki: Seriously, i thought this was a joke but i feel you need to move on because if you have been chasing this girl for 3 years and haven't gotten her, you are never going to get her. You hold all the aces but you don't know it yet. Focus on your career and make money. Take time to look and smell good. You don't have to have a million dollars to get girls but look like you have it anyway. Forget all the B.S you hear, Ladies are attracted to a man with self confidence not necessarily money. there are so many pretty and intelligent ladies out there and the beauty of being a man is that we are attracted to almost all of them so you can take your pick. There are not only plenty of fish in the ocean, there are crabs, lobster, oysters, prawns, e.t.c take your pick bro.

Mr knowitall.:
I understand where you are coming from....but that 3 year gap was a natural way of dissolving the relationship....the fact is that people change.....the girl that loved you 3 years ago is no more.....shes a new girl now....let her go man...its going to hurt...but any other way, youll just be wasting your time...

Mr knowitall.:
this is what im gonna tell you.....and this is what i live by....."if you love a women so much, to the point that you feel like you need her, or cant live without her, then you are no longer in love you are obsessed with that person and that's not good nor healthy for you sanity" thats what i live by...Love with common sense.....you are obsessed with this girl take a step back...and look at the situation again....

Yoshiyuki: Ok, so you were in a relationship with this girl and she was in love you. You disappear for 3 good years and do not bother to even send her a text message or to call her. Now you want to know how you can make her fall in love with you again abi?
I don't mean to judge you but it's obvious you don't care about this girl. For heaven's sake, put yourself in her heels and imagine if someone did that to you, how would you feel? Personally, I think you should leave the poor girl alone in peace but if you have convinced yourself that you really love her then don't put any pressure on her. Just be a good friend to her and maybe with time, she might take you back but you don't deserve her that's for certain

rky rv:
after leaving her for 3 years what hapend is,i called her after 3 years and i said that i love her she's also sayin that she loves me,but,i cant feel from her that kind of love when she was before 3 years...i want that kind of love which was before 3 years back .what to do ?

Mr knowitall.:
this is what im gonna tell you.....and this is what i live by....."if you love a women so much, to the point that you feel like you need her, or cant live without her, then you are no longer in love you are obsessed with that person and that's not good nor healthy for you sanity" thats what i live by...Love with common sense.....you are obsessed with this girl take a step back...and look at the situation again....

rky rv:
what to do with my girlfriend she says that she loves me even know after 3 years also.how can i decide whether she's intrested in me or not?

2buff:

And still your mind is still too obtuse to understand the question Yoshi asked and to answer it appropriately.

I think in general, romantic relationship is not for everyone.

Mr knowitall.:


Dude, I have no idea what you just wrote

rky rv:
you mean you did'nt uderstand my words or you dont know what to do?

rky rv:
what to do with my girlfriend she says that she loves me even know after 3 years also.how can i decide whether she's intrested in me or not?

Yoshiyuki: Seriously, i thought this was a joke but i feel you need to move on because if you have been chasing this girl for 3 years and haven't gotten her, you are never going to get her. You hold all the aces but you don't know it yet. Focus on your career and make money. Take time to look and smell good. You don't have to have a million dollars to get girls but look like you have it anyway. Forget all the B.S you hear, Ladies are attracted to a man with self confidence not necessarily money. there are so many pretty and intelligent ladies out there and the beauty of being a man is that we are attracted to almost all of them so you can take your pick. There are not only plenty of fish in the ocean, there are crabs, lobster, oysters, prawns, e.t.c take your pick bro.

rky rv:
yep i can forget those 3 year how can she, i did'nt even care her then how can i know how she is feeling towards me know.i cant even meet her right she is in another city.give me some adivise so i can express my love towards her through mobile coz i cant meet her

alutacontinua: Even though ur english is 'discombobulating' i'll try to assume I understand you.

First question dt i would lyk you to answer is "why did u not call or text her for 3 years?" Did u misplace her phone number or der was no network in your area?

Mr knowitall.:


I dont understand you type writing...please write so i can understand.... maybe im not as educated as you or something....