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Hi mbola is that really you in your profile ? If so you are cute.

I know say men get words for mouth but this her husband friend own suppose dey irritate her for ear now.Abi she don do something like this before? So tay she say she be like the guy .lf them catch her now na devil work.Now,she has ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO PULL OUT.

Tell your friend that Her husband's friend is too close for safety to risk going out with him inshort the whole idea is crazy.Firstly, she should know now that he is not a true friend to her husband at all.
         2.If he can do that to his friend then he can do worse to her,he just want to rumble in the jungle and run.
         3.The tendency for her husband finding out is 95%,men can be smart sometimes,her husband can get easy signs by her actions.When he does find out she is going to loose her husband,her husband might disown her 2kids,she will loose respect from everyone close to her.
         4.If she loves and value her husband more than the friend she should tell her husband straight away with evidence,like video-recording it.She could set her phone somewhere ,where the friend is doing d toasting and she should lead him on till she has concrete video evidence of the thing before she can show the husband.
          5.She should use her head now and not her heart(I mean what she feels for him now ,which is rubbish!)
       
          As for me I love women a lot but I can't sleep with my friends wife damn it! That's crazy!

Goodluck.

Guy try this trick,since you said she is spontaneous.
This will make you know her reaction before and when you finally tell her.
So make up a story of your current situation with her,using another person to tell the story and see her reaction. Firstly make sure you know the friend you want to use in this story,because she might want to know who your friend is.Is either you tell her she doesn't know him or pick one of your friends she knows not too well about.Here is the story below,

Jane I have a friend who is a very close friend to this girl. They have become so close that this my friend is starting to  have feelings for this girl but he doesn't  know how to tell her,because he is afraid if he does so,he will  lose her as a friend.He is having sleepless nights over  this girl,his crazy about this girl.Even when he sleeps at night,he calls her name.He is  suffering greatly in silence.He asked me for my advice.So I just want to also seek your opinion over this.So what's your advice?

If she says he should let  her know na,nothing is wrong about that.Then tell her softly and sweetly with love eyes,that that guy you are talking about is you.Then add more sweet talks afterwards to win her heart.She will be surprised.

If she says she hates it when a guy tries  to extend  normal close friendship into a relationship,then don't tell her.Atleast you will still have your normal friendship with her, intact.Then try to erase those feelings from your heart.

That's my example .You are the one to say it better according to how you feel make sure you put strong emotions into it ,about how the guy feels about the girl.But don't ever let her sense you are talking about youself.

HOTKWEEN I just tried your line ,the call went through but you didn't pick the call.
But damn you are bold I like that,check ur e-mail box,the one you wrote in your profile.
I'm showing my interest here.Hit me at sogbebo@yahoo.com

Present sir! I'm from Edo,Benin city to be precise
@NubianQ,aciddrop,jennykadry and the others, I never new you people are from Edo state.You gals are all real and interesting people characteristic of people from Edo state.(In Bini Language) Etemwen wa ko
Though I don't post my comments always but I'm almost here everyday.I read threads and posts here everyday.Especially at the Romance section

@aciddrop you look smoking hot in the pic in ur profile ,is the vapour in the pic a result of ur hotness?

@Zstyle welldone my bro

Forgot to add my e-mail address,Hit me with a mail  if u were born on 15th Dec. my e-mail address is sogbebo@yahoo.com.

I'm the Dec. 15th hottie

Hi Ekinadoese just want to let u know dat I am from Edo state.Wussup!

Guy no matter what don't do it,even if you love her greatly DON'T! ,DON'T!,DON'T!  if you try it you will be subjecting yourself to eternal bondage.Nor try am oh!  

If you get tired of her in the future what will you do? By that time she will be threatening you by reminding you that you know we did a blood covenant.Abi u wan kolo?
She should love you ordinarily without  blood covenat insurance
Take care

@pinaroll
I don't mean to talk you down,getting a man has nothing to do with how many years you have served God,but has to do with your personal qualities,like are you interesting to be with?Do you always  try to look good and attractive? e.t.c
Sorry to say this most of the people from Deeper life,Redeem,Moutain of fire  and the others  have been taught to be exactly the  opposite of these and most of all the these good qualities to attract a man.
        Most members of these churches do not dress well,smell nice ,not interesting to be with-when a guy tries to get to know them the girls bore them to death with bible quotations and religious gists.
Instead of dressing in a trendy way,that is wearing the latest of fashion they instead prefer to stick to the Mary Slessor way of dressing i.e  wearing Isaac Newton-like long sleeves and queen of England(I)-like long skirts ,what do u expect?
They don't wear nice perfumes.No Jeans trousers no sexy top no whatever.What then should be attractive to a man about them?

You see pinaroll we are in the 21st century no man(especially for me) looks at those kind of girls anymore .Even in the  church the brothers still try to pick the up-to-date sisters,as in the ones that have the above qualities.

As for  me I can't go out with a girl that doesn't wear trousers.Are you surprised just take the census of boys who loves girls that put on trousers you will be amazed of the result you will get.Don't be against 21st century accept it.

Nice piece ,I am a sagitarian Dec. 15th my e-mail address is sogbebo@yahoo.com

Hi Simbrazil, I will teach you according to where I'm from in Naija,Benin city,Edo state
I miss u=                                         (I can't really answer that right now.)
Call me= Hala me
I love you= I dey kolo 4u 
I like you(as in romantically)=I dey trip 4u  OR  I dey die for u   OR  e get as u dey do me
I hate u=    I nor like u                                      (Can't think of a better answer yet)
Have a nice day= Take care             (No special answer for this)
Bye= E go b now,   OR      Ok now,
whats up! or How are you=wetin dey now  OR  how far now
expressing anger by exclamating=Dem dey worry u!    OR    You dey craze !-this one is used widely in Naija
You are not serious or you are joking=Dem dey worry u  OR u dey craze  (The difference in this one is that u don't shout while saying it  this time you say it mildly,is just like saying to the person  u are kidding me)
you are not doing good in whatever= Guy u nor dey try   OR   u dey f**k up!

I like u FELORE though I haven't seen your pic but u are straight forward and real.I like naija cutee too.

I have never met any nairalander. Would like to meet u Spoilt, though I am not an active poster I do read posts regularly.I live in Lagos,Allen ave, Ikeja.My email is sogbebo@yahoo.com .I know you are drop dead gorgeus.I nor bad too look at too.Well see ya and safe Journey.

You try,I know say U wan see how our teasing strenght reach.WELL SHA YOU ARE BOLD! I THOUGHT I WAS THE  MOST HANDSOME NAIRALANDER.
@snazzydawn you are damn sexy!!!!!!!How do  I get to meet you