I was on phone with my wife yesterday evening when I concluded my call by saying "I LOVE YOU DEAR". A senior colleague overheard my conservation with my wife and asked me how many years I've been married to my wife and I told him 5 years plus. He further asked me if I have kids and I said yes; "two girls".

He went further to say; "na small pikin still dey worry you. So after five years of marriage with two pikin you still dey tell your wife wey you don marry put for house I love you like say you dey toast her. Na girls wey man dey hustle dem dey tell I love you no be wife wey don park enter house and don born pikin for you dem dey tell I love you because she no get anywhere she go fit go again."

I was lost of words for some couple of minutes, struggling to find the right words, trying desperately to coordinate the right words in my head so as not to sound rude to a superior officer but none came up. I only managed to shake my head in pity for the wife of this senior colleague because I can only imagine the misery and lack this colleague wife will be going through. I argued not with him and excused myself before he'll infest and ruin my day with his amplified ignorance.
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Many men find it so easy to tell their side chicks how much they love, care and can do anything for them. They spend valuable time with their side chicks and even call and write side chicks flawless messages on different social medial messenger effortlessly.

But when it comes to their wife, the mother of their children, the woman they swore to love before the alter till death, they find it so hard to say I LOVE YOU talk less writing her a sweet later.

Many men can't remember the last time they told their wife "I love you". Some virtually stopped telling their wife I love you the moment the marriage has been sealed and has produced children. These men feel telling their wife I love you is not more needed. Some are so shy to say I love you to their wife. Some can't even describe their wife with words or on paper; their wife is completely lost in their memory. Some men simply see their wife as some sex tool and baby factory. No compliments, no sweet words and no outing with their wife. Some hardly notice changes in their wife until when told.

Women crave for love and attention more than money. Providing all the finance in the house without showing care, attention and love to your wife is like fetching water in a basket. When you investigate that woman well, you'll realize someone out there is doing your job perfectly well for you. Believe me, any smart guy who is gifted with beautiful words and know how to give attention and care to a woman will steal your wife easily and your wife will be spending your hard earned money on that guy.

If your wife is cheating on you, she's mostly cheating on you because you careless about her feelings and attention not because you are not able to provide for the family. Married men, ask yourself today when last did I tell my wife I love you? Be sincere to yourself.

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youngest85:
Jump in2 d lagoon and all d insult wl b no more

This what happens when you didn't complete your breast feeding cycle.

Good evening my friend have been crying all Day and he does not know how to deal with insults. He is currently a Class Representative who calls the Lecturers for their lectures. But he usually get insulted by some lecturers who feel. He made a wrong statement or wrong time of calling. Pls he is currently having issues on how to let go of this insults in his heart, once he gets insulted. He mourns it for hours before he gets himself.

Pls what advice can you fellow Nairalanders render to him on how to let go of this insults and concentrate on his primary assignment which is to read and pass. Than worrying over nothing.

MTHBOSS:
Eayah, I was once in this type of shoe (though not class rep, buh course rep) I learn a lot from it. You gat to be more active and don't pay attention to their remarks, you are not doing it for today but tomorrow. Some respect me more for the way i do my things coz I don't care of what they say. Bro, keep doing your good work and you have to be a man.

God bless you.

I have already told him to read his book and concentrate on his studies. And he should stop thing over what he can't change. But he insist he needs a book to read and be courageous.

Good evening my friend have been crying all Day and he does not know how to deal with insults. He is currently a Class Representative who calls the Lecturers for their lectures. But he usually get insulted by some lecturers who feel. He made a wrong statement or wrong time of calling. Pls he is currently having issues on how to let go of this insults in his heart, once he gets insulted. He mourns it for hours before he gets himself.

Pls what advice can you fellow Nairalanders render to him on how to let go of this insults and concentrate on his primary assignment which is to read and pass. Than worrying over nothing.

Lia Mohammed done come again....liars

Oyedepo after collecting tithes and offering for years from ur members and you decided to even collect money for project Sunday to raise a University that the church members can't even attend and you call yourself a man of God.

Go and read the bible...Jesus fed the 5000 with five loaves and two fishes. 12 baskets was left. Oyedepo keep getting wealthier and the church members can't attend the school when you are tired your son will take over the church....Christianity what a jonsing ground.

Church is a very big lucrative business that one can invest on for years and get a huge turnover. After all they don't pay tax.....

When Tiwa was asked to wear Nijab, she refused but I guess she was not paying attention to all the church members who wia not ready to give her the best Lap dance she deserved. Although she was allowed Mesut ozil make love to her in Emirate stadium that immediately they finished Arsenal took the Champions league trophy because Buhari was coaching them as the new manager not long after her dog called Buhari gave birth to puppies that she couldn't imagine why Kim Karadarshian was singing songs of praise at Redemption camp that nobody knew how it was possible that Baba Adeboye's son was even dating her. That made Patinece Jonathan shout their is godooooooo immediately they released chibok girls that all Nigeria currency was changed to Eruodollar that people were able to make transactions easily that Obasanjo came back as Nigerian president that made all Nairalanders started earning millions of naira. That Lindaikeji started managing central bankbogspot.com.

SonofHim:



Ha ha ha ha ha. Dockeeey!!! I greet you chief. You never do housejob, MO or write primaries, talkless of huzzle for space for residency (where you go know say MBBS na child's play), you don begin dey give inaugural lecture. Don't worry, let's have this discussion again in 6 years time. I wish you the very best in your academic pursuit.

The problem with house Job placement is the security issue we have in Nigeria. A lot wants to do theirs in major hospitals and developed areas in Nigeria. As some people from south west or east to go to the North. None of them will agree due to Book Haram.


Secondly you talk about residency. I see it's greed and the amout of money attached to some departments or how lucrative it will be. Many wants Surgery,medicine,pediatric and O&G. Tell them to move to Community health, IPH,...they will see it as a laughing stock or for poor doctor's. Another thing is our population is too much for such. Mind I answered based on your headline.

bamirotola:
Please don't force me to check names again na....


Ok, I will check....


Name Noted..


Signed...

National secretary NCAN....

You deserve this medal in the on going Olympic.
Since you refused to comment on what was asked rather you exibited tribalism. I join the host of Olympic committee to give you the rightful medal.




Back to the post!!!!!
I strongly agree with you that is the greatest world scam ever.

catal:
i mean the working environment not the pay.Its not like what you see in the movies.I still dream of studying and practicing abroad.

Sorry....it seems you don't know what you are saying? Maybe you go to the teaching hospitals and see for yourself. I am in medicine and Surgery in University of Ibadan.
Get to UCH
And start your clinical posting in Medicine, Surgery, Pharmacology, Pediatric, O&G,Orthopedic, Community health, Mental health, morbid anatomy, hematology, chemical pathology and Micro/parasitology. You will understand the beauty of Medicine. Don't be outside and condemn what you dont know at all.


Medicine is the only course in Nigeria that have developed in the last decade. Pls mind what you post on Nairaland before you become an object of ridicule.


I wish you good luck in getting your medicine in Nigeria or abroad.


And you know how it is to get a slot in Top federal universities without knowing anyone.

And person can be withdrawn if the person fails MBcB/MBBS in limited times.

Say No To Ignorantic Post On Nairaland

Cossy Orjiako leads Nigeria and guess what my Chinese friend makes top list.

Lolzzz

Too bad

Hmm

When the bank manager was told to pay the jamb lesson tutors were busy asking me if Kim karashian was among the choir members who sang at deeper life champ ground at Lagos but instead she was among the Niger delta avengers that she was not in a hurry to follow chibok girls move to the front seat and allow Buhari's daughter not to pick her Law bar coat. Am not okay with the way tomatoes dropped that it heavily affected Dangote from making sure his Dollar transactions was depicted in Euros that Arsene Wenger was not among those who decided to sign C Ronaldo when he wanted to make a move to Aso rock and vote for APC members who were not paying attention when Patience Jonathan shouted their is God ooooo that made all ISIS members decides to take a selfie with Obama who wasn't ready to see that Donald Trump even voted for Hilary Clinton who was not running against in at the Peoples Democratic Party.

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You see Lindaikeji or whatever your names are, medically you have no right to upload a patients case file on the net or even have the right to access it.

You act of desperation for money got you into this mess. I warned earlier on that you would have made more sense and be professional if you had involved the Police. Yet you went online to publish a lie to the whole Nigerians to read. What if the family member died of heart attack? What if Mayowa died? Do you know what it means to label something a Scam? I think you need to go to school and use your dictionary very well.

Lindikeji if people allow you to go scot free with fallacious news don't think you will go like that next time. A day is coming when you will publish what will land you onto trouble that you will forever regret being a blogger.

I suggest you go back to your modelling and former prostitution business you were formerly known for or better still be a blogger with integrity than a liar who cons out money from people by generating traffic.

Guess what..You are heartless and wicked for all nonsense you have posted.

omonla555:
He is doing it for his fatherland, so Eto, Drogba and others have done same even C. Ronaldo for Portugal.

It is no news.

Watch your back before you die of jealousy. It kills faster than HIV. Your type end up dying before their time.

She will enjoy it very well. Wow....that's Good.

Orikinla:
[size=20pt]When people see money, they show you their greed.

The "Good Samaritans" never expected to see the huge amount raised by generous donors and so became envious.

There is one thing about poor people and that is the insecurity of their poverty still haunts them even after they suddenly become rich.
The most corrupt Nigerians are from poor backgrounds.

You can take the monkey out of the jungle, but you cannot take the jungle out of the monkey.

Money cannot buy dignity, integrity and nobility.[/size].

Did you actually read the Post? And did you follow up this post on Nairaland because you are not making Amy sense at all.

Lindaikeji is always despirate for money. Very useless living creature. A one time retired prostitute that owns one blog. Imagine the trauma she must have caused for the family. Instead of her to present the case in a meaningful manner or say police have taken over the matter between Savemayowa and Toyin.She published it as a scam and still have the right to publish her medical report. For what right does she even have to publish it the record.

Lindaikeji all your money without Husband is a waste.

I am married,Kim kardashian is married, Beyonce is Married and Shakira are all in their husband's house. Go and marry before Menopause kills you and you will start producing Fibroid.

Lolzzz. See what buhari has caysed

allanphash7:
Lol





You are the just a clown




To let you know the fact about me , i'm not a christain or a muslim




So take your borrowed Religion away from my side

And you came to.comment on religious trend. So foolish of you to even open your unwashed mouth here.

If Mohammed Ali acknowledged imagine. Imagine you without any life bar an also operate with kilobyte brain.