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I almost never get the 'I've a boyfriend' remark. It's for guys that appear creepy and needy

That's true!

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One of the themes I am seeing time and again revolves around the whole concept of a woman announcing that she "has a boyfriend" when you meet her and ask for her phone number. And that's the one we're going to get to the bottom of today.

The focal point of the conversation might go something like this:


Guy: "What do you say we get to know each other better?"

Woman: "That sounds good, but I don't think that I can let ya."

Guy: "I don't know, tell me is it so...do you get a kick outta telling brothers 'no'?"

Woman: "No it's not that, see, you don't understand. How should I put it...I GOT a man."

Guy: "What's your man got to do with me?"

Woman: "I've GOT a man."

Guy: "I'm not trying to hear that, see?"


I'd have given you a buck if you could have told me it was "Positive K" who made those words (in)famous. And even though I can't believe those lyrics are twenty-four years old, the conversation
itself is a lot older than that.

Clearly, when you hear this sort of response from a woman you are facing a clear objection to your interest in her. But as we're about to find out, that can be for at least three reasons.

Once you have a handle on WHY women tell you they "have a boyfriend", you can calibrate to the situation more effectively on a case-by-case basis rather than being stopped dead in your tracks every time.

So let's go over those three reasons.


1) Maybe she DOES have a boyfriend


Whether Positive K is trying to hear it or not, sometimes the straight-up truth is that the woman really is in a committed relationship. Moreover, she's actually interested in remaining
faithful to the guy she's committed to.

Now, you'd think this would signal the end to a very short conversation on the matter.

But guess again.

Given the nature of how we operate around here, we get e-mails from both men and women. As we read through them, we tend to discover amazing patterns.

One of the more amazing ones is how we tend to get e-mails from guys who AREN'T able to date/get to know/hook up with women because they have boyfriends.

Yet, the women tend to write us because they ARE dating/getting to know/hooking up with a guy who's already "taken".

To quote an old Warner Brothers cartoon, "It just don't add up."

We have no idea why women in particular let themselves get emotionally tangled with some married guy to begin with. Then again, we have no idea why guys want to get into a mess like that
either.

Here's the deal. If you find out she's really got a boyfriend (let alone a husband), then trying to get her to compromise that relationship means you're asking her to compromise her character
and become a cheater.

And if she's a cheater, you want no part of her because she'll cheat on you just as easily when the next guy comes along.

Believe me. We tell women this story all the time. Yet, we keep getting e-mails...and hopeful ones. It's nuts.

So what if you're in a situation where a woman in your social circle has a boyfriend, but you're in a position to interact with her often?

The answer is to banter and be your devastatingly attractive self all the while, realizing that MOST boyfriends get broken up with. Were that not the case, we'd all be married by fifth grade or
something, right?

So don't actively push her to breakup with her boyfriend. This will just irritate her, and it comes off as completely self-serving. Neither trust nor comfort is achieved there.

I also don't advocate going under the radar in an attempt to subvert her relationship with her boyfriend either. You know what I mean.

For example, listening to her rants about her boyfriend and agreeing that she should be treated better, but that she should "give him a chance" or something because some guys need time to "mature" or whatever.

By keeping your masculine, confident presence up and not kissing up to her, you stay out of the Friend Zone which is exactly what keeps your equity up for the future when she breaks up.

And when she does, act FAST. Don't sweat her getting back together with the guy or becoming her rebound relationship.

Those are risks you have to take, but which also can be mitigated by knowing how to attract a woman.

Meanwhile, this could be the ultimate case of "you snooze, you lose". Mark this: You weren't the only guy on a "breakup watch" there. Continue Reading

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A while back, a man named James met a woman he particularly liked during a Ten-Plus Live weekend.

He was able to successfully continue the interaction with her later on...and was thrilled about it.

But here's the thing. At first, James had left that interaction without getting her number.

When the chips were down, he got what I call "second stage fear or rejection" and bailed out of the conversation.

Ultimately, he didn't want to risk the warm-fuzzies of having had a girl be nice to him. Asking for her number would have done that.

After all, what if she denied him? That would only feel as if he had sort of postponed the "inevitable" rejection.

It's as if he convinced himself the "what if?" fantasy was somehow better than finding out what the real potential there was.

I was left no other option than to ask him how honest he was being with himself.

What would be more painful...knowing that he essentially wimped out and let himself down or, well, anything that woman could say or do to "reject" him?

The answer in his mind was a no-brainer, so he went back in there and did the right thing...ultimately with positive results.

That next level of euphoria would never have happened had he not made the RIGHT decision to believe in himself.

And hey, you know what? Even if something socially catastrophic had happened when asking the woman for her phone number (e.g. she put him off in some extra-rude way), that wouldn't have been a big deal in the long run.

At the very least, it wouldn't have been nearly as damaging as "rejecting" one's SELF.

How do I know this?

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There is an old adage which says that 'nice guys finish last'. Most people go on wondering why that happens and why do these nice guys fail with women? Most women we meet say that they just want to date a 'nice guy' but when they meet one they head in the exact opposite direction and start dating the 'bad boy'!

The answer to this question actually lies in the fact that nice guys become too nice around the women they like, allowing to be treated like doormats. Some of the things that nice guys do wrong and must avoid are as listed below:

o Feel nervous and intimidated: Most nice guys feel very nervous around women they like. This nervousness leads them to believe that they need to work really hard to impress the woman and as a result end up trying too hard. When these efforts are not recognized in the way they want, these nice guys begin feeling intimidated.

As a result of this, these men get easily manipulated and do not get the respect that they deserve.

o Seeking approval: This intimidation makes these men so insecure that they are in a constant search for approval and go to any lengths to get that. When these men do a thing like this, it makes the woman feel that the man has no self respect. His behavior becomes submissive and weak which is a turn off.

Women look for men who are in control and do not take mistreatment. They like men who retain their power and control yet give the woman the respect and attention that she deserves. He is not hungry for attention and his behavior reflects that.

o Accepting any kind of behavior: The quintessential insecurities are so high that he goes on to accept any kind of behavior from his girlfriend. Since he allows the woman to assume the role of 'the boss', he remains a weak and submissive character. Such men also are clingier and appear more desperate and accept any behavior just to be able to talk to the woman.

In their desperation, these men also call too much, too often repeatedly speaking of their feelings and emotions. This is not a manly attribute and women do not respect such men.

o Just too nice! : These nice guys go to any lengths to make the woman feel good. These men treat their girls too "nicely", like they would treat their own grandmother. They also end up listening to all the girl trouble that the women are facing just like their girlfriends would and give them advice as well.

Well the girl clearly needs a nice man in her life and not a girlfriend in a boyfriends clothing.
A nice guy is one who listens to his girl, respects her, cares for her yet retains his dignity, pride and self respect. So try being a nice "Man", who understands his role as the "man" and exudes confidence and enjoys the woman's respect.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CH-5ujAnyjs

There are few men who seem to have all the luck with the women they approach. They are always surrounded by women and are hugely popular. If you want to be a part of this slot then you will need to learn how to be smooth with a lady. If you have been facing some roadblocks in achieving this then here are a few ways to master the art of wooing women.

Be a cool dresser
To be smooth you first have to learn to dress smooth. A natty dresser always catches a woman's eye. So look up the latest trends and get a wardrobe change. Don't forget to shower well and wear nice cologne.

Wear your attitude
Don't let the clothes wear you out. If you don't have the right attitude, no amount of good or expensive clothes can help you. So have a positive attitude but don't be full of yourself. Nobody likes being around a hot air balloon so get a dose of modesty and chivalry in your attitude.

Be sure of yourself
Going around like a lost puppy with an expensive collar will only get you pity pats. If you want to be noticed and become popular with the ladies then you will have to be confidant and sure of yourself. Look like you are in control of the situation and not the other way around and you will have a woman hooked.

Dish out genuine compliments in style
Be stylish with your compliments. Make her feel like the compliments are genuine and are not being said just for the sake of it. Make her feel special by complimenting her genuinely.

Notice the finer details
Women work very hard to get that perfect look. They spend hours getting that lovely dress, getting the perfect hairdo and spend hours on their make up to look good. Notice the finer details and appreciate them and she will be impressed by your observation.

Play hot and cold
Don't dote on her just yet. You have to make her feel like she too has to work for your attention. So, play the game of hot and cold and see how fast she gets drawn to you. Once you have given her your attention turn it the other way (not on another woman) and watch how hard she works to interest you.

Charm her with your humor
Don't be a clown but crack her up with your sense of humor. Humor can help in building a connection and can get a person to relax easily. It also makes you look intelligent and interesting!

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axt0PA0AJ_U

There are some guys who are really good at grabbing a woman's attention and there are some guys who are just the opposite. If you fall in the second category, then it's time to get to work and find out what you need to do to get the attention of the woman you like. Here are some tips which will help you grab a woman's attention.

The right amount of eye contact

When you spot the girl that you like, make brief eye contact...look at her directly and hold her gaze and then release it. Make sure that you don't look away too soon or stare for too long. Once you have caught her eye give a warm smile and then look away and continue with whatever that it was that you were doing.

Be footloose and fancy free

You have to look like you are having a good time. Be spirited and playful and enjoy yourself. People are naturally drawn to people who are having a good time rather than to people who sit alone.

Do your own thing

You don't have to be like anyone else to be popular or get appreciated. If you want to be attractive you have to learn to be different, so bid adieu to the herd mentality and feel free to be that person that you are. The coolest people do what they want to do and when they want to do it irrespective of the people around them.

Be randomly chivalrous

Chivalry rocks and the sooner a girl sees you doing a kind and sweet act the sooner she is going to be attracted to you. Let that act be random and it does not have to be a huge thing...getting up to open the door for an unknown person or help a person with a tray full of drinks should do. These show that you are a thoughtful and a kind person and women find both these qualities very attractive.

Begin a conversation with a compliment

You can always go up to her and begin a conversation by first complimenting her. Say something that she knows but, say it differently...It's not about what you say but how you say it!

Be genuinely funny

A good sense of humor helps in breaking the ice, start a lively conversation as it helps in bonding. Also women find men with good sense of humor very intelligent and attraction builds automatically. Don't be Bozo the clown, but crack her up anyway!

Dress nice

To make a lasting good first impression dress well. Women like neatly dressed men so why push her the other way by dressing sloppy?

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iinsQl0UbDw

It can be quite nerve wracking sitting next to a girl you like and not knowing what to say. When you get past the "getting introduced" phase, you will have to build a conversation. So, if you are unsure of what to talk about then here are a few things that you can build conversations on.

Entertainment

One of the easiest and breeziest topics to have a conversation on is entertainment. Different forms of music, favorite movies, theatre, concerts to television, you have a whole lot that you can choose from. These conversations can be light and fun and can help you identify what sort of a person she is.

Travelling

Talking about travelling also makes way for some very interesting conversations. You can mutually speak of the different places that you have been to or the countries that you would like to visit. This conversation can further lead to talking about different cultures, lifestyles and communities.

Hobbies and Interests

Since you are getting to know each other it would be wise to talk about your hobbies and interests and try and find out about hers. If you see that you have similar interests then you can even try to fix up a date to do something together.

Passions

You can also talk about things that you feel passionately about or things that move you. It could be global warming, education, political awareness or some social cause that you are associated with. Try and find out if there is something that she is passionate about; something that is more than a hobby. This can be great conversation material.

Food

Talking about food and the different culinary delights can make for some very stimulating conversation. You could talk about the different types of food that you have eaten or if you have experimented with some kind of cuisine bring it out and share your stories. She too will contribute and you can have a great conversation.

Work life

Talking about your work life, job roles and responsibilities, co-workers and office atmosphere are also safe topics to stick to while talking to a girl. You could also tell her some funny stories from your work place and keep the conversation entertaining.

Crazy stories

You both can also share stories of some of the funny and crazy things that you have done. Funny stories can help in bonding and help the other person relax and become more comfortable around you. Ask her to share some of her outrageous stories so that both of you can have a good laugh.

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So there's a girl you are definitely interested in. It could be that you have already been on a few friendly dates but have not been able to ask her to make it official. If you are nervous about asking her to be your girlfriend, it could be because you are afraid of her rejecting you. These tips below will help you to overcome your fears and get your girl to agree.

Dump the insecurity
IF you are feeling insecure about the relationship, then there is no way you are going to make any headway. Tell yourself that she has to like you to be friends with you. Concentrate on your assets and work on your self confidence. It helps. Once you have boosted your ego it is easier to approach her.

Look for signs and signals
If a girl likes you then she is bound to send you some signals. Are you being dense around her and missing those signs? Be vigilant and watch for the obvious signs that she likes you. If she does, she will look at you in a particular way, find reasons to be around you, touch you etc.

Don't be too hasty
Bide your time and try to assess the situation before you ask her outright to be your girlfriend and go steady. If you are too hasty you might lose your chance. Get her more interested in you. Let her get to know you better.

Use a planned strategy
Be ready to respond to her answer whatever it may be. In case she says she is not ready to get into a relationship - don't let it get you down. Remember she hasn't said that she doesn't like you. Give her the time. You could always answer "That's OK. I'll see you sometime later". On the other hand if she says "yes" you could either hug or kiss her.

Take care that you are well groomed
Before popping the question, you have to make sure that you smell heavenly! Take care that your breath is fresh and you look really great. All these details help. It will propel her into giving you a favorable answer. Besides you will feel more confident knowing you look your best!

Make privacy a priority
You can't possibly ask a girl to be your girlfriend on the basketball court or with her friends hanging on to every word. This may embarrass the girl. Find a place where you can have some privacy - maybe while walking her home or better still while you are dancing!

Be direct
When you feel the time is right, ask her directly if she would like to go out with you or date you. This way she won't be in any doubt about your intentions and feelings.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9iyHvhm1Ys

So you are on a date and you want to take the relationship to the next level. You are a shy guy and do not want to mess up with your chance of seeing that girl again so what do you do? Can you make the girl want to kiss you? Sure you can.

For that you will have to learn a few tricks. First thing to do is to get over your shyness. You are out on a date means that you have overcome one hurdle.

Remember body language plays an important part in a relationship. So watch closely for the girl's body language. Does she look relaxed with you?

Does she look happy and interested? If not, then you can just conclude that this is not the right time to try that with her and wait for the right opportunity.

o If the girl is totally relaxed and has her head on your shoulder you can maneuver your body in such a way that it will be easier for her to reach for a kiss.

o If you are looking at her and she is also looking at you then look at her lips and then again look at her eyes and lean a bit closer. If she is interested then she will take the hint and comes closer to you.

o Talk to her; tell her a beautiful story where she will feel like kissing you for being such a nice person.

o All you need to do is just flirt around with her. This will set up the tone for the evening. If she responds to your flirting then there is every possibility that she will kiss you.

If both of you are completely relaxed and watching a romantic film, things will lead to kiss. But if the timing is not right you should wait.

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With the right knowledge in your mind and the right moves up your sleeve you can easily seduce any girl within seconds.

Master these tips and watch the girl of your choice swoon towards you as you throw seductive gauntlets around her neck.

Make an impressive impression. You should make sure that you wear clothes that enhance your personality, have a haircut that suits your body and wear a macho perfume that attracts any girl's nose and eyes towards you instantly. The first impression should be a lasting impression.

Seduce her with your eyes. If any girl has caught your attention then slowly look towards her and make sure to linger on with your eyes without making it look crude or cheap. Glance towards her at regular intervals and throw her a smile when your eyes meet.

Use humor to make her feel at ease. Humor is an excellent way of breaking the ice and making the girl of your choice feel at ease. Introduce yourself and make sure to observe her likes and dislikes even as you make small talk. You can then steer the topic where you could safely crack a few jokes to get her laughing.

Throw garlands of compliments. Every girl likes to be complimented. You can compliment your girl on her dress, her hair and her looks. You should compliment her physical attributes only when she becomes very comfortable with you.

Get closer. You can start whispering so that she has to cock her ear towards your mouth. She too might do the same and this will enable both of you to get closer and even whisper naughty jokes in each others ears. She might also hold on to your arm while laughing at your jokes, which is a very good sign.

Use eye language to begin operation kiss. If her eyes indicate that she desires you and is ready to get kissed by you then start by lightly kissing her cheeks or nibbling her ear as she bends towards you.

Paint her a verbal picture. Now that the physical action has commenced, you can paint her a verbal picture of how good she looks and what you plan to do to her in the coming nights. This is sure to get her anticipatory juices flowing even as she eagerly awaits the seductive future.

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A brash, over the edge guy who does not seem to give a damn about anything thing in life attracts a lot of women. It is said that women like bad boys but it has always been a mystery to it.

It is really difficult to figure out that psychology behind the liking towards the bad boy. You might consider yourself outgoing but conservatism stops you from doing a lot of things. There can be many reasons for a woman to fall for a bad guy

o The indifference in the bad boy's personality attracts a lot of women. The "I give a damn" attitude makes them all the more desirable. Women love to make a bad guy who cares for nothing in this world to fall for them and care for them. They happen to love this exclusivity.

o Bad boys have a very prominent trait of being rebellious towards things in life. Their company can be adventurous, fun and exciting at the same time. You walk the line on the wilder side of your life.

o You do things that you would not have done sans their company. The fun lies in doing something you have never done. They are fun as they help you shed the shackles, cross the line and push the limits.

o Women have the illusion that bad boys are very hard to get or are very difficult to get them attracted to you. The challenge and mystery pulls them more towards rebellious personalities. It is human psychology to get attracted towards things you think are inaccessible.

o The rebellious trait in bad boys gives women a feeling of power. This trait somehow rubs off on them as well. They also feel much protected in their company giving them an air of togetherness.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5apeyI97rzg

A lot of men don't actually know how they should act on a first date, and while it's surprising, it's also shocking! Most of the time, I have guys firing questions my way asking me things like "What should I say, what if she gets bored?" or "What do you say to keep the conversation interesting?". But, truth of the matter is, that most men treat the first date like an interview, yes, that's right, an interview!

However, the real key to having things run smoothly on a first date, is to let that idea fly out the window, because once you remember this, you will easily have success with women. Read on to find out the 4 things you need to know to pickup women with ease....

1. Dry conversation - You have probably experienced this before, those typical dry questions that really lead the conversation nowhere. "How was your day...where do you work....what do you do for fun" etc. These questions are so opened ended that they don't get you nor your date emotionally involved, and not only this, but you have probably painfully tried to execute dry conversation on the first date as well. But, this is not the right thing to do, and should only ever be used as a last resort if necessary. A good rule to remember is that predictable topics are boring, and will always lead down a boring path.

2. Playing it safe - Well, since you don't want to mess things up, you concentrate so hard on playing it safe, with the "safe" questions, that you end up boring the heck out of your date, and she goes home thinking that there are still no "interesting guys" around. Playing it safe will never work out for you in the end, because you cannot seriously expect anyone to take you seriously that way, when you are never going to be willing to make things fun, interesting, or step "outside of the line"

3. Attraction - Basically the point of the first date is to really leverage on building the attraction, and attraction can only happen if you add spice, energy, surprise, mystery, fun, excitement and a basically anything above and beyond what you would normally try to do. It's not that difficult, all you have to do, is let go of the outcome, and start thinking about the moment. Don't be afraid to tease her, have some witty replies, or ask her questions she wasn't expected to be asked.

4. Embarrassing - One of the easiest ways to instantly "break the ice" is to tell a funny and embarrassing story about yourself, and then ask her what her most embarrassing moment was. As you tell the story, engage her, by using body language, tone and excitement as you talk, so that she can imagine it and come to feel the same way that you do about it. Executing your conversation style this way, rather than the regular way, will ensure that she becomes emotionally drawn into you and the conversation, and in turn the attraction can build fast and easily.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSeyNgfe21I

Yes, dating is quite tough in a sense that you cannot figure out exactly if the woman you are dating likes you or not. Being watchful of her level of interest can aid you to increase your self-confidence when it comes to asking her out on a date - not just once, but numerous times!

To assist you in determining this, you need to search for the hints listed below for you to come to a decision if now is the right time to step onto the next level with her or back off and date another one instead. Read on to find out the clues that she is interested in you:

1. She gives you her undivided attention - If a girl does this, it only means one thing: she is attracted to you. Even if there are lots of people around, you can figure out that she is paying heed to all the things you are saying by watching how she stares at you every time you utter a word.

She could also be the only person who laughs at all your jokes. Additionally, she directs her queries on you despite the many people around.

2. She always takes a quick look at you - Does she flip her hair as she secretly takes a glimpse of you? If yes, then you know for sure that she does like you. Women love to play with their hair; the more often they do it, the more they are attempting to get your complete attention.

3. She touches you constantly - You have already captured a lady's heart when you notice that she keeps touching you. This deed is something important to women as it is their way of catching your interest. It means that she wants you to notice her. She feels some sort of electricity running in her body each time that she makes physical contact on you.

You can actually identify by how she behaves that she wants you to touch her, too. Above all, keep your eyes open to her touching while you talk.

4. She goes wherever you go - A scenario here is a group outing. In case you go, certainly she is there as well, but if you call off at the very last minute, she will come up with an alibi for not coming, too. She could even be calling you to know why you are not going. It may not even be where you are going, but rather what you are doing. If you move your eyes or head, and she moves hers alongside yours, then you know you have established good chemistry.

An example of this would be, moving your body or shoulder, and she watches you and moves her eyes to follow you. Or you may get up, and she will ask you where you are going or what you are doing, which means you have her attention and she is interested in you.

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There is a saying that actions speak louder than words. In fact, we use body language to communicate with other people on a daily basis, and every twitch of the eyebrow means something and is equivalent to numerous verbal sentences.

So, even if you are a smooth talker, a good listener or brilliant storyteller, it does not account to anything if you disregard body language. You should remember to observe a woman's body language at all times in order to get the correct message. Use these tips to tell if she likes you, simply by watching her body language:

'Reading' Her Palms
Women expose their palms and wrists only to those she is fascinated with. It is an intuitive show of being submissive to you wherein her body says 'I am completely yours, so go ahead'. She may do this by playing with her hands, or by reaching across the table to try and touch your hands.

Either way, she is definitely intrigued and interested in you, if she is comfortable showing her hands to you.

The Direction of Her Shoulders
This is actually among the very clear signals of attraction. If a woman's upper body is facing you, it simply means that she likes you. Women tend to direct their shoulders at whatever they want.

You will also notice her leaning in or moving towards you as well, if she likes you, and this may also be a sign that she wants to get closer to you, or that she is comfortable with you. Women who lean in may also want to kiss you, and are simply comfortable being around you.

Hair Flipping
Once you see the girl whom you are interested in begins to flip her hair then suddenly looks at you, it means that she is showing an interest in you. She will do her best to get your full attention by capturing your eye.

She may not flip her hair, but she will touch it. Women do this mostly without realizing it, because they subconsciously want to feel more attractive to you. Take this as a huge compliment then, if you notice her playing with her hair or touching her hair as she talks to you.

Constant Eye Contact
A girl who feels the same way towards you will typically establish an eye contact and hang on to it for some time that you might feel a bit uneasy. Bear in mind, though, that you have to smile at her before she looks away. Show her that you like her, not to mention that giving her a smile would mean that you are a nice man.

When you notice that she keeps glancing at you for a few times, then it is clear enough to say that she would like to go out and spend more time with you. She may not even look you in the eyes, and may stare at your lips a lot. Don't take this as her not being interested, but rather consider that she is really interested in you, because women will stare at your lips when they want to kiss you.

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It can be somewhat difficult to get a woman to like you, especially if you were not bestowed with drop-dead gorgeous looks. In addition, you are bound to encounter a lot of competition vying for a woman's attention, but worry no more! Here are 4 methods on how you can make any woman choose you over other guys out there:

o Get inside her mind.
Attracting and making any woman choose you over other guys depends greatly in understanding how the mind of the opposite sex works and tapping into it.

The mind of a woman is very much different from a man as they are more attracted to emotional and behavioral responses, whereas men are turned on by a female's physical attributes. Women want a guy who is not only strong and certain of himself, but also capable of making them respond in an emotional level and provide them a sense of security.

The secret to attracting a woman relies on learning and mastering this quality, and if you would look at it, it can be quite easy. All you have to do is practice, practice and practice.

o Use the pleasure & pain techniques.
The behaviour of humans can be classified into two aspects - the need to attain happiness and the need to elude and experience pain. Alpha males put this concept into action when attracting women with the use of subtle techniques.

All you have to do to accomplish this, is make her emotional. Don't be afraid to make her emotional, because women are emotionally drawn to be attracted to you both physically and sexually, and in the end you will be doing yourself a huge favour if you can conquer her emotional side.

o Become a man of high value.
Women are drawn to guys who have high values. The interesting part is that you can fabricate that feature in the mind of any girls. You can simply do this by becoming completely confident and not desperate in terms of obtaining responses from her.

This also means that you will not easily let anyone change your mind or your opinion. People who know what they want go after it and don't let anything else get in the way, and this is especially true for goal oriented people or men of high value, which is what you must do to win her over.

o Be sociable.
Develop enough popularity awareness and you will surely attract a lot of women. Having excellent social skills will increase your level of attraction to great heights. Men who have many women around them, even if they are just friends, are often noticed by other women.

This is because you will appear to have a quality or personality which is attractive, because you are popular. Women will take note of this, and will want to be around you as well. Having friends at least shows women that you are doing a few things right, such as earning other's trust, and being socially adaptable.

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Yes, dating is quite tough in a sense that you cannot figure out exactly if the woman you are dating likes you or not. Being watchful of her level of interest can aid you to increase your self-confidence when it comes to asking her out on a date - not just once, but numerous times!

To assist you in determining this, you need to search for the hints listed below for you to come to a decision if now is the right time to step onto the next level with her or back off and date another one instead. Read on to find out the clues that she is interested in you:

1. She gives you her undivided attention - If a girl does this, it only means one thing: she is attracted to you. Even if there are lots of people around, you can figure out that she is paying heed to all the things you are saying by watching how she stares at you every time you utter a word.

She could also be the only person who laughs at all your jokes. Additionally, she directs her queries on you despite the many people around.

2. She always takes a quick look at you - Does she flip her hair as she secretly takes a glimpse of you? If yes, then you know for sure that she does like you. Women love to play with their hair; the more often they do it, the more they are attempting to get your complete attention.

3. She touches you constantly - You have already captured a lady's heart when you notice that she keeps touching you. This deed is something important to women as it is their way of catching your interest. It means that she wants you to notice her. She feels some sort of electricity running in her body each time that she makes physical contact on you.

You can actually identify by how she behaves that she wants you to touch her, too. Above all, keep your eyes open to her touching while you talk.

4. She goes wherever you go - A scenario here is a group outing. In case you go, certainly she is there as well, but if you call off at the very last minute, she will come up with an alibi for not coming, too. She could even be calling you to know why you are not going. It may not even be where you are going, but rather what you are doing. If you move your eyes or head, and she moves hers alongside yours, then you know you have established good chemistry.

An example of this would be, moving your body or shoulder, and she watches you and moves her eyes to follow you. Or you may get up, and she will ask you where you are going or what you are doing, which means you have her attention and she is interested in you.

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The age old question, "what do women want", has been evident to mankind since our existence, but what is not so clear is the answer. Unfortunately, if you cannot answer this question, then you are always going to be unable to please women completely.

In fact, you could try showering her with everything under the sun, from buying her truck loads of gifts, trying to obey everything she tells you, but she won't feel fully attracted to you!

But why?!

Women really only want one thing...

Most men target the wrong things when it comes to building attraction and picking up women, and in the end women really only want one thing. What is that? Well, women simply want a man which she can yield to.

I bet you are sitting there thinking "What?!" on the other end, but trust me here, every single woman wants to be able to yield themselves to the right man.

Now, the kind of yielding I am talking about is the kind that she will always be willing to do, and also is the kind that challenges her on so many levels that she can't help but feel extremely attracted to you, and extremely pleased by you.

While you may not believe me, the facts will still always be facts, so take the following case study into consideration:

Why women want to yield themselves to you...

Not too long ago, I had a conversation with a very attractive female friend of mine. The conversation got onto the topic of men, and how she was still not able to find the right guy. I explained a few things to her about how she could find the right guy, and then she told me this:

"I want a guy who can be in control, and lead, kind of like yielding to him, but at the same time just a man who can take charge in the right places. Some guys just don't do that, and others are just too controlling."

So you see, women want a man who can take control of her in a way that she will always be coming back for more.

This kind of control that my female friend described is most often seen in men who are confident, self assertive, respectful, and more importantly men who have standards.

The ultimate key and answer then, is to learn how to make women yield to you, and to do it in a way that she will literally always want to.

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There is a category of men who first have a great deal of difficulty in first getting a date and then create such a bad impression on their first date that there are absolutely no chances left for a second date. Here are some of the massive blunders that men make on first dates:

o Look unclean: Men often misinterpret casual looks with looking ungroomed and unclean. There is nothing more turning off than a guy who looks like he showers only when the full moon appears and changes his clothes once a year.

Being sloppy indicates that you don't care about what the person thinks of you and that's a negative start. There cannot be anything more offensive than a man who stinks!

o Guy talk with women? No!: If you want to exchange notes on sports or talk of your drinking binges, your first date is the wrong place to do so. If you want to talk sports, and chicks then meet your buddies. Why are you on a date? Doing all this makes you look shallow and boring to women.

Also never refer to attractive women like you would in the presence of your male friends. So calling someone a "chick" or "babe" is out of the question. Do this and you shall never hear from your date again as she will find you not just shallow but very disrespectful as well.

o Give too much attention: Don't go to the other extreme and give her so much attention that you make her feel suffocated and begin looking like a desperado. Agreeing to everything that she says, behaving like a puppy dog and running around like a man servant is not going to get you any brownie points.

This behavior is only going to make you look insecure, desperate and needy...a man who is so insecure that he will take any kind of treatment just so he has a girl to talk to. Women don't stay with men they can't respect and this is no way of earning a woman's respect.

o Check her out and then other women: The moment you begin checking out other women while you are on a date you can say your date is over. It won't be long before your date comes up with some excuse and leaves.

This behavior is totally unacceptable as you are not just disrespecting her but are also making her feel that you would much rather be looking at other women than look at her! Also men who start by checking out a woman's assets are the ones who are dating disasters.

Learn to treat a woman like a woman and not a commodity...

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There are some men who when they meet women are instant magnets. There seems to be some unsaid connection that is immediately established by these men that keeps the women hooked on to them. Some men on the other hand fail quite miserably at this and have to drearily prod on to get a girl.

So, what do these women magnets do right that help them create an instant chemistry? What is it that these men are doing and the others are not? What does one have to do to become a magnet that women get attracted to in an instant? To find the answers read on:

• Be spontaneous: Picture this. You are at a place where you see a woman you would like to get to know. But you wait for someone to introduce you to her and meanwhile someone else swoops in and she is gone. To be successful you have to take charge.

As soon as you find someone that you like make your move as delaying and preparing makes you more nervous and jittery. The sooner you move the more confident you'll be.

• Understand non verbal signals: Women let out these non verbal signals through their body language. So, learn the art understanding body language and choose your approach.

Making a statement is much easier if you have studied your subject well. If she looks bored or wants to dance or is searching for a familiar face you can say just the right thing and strike an instant chemistry with her.

• Cerebral conversation: Ok. Men do not get afraid at the sound of this. Cerebral conversation does not mean talking about Kafka. But yes, do not go on about your passion for sports and your drinking capacity. Take time to find out about what she likes and does.

Using wit and humor to spice up a conversation is a very attractive trait. Don't go overboard and you shall be a winner. Women love men who can make them laugh and if you can make her laugh through general conversation which is not restricted to jokes, then for her there's no guy like you!

• Timing: Flirting is a great way to create an instant connection but take care that you don't move too soon or too late. The timing plays a very crucial role in flirting because it can make a potential candidate from a date to being 'good friends'.

Flirting also establishes your intentions clearly so use humor and wit at this too but be clever!

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLo26GEzPlc

A kiss is something that is so personal and soul stirring; one can't afford to mess it up. Ever since a girl reaches the adolescent stage she dreams of her first kiss. There is a certain magic about sharing a first kiss with someone. Of course not every woman is ready to give away her kisses freely and looks for the perfect partner and perfect time to pucker up.

However many men are pretty nervous and anxious about whether they are going about it the right way. It is a fact that you can pretty much ruin a future relationship if you screw up your first kiss. Here are some pointers that will help you to be a terrific kisser whom girls will long to kiss.

• Look for signs and opportunities: Women are constantly giving you signs unconsciously and consciously and it is up to you to pick them up. Generally you can sense that the woman is attracted to you because of her behavior and body language. She will come closer to you and lean towards you if she wants you to kiss her.

Your behavior should be reciprocal and you should show the woman that you like her and find her very attractive. Give the woman the attention she craves. Compliment her and send her subtle but sure messages that you would like to take your relationship a step further.

• Maintain eye contact: It is important that your girl trusts you completely. If you look away too often and don't lock eyes with her before locking lips she is bound to think that your mind is elsewhere. Let her know that you mean every word you say. A woman hates being taken for a ride and if she feels that you are not to be trusted she will not want to kiss you.

• Flirt with her and make her feel special: No woman can resist being charmed. Keep your flirting at a verbal level till you feel her encouraging you to get more physical. If you try to rush things and force her to kiss you, you can be sure she won't want to even meet you again.

A woman should never feel violated in any way. If you try to force her to kiss you before she is ready it will ruin all your chances of creating a lasting bond with her.

• Have perfect timing: Once you feel your girl responding to your flirtatious looks and behavior, you can then take the initiative to take steps that would automatically lead to a kiss. This would mean touching her hand, holding hands while strolling, running your hands through her hair, etc.

She is bound to either encourage you further or recoil from your touch. Either way it should be your clue as to whether you should kiss her or wait till she is ready.

Simply watch this video:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gpEAEvULROw

Often many men are bound to get attracted to the same woman. Most of these men are bound to make their moves in a bid to get closer to that woman.

Here are some tips that could blow the competition away in case you are competing with other men to win the affections of a particular woman.

• Quickly ascertain yourself as the alpha male: As soon as you enter a room, make sure that you take control with your confidence and stance. Do not cower in a corner but instead move to the centre of the room. Hold your drink with confidence and make intelligent conversation if you are with a friend.

The first impression is usually a lasting impression and if you shine with confidence then you are sure to attract more women towards you than other men in that room.

• Showcase your skills at the first opportune moment: Instead of waiting for other men to show their best side and impress 'your' woman, take the initiative and showcase your own skills first.

Whether it is your sense of humor, your immense wealth, your peak physical condition or any other skill, talent or point that you might have over other males, use it fast. You never know what might appeal to that woman. You can then simply tone down aspects that 'your' woman might not approve of.

• Make the woman want you: You will never be successful in getting a date if you try too aggressively or force yourself on a woman. You need to awaken feelings of desire from within a woman so that she notices no one except you in a sea of prospective males.

By remaining sensitive to her needs, hearing and understanding her views and showing interest in her with your naughty eyes, you are sure to have her tingling with anticipation.

• Do not "over-analyze": Instead of thinking about what moves other men might make to attract the woman of your choice or what might happen if she likes someone else, simply make your own moves with confidence. Over analyzing will not get you anywhere and might simply turn you into a nervous wreck. So, take a deep breath and go for it.

The woman that you like might also attract other suitors vying for her undivided attention. However, if you retain your confidence and make bold moves then you should easily get picked up by her radar. Even if you do make mistakes initially, you will quickly get a date if you learn from your errors.

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There is a fine line that differentiates the 'bad boy' and the 'nice guy'. Turns out that women state that they 'just want to date a nice guy' but always, inevitably, end up with the 'bad boys'.

What women actually want is the best of both worlds...the perfect amalgamation between the bad boy and the nice guy. Once you are able to achieve this you will be able to instantly attract women. Here are some tips that will help you achieve your goal:

• Be confident: Confidence is something that has to come from within. You must be able to leave all your moments of self doubt, the fear of rejection and the fear of initiating conversation behind and learn to believe that you are better than any other man around you.

Confidence is not about good looks or fancy clothes. It's in your attitude...so introspect and find out where you are lacking and take suitable help to overcome your weakness.

• Be witty: You can have a woman's undivided attention if you are able to spin a good conversation. Being able to hold and steer a conversation is a much desired skill...one that all women look out for. Hold her attention while you speak and be assured of a positive outcome.

Keeping a conversation light and playful carefully interspersed with wit and humor will take you a long way. Women love men who can make them laugh but take care to see that she is laughing 'with 'you and not 'at 'you.

• Have a positive body language: There is nothing more putting off than a man with a negative body language. Women are very perceptive and catch these negative signs very easily. So, get control over your giveaway signals and then head towards meeting a woman.

Make sure you never fidget as this says that you are not comfortable in your surroundings. Always maintain eye contact when she speaks but don't stare. You must look like you are paying close attention to her and are listening to everything that she says and not like you are going to eat her up with your eyes.

• Learn the ignore and attention game: Attraction is a simple game of push and pull. Learn to give attention and then take it away for a bit. This will keep her interest alive in you, as she will also try to impress you. The road to instant attraction doesn't always lie in agreeing with a woman.

Sometimes it's a good idea to disagree as it projects you as a man who knows his mind and is in control. This will also make the woman work hard to earn your respect.

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Are you trying to figure out how to get a girlfriend? In order to successfully get a girlfriend there are certain steps you must follow at all costs. A lot of guys feel that they can get a girlfriend within a few hours but that simply isn't true. In order to get a girlfriend here is the process you must follow...

- Getting her number.
- Building attraction.
- Taking it to the boyfriend-girlfriend level.

In this article you will discover some of the most efficient tactics and tricks which answer all your questions on how to get a girlfriend and will get you a girl faster than you ever imagined. Therefore I urge you to pay close attention and read every word of this article till the very last sentence to figure out how to get a girlfriend...

How To Get A Girlfriend - Phase 1 (Getting the number)...

As already mentioned in order to get a girlfriend...You must first successfully get her number. Let me share a very quick tactic here which will get you her number real fast & also give you pointers on how to get a girlfriend. Assuming that you are already in conversation with a girl...Drop in the following lines-

Oh! I there was this real funny thing which happened today. I was about to tell you...But I have to rush for now. Maybe some other time

At this she would be highly curious to know...Then say...

You know what? Here give me your phone number and I will tell you all about it tonight

When done right...You will easily get her number in seconds.

How To Get A Girlfriend - Phase 2 (Building Attraction)...

Assuming that you have already spoken to the girl for a few days...Let's now get to the next phase where you will build attraction and tension. Here is a quick tactic to do it-

When in conversation with her...Drop in the following line-

You know sometimes when you are talking to a person...You feel this connection...So strong that it feel as if you already know the person?

After her response...Say.

Yeh! I feel that way when I talk to you...BUT

She would ask...What do you mean but?

Then respond by saying-

Well there are a few things...Well never mind...I shouldn't tell you.

At this she would force you again and again...But do not tell her. Let me beg for it more and more. The more she wants to know the more curious she would get and the more she would think about you which would get her attracted to you. Now move on to the next phase on how to get a girlfriend.

How To Get A Girlfriend Phase - 3 (Taking it to girlfriend-boyfriend level)...

This is the point when you will make it clear to her that you want her as your girlfriend but again you shouldn't be direct about it. Here is one of the best way and also one of the best tips on how to get a girlfriend...

When talking to her drop in the following line-

Do you think we would make a good couple?

If she says yes...Then it worked...If she says no...Respond by saying-

Yeh! I thought so too...I mean we are like brother-sister. We are too similar to be a couple...I would keep you around as my cute little sister & you can help me pick up cute girls.

And bam!

The moment you will say this she would start thinking wait...Did he reject me? What does he mean we're too similar? Am I not good enough for him. And this is where she would show strong willingness to be your girlfriend...And you won't have to worry thinking about how to get a girlfriend anymore.

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How would you like to have an edge above other males in the dating game? One of the major fears a lot of men tend to have is the fear that some other guy is better than me. In fact! A lot of average guys tend to fear good looking men simply due to the fact that they are good looking.

They fear that they might never get the girl they desire simply because they lack good looks and it might work as a huge drawback. But do you know that looks don't count that much when it comes to the game of attraction?

Read on to discover what I mean here and learn how to make a girl choose you over other guys...

Be the guy who doesn't put the girl on a pedestal for being good looking...

The very first key you must strongly follow is to stop treating girls extra nice only because they are good looking. Most guys out there tend to give girls with good looks extra marks only because they are good looking.

But if you can be the guy who isn't easily impressed just by good looks...You will end up being that unique being girls would want to date. Therefore make it a point not to treat girls extra nice only because they are good looking.

Reject pretty girls...

Now you might be thinking...How can I reject a pretty girl? And what if she rejects me first?

Humans want the things they can't easily have and people hate to get rejected specially good looking girls who aren't used to facing rejection. But again the question is how will you do it? Well here is an example...While talking to a girl drop in the following line-

You are real pretty no doubt...But I don't think you are my type...I mean you seem like too much of a good girl to me.

And this is where you have rejected her successfully.

By doing this not only did you become a unique guy in her eyes but now she will choose you over other guys because other guys give her easy approval and no one has the guts to reject her.

But you are the guy who is too hard to get for her and she would have to work extra hard to earn your attention. As long as you act this way...Girls will always give you a higher priority in comparison to other guys.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=euS_gBOUIRA

A lot of guys tend to get extra nervous when they are being tested by a female. But a common fact most men do not understand is that it's common female nature to test men in fact females test men all the time.

And the interesting thing is that most men aren't even aware of it. There are some sure fire ways to tackle the female tests and get her back even when she is playing too hard to get. Read on to discover some of the most interesting ways on how this can be done...

Don't fall into her trap...I repeat...Don't fall into her trap...

Most guys end up falling into the female trap the moment she starts questioning the guy. Here is a common example of this...A female might say to you-

I don't date guys like you...Sorry!

A lot of guys take this too seriously and often end up falling into the trap. A fact you must understand is that females don't often say what they mean or mean what they say.

If she says she won't date guys like you then it doesn't really mean she wont date you. What she is truly asking you here is to prove your true self worth to her. She is asking you- Tell me why I should date you? Therefore here is how you should tackle this...Respond by saying something like-

We've just met...And you are already thinking about dating me. Take it slow sister

And bam...This is where you will get your power back because not only did you reject her comment but at the same time are testing her out by saying this.

Agree and exit tactic...

This is another extremely strong tactic you can use when a woman is trying to test you or is playing too hard to get. The last thing a woman would want a man to do is to just ignore her comment and act as if her statement didn't make much difference.

And this is exactly what you will do using this tactic. For instance if a woman says-

You are not that good looking...I only date good looking guys...

You should respond by saying-

I know I am too hard to handle for you...You should find one of those Barbie faced guys who act all nice and cuddly. We won't get along anyway...

And exit after saying that. When you tackle the situation this way not only would this leave her confused but she will also feel massive amounts of attraction towards you.

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If you think that men are the only ones lusting after women you are wrong. Women too lust after men but the man has to be "lustable". You will find some men who are worshipped by their women and some whose girlfriend makes him hump through hoops! If you are the first kind, you don't need to read this article, but if you fall in the second category then read on as you will find out how you can get a girl to kiss you:

Get those kissable lips
Step one to getting a girl to kiss you is to have imminently kissable lips. No matter how much girls dig cowboys, when it comes to kissing, they will choose the metrosexual man any day! Take care of your lips! So to take care of your lips use a chapstick.

If your lips are really chapped and hard cut, use a good dollop of Vaseline before the date night and brush gently with a baby toothbrush. You will have baby soft lips. But do take care that you don't give her competition in the beauty department. At the end your lips should look soft and moisturized.

Build her interest

When you meet her keep her interest alive. Women get stimulated by cerebral conversation. Try to find out about her interests and build your conversations around it. Try to keep conversations light and witty and do try to sound like an intelligent yet sensitive person.

Be flirty

While all the intellectual conversation is going on try to flirt a little. With flirting you are establishing a premise of something physical in your expectation. Be an ingenious, witty and charming flirt. Women find such men irresistible.

Have good dental hygiene

Bad breath can kill the most stimulating of all conversations. You can NEVER get a girl to kiss you no matter how good looking you are or how rich you are if you have bad breath. So take care of your dental hygiene. Make sure that you brush your teeth and floss before you head out for that date. Also remember that mouthwash is one of the most important inventions when it comes to keeping bad breath at bay!

If you still don't feel confident enough about your breath, have some breath mints. Avoid the gum as they are not as effective as mints and a man chewing gum does not look like he is interested in getting kissed.

Look at her lips
Don't forget to gaze into her eyes while talking as this makes you look interested in her. But more importantly, keep glancing at her lips. This will send signals to her brain triggering the need to kiss you.

Keep the touching light
Keeping the touching light and easy makes sure that physical comfort that has been established. Lean into her slowly as if you mean to kiss her but move away slowly. As you build her anticipation her need to kiss you will become greater!

Don't be nervous
It's but natural to feel a little or a lot nervous when you are out on this mission. But make sure that you don't show your nervousness; instead project an image of the confident, interesting and sensitive man with élan and ease. You can be assured that by the time the evening is over your girl will have made the first move and will have kissed you!

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When you are out on a date for the first time you would like to hit the sack with the girl by the time the night is over. But the truth is that you are nervous and apprehensive about even getting a kiss from her leave alone sacking up with her. So here are a few helpful tips that will help you to get to French kiss a girl easily before the evening is up!

Get ready for the action
Take care to dress carefully but begin with taking a nice hot shower so that you clean up good. Use good cologne but don't go overboard as too much of cologne or perfume can give a headache. Also keep your lips well moisturized and chap free. You should aim at looking naturally sexy, well groomed and well dressed. By doing so you shall be proving visual stimulation for the woman as she will not be interested in kissing a guy who is sloppy and smells bad!

Take care of your breath
Bad breath can be a mood killer! You can rest assured that if your breath smells bad the girl will not come anywhere close to you leave alone let you French kiss her. So use breath mints to have minty fresh breath! Use these mints before you meet the girl but don't keep popping them while you are with her as that sends wrong signals to her.

Make the evening interesting
To be able to get to French kissing you will have to work a bit hard and make the evening interesting. Take interest in what she likes and what her interests are and build a strong and intellectually stimulating conversation. Be witty and make her laugh. You will get brownie points if you make her feel that you are genuinely interested in what she has to say. Gaze into her eyes, casually touch her hand a little and look at her lips. Send out the signals that you find her enthralling intellectually and physically.

Be charming and take her permission
Women love gentlemen. So be a little old fashioned but exceedingly charming and take her permission to kiss her. Say something like, "You are so beautiful that I cannot help but kiss you. So may I?" This will be a surprise for her and a very gentlemanly gesture from your side.

Don't rush for the kiss
When she says yes, don't lunge at her. Start slowly and stop close to her lips for just a second before you kiss her. This will help in building the excitement and will also build her desire to get kissed. Kiss her first with your mouth closed slowly and gently and then stop but don't move away. Kiss her again slowly in the same way. This will make her feel comfortable with you and will help her ease up.

Don't play tonsil tennis
After the second kiss move away for just a bit and see if she leans on to you. If she does give her a few more teasers before you actually kiss her. Build her anticipation but don't delay so much that she loses interest and pulls away.

Slowly part your lips and let her be the one to take the initiative of introducing the tongue. When she does so, you are free to do the same. But don't begin to play tonsil tennis. Be gentle and sensual and soft yet masculine! The evening will get a lot more eventful than what you had anticipated

Don't grope!
If you want the French kissing to continue and the evening to be a lot more eventful don't even try to grope her while kissing. Don't envelop her in your embrace and kill her of asphyxiation! Keep the kissing slow and brief so that the anticipation keeps building up!

Watch this video for more:


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Men and women speak different languages. You have to understand that your knowledge of a girl's hot buttons and intimacy issues can backfire on you at anytime because girls are unpredictable creatures. The way to make the most of your knowledge is to recognize what sensitivities are triggered at different situations.

In other words, it's a hit or miss thing. It takes experience to be able to determine when a girl is ready to be kissed or not. To get some clarity, look at the examples translating to female readiness.

Another glass of wine? Agree and drink up because she is more than ready to hook up after dinner and a few more drinks. But if you offer another round of drinks and she begs off then you're not going to score. Try again next time.

Looks matter. Women get prepped and ready for a date they actually like. If she shows up in jeans and t-shirt on your first dinner date, you better find another woman to entice. But if she shows looking like one hot number, that's a whole different ball game for you.

The whole experience is a good indicator, too. Looks can only go so far. By looks we mean the hair, clothes and shoes. You need to identify other factors when you meet your date. See how she speaks, the tone of her voice and everything else from her natural smell to the perfume she wears to the lotion she uses. If they all make you feel good then trust it. She must be ready for something other than dinner and drinks.

Eye contact. Very few people have the ability to make eye contact. So long as she's making eye contact while you're talking means she's entranced. You don't need to study to tell that a woman who locks eyes with you is ready for more intense and personal bond.

Her Attention. The way she gives you her 100% attention is a good indicator that she's interested. You might have been to some dates wherein the girls were more interested in the people around you. So you should know when your date has only eyes for you. It speaks volumes and you should be able to hear this. Otherwise, you're letting one good chance pass you by.

If she fumbles or takes her sweet time getting her keys from her bag while you walk her to her door means only one thing. She's waiting to be kissed. You've seen this move in movies.

If she touches you way too much. Touch communicates everything from rejection and fear to intimacy and willingness.

Watch this video for more:


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When you embark on a journey to meet women, the one thing that you should arm yourself with is attitude. What you should worry about when it comes to dating women is to be labelled as a regular Joe. Remember this: it is likely better to be hated than to be ignored.

When you stimulate other people's emotion, there is a way for you to redeem yourself, but when people, particularly women, labelled you as someone who is not worthy of being hated or liked, then it is game over for you. Fading into the background is something that you do not want to happen. So, here are the proven tips on how to make women chase you:

Be confident of yourself...It's lays the basic foundation of dating success...
You should be a person who knows what he is doing and who is not easily influenced and controlled by others. This also means that you are not influenced by her. A lot of men will sit there going "gaga" over women, doing every single thing she asks, such as buying her, AND her friends all the drinks they want, and anything else they like.

At the end of the night, however, her and her friends would go home, and you would go home feeling like an idiot, which just showed them how easily you can be manipulated. In the end it all leads back to your confidence level, which can either allow you to control the situation, or be controlled, your choice.

Do not chase her...Hungry dog always struggles...
Sometimes, there is a positive side to being aloof. If a girl is making you chase after her, then do not give in. This will make her think twice as to why you not chasing her. In effect, you should have this mindset that you could not care less whether or not she comes back. Just relax and be yourself.

She should want you at the end of the day anyways, not the other way around. Yes, you can like her, but don't show it as of yet, because that only makes you appear to be really pathetic in her eyes. You must show her that you are the prize to be won, so that she feels like spending her time with you in the first place.

[b]Make her see that you have a social life...Women want to be around guys who know how to have fun... [/b]This will not only make you more interesting in the eyes of women, but you would feel more fulfilled and happier with yourself. Remember that your life does not have to revolve around women. Get involved with things that you love to do. It is fun to have women do the chasing, but it is way better to enjoy your own life.

Women are naturally attracted to men who seem to be popular, as if you have a lot of women around you, she will assume there must be something great about you. What will happen is that she will want to know more about you because of it.

[b]Become a person of character...[/b]Stop settling for anything but the best... You ought to have a set of high standards guiding you life, and show them as much as you possibly can. A person who has values is dependable, and also show her that you have goals and know what you want out of life.

When she asks you questions, have direct answers, rather than the typical "I don't know" or obvious answers. Intrigue her with your life, and what you want out of it, so that she can see why she should become a part of it.

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Getting the girl you want to like you and let her give you her phone number is not that hard at all. You need not be a player to be able to get a girls phone number. But why are guys getting so frustrated when they can't seem to get the job done?

They don't seem to know what to do. I am giving you easy tips below and by using these tips, you will definitely get a girl's number easily. Do not stress over it too much so that you will be able to do it as I smooth as you can. Use these tricks to get her number fast....

Get info -
• First, you have to get all the information that you can about the girl so that you know what to talk about when you get to encounter the girl and so that she will be as comfortable as she can be.

• Remember, first impressions last and it is not about you but it is about her. Give her your undivided attention. She will be impressed and will want to speak to you with common things of interest.

• Before you separate ways ask for her number and tell her that you want to talk to her more. She will be obliged to give you her number. Make sure you are confident because she will smell a cowardly cat a mile away.

Make her comfortable -

• The easiest way to make a girl feel comfortable is to make her smile and make her laugh.

• Being comfortable during conversations through laughter is a way to get her number easily even without you asking for it.

• If she needs help with anything you should offer your support. Trust me she will give you her number without you asking for it.

• You can also make her comfortable quickly and easily, by instantly establishing some physical contact. This could be a simple touch of her arm, or telling her she has something on her face, and lightly touching the region. Either way, physical contact early on will ease things up more quickly, and the faster you can do this, the more comfortable she will become around you to give out her information.

Engage in extremely interesting conversation -

• Make your conversations interesting and draw it towards what she likes. Inform her you want to continue your conversation over the phone tonight. She will give you what you want, that is her phone number.

• If you don't know what to talk about, remember that you can always tease her. You can even tease her based on what she is wearing, such as her shoes, or her clothes, or anything else. If she is short, you can say something like "I don't normally go for short girls, but you make short look cute".

• Some other great topics for conversation are Hollywood drama stories, and scandals. Everyone loves these kinds of things, because it is about someone else, and you can easily lighten up the conversation and show that you have standards, by doing a psychological analysis of others.

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