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Do You Know Getting Women To Like You Isn't As Hard As Most Guys Think It Is by RonCollins: 6:11pm On Oct 02, 2016
When you embark on a journey to meet women, the one thing that you should arm yourself with is attitude. What you should worry about when it comes to dating women is to be labelled as a regular Joe. Remember this: it is likely better to be hated than to be ignored.

When you stimulate other people's emotion, there is a way for you to redeem yourself, but when people, particularly women, labelled you as someone who is not worthy of being hated or liked, then it is game over for you. Fading into the background is something that you do not want to happen. So, here are the proven tips on how to make women chase you:

Be confident of yourself...It's lays the basic foundation of dating success...
You should be a person who knows what he is doing and who is not easily influenced and controlled by others. This also means that you are not influenced by her. A lot of men will sit there going "gaga" over women, doing every single thing she asks, such as buying her, AND her friends all the drinks they want, and anything else they like.

At the end of the night, however, her and her friends would go home, and you would go home feeling like an idiot, which just showed them how easily you can be manipulated. In the end it all leads back to your confidence level, which can either allow you to control the situation, or be controlled, your choice.

Do not chase her...Hungry dog always struggles...
Sometimes, there is a positive side to being aloof. If a girl is making you chase after her, then do not give in. This will make her think twice as to why you not chasing her. In effect, you should have this mindset that you could not care less whether or not she comes back. Just relax and be yourself.

She should want you at the end of the day anyways, not the other way around. Yes, you can like her, but don't show it as of yet, because that only makes you appear to be really pathetic in her eyes. You must show her that you are the prize to be won, so that she feels like spending her time with you in the first place.

[b]Make her see that you have a social life...Women want to be around guys who know how to have fun... [/b]This will not only make you more interesting in the eyes of women, but you would feel more fulfilled and happier with yourself. Remember that your life does not have to revolve around women. Get involved with things that you love to do. It is fun to have women do the chasing, but it is way better to enjoy your own life.

Women are naturally attracted to men who seem to be popular, as if you have a lot of women around you, she will assume there must be something great about you. What will happen is that she will want to know more about you because of it.

[b]Become a person of character...[/b]Stop settling for anything but the best... You ought to have a set of high standards guiding you life, and show them as much as you possibly can. A person who has values is dependable, and also show her that you have goals and know what you want out of life.

When she asks you questions, have direct answers, rather than the typical "I don't know" or obvious answers. Intrigue her with your life, and what you want out of it, so that she can see why she should become a part of it.

Watch this video for more:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozNTAUoK81c

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