thanks all i have fully decided come what may, am leaving both of them.

am just suggestion oh, i mean not telling you the honest truth is she would argue over having anything to do with the guy.
Deep in your heart, do you honestly love her?
i means girls not having hats means their several beautiful lady over here and also across the earth looking for a guy.

i use to work for FOUNTAIN TRUST BANK, when i was in Nigeria and my take home was around 68,000 for fresher and now that i work in the UK my salary is,

Idekeson hey why say such a thing? why should a man pay my house rent when i have a good and paying job. the first man use too before i got my job! and the second guy gave me a car for my birthday last year so? am not dating or marrying because of money!

i think a suprise party would do!

chinani it was the married man, honestly i didn't know how he got my dad so involved, i feel like traveling or getting my self out and you know what my dad is? is that kind of people that over read those days and he feels he might be good because he told him he has a cambridge.   AM CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

seun i should be very honest with you, i once had a boy like that and the idea of us having our password broke us up.we felt very unhappy and i know you would find your self in this positions too,
1. you cant sleep
2. you will feel insecured
3. you will feel like getting somebig money somewhere to buy her over
4. you feel jealous unnecessarily
seun if i happen to be in her shoes, I WONT TELL YOU THE HONEST TRUTH but let her know that you have her password somehow and you know she's been Cheating.
Seun i know very sure the man over here wont marry her when ther's a lot of babes without hat so?
or do u want me to sakara her?

Thanks to all. Can you believe this first man contacted my Daddy and told my dad everything! painting himself very good and a decent son-in-law. my dad called tonight and he said a lot.
all i could say was tears because i did not know when i enter this trap.

Larry D thanks for your advice, when i broke up with the first guy, i tried the second one but its nothing to write home about, honestly if i marry the second guy i will be the man of the house, he not as strong as i want my man to be.

Taking a break? My organization wouldn't grant me one now!

am not the one! her name is kemi you can mail her back on kemisow@hotmail.co.uk

looking for love? ve got a friend who is too shy to come out for love. any body interested

Age 26yrs
sex F
location London

are you the right guy?

baby girl just be wise and careful not to lead you into temptations!

rose honestly you feel my heart. thanks!

oasis what kind of challenge are you talking about?

why did you have to be unsecured about your baby? men that goes far searching or making en quires makes me sad somehow! well i feel what you should do is to forward one of the mails to a friends box, tell your friend to send a copy to her and to you so you can bring the matter up without her knowing you have her password.
with that i think she can explain and ask for forgiveness if she likes you!

i can't date someone who is fully married, when i met him he was heart broken, he caught the mother of his son in bed with his cousin. he was very deserted. according to chinani, i can't be that heartless to date someone who is fully engaged but during my first few month with him he never told me he had gone to a registry with her.
His mother and the other family are not in support of his far with the lady any more.
I know he's a very caring father to his son!

thanks seun its not has easy has you have just adviced, the last time we parted ways he almost committed suicide.

What Do I Do? Am So Confused

i m 24 years and i am so confused with my life at this stage, i have a very good and paying job but indecision is killing me softly, i have 2 boys right now and am so confused, am a very beautiful and very talented young lady, i seems to be in love with this boy who happens to frustrate me, this relationship started in may last year when i needed help and he was there for, got a house for me, paid my bills even send money back home.

the change came when i got my current job and he suspected that if i work there, my direct boss would ask me out, i managed and played the good girl for him to agree for me to start, when i started it, it was hell, one day my boss was just trying to confirm something from me on a sunday, he was beside, immediately he knew it was my boss, he collected the phone from me, called him back telling him Today is sunday not working hour call her or see in office on Monday. he held me so strong that if felt hurt and later he came back to apologize and we moved on.

After 4 month of our relationship i got a clue that he was married and i confronted him, he said the lady comes to the house because they had the mortgage in their name(the lady has a son for him about 4 years) he said to me they were not married legally.

I am very gifted in dream, early this year i had a dream that he got married to the lady and they are living together, i called him on the phone and i asked him to come over to my house, when he came i gave him a Bible and i told him to tell me the truth and i promised him that i wont use that against him, that was when the bomb shell broke! he was married to the lady in a registry when she got pregnant and the lady is living with him but he said he,s buying another house which would be ready, i accepted and i know very sure this boy spent most as 90% of is time with me and i believe he loves me too, even his junior bro was even jealous our our affair.

like the proverb every day is for the thief and one day is for the owner, he came to my house and he checked his mail, he forgot to sign out and i read his mail telling another girl Friend Nigeria that he has just moved to his newly completed house.
i felt frosted and i decided to teach him a lesson. the mistake i made was that i confronted him and i told him i was coming to his house that night, when i got there his car wasn't parked outside and i knew that he wasn't staying there anymore but the problem was he denied, swearing, cursing etc, the other time i left him for 2weeks he almost committed suicide what do i do? he has a wife and kid at home and he is on my neck?

secondly the second boy there is nothing so special about him, he not my kind of man at all, thou he dieing to marry me, he knew my relationship with the other party but he doesn't mind, he told his mum to call me and beg on his behalf for him to marry me.
Its very strange he's not my kind of boy at all,thou is tall and good looking but he has this local characteristics in him and i don't like that, people say i can change him but the love is not there! how can i grow love for this?

i need to settle down or may be look for another one, the first boy is my kind of boy but , i need you to advice me!

before i taught RMD was the most handsome of all until i met him i was so disappointed.

the question makes me laugh! i wonder what the country is turning to when people who cannot even spell their names have a 2.1. i work as a psychologist in a big organization in London, recently we stated recruiting and holding a very sensitive position i shortlisted my self all because i want my fellow Nigerians to join my organization, i shortlisted many Nigerians, the day of the interview was the most embarrassed day of my life as a master degree holders can even define what they studied in the university i was so ashmed that i could not continue with the interview. so i wonder where on earth did these certificate come from!

As i can define a player is
A guy who doesn't want you to know his home, his house phone, always scared of holding or touching you in public, A guy who is over jealous, who is always suspecting you of your actions, a guy who doesn't want you to associate or mingle with friends, a guy who doesn't want you to know or want you to talk to his friend concerning him, a guy who prefers to be in your home rather than his home!, a guy who doesn't pick his phone in your presence even if he does there's always something to hide about his manner and approach on phone. but not ALL GUYS are players but most of them are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ladies make we shine our eye well well!

men in power are so greedy that someone like OBJ would like to go for a third term! He's suppose to be in grieving period not trying to go for the 3rd term.

am happy for you, how come? are you suppose to be on the flight or you missed it accidentally?

well somehow am excited to hear that there's big bro in nigeria atleast lets see how it goes, !