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Worriedwife:
This issue has been disturbing me, I had to create a new id to get advice 'anonymously', maybe someone else who has gone through this can help. My husband's dress sense is poor, his shoes look like weapons...pointed mouth with very heavy soles. His colour combination is something else. He is a good-looking young man but dresses like an old man.
Go shopping with him. Choose his wardrobe to your taste. Condemn the old stuff. Then encourage him to wear the same dress with you (you guys should wear traditional/modern dresses sewn from the same clothing material; and be sure to get a good seamstress).
It makes me not to find him sexy, even his boxers look like soccer shorts.
Whenever we go out, people look at him like he's my gate man. The other day, we went to visit some family friends and someone there said, we don't look like we came out from the same house.

You know how people can be, news have been going around that I am spending all his money on myself while he goes about tattered. My in-laws are also part of the rumour mongers. I have tried to teach him, but he's not ready to learn. Before the usual didn't you know when you married him questions, I knew. He kept saying I am just a girlfriend and I want to change him. Now I am his wife, he still won't change.

Please, what can I do? Won't it be rude if I throw his old wears away?
We recently moved to PH, I don't know my way around yet. Things look expensive here, where can I shop at a fair rate?
I need practical solutions. Thank you all

rasie:
Help me ask them. I know that's what they'll comment that's why I forewarned them. And if you ask them ,they haven't done theirs. I know how i felt the last time I checked mine (before the result came) .and i don't like that feeling

KissChrix:
You're the closest to My birthday I've ever seen

zolaman:
When your Husband insist on Pounded Yam
What will you do?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0DN1qGNFy8

Broadsway:
My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with?

Tnx

Taiofil:
Cleavages are attractive depending on kinda chest the lady has ...to me its only attractive if boobs areround and full.. Buh generally i dont see why they make noise abt it.

Presh900:
Are you gay??

xamster:
The cleavage have a magnetic force that compels a dude's attention.
@ op, have u tried talking to a lady that bares her cleavage before without stealing glance to that region. It ain't possible except one is gay. It's more like the reflex ability of the eye. You can't help it. Nature only understands impulse

TeleboiZ005:
Bruh pls are u human at all??....
U c a woman's cleavage nd ur a man!
U dnt feel anytin abi
abeg ask anoda question cuz...

osinbanjoisaliar:
Chai, so even Saint Buhari knows how to share Ghana Must Go. My fellow Nigerians, it is Finished.