 Crime › Re: Protest Going On In Port Harcourt Due To The Escaped Murderer Of 8yr Old Girl by royalamour(m): 3:22pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Josephjnr:
Personally, I see those who protest or claim to be activist for something as being part of the problem rather than solution. There are other ways one's voice can be heard. #Bring back our girls# frustrated a lot of people but failed to mention dying soldiers and never did any of them go to Sambisa to help return one of the chibok girls. Easy said than done. So if you can't do,shutp up and let those that are trying do rather than insulting and frustrating their effort. They should let police do their jobs for this is not the first time someone is escaping from custody.it happens all round the World. I wonder if your comment is about this post or you are trying to test your comprehension skill. Either ways, you ended up not making any sense. |
| Politics › Re: FFK, Fayose Don't Want Buhari Alive - Lauretta Onochie by royalamour(m): 6:46am On Aug 23, 2017 |
I think she's always high on some cheap things I can't lay my hands on yet. |
| Politics › Re: North Is North, There Is No Middle Belt — Yahaya Kwande by royalamour(m): 11:58pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
DateMynd44:
cry me a river. U minorities in the north make up the hausa fulani and we see u middle belt as part of Arewa.
Whether u like it or not. NORTH CENTRAL, NW, NE are all One under Arewa. Kiss the truth Your opinion is irrelevant just like a droplet of water on hot desert sand. Anyways, you re noticed. Pls shift. |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Orders Military To Deal With Biafra Security Service, Boko Haram by royalamour(m): 7:07pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
perez100:
A new group is formed from a non violent group, and the new group has never done any harm to anybody yet they become your nightmare despite not bearing arms. But what is the need for the group in the first place? Why were they formed? This is a treasonable offense. |
| Politics › Re: North Is North, There Is No Middle Belt — Yahaya Kwande by royalamour(m): 7:07am On Aug 22, 2017 |
Mr. Ambassador, we can never be part of the north.
Never! We have more than enough resources to last us billions of years.
You see we don't need and want you. |
| Family › Re: How Can I Solve This Issue Without Causing Tension In My Family by royalamour(op): 3:36am On Aug 22, 2017 |
elektra:
You wife is the best person to handle this situation. Siblings are able to scold each other and still be in good standing. She should have talked to her brother by now. Put pressure on her to tel him to move out. If she doesn't then you have no option but to do it yourself!
Does your wife work? Is she contributing financially to your family? Yes she works, I just established an on ground and an online store for her at the moment. I am not expecting anything from her until maybe 5 months when sales would have increased significantly. |
| Family › Re: How Can I Solve This Issue Without Causing Tension In My Family by royalamour(op): 3:32am On Aug 22, 2017 |
Acidosis:
45k on food for 6-7 weeks? Are you sure everyone is feeding well? They do... I stock both refrigerators up with the necessary beverages and others. I only deemed it fit to use the price of normal naija food stuffs. But that's not the point. What do I do in this case? |
| Family › Re: How Can I Solve This Issue Without Causing Tension In My Family by royalamour(op): 9:04pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
eezeribe:
45,000 naira on food items in 6-7weeks... Things must really be cheap in your area.
And to your post,you are the head of your home... Stand up and make decisions.
I don't like the fact that your wife's brother brings random girls to your house...it's wrong.
For your wife's other siblings who want to come over for holiday... I don't see anything wrong in it (it's one of the aspects of African marriages),although the size of your pocket determines how welcomed they would be.
lalasticlala,Mynd44 We were just two until he came along. But that is minus the gas refilling, the meat and fish thing. Can't even buy soap for my son without considering him sharing in it anymore. |
| Family › How Can I Solve This Issue Without Causing Tension In My Family by royalamour(op): 8:30pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
We got married in 2015 and our union is blessed with beautiful boy.
The mistake I made was to relocate to our state capital. Reason was that as an environmental consultant,
most of my clients are in the hinterlands.
Another of my undoing was that I rented a two bedroom apartment; One a master's bedroom and the other normal one.
Just few weeks after our relocation, my brother in-law (Wify's elder brother) left his place of primary assignment in another state to pay us a visit and to see the girl he was dating at that time.
Just a week later, he pleaded with me to let his girlfriend stay in the house for few days pending when he was
able to sort her accommodation out. Days graduated into weeks and then months, when I queried, he had to move her elsewhere.
Things got worst when I traveled for two weeks. By the time, I returned, he had moved some of his clothes in my wardrobe with excuse that he
couldn't find a place to hang his clothes. I asked my wife to tell him to remove them which she promised to do.
Things got worst when he started bringing random girls to my house anytime we are away at work.
Despite the fact that he get his NYSC allowance regularly, he uses my son's soap, my perfume and body spray whenever he wants to go out.
He has in slow succession moved into my house.
Now my wife's two siblings have been disturbing us that they want to come and spend their summer holiday with us (Another set of loads)
Now I spend almost 45,000 NGN on food items within 6-7 weeks.
Question is, how can ask this guy to leave my house in a polite way?
I am tired. |
