My husband after a long phase of disagreement with him over infidelity ones told me he no longer continue with any extra marital affairs. however he kept on late hour chatting as late as 1-2am. i once saw one of the gfriend no calling him very late at night so i de NNcided to call d girls mum to ask her daughter to stay away from my husband. my husband got angry. am i to keep quiet and pretend his saying d truth even when there is evidence his lying. Pls i will appreciate if only mature minds can give me sincere advise cos my head is just spinning with confusion cos i dont just want to accept cheat in my marriage for any flimsy excuse.

Family planning is something that needs to be introduced into secondary school curriculum to get the information across to all starting from there cos its not all students that will study beyond this level and as such may not have the priviledge to know about it. Another important place to pass this education is churches mosque and antenatals for pregnant women. The importance is great particularly in the health of d woman whose health is majorly affected through child bearing. family planning enables u to have just the number of children u think u can afford to train without putting their neccesities into jeorpady cos of poverty, enables d woman to remain strong, elegant, remain in good shape and not losing her life through numerous child bearing process

Thanx everyone for ur advice. i really appreciate. i have been praying 4 him for good undeniably cos i love him unconditionally but each time i think of his promiscous life it weakens my spirit and breaks me down. if he attributes it to lack of attention or care from me i think i will say his just being selfish cos u dont expect d same tempo of everthing we had when we started to just remain d same when children have been involved. otherwise he should have constant outings with us to beach and entertainment places thats where r/latnships r been renewd. better stil bring in a nanny 4 d kids.

The worst u should think of now should be going 4 an abortion. God condems it, d bible speaks against t, its inhumane to d foetus and unjustifiable. take responsibility of d pregnancy even if u dont want to marry d woman or go ahead and marry her if u so wish from ur heart not under pressure u will be glad u did when u see ur child grows. mind u, u initiated by sleeping with her in d first place. If u do otherwise d blood of d innocent foetus may cry for justice and u r committing a 2nd sin of murder after d 1st of of defying d bed before marriage.

My heart is aching that i need to talk to someone so i can feel a little relieved. i have been married for atleast eight yrs, i have been so loving and caring to my husband and above all VERY FAITHFUL. he knows all these yet he most times shows little or no concern about it for the past 3 or 4yrs now. my most heart breaking problem now is his promiscuity is beyond what i can imagine my own husband to be part of. he flirts with both young girls and old ladies far older that him. He is 33+ n am 31 we have 4kids yes he foots our feeding bills but never worries about our looks nor spends time with us. rather he uses every little time he stays in house to chart with his laptop or pin with his bb. ones i decided to. have a proper check with d bb phone he use to use before he gave it to me 4 a new one my heart bleed with his promiscous charts pons and sms i saw. when i try to questions him concrning it he turn it into fight and later blocked the phone and i can only call. receive or sms. What can i do cause our marriage is gradually sinking cos no more life of relationship or romance in it. pls help with drastic ideas i can use to comfront him .realistically

My heart is aching that i need to talk to someone so i can feel a little relieved. i have been married for atleast eight yrs, i have been so loving and caring to my husband and above all VERY FAITHFUL. he knows all these yet he most times shows little or no concern about it for the past 3 or 4yrs now. my most heart breaking problem now is his promiscuity is beyond what i can imagine my own husband to be part of. he flirts with both young girls and old ladies far older that him. He is 33+ n am 31 we have 4kids yes he foots our feeding bills but never worries about our looks nor spends time with us. rather he uses every little time he stays in house to chart with his laptop or pin with his bb. ones i decided to. have a proper check with d bb phone he use to use before he gave it to me 4 a new one my heart bleed with his promiscous charts pons and sms i saw. when i try to questions him concrning it he turn it into fight and later blocked the phone and i can only call. receive or sms. What can i do cause our marriage is gradually sinking cos no more life of relationship or romance in it. pls help with drastic ideas i can use to comfront him .realistically

It is quite unfortunate to be in this type of situation cos its as painful as a deep cut especially when u have decided to love ur husband without reservation. to me i think you stay calm. ask him politely concerning the damp of his underwear but expect quarrel cos he may chose that in order to avoid explaination of d real fact. put it in prayer constantly and God will salvage the situation as it is he may be into MASTURBATION.