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So u are gonna ignore her totally cos U want to date her nd she doesn't feel that way too?. Bros chill, relationship is a two way thing nd if she doesn't want to date u but want u as a friend, den b what she wants...'a friend'. Because u love something doesn't mean u must 'own it'... Be her friend, work on urself nd get another girlfriend if u so badly need one. If u guys were ever meant to date, trust me it would all work out at the end... But just know dat pressuring dis girl into dating umay actually b the beginning of the end of ur frndship with her...

See as im pack editing full d profile pic... Na wa o

Blood of Zachariah! What exactly were u watching

Maturity is not ur number of years... Its how developed ur brain cells are... *

Some people are just damn mean... I fear humans

witorwitoutyou:
uote author=Royle2014 post=43037583]Cos it's Nigeria? Dont u see dis type of stuff in parks etc in the western world? ... Embrace change jor!
So because it's a norm in western world automatically makes it a rite tin to do,smh such a slavery and MYOPIC mind

Brother... I'm not the one with the myopic mind here... U deciding to judge wat is wrong or right with a restricted view to d Nigerian society is d one with a myopic mind... PDA (public display of affection) is really not all dat cool but I'm just letting u know dat it is a norm in western societies
The argument is not whether or not this is right or wrong... U are no Saint nd I'm certain u do worse things behind closed doors...
That said, if u feel offended by my opinion..... Move on nd plz dnt quote me again. Tenk u

Cos it's Nigeria? Dont u see dis type of stuff in parks etc in the western world? ... Embrace change jor!

I am a free thinker and there is something about these kind of stories that jabs at d fibres of my mind.
Now obviously the girl has a bf and from all indications she luvs d said bf... Why cant Sammy just let that relationship be nd try another girl
Men complain nd rant on how unfaithful ladies can be, but we are our own enemies. A lady tells u that she has a bf already and u still pester her, hoping she changes her mind (nd d human mind can easily be remoulded by passing same consistent nd unchanged messages) but alas, her change of mind would b to d detriment of her previous relationship nd definitely the other guy gets hurt... Isnt this just pure wickedness? U expect a woman to b faithful to u wen u snatched her from d hrt of another man? Karma would serve ur full plate of hrtbrk when another guy pesters her as well nd replaces u...
Once a lady tells u she is in a relationship nd u know definitely well that this is true nd it is not just a 'playing hard to get gimmick', why not let her be and allow the other man enjoy the relationship he labored hard enough to create?...
Man is a competitive animal no doubt...but how do we get faithful better halves when we dont encourage them to b faithful? Advice ur frnd to leave that girl alone... She is TAKEN

OP... I just finished reading one hefty chapter of my biopharmaceutics text nd I cant read dis ya long epistle gan... Summary abeg

Why would she gain 100 pounds in d first place... She dey craze?

Lol... U are a fine young man nd with more money u'd get u anything... Yes u do have a striking resemblance with whizkid anyways(first pic) ... But then again it wouldn't mean anything if u don't end up being as successful as he is nd even more ...

A logical mind would look at this conversation and tell u point blank that 'u wana consider this guy, but cos of sopolu u are having doubts'... Do not use Sopolu as the fall plan for not accepting his request cos as long as u keep doing that, dude would try to convince u that its nothing... U want him to stop chatting u up? Simple just make dis clear to him;
I CANNOT DATE U
COS I DONT LIKE U
AND WE CANNOT B FRIENDS
PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE BEFORE I START INSULTING U... thats how u cut someone off mrs 'I'm not into the opposite sex'

Truth is... This girl is gna leave u without consideration if the so called ex asks for a reconciliation... So now dat ur head is still above the ocean of luv...plz brk up with her, but dont become enemies with her, keep her as a friend till she is emotionally detached from d other guy... But shld u chose not to brk up, just have it in mind dat ur relationship is headed nowhere so u don't get shocked too nuch wen she dumps u

The feeling was just too good that I wasn't counting *sobs

If dats ur picture on ur profile den I would say 'U HAVE NO RIGHT TO COMPLAIN' B**bs are sexy on a woman no doubt but lets not forget their primary aim; To breastfeed ur babies nd no matter how small u think they are...ur babies won't complain (But mummy, why my feeding bottle small la... See baby Uche own! )
Now down to the bf part, with that face of urs, u would even have a hard time telling guys off (ur pretty) nd moreover if someone is to like/luv u... He should like d entire package (fine face, small brezzz, small yansh etc)... One can never have it perfectly in life nd i can count fingers nd point names (xowi for the skips in grammar... im not as drink as you may thunk I am) at girls that would readily exchange their boobs for a face half as cute as urs... So build up that self esteem dear (throws bricks at her) nd jump into the shower with ur frnds... Dats d only way ur confidence would gain a gradual boost, pretty soon dey would stop teasing u wen dey figure u don't give a care about it anymore. Rock what u have dear! Some people have other major problems like poverty nd hunger nd terminal illnesses for u to stress over such minor issues... Cheers

Diddyydiva:
Am serious

So leme picture this
U walk around wearing a sleevless shirt with one or both arms in the air for people to trip nd fall for u.... #Diddyydiva... I wee start fearing u as from today

Diddyydiva:
What

Of all d parts of the human anatomy... U picked ur armpit?... Lol... Seriously?

Diddyydiva:
My armpit

Oh my God

prahcetomi:
I no know dat one ooo...na Liu kang,cyrax nd co I know.

Lol... My brother the correct spelling na ' Shao Kahn' but as our oga at the top don change am to 'sharukhan'... I nor wan just laff am... Later em go talk say Royle don dey laff oga at the top..

prahcetomi:
who be that o?

Mortal Kombat character

WHATSAPP... SAVES YOU FROM ALOT OF CALLS

Na wa... My nose I guess nd my flat stomach... Yes definitely... Plus I'm tall

U can't ever forget who u truly loved... They will always be a part of ur memory... Moving on means accepting that the relationship is over nd banishing all hope that you guys would come back together.
Dont hate her
Dont force urself to forget loving her
Not all things are going to last in life
Just try nd luv ur new girl, nd stop comparing ur new girl to ur ex... Just love wholeheartedly again (If ur the type that luvs)

Poverty! It reduces man to the lowest of low...

Verily Verily I say unto thee... These shall b signs of the end... 'Many shall craze but only a few would roam"

Emac34:
[b]ordoOn means handsome boy in my tribe[\b]no bdy should quote me

Thank God I didn't quote him o 0_0

It's blurry.... Errrr.. Yes

Lol

Seun! Another one of ur members have smoked Sambisa weed again o

I rarely do this... Buh u cute! Welcome to the forum *hands mic over to the mail bombardment guys... New project!

Go radio silent. Its a very simple yet difficult task to follow, but if u do it correctly nd strictly, it may b d only shot at getting her back or moving on swiftly (win win)...
When a lady tells u she needs space, her brain automatically rewires nd she creates a mental picture of u begging her (dats why begging never works cos she anticipated it). Do the opposite of what she expects u to do... Do NOTHING! (dats right! Nothing)
Dont call her
Dont text her
Dont whatsapp
Dont fb stalk her
Dont answer her calls for the nxt 3 weeks (4 weeks recommended)
If u have played ur part well during ur dating period nd she really had feelings for u, trust me she would miss ur attention nd try to reconnect (this is why u must not pick up when she calls cos if u pick up easily then boom! She knows she can get u wenever she wants nd u push her away permanently)
While on radio silence u may do the following
Grief
Cry ur eyes out (men do cry)
Go to a gym, a field, a party, a brothel ( I dont do that tho) etc... Just do something to keep u busy, BUT DONT CALL HER! GIVE HER AN ENTIRE GALAXY.
Relationships are not supposed to b games buh women have too many mind tricks....u just have to learn

Both of you were to quick to use the i love you word... Makes me feel like u dnt really knw what love is... Anyways sha... Congrats man! U just landed urself a gf