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missyQween:
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this is just wrong. Its not a must it should work out. If it doesn't, focus on ur life nd stop trying to make another person miserable

OP wait let me consult MR IBU, he gives the best relationship advice

Why would a right thinking human intentionally put himself up for embarrassing and derogatory comments from others just cos he wants to 'asslick' a woman? I mean cmon man! Grow some ego!

I could give you a remedy (its not an overnight cure) but you wouldn't use it tho... wanna know what that 'remedy' is?... ONION JUICE!

ur relationship with this girl ended the very day she left the shores of Nigeria. MOVE ON nd LET HER BE

Wow! Now all u need is a d@@k

Daughterzion:
Lets promote nature! guys can post too

Guys dont use artificial hair nau

No bro... The reason is what stares back at you when you look in d mirror.
Nxt time, pls do not associate the Holy Bible with evil...for it is written ' But I tell you, do not swear
an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is
God’s throne; or by the earth, for it is
his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the
city of the Great King. And do not swear
by your head, for you cannot make even
one hair white or black. All you need to
say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond
this comes from the evil one.' Matt 5:34-37

Kbeaut:
I don't get how some of you people claim to be Christians but yet have not one Christian bone in your body. This might not be your problem but for me I hold it inside everyday so it felt good to vent, but yet I am met with such negativity. Is it because none of you have never made mistakes? I didn't realize in the bible it was written to step on your fellow brothers and sisters at their weakest points. Or to add into negativity because you find someone's pain funny or you're bored. Let me go read my bible again. I guess I missed some parts. But I do remember where it said that you shouldn't judge others, for one day you will be judged on that same scale you judged another... K.

Alot of people are frustrated...nd they would find any possible means to vent. Alot of people here think being mean equates being funny nd cool but in retrospect...it tells how poorly educated and underdeveloped they are. Pay no mind whatsoever... Gather the relevant info u need from here and blatantly ignore the rest.
Nd I pray u move on quickly

I don't mean to be rude.... But u are definitely going to nag your husband so badly that d dude would prefer doing overtime at the office than come back home...

A successful relationship should have balance... Both parties shld b invested equally and be willing to make it work. Forget the fact that u chased her and asked her out etc... U are DATING now, there's no more chasing... So if she is not willing to swallow her pride sometimes and see reconciliation nd u are always on d PLEADING side... My brother abeg switch go another girl lane, this current lane don get pothole

What you feel is not new at all. I'm glad u finally had the courage to end this bondage in the guise of relationship that you were in.
How long you should hurt varies with how emotionally invested you were in this relationship nd for ur case, ur investment was pretty high (if u get dividends, u would be on Forbes magazine)... The first few weeks after a brkup are usually the toughest and u run d risk of relapsing but please dont. He may beg u, nd promise change but trust me, it takes alot of hardwook and dedication to change nd if you make up with him, u would notice same trends. What to do?
1 cry all u want to! Bury ur face in ur pillow and weep bitterly... Cry till u have no more emotions to draw tears from... The more u bottle up feelings inside u nd try to ignore what u feel for him, the longer your hrt would ache
2. Accept that both of u can not be together. He is not your soulmate. U guys were not meant to be... If it was, u would have worked out somehow... Dont hope to run into him in d future nd mayb start over again... Hope brings expectations... Expectations would hinder ur healing process.
3. Forgive him and forgive yourself.... Yes u feel stupid for falling in luv, and u are probably swearing never to love again. Forgive yourself, it is a blessing to experience love, it is a blessing to b able to sacrifice everything for the happiness of another person...not everyone in their lifetime would be capable of showing such love, so b happy u are capable of loving. U would love again... U would with time
4. Stay single for a while, dont jump into a rebound... U would end up hurting yourself.... Nd plz dont end up hating your ex, it would hinder ur moving on.... The opposite of love is not hate... It is INDIFFERENCE...

I saw mine not long ago... Nd I was like WTF?

Plz explain d purpose of this thread further @mrs presenter

Must it always revolve around gifts? Haba

We are the custodians of our own problems... U were very good friends already. The relationship was flowing well... U were almost owning d friendzone. She warned u nd tested u... Had it been u passed the test, she wouldn't have problems visiting u in d future nd someday hopefully (although relationships shldnt b about sex alone) u would have gotten ur utmost desire (sex no doubt)
Just let her be for now, U have done ur part in trying to make up. Dont chase any further. If she doesn't msg u, don't msg either...Just give her space...nd learn from ur mistakes. Sometimes, the first visit is a TEST

Lmai! Now dis is just MEAN

Stupid ass lie! She possibly cant write this well, talk more of writing this letter

IF they leave someone else for you. Whats the guarantee that she won't leave u for someone else. OP no matter how cool u are or how tight ur 'date game' is, there's always gonna b someone better. So if this girl is loving u, while stringing her supposed fiancee along, then she could as well b loving someone else while stringing you along

Oh my Lawd

The quicker man develops self sustained happiness nd stops seeking for affection nd love from others... The easier it would be on his heart.

Very nice instrumental nd a very catchy hook... U just need more lyrics (ur songs need to contain more lyrics nd not just repitions)... Overall U have a shot at stardom... Nice one

D question should be... 'are u faithful to him'?.... If u can stay for 3 yrs without cheating on him... Den why can't he? Don't let the seed of doubt grow in your mind...for the tree that cometh off it leads to destruction.

Op... Answer her question. How would you feel if ur girl left u for another person?. Leave dat girl alone nd try somewhere else...

I just luv how witty d writer is nd his comical use of words... Nice one

Social media baes have too much drama.
I believe in moderation anyways, but in d end, it's how much she really wants to be with you that matters

ladygudhead:
U guys will blast her but would still secretly add her.

Lmao... B4 nko

Lol. The guys for ur area nor do u?

This is too minor a reason to call off a relationship. Call her bro, dont let pride make u die in silence. U cant move on=u deeply loved her.
Call her... Tell her how hard it is for u to move on nd ask if she feels same way too. Ask her if u guys can start over nd give it a second try. If she stands by her decision of staying separated, den let her be. Its hard I know, but life has never been easy

sokotoburundi:
talked to her this evening...she just wants us to be friends... i let things go anyway...moving on to the next big thing

Thats d spirit. Ur mind is telling u how badly she is d one nd u won't find another one better,... But its all lies bro. There's always someone better