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FarinJini:
u no that relief when u discover say no be only ur house no get light but na general something? I'm actually GLAD una own no dey work too


lol sorry

e go be

Hmmm, make I no talk

Linus199:
even mtn

Yes jhare, I was wondering who I offended sef

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I have a Cubot Note plus with faulty screen for sale.
The phone is fully functioning just the screen that got damaged.
Battery in it is almost new and all the panel are intact.

I also have a separate new touch digitizer for it. So if anyone is interested in parts of this device.

Drop your number here so I can chat you up on WhatsApp.

smartluvu:
Hi house
What’s the price range of cubot note plus replacement screen+touch, and if it’s available?
Tnks

chat me up. I have one available

Fuzoma:
My WhatsApp : 0807 280 4794

oh I'm so sorry, I didn't see this response on time because you did not quote.

I have found a way to sort it out already but I have saved your number for another time purpose. I appreciate the early response sir.

Nl

Yusufisraelj:
but

More importantly make sure your woman obtains a skill that fetches her good money or she should obtain one. You goal right now is to build yourself and your lady spiritually, relationally (keep genuine people only in your space), mindset (read about marriage and life together), finances (understand how to seriously deal with poverty), Health (understand how to stay healthy) and your Career (learn how to expand your knowledge and become very competent in your skill or business)

@OP Golden147
Normally I don't comment on relationship advice like this because you would just get junk comments from people who barely use common sense and emphathy too but this guy has said the best advice in this page 1. (I read only pg 1 ooo)

But let me add a few points.

1. There is never actually a "ripe" period for marriage, so ignore all those BS saying you are not ready, half (more than half sef of those pple can't endure wat u av said or revealed nd not exposing their dirty laundry shows u av a conscience and u are wise too.

2. U were not that open from d beginning but thanks for d details u added later, so judging from dat u av asked advice rather late dan sooner abt how much "help" u shuld do for the brothers from d beginning of ur relationship with ur babe. All d sch payments and assist should have been done anonymously or at least you only keep it between u, her nd d parent(s) (and I mean only d sensible among d 2 or both). And again it's like you have made the mistake of letting ur wife-to-be knw ur own house (4 bed flat as u kal it) to d extent dat those brodas knw whr to FIND you too. Honesty is good but not dat early in d relationship or with d brodas atol.

3. B4 I go too far into finances, let me quickly say dat u still av done d best thing to ASK FOR ADVICE b4 d marriage so ignore some negative comments b4 me (page 1 alone) . You sounded lyk u needed encouragement packaged with insight into wat u will likely face but not those rubbish I'm reading there. So I will boldly say never be too proud to ask those who (ACTUALLY) knw more dan u on a subject matter or can help direct u to see places where u have not got covered properly (to make progress not to even make d little idea u had nd av used so far look like !tihs (spell it backwards).
All you need is gut feeling which u av somehow used to get to dat financial stage u are now, confidence in ur skills and ability to, financial capability (which u av already by helping d lady through sch, u get d gist) so for me it's a PASS. D rest u can handle

4. Finance (or should w say ego in ur language, cos I already assumed u are Igbo of some sort, y? Ur typing nd lingua pattern, ur estimated financial capability at such young age, ur business acumen dat generates enuf cash so much dat u can do bonaza with it (LOL pardon me but I just can't stop laughing about those brother issues, or should we call dem brother-in-law-to-be LOL!). I can even guess you talk more with your Mom (or sister kinda-of-person to you) more dan ur Dad (or perhaps he's no longer in d picture, no offence here at all pls) so that's why you are a soft-hearted individual as u 'appear' to be. Cos most Yorubas are just too arrogant to ask for actual advice dat does not involve dem asking for moni alongside it (but not ALL yoruba sha)

In Nigeria as it is today, nothing guarantees a wedding more dan ur financial guage, especially when u now av consent of ur parents nd d oda ones too. So no issue dere for me my broda.
Marriage on d other hand starts with major financial obligations in the early years then falls back to value appreciation (just loving each other for the qualities you built b4 d marriage and after it) then later resting on d deeds u av done (how well u trained d children nd mostly how u helped others at d expense of urself wen u av dat capability). So dat must be d focus, how to meet needs (actual priority for the safety and peace of your home), this is where I'll say let your lady be hardworking too, support her but let her strive for a little independence on her own (or at least train her to be so, it's ur best bet when (or if) things go sideways, u never knw d future.

Now dealing with her brothers is simple, such pple rarely turn a new leaf unless u let dem knw are kind but not stupid, let your 'help' be like investment, ask why they need d moni, how long they will take to pay back (but we both knw they won't), den let there be timeline for 'helping' dem, if they come too frequent let ur reply be simple NO, you can't help at d moment nd u are sorry for dat buh u wish u could if u really av it (just to be polite but we both knw it's like saying ffo-kcuf (spelt backwards)

Now when u start saying no to d brodas, prepare 4 war cos like i said u av brought dem too close to ur only place of safety too early; ur home. If you can afford protection to harrass them once in a while do it. As man who's going into marriage this is where u start letting them know YOU ARE NOT A MONKEY dat keeps giving without restraint, so d morale is "if God himself keeps giving such people EVERY TIME they come without any ACCOUNTABILITY whatsoever, trusts me Heaven might run dry or other people's ration given to their insatiable and lazy ass. (Just saying u know)

Let ur business decisions be strategic too, try to have a hidden source of money from ur wife (i assume she will soon be). I know what I'm saying, if possible open anoda bank account for it. Tell her 5 yrs later after marriage, come back nd thank me den.

Then if it is possible, find a NEW home for ur marriage, far away from those who can't contribute to u so dat b4 they come it will cost them like N5k for t-fare to avoid unnecessary frequent greetings (those who come to eat, or take 'help cash' or just use ur house as relaxation point (or all of dem combined at times). Remember it's ur HOME not meeting point. Tell ur wife d rule of NO VISIT WITHOUT INVITATION! (always d best, so anyone comes unannounced, so if u later get such visits den u can do as u lyk to dem cos 9ja economy is not dat stable to say d least)

5. Lastly, this is a major part u must not ignore. People are humble when they have nothing to offer or no leverage, you can never say you have known your lady complete until she starts living with u in d marriage and now av leverage (usually babies) so she might get spoilt from ur way of helping her too much since she was in school, cos pple are not that grateful in d long run, I knw from experience (with people) so tolerate some things and also watch out for any sign of danger! The sad part is "it's a for-better-for-worse deal so you just have to suck up on some things she does or find a way to reach a middle place 2geda cos ladies are bossy in nature (forget any kind of cry u are seeing now o)

So if you follow all these advice, I'm SURE you will be able to be the MAN of your home any day any time.
Marriage is not easy true, but don't take people's word for it JUST LIKE THAT, some of them are hiding things (mistakes they are making and keep making) they don't want even God (if it's possible for them) to know so such people's counsel is not valid according to me. So no all-in-one answer (including this my epistle). JUST FIGURE IT OUT AS YOU GO but keep LEARNING!

.... before I go, never ever forget to pray always (not only when you need God's help or guide); Ps 127:1

I don't need your contact o, but I created a group on messenger for this kind of issues, only to my inner circle sha, feel free to join anytime you want.

Peace!

I want to move some household items: a bed, kitchen items, and just a bag of clothes once from Ikd garage side to Gbogbo side once. It's kind of an emergency, I will pay you but I also need an understanding person that won't overcharge.


I have till Wednesday. Any help will be greatly appreciated, if you know someone who can pls let them know.

Drop your chat or call number and I get in touch with you as soon as possible.

sagieramos:
The image below described the condition of all Nigeria mobile network, they are all useless. Imagine getting ping of 200ms on 4g coverage in a major city

MTN always jittering,
Glo: that one belike NEPA,
Airtel: constant 100ms ping (not suitable for online gaming),
9mobile: it has worsen ever since it was changed from Etisalat to 9mobile, in fact, it's now worst than Glo

LOL, funny but true.


Network speed depends on location. No fixed speed for all places in this 9ja. Just go for 4G device, glo and MTN can do you wonder in that area. @ OP


Hope it helps

lastchild:
I use tecno spark 3,32 gig memory & 2 gig ram.
I've used 30 gig out of the 32, having only 2 gig memory space, and the phone is now slow

if I clicked gallery, it takes upto 10 to 15 seconds to open.

i know that if i freed up space by deleting items, it'll normalize, but is there anyway i can make the phone faster without deleting anything?

Buy high memory card nd move your files to it

DonBabaNG:
Hi thanks for your recommendation. Highly appreciated.

I am trying to remember you, are you the guy I went to Ikorodu to deliver Gionee M6 plus?

You are welcome, no I'm not o but I base in Ikd and I just saw your posts are good and decided to share them.

yunqdady:
Hello.
All I need in the phone is durability and ability to serve as a hotspot centre for my main phone having a network connection issues.
Please kindly suggest a good phone, London used or Nigerian used or even New with no problems. Thanks

Check DonBabaNG post

https://www.nairaland.com/donbabang/topics

mctfopt:
Shipping via post is not as cheap as it was when I used it last. Last week that I shipped back an item, it was an electronic weighing less than 300g. The regular registered post said I should pay ₦14,000. EMS bill came to about ₦26,000. But after deliberation. I decided to use DHL, though costlier but it got to China in a week.

But the last time I used regular post, it took about a month plus to reach China. Also it was cheap then (below ₦7,000), just before their June 1st 2021 NIPOST tariff increment.

Of course you'll discuss with the seller and they'll give you their postal address in China before you ship.

Hmmm wow. Thanks for this info

mctfopt:
I have.

How did you send it from PO to airport then China? Was it a smooth process or lots of patience, and did the seller give his address for the Post Office to know where it's going?

Who has returned an item back to China before, that was not working properly?

Pls I just need the help

WHITELIGHTER:
I guess this parcel is in Nigeria already, right ?!

Yes it is, give it some days more to pass through their channels, they will call you personally for delivery. Watch out for that!

ryfoz:
Update ***

Item collected 20 mins ago by Spedaf FOC

thanks everybody for your support and guide.

aieromon

nani667

Boss the touch digitizer is not working properly and my messages are not sending in the app to seller or any seller for that matter. Pls who can guide me on how to return it back to the seller?

nani667:
As far as I know Kuda has never worked on Aliexpress... Or any other foreign website... And awhile ago they disabled their cards cos of some issue...


Jus forget about Kuda when it comes to Ali, does not work... I used Stanbic last night and I was charged ₦450 also...

oh ok thanks boss

femarse:
460

Boss pls do you have any idea how much kuda bank charges per $ on Aliexpress currently?

Access charged me N450/$ last month so I want to try kuda now cos my moni is dere. I have their master card ATM

nani667:
Jus opened the app and was greeted with free 4K Aliexpress Coupon... Decided to squander it sharply

Boss pls do you have any idea how much kuda bank charges per $ on Aliexpress currently?

Access charged me N450/$ last month so I want to try kuda now cos my moni is dere. I have their master card ATM

Lixusheng:
Make dem dey use am ship xiaomi phones and anker speaker cos the fone i buy na still RB

LOL

Lixusheng:
https://speedaf.com/cn-en/send-parcel

aieromon

Update ***

Item collected 20 mins ago by Spedaf FOC

thanks everybody for your support and guide.

Lixusheng:
https://speedaf.com/cn-en/send-parcel

Thanks boss

Lixusheng:
They use Speedaf express

Pls which site did you used to trace it?

aieromon:
The package was not routed through NIPOST. You will be contacted for home delivery.

Woww, I would love that

aieromon:
You're welcome

Update, abeg weytin dem mean here? Should I go and check the P.O cos dem neva kal me o