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Ujujoan: You are in trouble . . . I will expose you here on Nld . .
Wait for me.
I told you this is your judgment day.
Just wait for me . . .

Ujujoan: Thief . . . It won't work . . . It won't work at all . . .

This is a warning to any person who may be in the process of falling for this Scammer . . .

He is a thief and Rogue . . . Please don't let him dupe you of your hard earned money!

Ujujoan: Thief . . . It won't work . . . It won't work at all . . .

This is a warning to any person who may be in the process of falling for this Scammer . . .

He is a thief and Rogue . . . Please don't let him dupe you of your hard earned money!

Ujujoan: Who are you opening your dirty teeth for?
Fooolish i-diot!
419, thief, yahoo yahoo . . . . You are in trouble . .. you will soon be exposed.
You judgment day is here . . .

Ujujoan: For your mind abi? Your father . . .

searay: Judging from the write up above, I must said that this woman wasn't submissive in the relationship(if such has ever existed).

8 months after marriage, I believe the love will still be at the peak. Except where there is too much PRIDE which is what I have seen in the OP.

No man is stronger than a woman's touch. I wonder if the OP has ever sat her Husband down and talk sense into his head. Nobody will build your relationship for you. Believe me there is a character in you that much change for peace to reign in your relationship even in your next.

Playsafe!

Ujujoan: Your mother is a retired ahsewo.
Sit down there and wait for a virgin with your disease infested body and your witthered blokkus!
Amadioha strike your keyboard there . . .

Ujujoan: na today we start to dey hear this kind tori for NLd?
You day is coming. . . you will soon be exposed.
All these 419 posers here . . . acting like they own the world. sitting behind their cyber cafe systems and forming billoniare looking for an unsuspecting victim to dupe . . . You end is coming soon!
You will be ridiculed like no other and spend the rest of your life behind bars lke you deserve. Mark my words!

Ujujoan: She'll talk of Man B and Man C . .. if that one messes up to.
She has a choice. She can kick them out if they don't behave.
She doesn't have the time to waste mourning over a useless man.
If e too pain you go hug transformer . . .

Ujujoan: And so . . . ?
In what way does it concern you?
Even if she's being serviced by 10 vulcanizer, how does it provide garri for you?
foooooool!

roymary: This OP no be Saint! Abi how you go marry person for just 8 months? The nigga wey she marry might be an Agbero on his own but OP sef na badoo. My nigga don change and see better reasons to hold on to his wife...na why him wan reconcile but if you rather be After-1 then na u sabi.

My advice be dis: If the guy no use juju hold you before you marry am...then there must be something pleasant about him. So make u go back to drawing board with the nigga, make una see where things go wrong, make una try to fix am...You don't have to move in with him to see if he has changed...and pray too. Unless one bobo don enter your eyes for road too.

My mind tell me say una go sweet if una come back...but my mind dey lie too at times...So Check for ursef.

vanitty: Just shut up.

PrettyCindy: If you care to know, no. Am not dating yet. Want my baby to be of certain age before i involve a man in my life.

The issue here is not forgiveness. I forgave him before i put to bed.
I am not interested in anwering "wife", meanwhile i am very unhappy. I wanst treated like a wife at all so there is nothing to look forward to.
Yes, my son needs a father..........did i tell you i will die single? Am very goodlooking, respectful, an african woman, responsible, hardworking, romantic etc etc and can always get any man i want. Am just not ready yet.

PrettyCindy: Assets ke. He doesnt even own a tire. Child support ke, for wia?
My believe is that he has dated all round, all shapes, sizes and ..............well, no one like me. He is even claiming born again. This is someone who dates about 7 girls at the same time.

PrettyCindy: You are obviously the type who comes to nairaland and say "i will not believe this story till i hear from the other person". For christsake, this is Nairaland not Lindaikeji. Do you expect to get on the phone with the other party and interrogate him/her?
No one on this forum gives a damn what you believe. It doesnt mean anything to me what you believe. You hear?

Secondly, nairaland is full of bullys and abusers. I made it a point not to ever abuse anyone on this forum but the person (s) you referred to deserved it. Did you even bother to read what nonsense she wrote (i hope they havent modified their insultive comments) or you were just interested in my own response? so according to you, its ok to path the back of someone who abuses you for no reason.

Lastly, are you implying that i didnt respect the man i was married to? How dare you?
So in your dictionary of wifehood and motherhood, its ok to justify an abusive and irreponsible husband? So if i had actually caused the reason he physically abused me, to you i deserve it?
Caropy, i weep for you and for your female children.

shineureyes: my sista like evry person has/her flaws but dey r negligible cos no1 has complained b4 even in her previous relationship,I pray dat no woman shud experience wat my sista passed thru & some men r jst beasts in human nature. Do u knw dat I can't stand 2 c my wife cry not 2 talk of me raising my hand 2 hit her.

shineureyes: @Poster; ur story's almost identical 2 dat of my sista, my advice is u shudn't go back 4 ur sake & dat of ur baby cos he'll neva change. My sista's husband was maltreating her & even assaulted her physically jst months afta their weddin, he claimed it was a mistake & his family begged dat it'll neva happen again but dey were wrong cos he almost killed her d 2nd time, we r returnin d dowry soon & also pursuing divorce in court,I'm glad u ve ur own source of income & I pray u get sum1 dat truly deserves

I'm a married man but I've 2 say dat majority of men r not marriage material,a woman will react 2 a man d way he treats her except in few cases, treat her like a queen & she'll give u a home, put ur male ego aside

Ileke-IdI:
Plz stop shifting he blame on women.

Most time, the signs are well hidden.

ileobatojo: You want her to go and endure abuse and suffering not for any personal benefit to herself but so she won't be looked down upon by people like you as hopping from man A to B; and I'm the cruel one? Lmao.

And please highlight what in my post you Tquoted makes me sound flawless.

In your grossly biased state, I'm sure you completely missed where I gave her leeway to return to him if she feels like things could be better. Unlike you my primary concern is for the OP's safety, not for the by force carrying of the title mrs to a possible early grave in order to appease sadists like you who are more concerned with your inability to see her as more than a sexual object.

spoilt: I love s.e. . xx. No apologies. I love my man sexually aggressive because of the kind of sex i like to have. i prefer to have sex everyday. A woman's libido can be stronger than a man can contend with.True talk. Some guys just dont have it in them to go multiple times a day or a week regardless of how men are portrayed as randy billy goats. My dear, its not likely you will change his appetite no matter what you feed him or wear. He may not even be affectionate on top of the sparse sex. Ugh! How much do you value your marriage? Make it Work. There are other options but those may lead to another scandalous thread.

BluStreak: You have said & heard it all. You don't need this man except your fate is sealed in a perpetual life of misery. He will never change since he isn't even aware of what pushes him to assault you. He therefore will have no control of what he doesn't know. Your life is better-off without him.

Don't go back is my final advice. Please don't.

ileobatojo: Nailed it!!



Oh, by the way, forgiveness and 'giving your kid a father' can be done just fine without continuing to suffer abuse in marriage. Just thought I'd fyi.

PrettyCindy: Nairalanders abeg make una see drama ooooo!

We were married for about 8months. We seperated one year and eight months ago when i was about 3months pregnant. Since then till date, he never asked about my child, dont even know the colour of my child's skin. We made several attempts to return the bride price he paid (only married traditionally) but they refused to accept it.

So i decided to opt for divorce. The divorce petition was sent to him through my cousin. My cousin said ex husband was shocked to his root when he saw the topic of the letter. Said he wasn't expecting such.

For reasons i dont understand, my cousin who is married gave ex husband his phone number. And ever since then, ex husband and his family members have been bombarding him with calls pleading with him to plead with my family that they want reconciliation and settlement.

As far as i'm concerned, its all drama.

That man maltreated me so much that thinking about it now is making me sick.

What is the purpose of this thread, nothing much. Just want talk out my mind jare.......

aribitoye: exercising!

Ileke-IdI:
Not with the second pix. I change my mind

2buff: Have you been able to buy a house yet? I'm guessing no. Why not put the money towards that?

2buff: Have you been able to buy a house yet? I'm guessing no. Why not put the money towards that?

Ileke-IdI:
Seriously, after seeing the pics on this thread, a NL boy calling me ugly puts a smile on my face.