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Ilekokonit: What's with the "nonsense" bit ?

Do I know you from Adam and was I talking to you

I'm sure an elderly person sometime somewhere in your past had RIGHTLY advised you to watch your tongue if you wanted to keep a man but you did not listen to their advise and now the consequences are staring you in your face.


Did my article indirectly correct some of the bad behaviour you ex mother inlaw tried in vain to correct in you before she RIGHTFULLY advised her son to dump you to avoid your bad mouth even though he had to stop seeing his baby daughter ?

With such a big mouth as you have displayed above, I don't blame your ex and his Mum for not wanting you in their family and if you carry on with your big mouth, the new guy you have managed to TRAP with whatever will sooner or later come back to his senses and his currently welcoming family will ALSO RIGHTLY advise him to dump you and then WILL YOU MOVE ON TO HUSBAND NUMBER 3

You seriously need to control your mouth if you want to keep a man.

Or do you think it is easy for a Nigerian man to stop seeing his child for no good reason ? Your big mouth as displayed above is part of the reason your Ex Mother in Law advised her son to dump you if he wanted peace in his life.

You think you know it all and feel you are better than folks living in Peckham but there are thousands of Naija women living in Peckham who know how to hold on to their man even when their kids are all grown up whilst you in your youth have already been rejected by a man that got you pregnant.
ALL BECAUSE you refuse to give the man peace and yet with your "Cottonham Palace" single mother status you think you are better than the "Good Loyal Wives of Peckham"

You dared to give me unsolicited advice to "get a better type of circle of friends" and yet your prized circle of friends only succeeded in pushing you into the marital gutter where the father of your young baby and his family want NOTHING MORE to do with you because of your cantankerous mouth.

Finally you lied that "what I narrated in my post is foreign to you" yet you knew in your heart that the attitudes of the women in my post is the same attitude your Ex and his mother saw in you for her to advice him to dump you.

Instead of concentrating on the new man (Hubby Number 2) that you have recently TRAPPED and learn from YOUR ELDERS how not to lose him with your big mouth you are here saying a candid post is nonsense and you want Hubby number 2 and his currently wekcoming family to not dump you sooner or later.

[b]One final advice for you and you can take it or leave it. You are one of the reasons any WISE guy in London will NEVER date seriously or marry a single mother.

Why ?

Because any thinking man who comes across a single mother whose baby father or husband has abandoned with kid(s) should ask himself the following question :- "If this woman was any good, why would a man abandon her with kids ? Especially a baby in your own case ?? Could it be that such women are too much trouble to live with and behind all the facade of make up and brazillian wig (and in your case bleaching cream) lies an aggresive and foul mouthed woman .

You better go back and beg your INITIAL BABY FATHER whilst his child is still young and promise him that you will learn to control your tongue BECAUSE now that you have a very young child, her LONG TERM interests should be PARAMOUNT in your mind and you simply can not be jumping from one man to the next because the new mans family will sooner or later start asking questions especially when they discover your HIDDEN troublesome nature.

Abo oro lan so fun omo luwabi to ba de inu e a a di odindi. Ogun asotele kin pa aro. (A word is enough for the wise).

Damn, omo you be real CIA o,, you see why I barely waste my time on these lots, I know they are almost no good in their respective homes. Madam cotton let us see how far your feminist fronts will convey you. Ferry on in your new world of Hubby 3.

romanlaw: You can call me names. Thanks. But the truth must be told : Heaven and Hell is REAL. I was once like you and even worse but thank God for salvation.

inspiring

Ileke-IdI:
Same way you ignored my post?

no vex o

Ileke-IdI:
Acidosis, stop this nonsense nau.

Stop forcing your belief on other people.

N ko feran iyen. I ran away from holy disciples like you lol

you can choose to ignore. Can't you?

Acidosis: I'm sorry I had to quote ALL your epistle, but sir can you give us the home remedies for DEATH

my thought exactly, there is no well laid out scheme to boycott death. It is inevitable. It brings the mighty to his knees. Let's put a check on ourselves.

agiboma: Well OP looks to me like you want someone you can control and play around like a ball, someone that harkens to your every beckon call. Well you should marry a Nigerian lady and keep her in Nigeria ooo, dont let her come to the developed world so she learns about women rights and empowerment Im afraid that will foil your plans for the puppet aka wife you want to keep in your home.You ever heard the saying, When in Rome you do like the Romans.

sis, in your grossly clogged up mind, your summation was the OP was requesting for a doormat. It will do you a whole lot of good to read comprehensively

You haven't seen anything yet. Keep cheering them feminist on. The next step these heartless monterous vipers will take is bring a man live to your bedroom right in your presence. So much for feminine liberation...

baby_123: hahahahaha. You are very smart and full of insight. No wonder only traditional marriage was done. The physical abuse aspect is sad, but this girl reacts like a screw is loose. Doesnt seem like she understands english too well. You didnt fall for the hype. Good for you. She better heed your advice. All these fake alarms. Do you want a cookie OP? So he wants you back? What should we do? Buy you a trophy? Better go and do court wedding, since when did traditional go to court Story land.

your head dey there jor. Too much intelligence

Rip Goldie. Makes your selfless pursuits of materialism and wealth VAIN

Ujujoan: Lol . . . you must be out of big words to throw around.
You didn't foool me and you'll sure as hell NEVER fool anybody here again.
NEVER!

PM me when you crop out ur findings. My Igbo friends would be embarassed to have a tout like this as a member of their stock. Goodnight expired biatch

Ujujoan: What's the matter, getting sacred . . .
You should.

it's getting boring. Nnewi FBI

roymary: 25 Million....make i know when to assist you...Cos me too no like that Op...Her story no even true...Cos na village dem for pay dowry...Why she wan go give government?? Na first time i dey hear that one be that. Meanwhile...Uju, fit be fine girl o...Make u make sure na happy ending...I dey ring side...ready to enter any time...

wahala no dey

Ujujoan: hahahaha . . .

My lips are sealed!

I'll expose him when the time is right

get ur coarse mgbekelicious tone off here bloody cretin. U'd better go help ur mama sell her palm wine. Rural person...

Ujujoan: Foooooool . . . nobody will forgive you for your thievery!
No redemption for you except in prison.
Oh so now she has a choice? She can 'suit herself' after you've called her a prost1tute?
You are finished!

I thought you guys are back from south Africa giving free se.x (ashewo association of Nigeria). I bet u can't look me up in the face real life. Bloody azz person

Ujujoan: You think stolen money can bring you any good?
Your generations will pay for your sins . . .
The tears you brought to the eyes of your victims shall be avenged.
You will rue the day you became a scammer!

uju baby. My local waitress

RollingFella: @$25 million, i dont think you fully understand what the OP has gone through. Hence,you are making these comments.

@OP, i fully understand what you have gone through.something similar happened to a close friend of mine. Sometimes,i dont know what is wrong with the head of some men.
They fail to understand that a woman needs all the love and care she can get from her man. Women are human beings too and need love. Most times,a woman's action is a direct reaction to the way her man treats her. If a man wants a wonderful,beautiful superwoman, then the man has to treat her right!Coming back to the topic,i will suggest you try to hear what your ex-hubby has to say to you one-on-one about the reconciliation.give him the benefit of doubt by hearing him out,thereby trying to guage what he has in mind and know your next move.You already have a child for him and because of the child,your ex-hubby may use it as an excuse to get to you.For now, avoid a new relationship so that your heart can heal properly, try to take your business to a higher level,get your self esteem and confidence back and take very good care of your baby.And please!!! if you finally go into any new relationship in future,do not co-habit for a long time with any man because he may lose respect for you and may think you are cheap.if you must live with a man,make sure the man has married you properly without duress.Above all,go to God in prayer.Prayer changes things.

Well, if she doesn't feel comfortable with him then she should suit herself but in my own opinion I strongly believe in FORGIVENESS and REDEMPTION regardless of any ill done to me as long as a genuine apology is tendered. But again she should suit herself.

Ujujoan: No.
But men like that fooool irritate me.
They can dish but they can't take eh?
disgusting!

what's the bloody mileage on that wrinkled punn.y? Your old boy sure wasted his dowry

jennykadry: UJu open up already and tell use who he is

that is almost unnecessary as I had my picture up but took it down cos I'm hell shittin in my pants. Douchebags

roymary: 25 Million, Na true say dem dey help igbo guys pay Dowry?? I bin think say na joke...No wonder Ada dey work like machine for Baltimore. O ga o

u no know before. Their dowry na serious billing

Ujujoan: hahahaha . . . wait for me.
I'm sure he'll be shitting in his pants now.
But I'll soon expose him for the whole world to see.
Just wait for me . . .

NNEWI CIA

Ujujoan: You can dish out big words and yet can't comprehend simple ones?
This place is not for you . . . you can't get a penny off any NLder.
If you like come back with a new ID, I'll fish you out and expose you!
You are ruined for sure.

pls do, there's no caveat. I'll gladly help emeka pay ur dowry

roymary: Badoo !!! 25 Million...you no go rest this case...That Vulcanizer dey with OP right now dey service her...You dey here dey worry about Uju??

no mind these hungry fools.

Ujujoan: LMAO . . . you think your out of tune use of words will impress anybody.
If anything, it's ecxposing you for who you really are.
I've been on NLD longer than you have and we've seen your type. they have come and gone . .
Your end is here. Pack your bags my friend . .

I'm glad u know it's a phase nitwit

ileobatojo: Uju you better leave that nuisance alone.

He has completely come unravelled eh? I knew his post was bullshi*t from head to toe even though he tried to wrap it up in plenty grammar. Lol! Abeg leave him to be looking for virgin victim.

u I pity that your edo boyfriend

Ujujoan: huh
LMFAO!
So so pathetic . . .

the spare parts customer is waiting at the door. Your pop has gotta pay rent u know.

Ujujoan: You mean to meet with your unsuspecting victims
YES, I will there, to expose you and your thieving ways!
I'll be your nemesis.
You will never get a penny from anybody again!
Mark my words . . .

-5 intelligence quotient

Ujujoan: What's the mata . . . too impatient to wait for your lil girl?
She's gonna be fresh . . . just right at 10.
And together you'll continue the viscous circle, destined for your cursed generation!
Thief.
25 mil my behind.
Dreaming things . . .

uju I will by all the females in your clan

sayso: at least write correct English sentence.

his articulation does not correlate with the subject in question which is the percieved arrogance of the OP

Ujujoan: Wait for your daughter . . . she's will be as fresh as ever . . .
Ask your daddy!

u'll be a waitress to my kiddos when I visit nnewi for biz

Ujujoan: Is that the only word you can come up wit
How about . . "I'm a useless Scammer" . . . That has a nice ring too . . .

get ur wrinkled azz punn.y off this thread. person

Ujujoan: God punish your head.
I know you like small girls . . . just like your daddy . .

you are sure right. Ain't got time for expired mofos with high mileage.

Ujujoan: You do you know your mother
Picked up in the dumpster by a charitable couple . . . you mama must have been a 10 years old girl abused by her daddy!
You are a curse!

slowpoke local akpu eating mgbekelicious mofo