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Yoruba_Omoge: Exaggeration much. Back it up.

seriously you don't know. Had my MMM (dual masters) and Bach there.

Yoruba_Omoge: lol already elsewhere sha
lol it sounds like a private school.....money!

you'll get a run for your money, a friend graduated and got started with mckinzie at 130k

Yoruba_Omoge: Na joke I just dey joke jare. I wanted to see you pop off

I for vex for u o

ItsModella: kikiki..I'm also looking there for grad school.

second best after booth in iL. Peehaps no. 5 in the U.S

Yoruba_Omoge: That bootleg looking school. I wanted to apply there for a grad program, but that school looking ratchet. .

MBA is 100k so howz that bootleg o

All saints Ibadan
Atlantic hall Lagos
Northwestern university Evanston iL

ItsModella: Are you dumb? do you just refuse to get the reasoning behind my post? My post is self explanatory sef. If you don't get it, then you're really foolish.

u no dey tire to curse persin sef. Dis ur gangster wannabe attitude... Na wa o. RIP sir Esiri

lola.luv:
A man with issues should work on them and stop expecting others to put up with his BS. There is no enemy outside, just the one within him....

Your writeup is in line with what my ex told me 2 years ago when I wanted to quit due to his bad attitude and character.
'A woman should be patient and pray for her man. It is the patient woman that would inherit the earth. Don't allow another woman to take the glory of all we've achieved'.

When the sweet words wouldn't work, he informed me there were millions of girls out there and off he went.

Which makes me wonder why he dug up my bestie's number and virtually cried, begging her to talk to me to reconsider him (just this morning). Saying how he has dated a litany of girls but none took him like I did (interesting!).
None truly loves him (na so e bad reach?).

I was the one who was there for him when he was nothing (na today? Me I don accept say, not all investments yield dividends8)).

He's a changed man (so you can even change after alienating everybody who cared about you? Why didn't you wait for my prayers before changing?).

And that he doesn't know what came over him back then.
(Well, can't risk coming back and then 'that thing' would come over you again, abi?)

So you men better clean up your act. Every woman has a breaking point.

Madam your ex was and is not a MAN but a little BOY. REAL men can identify and appreciate a tolerant, loving and patient woman. The word REAL in this context does not have respect for age.

Me don tire sef... Wetin!!!!!

greatgod2012: sorry dude, my answer is not in any of your collections.
Did you see a part in my post where i said "when a party refuse to play his/her roles as expected"
did u also see it takes two to tango..........all these depicts that the two parties must know what they are doing, one party mustnt be indulged, a woman who is edgy, who rants, nags, intolerant.....etc, may as well be referred to as a girl who doesnt know or understand what marriage is all about.
To answer your question, effective communication is d key, let d husband feel free to let his wife knows, each time she errs, and vice-versa, without shouting on each other, without being defensive.
It is only when both parties respect d oath btwn them, and they both perform their roles as expected of them that they can both enjoy d best of their marriage.
May God help us all.

it was an exclusive example that needed you choose from the options without the luxury of modifying. Not necessarily relating to your post albeit cheers.

greatgod2012: @op, you are funny o........talking about oath........didnt d man also take oath, and why must it be only women that must keep to their oath?
Prayer! Prayer! Prayer!
Prayer is good, but can men pray for their cheating wives? If not, why must it be women who must always pray for their cheating husbands.
"Can two walk together, except they agree"?
"Do unto others what you want them do unto you".
"It takes two to tangle".
"Respect is reciprocal".
"Action and reaction are equal and opposite".
Op, Do you understand all these words in a marriage, it means two pple are involved and not one person.
Marriage is a relationship btwn a man and a woman.......op, d way you described man in this your write-up depicts a boy, who never knew anything about marriage b4 venturing into it, ie your description looks like a relationship between a woman and a boy.
Op, your write-up is an insults to the real men, who understand what marriage is to them b4 going into it and an indulgence for "boys" who accidentally found themselves in a marital union, i think you really need to say d truth here........it takes two to tangle, if a party is not perfoming as expected in a marriage, truth be told, it will have adverse effect on d marriage and even d family, so, instead of indulging d "boys", tell them d truth, men should stop abusing women emotionally and physically, they should stop running women mad. They should stop cheating on their wives, they should stop doing what they can not accept to their wives. They should behave like men that they are, they should accord d respect that is due to their women to them, only then the marital union can be sacred and sanity will remain in that marriage.



Thank God im in marriage with a man who understand what marriage is all about and not a boy who always want to be indulged.
May God help us all.

You have spoken well. Physical and verbal abuse is a capital NO NO. Pick one of these that most suits you in this example. A woman is edgy, nags, intolerant, rants and tough on any slight mistake her hubby makes. What will be your expected reaction from him. 1. Physical abuse 2. Verbal abuse 3. Ignoring by keeping a lenghty malice. 4. Constantly apologise in public and in private regardless. 5. Divorce and move to woman 2. Just pick one without modifying I'm trying to analyse sumtin

jidegirl12:

Oh wait bros are you serious? Buwawawawa my belle o! Ahhhhh( sips cranberry juice).

see him crawling for patronage and recognition. Read his signature. Local champ wannabe

jidegirl12: ^^^ bros don't mind that minor wannabe I'm done giving him attention, he's better showing off his poverty to his sisters and not moi, check out his home from his posts posing and running his mouth here ... very disheartening ( oloju kan nilu afoju ) hilarious eh? like Canadians say

He's a troll veteran on Walter Carrington crescent.

adabeke12: Every tyme marry marry marry! mschewwww. Everyone is not meant to be married oh!

nobody force you marry na. I'd even suggest you remain single.

thehunted: when a mad woman opens a thread like this.....

what is this now? Isn't this over-streched. Thunder fire you. Oponu...

ileobatojo: Apparently, just a wallet and a p.enis.

Any wonder....... Grotesque mind and tongue

andromida: What about the man consciously deciding to change and be a better man? what about him protecting his wife and children emotionally before he loses everything he has worked for.? What about the man getting on his knees and asking God to make him a better man for his wife, his children and society at large?

Why is it his woman's job to raise him up to be a better man? Shouldn't his mother have done the world this favor?

Since the man is so confused, does not know what a marriage entails, what stops him from learning? he is not helpless you know there are so many materials out there that he can read and learn from. Christians and Muslims all have their holy books he can start from there.

Men are designed to be leaders.Leaders learn. Some leaders are born, many learn from books and other achievers how to be better people. Women are designed to be helpers not leaders in a marriage. Have you not noticed most times when a woman becomes the leader in the home the man resents her? It takes two to tango, the woman is not the one to do the job to make a marriage work. All hands should be on deck. Women are the eweaker vessel they need your protection-physically,emotionally,spiritually,materially. A man should aim consciously at all times to be the leader in his family not leave his family to law of chances. The divorce rate will continue to soar until men learn to love the wives in their lives.

Women are simply learning from their leaders what they are working so hard to teach them.

Very Brilliant piece.

I need a DAMN REPELLANT

ileobatojo: And the rate of divorce is the fault of the woman for not spending her life on her knees praying ba? It has nothing to do with this minor tidbit below:





Not so? Okay, got it.

Though I have a huge phobia for polygamy but I think in this case even if the woman was the only wife she could still do same upon the slightest unverified suspicion. It's just an individualistic ill.

chaircover: I got back from Nigeria yesterday evening and my husband was thanking God for bringing me back safetly. He said that he had heard 3 stories of kidnaps on the island last week alone.

I'm thankful that the woman was released, Bless her and I pray that she is is not too emotionally affected by this.

. . . . But on a serious note If anyone bothers to kidnap me for 60 million, I will be there for a long long time o!

Lol 60mil should be pudding for you now. I strongly suspect it's an inside job .

A heart that cannot forgive. Jesus!!!!! Ogbeni that is your path to eternal hypertention sir, no one here can hold claim to not saying or even acting ill one or a few times in his /her life. heck no impossible. And for the ladies talking about how James bondish they are, it's a big fat lie someone has said something not too nice to you before and the world did not stop revolving. Peeps pls learn to adopt a heart of forgiveness and tolerance. No one and I reiterate no one on earth is even near perfect hence the very disturbing deception I see in most folks here. You can never claim your spouse is perfect or will or has never gotten on your nerves, it's a lie, it's a big robust lie. If this conforms to reality why then are you still in the union. Stop trying to mislead peeps. Just a mere i diot in the heat of the moment. What about a woman who outrightly cheated and the man forgave. Haba let us take it easy now. @OP the girl simply doesn't love you that's the cold hard truth

jidegirl12: God why is my own way of seeing things / reasoning different from most folks on NL? this is shocking !

@genius.. My thots exactly !

Just IDI OT and the world wan end? What if you're married nko? Best of the bestest nagging chei

Now all married folks ( that cuss out people here like crazy everytime) now have a perfect marriage with parental control PG14 mouth
Abegii give me a break jor!

OP, she probably already found another guy with constant and great service and looking for excuse to cut you off and she just got it... there's nothing like being together, getting to know each other while courting, except you're already married with kids which always cuffs most women from infidelity.
Even if you guys get back together eventually, I wish you best of luck handling such attitude. Very strange.

whoever your parents are, God will bless and enlarge them. Your husband will celebrate you daily. You will be a shining light amongst your peers. The works of your hands shall multiply beyond your imagined expection. Your children will forever bring joy to your heart. Madam you are a human being with a good rationale. Tolerance, Forgiveness, Endurance, and a Strong sense of commitment are attributes you possess despite being in the U.S. God bless you again Madam. I can forever worship and be a mumu for a woman like this after God despite my short temper.

searchcorp: Since I own a jet, I think I should educate you briefly on how maintenance works seeing that a lot of you guys are quite ignorant.

When you buy a jet, or before u buy one. You would first be advised on which option is better based on ur average travel time yearly. U ll either choose between private or joint ownership. Well, if u fly more than 400 hours a year. Then private ownership is/would be quite economical for u, especially if u travel with ur crew.

After purchase u ll then need to register the jet with an air maintenance company. They will do the servicing, repairs, parking, provision of their pilots and hotesses whenever you want to travel, only you would have to notify them 2 - 4 hrs before flying. Now that maintenance company will charge you 100,000 to 250,000 dollars per annum. Depending on how often u travel.

Now, that isn't much. Infacts, that's a cheap deal for a regular corporate or business traveller. And mind you, I know regular people who spend way more than that amount on partying yearly. So please, give these pastors a break. They deserve the good life. I look forward to buying a jet for my church soonest.

On the contrary you work at the airport.

chiteny: Maybe he does not want to go thru all the trouble knowing the child is not his, that's why he accepted the baby just like that.

Come to think of it, I wonder why the genetic experts did not analyse away match to be one of the causes?

the baby is completely blue eyed white which slims the chances of away match. But it's still possibly if the whiteee has got strong dominating genes

Away match. Bros take heart. So much for 21st century feminine liberation apologist. A DNA testing less than $30 would serve as a silver bullet. But again even if she played away match the baby cannot completely look white.

So much for westernisation.

Sisi_Kill: Lemme guess. ...people call you Genius in real life right?

why do women these days not see anything disgusting in bed hopping in the name of intolerance. As a man my conscience chokes me to do that, so it baffles me when women talk about jumping from A to B to C. It is pretty much all about level-headedness and tolerance.

Sisi_Kill: Lemme guess. ...people call you Genius in real life right?

but seriously on a lighter note can I ask u something

Sisi_Kill: Sure doesn't take much to impress you, huh?

Simpletons are amusing.

yeah it takes a little to impress me

Sisi_Kill: Choi Op you have vex oooh. Haba!

Abeg I take God to beg you. ...forgive them ehn, they have forgotten that when an agbalagba, especially an okunrin kurin like you is talking, no woman should open her mouth.

This Internet sef...it is such a leveler. In real life can a woman dare come close to your sakani not to talk of responding to you without permission.

God save us from this feminism that makes women think they are more than the subhumans they are. They forget that talking out of turn or answering a man back deters them from achieving their ultimate goal in life - Keeping a man. Thank Goodness we have men like you to remind us how utterly useless a woman's life will be without men. God Bless you.

Now about finding you a wife. . .

how sarcastic