₦airaland Forum

Mr Yankee banker, see how rudely you are attempting to correct people on an issue u know next to nothing about. pls let the half baked knowledge you have humble you.

for your information, a banker is an institution or a person who is certified by the recognised body for professional banking professionals in the country in which the institution or person is operating or practicing as the case may be.

needless to say that it has nothing to do with your level in the bank. in a properly regulated environment, certain positions in a bank can only be occupied by a banker(certified banking professionals) and in some cases, a certain lenght of experience is required. that is why you think that being an officer  and above automatically qualifies one to be a banker, which is wrong. it can only be right is the so called officer is certified by the regulating body  for banking professionals in the country of practice or has been certified by any other international  banking professional body that is recognised in the country in which he is practicing.

in the case of Nigeria, the recognised body for professional bankers is the chartered institute of bankers of Nigeria, and any one who is in practice and is an associate  member of the institute is a banker , irrespective of whether he is an assistant banking officer or an executive director, so be guided

ERNEST WAS WHAT YOU WILL CALL A SOCCER AFFINCINADO, HE TOOK THE NIGERIAN FOOTBALL SCENE BY STORM, AND HELD ITS RAPT ATTENTION BY A LEGENDARY GIFT OF THE GAP

ETIM ESIN, HE SHILLY-SHALLYS,
HE DILLY- DALLYS, HE TRIES TO BEAT ONE MAN,
BUT ONLY SUCCEEDS IN BEATING HIMSELF


THE SUPER EAGLES ARE GATHERED IN THE CENTER OF THE CIRCLE
THEY SEEM TO BE SAYING, OH LORD GIVE US THIS DAY

FINIDI THE FINISHER

GANGLING YEKINI

DEFENCE MARSHAL YISA SOFOLUWE

UCHE OKECHUKWU, THE GENTLE GIANT

STEPHEN KESHI, THE BIG BOSS

ELASTIC ELAHO

WE CAN ONLY TRY TO RECALL IN BITS, IT BEHOVES HIS COLLEAGUES IN THE SPORTS BROADCASTING PROFFESSION TO PUT TOGETHER A COMPENDIUM OF HIS WORKS, TO ASSIST THE NEAR COLOURLESS COMMENTATORS WHO HAVE LABOURED OVER TIME TO STEP INTO HIS HUGE SHOES.

MAY HIS SOUL CONTINUE TO REST IN PERFECT PEACE.

well, may be i will start by telling you my own story

my girl friend of 8 year confessed to me two days after i had proposed that she had cheated on  me a couple of times. she said she loved me and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, but couldn't live with the burden of not letting me know the things she did. to say the least, the impact of that confession was shattering, cos she was my best friend and i had grown to trust her so much. it opened a new vista in our relationship, as i grew to find out that i didn't know her as much as i thot i did. of course i reacted like everyother guy and attempted to bolt out

she ran to my mum, her mum and my younger sister who she knew was the closest to me in my family. and one by one all three women called me up, long and Short was that they all felt if i could let it go then i should, that she deserved a second chance.my mum told me that the virtue of the courage to open up, towers above the vice of  the betrayal, my younger sister also echoed the same sentiments

i was baffled, that the two women who i knew loved me so much they could give anything for my happiness were actually lobbying for a woman who had been unfaithful to me. in the 12months that proceeded, i talked to as many female strangers as possible about the experience in a bid to get vast feminine opinions, in the end i must have talked to about 500 women of different ages , status and creed, and out of the crowd, only an amazing 2 said i should quit. then i realised that almost everywoman could or have done that before, and thats why they were sympathetic. this is directly opposed to men's expectation of women.

this incident made me grow up in a way i never could have, and  with time i let go and forgave. then i realised i never stooped loving  her for a second in spite of the infidelity. we became closer and i began to discover her more than i could ever imagine.she be came a more confident person, and that dark cloud that always hung somewhere about her loyalty to me faded away, and gave way to a relationship where i realised that i didn't have an infallible angel, but a woman, who needed my undying commitment, support and friendship to be the woman i wanted her to be and two years after the confession, i got married to her.

time has passed on from that time, and i don't have any regrets at all. i have watched my best friend grow into a model woman and wife, not the type that feigns but the one that is, becos she know who she is.

now you need to decide whether you want to completely turn your life around from a woman who can cheat her husband to one who can't. and if you intend to do so you need to realise that its God who would do it for you, and you need to realise that if your repentance is complete, that God will fight for you like He did for my wife. if that decision is made, confess to your husband and pursue his forgiveness with everything in you.God will do the rest. remember that regret is not enough.a realisation that it should never have happened and that it must never happen again is fundamental. without this confession, your husband will spend the rest of his life with a complete stranger, now you need to imagine which is more wicked, the cheating or the covering up.

i leave you with these words that my sister spoke to me while the fire raged, i hope that someday your husband will read them while he tries to discover what gave you the divine courage to speak out.

"what is the difference btw an angel who never did it, and a devil who did it over and over again but you never found out?".

goodluck and God bless

there is no where in the world where it can happen. those wey talk say e dey possible and simply being hypocritical