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Family / Re: Help! Husband NEVER Listens, I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone by safiya7: 4:53pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Gaggi: Really? Would this really work or are you pulling my legs? |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 4:50pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
ogawisdom: I do pray. Even to go into the hallway to use the restroom with full lights on takes so much courage at night. |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 4:48pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
MrOreo: I am alright once he's just there in the room. I only move into his arms to cuddle wen I hv nightmares or I open my eyes n the place is dark |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 4:46pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Jammiiee: I love music. But not to sleep with. |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 4:44pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Austin234: I have never killed anyone o, chai. Hv tried to ignore it too. But that doesn't work either. Am so tired of begging n apologising even when am not wrong, just so I can hv some one to sleep with me in the room at night |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 4:40pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Jammiiee: OK I ll try this. Thanks. |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 4:39pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Sanchez01: I never knew what I am going through even has a name. I would hv Google d it since. He knew before we got married but he simply doesn't understand how a 29year old cant sleep alone. I don't know how to explain to him again. Oh Lord |
Family / Re: Help! Husband NEVER Listens, I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone by safiya7: 9:01am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Cornerstone2020: He already does!. Infact when I was little, I always settle any quarrel between myself and any of my sibblings n even in school my colleagues at least before 6pm! Just because I didn't want to be alone at night. Whether I was at fault or not it didn't matter. All that mattered was that I not be left alone at night. |
Family / Re: Help! Husband NEVER Listens, I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone by safiya7: 8:58am On Feb 07, 2017 |
sisisioge: Thanks so much. God knows hv tried so much. Sometimes even when I pray I am scared of closing my eyes except he s in the room, scared that the demons I am casting will just appear in my front! Chai Jesus! |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:52am On Feb 07, 2017 |
winetapper: Nooo I don't even like long clothes at night cos am always hot. Sometimes he comes in to cuddle from behind, make love then goes right back to TV! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:50am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Fuqman: Have tried this too. But once I begin to fall asleep I constantly jump up, like am trying to stay conscious n I don't want something to catch me. Infact there was a time I couldn't even close my eyes to wash my face when bathing cos i was so convinced SOMETHING will appear when I open them again. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:46am On Feb 07, 2017 |
nelson7777: I like to sleep when there's quiet.if music is on I can't sleep. Thanks so much for the friend part. Actually I do all with him.bt he still addicted n to make it worse BIG Brother Naija is showing! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:44am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Ahmed0336: We have a little son. But he s too little to make me feel am safe even when he s in the room with me 1 Like |
Romance / Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 2:57am On Feb 07, 2017 |
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Family / Help! Husband NEVER Listens, I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone by safiya7: 2:48am On Feb 07, 2017 |
I have been a guest for so long on nairaland but decided to register because of this problem. I have always been afraid of sleeping alone in a room except there is someone sleeping there with me. Even my secondary and tertiary days I had colleagues sleeping on my bed with me because of this phobia. This was due to some horror movies we used to watch as children at night especially when dad travelled. I was scared of watching but couldn't stay in the room alone while my sibblings were watching with loud volume. Fast forward to this time I am married, so many times I have pleaded with my husband not to leave me alone in the room but he loves sleeping in the parlour just because of television. He works and comes home past 8 pm and just refuses to leave the sitting room because he wants to watch what he missed during the day. Most times he sleeps there. Countless times after tossing up and down , I go and wake him up to come sleep. Sometimes he listens, sometimes he doesn't. The only time he sleeps in the room is when wants to have sex and after that many times, he goes back to TV. Note that I keep my house spotlessly clean infact I am a neatness freak, so it's not because of untidiness. I have tried to use dialogue told him severally that if I wanted to be sleeping alone I wouldn't hv gotten married. Still no improvement. Now it's affecting my health severely because I now suffer harsh migraines and my heakth is failing due to the fact that i only get to sleep around 4 am when my eyes are too tired to be afraid. At a point i started taking matress to the sitting room to sleep , but the sound of the TV doesnt help. In addition he leaves the lights on without being security conscious of the night. I am seriously contemplating leaving him to go to my family house so that I can get some healthy sleep time, as I don't know what else to do. In addition we agreed that no one should come leave with us. I need mature advice. He is the type at NEVER Listens. Dialogue hardly works, nagging him is the worst. Please advice |
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