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Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 2:57am On Feb 07, 2017 |
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Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by cardoso514: 3:06am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Safya,if you are less than 5 years married you will soon overcome. Put your mind off all phobia and relax your mind. 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Apus: 3:21am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Truth is u just need to overcome this phobia. What if he wasn't around or job took him far away?... To start with, try sleeping with your room well illuminated. I hope d horror movie is not in anyway related from Chukky cos even till now DT movie scares d bejesus out of me...lols! 6 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Cas1741: 4:01am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Are you sure your husband loves you? Some thing doesn't seem right here my dear, you both need counselling. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Ahmed0336(m): 4:04am On Feb 07, 2017 |
How long have you been married? If you are blessed with kid/s why not sleep with them instead? |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by ibkn(m): 5:06am On Feb 07, 2017 |
either u buy a TV for the bedroom or u buy mattress and carry to the parlour.. 11 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by SUPERPACK: 5:56am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Carry the TV to the bedroom. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by seunajia: 6:08am On Feb 07, 2017 |
You need to get hold of yourself. Dreams are a manifestation of our subconscious. Face your fear, you're an adult and perhaps a mother FHS. 2 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by dingbang(m): 6:15am On Feb 07, 2017 |
What of if he likes to sleep alone and finds it hard sleeping together? Consider other people's habits as well... U aren't the only person in this world Jor. 4 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Bibi294(f): 6:49am On Feb 07, 2017 |
I have this same phobia but even though I'm not married, I'm trying to control it which is not easy Buy a television in your room and is your husband aware of this phobia ESP while you were still courting? 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by kwaso2(m): 7:04am On Feb 07, 2017 |
I think u should deal with the problem from the source and take care of it once. Fear (phobia) is a spirit. It can even hurt u. Get professional or spiritual help. If u are a Christian, I will suggest spiritual help, Bible says God assures his children a sweet sleep. heartfeltly reading ur Bible cum praying with the inspiration can guarantee a sweet sleep 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by ogawisdom(m): 7:35am On Feb 07, 2017 |
safiya7: Hmmm hw old are you? Do u pray @ all? Fear is the work of devil 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by 9jayes: 7:40am On Feb 07, 2017 |
If to say na me |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by winetapper: 8:05am On Feb 07, 2017 |
If Mohammed doesn't go the the mountain, the mountains will surely go to him. Get a TV in the bedroom. When he comes hide the remote. Make him know there is TV in the room Hug him when you sleep He will gradually get used to it. Hope you are not the type that wear lab coat or tie wrapper to sleep 3 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Fuqman(m): 8:14am On Feb 07, 2017 |
You need to distract yourself with something interesting. . E.g Internet forums, Tv set or start listening to radio, not just music but listen to the constant blabbering of the radio jockeys. Trust me, within just few days you will totally overcome this fear. This fear is usually caused out of utter silence in the night, break the silence, break the fear. Be brave. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Abiagirl777(f): 8:16am On Feb 07, 2017 |
just hide the remote controlhe'd get tired of putting it on each time you secretly put it off as soon as he nods off. you could also play music 2 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by nelson7777: 8:17am On Feb 07, 2017 |
beautiful Ur problem to me sounds psychological, y, because u actually knw d source (scary movie), I dnt wanna judge neither u nor Ur husband bt it sounds to me like u didn't marry Ur friend, I knw his Ur husband bt lets look past Ur problems Nw n go to Ur relationship, b a friend to Ur husband, most importantly ask about his day, eat in d same plate with him, sometimes go watch DAT TV with him sitting on d same chair whether he likes it or nt, play ludo or card with him jst b a friend to him n he will always wanna b around you even wen u sleep, 4get all this u always HV to sleep on d bed, wen u r Nw friends with him u guys can crash anywhere in d parlour, kitchen even in toilet (lol), back to Ur problem is very simple get a small dog it will offer u everything u r looking 4 which is companionship, friendship, security, e.t.c. also Ur room sounds boring try n get a sound system DAT will b playing u blues every night even in Ur dream all u will b hearing is Colin Dion's voice .... 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:44am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Ahmed0336: We have a little son. But he s too little to make me feel am safe even when he s in the room with me 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:46am On Feb 07, 2017 |
nelson7777: I like to sleep when there's quiet.if music is on I can't sleep. Thanks so much for the friend part. Actually I do all with him.bt he still addicted n to make it worse BIG Brother Naija is showing! 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:50am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Fuqman: Have tried this too. But once I begin to fall asleep I constantly jump up, like am trying to stay conscious n I don't want something to catch me. Infact there was a time I couldn't even close my eyes to wash my face when bathing cos i was so convinced SOMETHING will appear when I open them again. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by safiya7: 8:52am On Feb 07, 2017 |
winetapper: Nooo I don't even like long clothes at night cos am always hot. Sometimes he comes in to cuddle from behind, make love then goes right back to TV! 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Fuqman(m): 9:10am On Feb 07, 2017 |
safiya7:Am not a psychologist but, perhaps this might help... Take time to visit this site. Good luck. http://www.uncommonhelp.me/articles/overcome-phobia-of-being-alone/ |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by MrOreo(m): 9:18am On Feb 07, 2017 |
safiya7:Lol... Don't mean to be rude but how old are you? 3 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Nobody: 9:44am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Grow up 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by jashar(f): 9:49am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Ahn Ahn na... the husby sef... inasmuch as she's supposed to overcome the phobia, him sef suppose help her. Even if they use TV to do him from the village, Love should make him sleep in the same room with her till she falls asleep. Then, he can watch whatever he's watching... Na wa oo.... Where's the love? |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by DrObum(m): 10:22am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Phobia is a known psychological entity and can be helped by professional help. You can see a psychologist and if terrible, see a psychiatrist. Also, you can get a TV for your bedroom, then get eye pads to shield your eyes to aid you sleep, that way, you can get hubby to sleep in the bedroom while you still work on getting professional help. Don't contemplate leaving your home or listen to people questioning your hubby's love for you. Such people might even behave worse than your hubby if they were in his shoes. That's the thing with phobias, most people don't understand it except the sufferer and professionals who manage it. For most people, it doesn't make sense to them as they can't relate with how you feel in those situations. 3 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Nobody: 10:23am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Woman! Why not face your phobia instead of trying to push the blame to your husband ? Dont you know your phobia is even making the man emotionally distraught ? common, stop all these blames and fix your life. 2 Likes |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by KealDrogo: 10:29am On Feb 07, 2017 |
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Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by CosmeticChemist(m): 10:30am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Fear fear! Only me fit sleep for Nigeria... Wetin go chop you? 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by CrownV12(m): 10:49am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Face your fears.. the horror movies you watched that planted fear in you.. go and watch the making of the movies.. get a television for your room and use eye pads and ear buds to overcome the light and sound.. whatever scares you.. face it head on.. you will eventually need to overcome the fear 1 Like |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Flekky21(f): 11:01am On Feb 07, 2017 |
safiya7:lolz, This One Got Me Laughing ( BBN). Disconnect the decoder. |
Re: Help ! I Am Afraid Of Sleeping Alone. Husband NEVER Listens by Flekky21(f): 11:03am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Abiagirl777:ur Son Is So Cute. |
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