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Greatzeus:
Tarrr you are 35years of age.We know girls reduced their age by 5 to 10 years. And yes,you are not just concerned,you are desperate,very desperate.
No 25 years old girl will never sit down to think she will be lonely forever, that's her prime age when men flock around her. So stop the unnecessary lied so as not to be seen as evening newspaper.

Lmao no be small fire you dey spit oo

Cc: @ AwkaetitiBabe nnem ndewooo. Only a Queen can encourage another Queen.
@ kevsmart88 baba you too much.
@ Jordanbelfort07 you damn clown . I took no offence on your posts they only cracked me up.
@gracealone I really appreciate.
@Netfilix, thanks so much.
@ Shibaraba Baba na wa for you
@davillian, @Omoboricash, @Damtan,@ Isokoboy, @Joystark, @ Jephy19 and all the wonderful people I cant remember their monikers mehnnn I appreciate!

I really, really apologise to everybody here for it seemed I deliberately went AWOL. I noticed I was banned by a mod therefore preventing me from replying a lot of questions and also making lots of clarifications concerning the topic of discourse. I apologise again.
I just want to say a Verryyyy big THANK YOU to everyone who out of their busy schedule took out time to give a reply as regards an issue I wasn't sure of what next to do. You all have given me a pointer (I think) towards the right direction. Y'all are amazing, you inspiring and above all, I see the difference the Nigerian youths will make when eventually the mandate of leadership is handed over to them totally.
I am indeed grateful and overwhelmed by the immense show of love by romancelanders. A December get away with us all won't be bad.

Bouncingbabyboy:
Something tells me you are wicked!! I don’t believe this your own side of the story......I need to hear from your neighbors first

nairaland eh! Neighbors? how? Omo I confuse die. Wetyn consine neighbors and this matter? na wa nairaland! Lwkmd today.

Jordanbelfort07:
Just said my mind
Here is a word of advice: upload your picture on your nairaland profile

Who knows you just might meet your future husband here

Gosh you cracking me up real bad
@ picture ok sir.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Don't place unnecessary pressure on yourself. You'll definitely meet a man who loves u.

Amen nnem.

Gracealone:
Be positive, get involved in volunteering activities. If you are a Christian, join a church, if possible one with a large youth population, and get involved.

Don't carry it on your head so that no one will take advantage of you.

I will take this seriously. I really really appreciate.

Jordanbelfort07:
sagittarius are usually very unemotional and cold hearted.. Thats probably the reason why you can't land a man.
OP I'm sorry but you will probably end up alone till you grow old and die.
So just live life as it comes. Marriage is not a must

crazy ass nigger! You almost killed me with laughter. Unemotional? Yes. I prefer reality check and logic. Cold? bro I got a good heart trust me. Thanks for the laugh.

Lamanii22:
Let us be friends... What uni did you attend?

Dear sister, the truth is I had to drop out of school cus I felt why use the little savings I have to keep funding my schooling when I know I have no body that might help me get a job. So I finished my ND and started something else. But if you won't see my not having a degree as an issue then no problems we can be friends.

Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.

A brief rundown about myself.

I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.

Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.

I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.

Now my pain..

I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.

I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.

I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.

Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.

Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.

P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.

Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?

I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.

I am open to questions. Any at all.