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Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Cutehector(m): 10:38pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Now you can see that your millions cannot get you companionship. Life shouldnt be so serious, just know that no matter how rich you are, if you ain't likeable, nobody is gona come near you. So what to do? Set aside the fact that you have money, infact don't even see it as an accomplishment so that pride won't come in the way of meeting a man. Lose yourself completely and connect with someone with interests same as yours. You can start from dating and meet up zone section, you may be lucky to find someone who shares same interests as you do. Cheers saggitarius01 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by bukiii(f): 10:55pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
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Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
saggitarius01: Hmmm. Drop out of school Everything else about u is great and commendable. Most part relates to me. At 26 I already made my millions strictly and ridiculously indoors while simultaneously chasing a degree that took me 8 years plus to get which I'm not seeing it's relevance in the kind of life I want but just the passion kept me pushing. Truth is your best is yet to come. I know a lot of ladies like you, Tessie George for example you can look her up on Fb. She's very successful and an indoor type too. Attend leadership conferences, that's where you will meet the man you want there are a lot of them nowadays where they talk about motuvation, inspiration, yada yada and the church programs too churches like Christ embassy and other corporate religious organisations. Keep it real. If you can't find love as a young person, don't fail to find money. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:25pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:.. Inside or outside her house? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Joystark(f): 11:27pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
You're living the life.. alot of people, Including myself covet. Young, single, comfortable. You'll be fine tho. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Bouncingbabyboy(m): 11:42pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Something tells me you are wicked!! I don’t believe this your own side of the story......I need to hear from your neighbors first 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by jeph19(m): 11:53pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Go to a church with large population and join the ushering unit Smile more often Watch some ladies stuffs on YouTube Stroll and exchange pleasantries with people |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by saggitarius01(f): 12:21am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Bouncingbabyboy: nairaland eh! Neighbors? how? Omo I confuse die. Wetyn consine neighbors and this matter? na wa nairaland! Lwkmd today. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by adeiza4u(m): 12:23am On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:I can relate with your experience if what you've put up here is true. Got admission to the university in 2015 and made up my mind not to meddle into any relationship but to give my all to studies. And that has been the deal though it's not funny. Pressures here and there until I almost rescind my decision. I'm glad I'll be done with studies this year pretty well. You made the right decision right from the outset, please don't blow it now no matter the pressure. Let go of your concentration on your age and you'll be all right. Not sure, but I infer you may be a Christian, please hang on to God for his perfect guidance. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by aminusodiq(m): 12:28am On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:I felt overwhelmed with ur write up... Most university graduates... Cant write wit so. Much precision lik dis.!!!! Will like to b a frnd.. Just a confidant u can talk to.. Take tins slow.. Everytin wil fall in place! Can i ask u a questoon?? ... Wjile u still hustling.. Did any guy come around U just dnt give dem d chance or non actualy approachd u U dont actualy need to b frnd wit anyone bfr guys come atound? U see d sense of familarity no mater how insensitive u qre!!! |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Colorado1(m): 12:34am On Sep 23, 2019 |
I see |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by femoric(m): 12:55am On Sep 23, 2019 |
now is the time to be more careful. don't let anyone prey on you because of the info you gave here. my one coin, don't invest all your hopes and searches on social media, whatever happens in Las Vegas ends in Las Vegas. social media infatuation is a mirage that it is. be more open to real people around you. who you're searching for might just be at the next door 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by emmaodet: 1:01am On Sep 23, 2019 |
ichidodo: Bros u get bad mouth ooo. Abeg pity her small now. Are u based in onne? I work in onne |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:02am On Sep 23, 2019 |
When u r ignoring some guys anytime they try to toast now ur lookin 4 a man.... Law of karma |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:10am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Lamanii22: The fact that you told us that you started University at such a "late" age and you're not ashamed...is inspiring. You're strong! Cheers. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:11am On Sep 23, 2019 |
adeiza4u: Mehn, inspiring! This is great. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:21am On Sep 23, 2019 |
I don't really give advice on NL but I just feel I should do this. 1) Always remember, it is better to be hungry than to be poisoned. It is better to be single than to be in a useless, unfruitful relationship. 2) An hungry man doesn't discriminate whether food doesn't have enough Maggi or curry. He just gobs it all down. Don't let desperation cloud your eyes. If anything, now is the time to be very careful. 3) Instead of asking for advice on a public space like this, why not find trusted mentors and confidantes? I say this because when you're seeking for advice in turbulent times, your heart wants respite at every chance, and it might not discern good intentions from foolish comments/advice. 4) Some people have been typing utter rubbish - ignore them. They are children with Internet enabled smartphones. 5) Don't try to change your personality to fit someone's expectation of "love". Note, personality is different from attitude. You can have a very gentle personality and very rotten attitude. 6) I'll recommend the book Secrets of an Irresistible Woman by Michelle McKinney Hammond. Great read, deep truths. PS: I wrote in proverbs because I am not hundred percent sure about the veracity of your story. I don't want to expend" words on a troll, but if you're really really truthful, then we'll keep this connection open. Cheers! Happy living. Your story inspired me. PS - Rereading without the spectacles of cynicism makes your story seem truer. Maybe you're not a troll after all. Well well, if any of what I said makes sense, or you've a question, comment or whatnot, kindly quote this. 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:26am On Sep 23, 2019 |
......Sis calm down, you are still very young. Now is the perfect time to search for that special man. The answer is to join a church asap, trust me, you will meet people in less than 3months, then make your choice. After joining a church fix yourself in a department. Never act like you are in a hurry after service, be free, nice and welcoming. I would not advice you meet any guy here, through this account or your previous account, but if you must meet, never date a man who follows the mis-educations threads, other wack threads, an alpha male, etc,he will bring you sorrow. . Get yourself acquainted with females of good character, we have them everywhere. I wish you luck. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:26am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Logobenz:10 yrs ago I was still too green and innocent to date naw. Wetin secondary school girl was use man do then? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:30am On Sep 23, 2019 |
ichidodo:Yimu. Na this kinda commenter go still send pm to the op. Eat back ur negative spewings. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 1:32am On Sep 23, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:I've connected with people without stepping out sha so it depends. Thank God for social media, introverted peeps can access people online and later meet. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Privatepart00: 1:43am On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:. Are you a Delta - Igbo ? The Amen “nnem” made me ask . Where is your location? |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 2:04am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Times have changed so get rid of the idea that 25 is old. This is the perfect time to take your relationship more seriously. This will require a lot of understanding yourself and your needs. Set boundaries and be the type of person you are looking for. I see you settled down and married by your late 20s which is perfect because you will be better with age. Age isn't a curse it's you been refined and perfected. The worst thing you can do now is to panic and make mistakes and trust me the person you marry is the most important decision of your life so pick with caution and from a place of abundance instead of a place of lack. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Nobody: 2:07am On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01: Your savagery could be why you are single 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by ManIzHot: 2:21am On Sep 23, 2019 |
humm babe! Don't stress yourself with getting a life partner and settling down ish....I have learnt to calm down and face my hustle and at the same time...out going! Que Sera Sera....and please stay true to yourself.. Would sincerely love to be a friend though..... Take care, ..God be With you always! |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by cooooooks(m): 3:51am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Yo I'm Sagittarius and 25 too. 1. You're young and not late AT ALL 2. You're unique and so will your husband. As a guy, my turn ons are: smarts (business, life, street, book); languages (Nigerian and European); natural humour. Not slay queening. I'm sure there are millions others like me who are not looking for airheads. 3. You've worked on yourself and your business shebi, consider this to be a new, side, project. Learn about IG, learn about tinder (for reals, smart people are there too). Don't focus on changing the person you are. Focus on expressing the person you've become. 4. Networking. No spirit man is going to come to your house. You can meet like minded people at events. Add 1/2 events a week to meet people (male and female). Interested in a language, join a speaking group; like a topic, join or host a networking event on it. 5. Use the network you already have. Check out the people you already know, you might find a gem right under your nose. Also, your current friends and acquaintances could link you up with possible dates. Good luck dear. Stay confident! saggitarius01: |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by rex444(m): 4:19am On Sep 23, 2019 |
I only hope this little piece of advise wouldn't be falling on deaf or wrong ears as the faceless media these day anything can happen.... Anyway, yes your age is still very normal to be battling with what U are presently... Life the way we never understood it ,comes with its baggage.... Why do U think you will see a cute dude with no prospects, a blonde girl without brains, a very beautiful but deaf or dumb gal, a rich but not satisfied individual....these are few I can remember oh yes have not seen a bottle shaped perfect ass girl but no breast? What. Trynna tell u is there is always a price to pay for almost everything on life....am not saying you have paid your price but what if you have ? |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by Quality20(m): 4:34am On Sep 23, 2019 |
well u cn always have relatives mix u up wit great ppl, but if u a believer, a muslim, them why dont we meet? But whatever u do dont hook up with bad guys or bad girls who see nothing wrong with immoral lifes |
Re: I Am Scared Of Eventually Not Getting A Life Partner. by motionarena: 5:00am On Sep 23, 2019 |
saggitarius01:DM me lets hook up |
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