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WatchYourSix:
Sharia permits a Muslim man to have 4 wives and concubines…
Besides how is he supposed to marry wife number two without technically cheating first?? Will the woman just land in his house via DHL

Are you a Muslim? If no, please face front.

My questions are for real Muslims.

For those saying he can marry 4 wives as a muslim:

1. Does sharia permit a man to have sex outside marriage?
2. Is he above sharia law? Or is the sharia law for the poor only?
3. The Miriam, whom he had the doings with is she exempted from 1 & 2?
4. Where is sharia police in this matter? Or are they becoming hypocrites on this matter?

Sharia strictly prohibits all extramarital sexual relations, defined as zina (adultery or fornication), labeling it a major sin and a serious crime against social, moral, and family structures. The Quran commands believers not to even approach it. Punishments are severe, requiring high standards of evidence (four witnesses to the act) to prevent false accusations.


Key Aspects of Sharia on Extramarital Affairs:
Definition of Zina: This includes all voluntary sexual acts outside of a valid marriage, such as adultery and fornication.

Punishment: The Quran prescribes 100 lashes for unmarried individuals involved in fornication. Traditional interpretation (Hadith) prescribes stoning to death for married individuals (adultery).

Evidentiary Standards: Proving zina requires four upright male witnesses who saw the act of penetration, or a voluntary, repeated confession. Due to these strict requirements, punishment is rarely implemented in practice.

Repentance: Islam emphasizes the possibility of repentance (tawba), urging those who have committed such sins to sincerely repent, ask for Allah's forgiveness, and not repeat the act.

False Accusation: Falsely accusing someone of zina without four witnesses results in a punishment of 80 lashes.


Extramarital affairs are considered a violation of the marriage contract and detrimental to the community.

Edipet:
she is 69, I don't know her weight

Well my wrtie up earlier points to how to manage the ailment - reduced weight and reduced activities that cause inflammation on the affected joint(s). She can fast and pray so as to keep her mind occupied and off the pain.

Nevertheless, if you possess the funds and patience, you can go for the surgery and the follow up physiotherapy sessions.

I don't think so. Arthritis is a wear-tear issue.

Love800:
I use to stand in a static position 9hrs everyday at my place of work.

Will i get arthritis?

How old is your mum? What is her weight?

Arthritis is progressive disease but can be managed. It affect older folks mostly, but it can affect young folks too especially if they are overweight or over engage on activities (running, jogging, jumping, climbing) that affect the knee cartilage.

Usually the applied solution is knee management. Reduce weight, train the muscles around the knee.


For me, she should skip a meal to aid in her weight loss. Avoid constant moving around, so that the knee will not always remain inflamed. Finally, run from all the pain medication such as Diclofeniac, it numbs the pain and when the effect of the drug wears off, the pain comes back double; thus encoraging the user to continually take it.

In summary, if she can lose weight by skiping meals, reduce activities that hurt the knee, avoid dicofeniac; in three months the pain will reduce.

Medical research says suppliments don't help but the ones that contain glucosamine, chondroitin, omega-3 helps to lubricate the joints. This is my personal experience

Edipet:
Please, my mother was diagnosed with arthritis. We were told that there is no cure for arthritis. An X-ray was carried out, and the doctor said the only solution for her is knee replacement surgery. I would like to know where this can be done in Nigeria and the success rate of the surgery.

It’s not only her knees that hurt; the pain spreads all over her legs. She has been taking pain relievers, but they only provide relief for a few minutes. It’s not that we have the money for the surgery, but we just want to try to contribute among our siblings because she calls us every day to complain about the pain.

Please, is there any alternative treatment to relieve her condition apart from surgery?

Pressing need!

No matter how pressing a need is, it does not justify taking what does not belong the person.

So far she was contacted, she should have refunded it. If she was not contacted, she should have contacted her bank about it.

Individual honesty is required for this country to turn around.

manuelkel:
Exactly, you had to accept the consequences for your own mistake. It's your own mistake you don't have expect total impunity for your action. The receiver might have had a very pressing need, there are needs that are pressing and depressive, you pray for such things, you won't care about the outcome later you go face that one.
From my own understanding I feel the girl had a pressing need to sort out, but I blame her for dishonesty saying opay cleared her debts and blocking the guy also was totally wrong because na the blocking make the guy expose am online.
Women act first before thinking.
The guy should accept the consequences of his actions and stop improvising by changing the narrative blaming the girl and letting the world see the girl as irresponsible girl.

It's being labeled a baby factory. Without proper investigation.


There many orphans roaming around the country. Also, teenage pregnancy is rampant too. Truly, some folks might establish fraudulent centers to exploit them. However, it is bad when the good folks are labeled bad especially due to ethnicity.

Drive around Lagos in the night around 3am, and you will see kids and teens dumpster-diving. Woe be onto you if you drive slowly in dark sections of Lagos, one idiot will jump in to steal your phone - this is a personal experience, thank God I shouted and the idiot ran away.

All I'm saying is that a proper investigation should be conducted. The government should extend their regulation powers to orphanages and teenage pregnancy shelters.

Bigotry should stop!

May god help some of us who workhard and smart, yet these endowed women move us.

Alikoooooooooo:
The more ambitious you are the more your sexual org drops. If you continuously think of money, work, advancement , your need for women will drop, you might start seeing them as unnecessary distractions. I was at a place yesterday and this well endowed woman was in view like 30 meters away and one guy near me was calling God in so many languages. I bid them good bye and headed into the woman's direction. Maybe like 3 years ago I would have chatted her up but these days my time is really important, I looked at her from the back and I laughed to myself. Hardwork blocks so much out. Have you noticed that when men who work damn hard like market traders see a hot babe they just make noise and don't even take out their phones to snap her. It's because all their energy is invested in their work and they cannot even find the thought to distract themselves

Kobojunkie:
You can easily solve your sexual urge problem by developing self-discipline where sex is concerned. If you can train your mind to place other things above that desire, you will find that the girls are not your enemy; you are. 😒

This your training eeeeeeeeee!

It's not easy man, especially when man sees his spec.

NK has possesed nuclear warheads for ages and are yet to use in any war. This implies that they possess the restraint needed to avoid conflict. NK does not sponsor any terrorist organisation. NK has not utilised their nuclear capability for offensve or defensive purposes. Finally, enriched uranium can be for energy purposes too.


Note NK is the primary topic; however, Iran seeking for Nuclear weapon is a big problem. Several affiliated terrorist organisation are linked to iran, even some in Nigeria. With the way, these so-called bandits (evil kidnapping terrorists) are operating, they do not mind using a nuclear weapon on anyone including themselves.

When it's their favour, it's welcome development. Didn't APC ride on almajiri to gain power?

Lol! Very wicked!

AMINDA:
I know someone that will tear an ACL trying to replicate.

Story!

Emeskhalifa:
Iran does not want any of those pilots dead, if they had wanted them all dead, none of them would still be alive.

INEC is rejecting the registration of new parties.

Christ4ever:
Can't Atiku, Amaechi, Obi, Kwakwanso and Co form a new party?

Registering a fresh unknown party shouldn't be too hard since all the ready-made alternatives are a no-go.

This would save all of them this mess.

oz4real83:
That won't stop astronauts from banging each other🤣🤣. The cheats among them will even be celebrating since the chances of pregnancy despite being without protection is zero😏

Have you considered the possibility of any big-bang in the space Station. A place where people float all the time. How will the movement be achieved without gravity? Maybe a robot is need to push and pull.

Furthermore, without gravity blood pressure is likely to drop. This implies no erection. Even ejaculation will be difficult.

https://www.google.com/search?q=can+people+have+sex+in+the+space+Station&oq=can+people+have+sex+in+the+space+Station+&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCTE4Njk2ajBqNKgCDrACAfEF5AHgphAi_Qo&client=ms-android-transsion&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#lfId=ChxjMe

Lol! Here is another image!

papiSNEH:
Facebook people and lies... second to none

Baby talk! Nothing substantial!

esnbrutality:
You are speaking English this man...

America is not planet Mars...let him go again...or are you afraid that as you are on his PA detail to enter America seems very distant and this is your last chance?

Make a move, let's see if Maduro or ayatollah is smaller than him.

We desperately need to check something.

Nonsense

Your response comes from lack of answers.

Since taking office in May 2023, Nigerian President Bola Tinubu has made limited, official trips to the United States, primarily focusing on high-level diplomacy. His main US visit was in September 2023 to New York for the 78th United Nations General Assembly (UNGA), with reported brief stopovers, such as in Los Angeles, August 2025.

esnbrutality:
Let him go again and stop asking senseless questions

I recall Tinubu visited US severally during Hilary Clinton campaings and he flashed his Democrats inviation then. What happened that he can no longer go to the US again. What is the source of your information ?

esnbrutality:
Just imagine...so you feel we dont know what we are saying again? Do you think we do not know that she was specifically NOT invited?

Let her try and come again...

Moreover ..she constant forays wont give her husband soft landing to enter the USA. All aspects of that angle have been observed and we are waiting for them to try their sneaking in again.

This is evidence that Iran is loosing this war. Not happy about the war though but I think Iran should do the honourable thing and come to the table.
This is not sparta!

Bo0tragelad:
Source:
https://www.iranintl.com/en/202603265637

Inasmuch as some of us detest this governement to the core, I do not think it right to put out such a lie.

Here is the Whitehouse report on the event.

esnbrutality:
She wasn't invited and forced herself to the event. She actually sneaks in and is desperate for photo-ops.

All these useless attachment by force sef. Anyway, we have seen the person giving her the invite. She won't try it again.

Anyway, everyone knows that she needs validation from Mrs. TRUMP.

FSBoperator
FreeStuffsNG


Remi Tinubu is seeking audience with the 1st family of the nation that is executing Iranian terrorists with alacrity.

na so Abacha happen!

saintopus:
It's only death that can stop President Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s victory ✌️

pains pains

Chief, comot face. Focus on your hustle and plan towards another lady. Rejection is not failure, keep pushing with your hustle.

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

So recently I've been thinking about marriage. Tho I'm in a relationship but the woman I've been dating doesn't really seem to have the same serious interest and intentions like me. I've talked to her severally but it seems she isn't ready to settle down yet. Imagine this is someone whom I've gone to see her people and they know me well. My own people know her too. I've equally talked to her mom since she's the one parent she has . And had also talked to her best friend about it too.

But one thing I've noticed about her is that she's over religious and seems to be too close to her pastor. The last time I talked to her about the marriage stuff,she directed me to go and talk to her pastor. Tho I was initially furious about it but I just had to man up,kill my pride and decided to pay her pastor a visit.

From the conversation I had with her pastor,it seems he's one of the major stumbling blocks. Because he was only curious about my financial status he was even asking me what was my source of livelihood,and of which I told him. Afterwards,he then asked me what was my monthly salary. Saying if I'm sure I can take care of my fiancee with that amount,or if I'm planning to have a side hustle. That he doesn't want a case where any of her spiritual daughter will go into a marriage where she'll be suffering. I told her categorically clear that I'm not a lazy man and I don't intend to put anyone's daughter into suffering in the name of marriage.

It's been over a week since I left the pastor's office, and since then,my fiancee has been behaving so cold towards me.

So I don't know whether to continue with my proposal or I should just kindly look for another lady to marry.

Alli1swell248:
Lamba lamba.
He can deceive you not we Nigerians.

Join the touts please

Pains!
He did to some extent.
1. SABMiller the manufacturer of Hero Lager plus more
a. More employment prospects
b. More business distribution prospects
c. More local production by farmers to feed into the materials used for beverage production
d. More revenue for the state
2. Orient Petroleum
a. More employment prospects
b. More revenue for the state


These are just a few.

yarim0o:
But how comes you didn't restore glory of small anambra state in last anambra state governorship election?

Good question ⁉️

floss:
But why give South east electronic appliances and generators but give other regions rice ?

GanagiBitrus:
Oya na! Let's go there...

PSG vs Liverpool💥
Real Madrid vs Bayern Munich💥💥
Sporting vs Arsenal
Barcelona vs Atlético Madrid

Correction!💥💥💥

seun how do we post pictures again without uploading

saintneo:
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This image is very difficult to erase from my head since the covid times.

Galactics:
When we tell them that baba sope politics is outdated they insult us. This is one of the unenviable lagacy of Tinubu in Lagos and Nigeria.

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This image is very difficult to erase from my head since the covid times.