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LordAdam16:
Then let her. Life is too short.



You're still falling into the "What will she think" trap. That is how you lose frame even if you weren't doing all these before.

Take your stand, within reason, and let her decide if it's acceptable to her or not. Going by your example, a man doing all that for a girlfriend will see an instant account surplus when he stops. Unless that money is rechanneled to frivolities, it will be a huge financial breather that should help him actuate his goals better and faster; leading to better outcomes--financially, mentally, in his career, and otherwise--in no distant time.

If a gal is too thick or superficial to not see the long-term benefits, instead preferring to pilfer what she can at the moment; then I'm not sure why you'd want such a person close to you much more maintain a romantic relationship. Simping is not only a disorder because ladies are in general ungrateful, but also because it destroys a man's potential.

If you're spending the prime earning years of your life shouldering the responsibilities of a girlfriend who can end things through a N4 text message, you are being financially irresponsible.

When you stop simping financially, you are practically detoxing your finances. Anyone who has a problem with that is an enemy of progress, whether you f*ck them or not. That should be your primary consideration, not whether she "will still love you." The love women have for their partners are usually conditional.

As such, whatever emotional blackmail she retorts with, respond with a calm, resolute disposition under the context of how it'll make your life better. Consequently, if she's too selfish to accept that, then it's her loss. Let her know that. It's not a world war. The people in your life should be a net positive.



I'm not disputing the difficulty. Yes, a lot of the time, it is almost impossible. My point is that it is nuanced. Not everyone's case is as extreme nor is every guy in a position where they can just up and leave without first applying red-pill nuggets.

-Lord

Relax, it is not an argument as I believe we're on the same page.

Not everyone will simp so hard in his pre-redpill relationship, such men can try applying redpill game... It might work even though the chances are low.

When the SIMP in the example I gave earlier stops doing all he was doing for her and focuses on improving himself, other women will see him as an ambitious Alpha... But his pre-redpill girlfriend will hate him, call him stingy, try as much as possible to bring him back to his former simping self and if she fails, she leaves.

Which brings us back to my earlier suggestion that said not to take your pre-redpill relationships serious (not necessarily end it immediately) after taking the pill but instead focus on starting new relationships with the emboldened type of women I referred to... Because you are already an ALPHA to the emboldened women in my text but you must go through a lot of work to transform into an alpha from a beta in the eyes of your pre-redpill girlfriend (which isn't worth it because you automatically pedestalise her by even putting such efforts)

Only a married man should put in such an effort of transforming from Beta to Alpha, I wouldn't advice a single guy to do such.

In a way, we're saying the same thing bro.

heartofcity12:
Not really, except she’s a virgin and that can only be affirmed if you’re the one that breaks the hymen. To the non virgins, the only way you can still have an idea is when she spill the beans by herself after you get close to her, somehow they always tell on themselves, be observant, I wouldn’t bank on this method tho. It’s why men are advised to opt out for virgins alone.

Boss, I know you said "have an IDEA" but you should have told him that they always reduce the number o... That's why I came to the conclusion that once she's not a virgin, just know or assume that you are with a hoe then make peace with it.

She will almost always tell you it's a third (⅓) of what it actually is.

LordAdam16:
. So, IMO, there is no immediate need to leave your current relationship.

I said not to take it seriously, not necessarily leave immediately... But then it depends on the level at which the man had SIMP'd.

You can start gaming her the redpill way but do not take the relationship seriously again because she might think that you are cheating on her when you stop being her doormat all of a sudden, she might feel betrayed that you pretended to be nice so you could have her cookies and now you are beginning to show your real self.

Mostly, she feels betrayed, confused or uncomfortable with the new you and she falls off.

Let's say for example
* a SIMP has been:
1. Paying his girlfriend weekly/monthly allowances.
2. Paying her school fees.
3. Upgrading her iPhone whenever a new one drops.
4. Changing her wardrobe from time to time.
5. Taking care of his girlfriend's family.
6. Opened and funding a business for his girlfriend.

When he takes the redpill and comes to his senses, do you think she will love him when he takes all of the above mentioned away?

ALPHA F*CKS, BETA BUCKS.
Once a girl has classified you as a beta bucks, it is almost impossible to transform into an alpha f*cks.

Dliquidmetal:
must yall wait till after "breakfast" before you start looking for pill to swallow or how to be less a simp? I'm pretty sure you've been following this thread for long.
Your rage stage to long ehn,I dey pity the next girl you'd date

One thing I observe is that, once a guy is in a relationship where he is already simping... It is very difficult to transform/become ALPHA in that very relationship no matter how many redpill he swallows.
So I will advice all new comers to stop taking their pre-redpill relationships serious because first impressions matter a lot and how you start something is often how it ends, as far as that relationship is concerned: Once a simp always a simp.
After taking the redpill your old life has passed away, start new relationships and enter with redpill frame and game.

Rillycool:
Please can I get a copy of this book I sent you
a PM

Anonymousbobo:
Boss please can you send this book to me
I’ve sent a PM to you

I've sent it to a number of guys here, I wish they can come out too so as to facilitate the sharing process... But I'll send it to you guys later sha.

...

Every Man has Game, he picks it up at a young age. But the natural Game that man picks up has been proven to be obsolete in the 21st century therefore Man must UNLEARN his original game and LEARN the game that works.

Game is an Art!
Learning game is like learning martial art, you don't read a book on karate and become a black belt... It's a process of learning through practice, trial, error, adaptation and improvisation to go from apprentice to master.

The holy trifecta of masculine improvement:
1. MAKE MONEY
2. MAKE MUSCLES
3. LEARN GAME

(FRAME is the combined balance of all three)

GAME is the least understood among them, it takes the longest to learn, practice and master so it is often avoided by Average Frustrated Men.

I will be dropping key points from Rollo Tomassi's latest book on GAME.

Olasyke:
What does this have to do with domestic violence?

Let's say Peter comes back home one day, drunk, stoned and high AF... Then his wife starts nagging to his ears, what do you think the outcome will be?

CaveAdullam:
OFF-TOPIC

I've been coming across some video Amazon kdp courses, this had been made known to me by some of my friends.

Please, I want to ask, has any one of you purchased such a course or know someone that purchased it and finds it useful and authentic. The courses are expensive so I want to do market research before purchase.

I await your response. Thanks.

Cc. Sajmark, Fattprince.

I'm not familiar with this bro, but I hope someone here can help you out.

RAGGA40:
To my Redpill brothers, today is my birthday, celebrate with me, may we all continue to get unplugged from the simping disorder

Happy birthday bro... Age gracefully.

lakesidepapa:
sajm@rk

Sent...

Tips for kings 2

Tips for kings 1

lakesidepapa:
I need the ebook as well bro, The rational man by Rollo

No wahala, the rationale male books are many but I can send the first and the last ones to you and you'll be okay... Send me a PM

lakesidepapa:
I'll also like to take the med brother..

Sorry, me no comprénde... Rephrase please.

Junnior:
The title of this movie should have been The Simp Next Door

I'll have to watch this movie to see what you guys are talking about... But so far this is the most SIMPish movie I know, ONEities at its peak.

Thank you chairmanawe for the book, I appreciate you.

Tips for Kings

Your emotions are very powerful, suppressing it is very difficult... But TRY.

Stay Redpill'd.

CAPSLOCKED:
NOT FOR THIS THREAD/FORUM LOADED WITH SOME OF THE WORST CALIBRE OF MEN I'D EVER WANT TO DEAL WITH. BUT I'M HOPING THAT ONE DAY MEN WILL FIND A PLATFORM TO TALK TO OTHER MEN ABOUT TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES AND HOW TO SURVIVE BEFORE ESCAPING FROM ONE.

THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN I AND DEPP IS THAT HE'S FAMOUS. THE THINGS I EXPERIENCED IN A SIMILAR SITUATION WILL FIT INTO A NETFLIX MINI-SERIES.

Damn, I'm glad you've broken free bro... I'm sure it will be very difficult for you to enter into a toxic relationship again.

There was a thread on FrontPage months ago about how an African woman beheaded her husband because he cheated on her, only God knows how many women have poisoned their husbands and sent them to their early graves... But the guy thinks we should go ahead with toxic relationships because our courts ain't like the west's.

chairmanawe:
WhatsApp

Can I send you a mail?

Think4Myself:
Relax, right now there's no woman that can mess me up, tf? in Nigeria niggas beat up their girls without any consequence, I just saw a topic on here where a nigga beat up his girl in delta and I'm sure nothing happened (which is wrong). Imagine if the girl is now toxic nobody will even bother cos these things are the reality in 9ja, which is a blessing for your innocent guy but a curse for the innocent girl. you know what I mean

Then I guess you have no reason at all to stay away from toxic women... All the best bro.

chairmanawe:
I can give you for free

Wow, thank you bro... What is the most convenient way for you to send it?

Think4Myself:
Lmao, this is Nigeria my guy... A patriarchal society
All these BS doesn't bother us

Lol, you think suing or taking you to court is the only way a toxic woman can attempt to f*ck you up?
My problem with some guys here is that they take things too literally, there are many ways a toxic woman can mess you up... Think for yourself bro, think.

Carcholce:
https://www.docdroid.net/MzRQo8q/the-rational-male-pdf#page=28

This is the first Rational Male book bro, I'm talking about the most recent.

Who can make purchases on Amazon?
I want some of us to contribute and buy the new Rollo Tomassi's book, then share it for free to all the members of the house.
How much does the book cost in naira?
Does anyone here have the book?

There's a line between being her boyfriend and just her friend.
The Colder you are the more you tilt towards being her boyfriend, WHILE the Nicer you are the more you tilt towards being just her friend.

Nice guys finish last because their dream girls will marry them after the bad boys are done f*cking them.

Stay Cold.
Stay Taliban.

Dear Kings,
Johnny Depp got his life back, You might not be as lucky... Run away the moment you see or sense toxicity in her!!!

Tips for Kings

Happy new month kings

Siberia01:



Don't let xaomi users confuse....you
Have noticed that a lot of xaomi second hands are currently on sale... What could be wrong?

It's no different from infinix

The only problem with Xiaomi is it's MIUI software, they bombarded it with so many features that it is very heavy, demanding, and not as optimised as it should be.
Even at that, infinix and tecno are not qualified to be in the same sentence with Xiaomi.

LifestyleTonite:
By the way guys, let's not talk about masculinity without encouraging each other with moves we are making towards such. The other day, the argument was about how guys stopped going to the gym after getting a girl or getting married. Well, I suggested that a guy who has become too busy to go to the gym should get a multipurpose workout equipment at home. That I just did.

How much did it cost you bro?
I also want to buy weights and other workout equipments for my personal use but they are mostly very expensive.

iamphenomenal:
Thus feeling so lucky that he's found gold after waiting all these years.... He throws an elaborate wedding party, probably took loans

*Shakes head

100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.