₦airaland Forum

searching4love:
Going by the rudeness and manner less nature of nairaland girls, i think it's best they are left to remain single for life. I have seen various threads about nairalanders getting married and i feel sorry for those dudes who was caught in their fake love trap With the responses and attacks i've gotten so far from nairaland girls, i can conclude that theirs no good and reasonable girl on here They are so bold to curse you out or call you names for voicing out your opinions. I would advice every man looking to find love on here to hit the streets. Girls on here are nothing to write home about


My humble submission. Good luck to every guys searching for love

Mr poster welldone

[quote author=tosyne2much post=30792492][/quote]YOU DONE COME AGAIN I SALUTE OOOO.
BUT SOME THINGS YOU WROTE I DISAGREE WITH THEM CUZ IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON

safarigirl:
I was watching one of Chris Rock's comedy shows recently where he made a valid point that women cannot go back materialistically.

What he meant by this simply is that women just won't fancy dating any guy who is less financially buoyant than their last boyfriend and if they do, they won't be 'feeling' the other guy s much.

I've had conversations with two of my female room mates whose idea of their 'best boyfriend ever' was the guy who spent on them, who got them the expensive stuff and provided them with their heart's desires without them having to even ask. There is nothing any female loves more than when her man gets her some item (be it a shoe, a handbag, a phone etc) she's been pining for without her having to utter a word about it to him. Example, if she's been posting a pic of a pair of shoes on her IG or DP and her man asks why she's so interested in the shoe followed by her shoe size, trust when I say the Shoki the babe will be dancing that day in anticipation of the arrival of the shoes will be enough to send Lil Kesh out of business

Fellas, if you're looking to date a woman whose ex is responsible for half the shiiit in her closet, plus the Samsung galaxy/Iphone she's currently using and you're not loaded, I regret to inform you that you don enter one chance. As in, your own don kpafuka. Like, she most likely will have the same interest in the relationship as the average straight man has in an episode of The Kardashians

This ain't no Dr.Phil so imma give you some straight-talkin' , you want the truth? Well, here it is. You may love her more than that ex did, you may be ready to sell your father's land in the village to provide for her, but all of that will most likely pale in her eyes in comparison to what the mofo ex has done for her.

Women tend to place their wants above their needs. Forget Nollywood movies bro, you're not Ramsey Noah and she's not Genevieve, if she's with you despite the fact that you're 'poorer' than her ex, then know that she's most likely just hanging around until either the ex is released from whatever spiritual bondage that caused him to break up with her or the Lord directs some other rich dude to her stable.

So I explained to one of the two girls that her ex isn't necessarily the best guy she'll ever meet, he just happens to have the funds to express his love as opposed to some other guy who may respect her more and generally be more loving, but is unfortunately, not financially buoyant enough to show he's a better catch. In such situations it's left to the woman to decide what she really wants in a relationship and if she can survive with a man who may not be financially gifted, but possesses other traits that in the long run would be much better than wealth

So on that note, I will agree with emusmith, that love isn't always enough in any relationship, but not necessarily based on the terms he listed in his write-up, which in all honesty, I found some vapid, petty and somewhat shallow (no offence ). Sometimes the psychological make-up of a gender will come into play.

And before the men cry foul, Chris Rock also stated that men on the other hand, can NOT go back Sexually....but I believe that's a topic for another day. Ciao

kwaret babe thumbs up

Blackett:
See them. . . Fully representing.

yes ke

OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

you just became her maga.you showed her just how much you cared and she knows what string to pull.God forbid something happens to ya job and things go a little downhill what assurance do you have have that she wont leave you.am not a fan of broken home especially with a baby involved.you already made the error i wouldnt say error.it might be all good.its 50 50.for your good i hope she has changed and you are happy at the end

YES[color=#990000][/color] YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Dapo777:
Most times when a girl decide to remain a virgin till she gets married,its usually out of indoctrination, or in some rare cases lack of exposure/opportunity.

Girls,especially in this part of the world are told to remain virgins till she gets married, so that her husband would appreciate her and put a lot of value on her. How true is this?

Well, if I should discover that my wife is a Virgin on our honey moon,I would be impressed that she was able to hold herself,that shows that she is disciplined. It also gives me some sense of pride that I am the "first"

On the other hand.......

I will feel a bit worried.

Sex is the number one factor that determines the success of a marriage.

A virgin would have one or more issues relating to sex.

There are two categories of virgin(female)

1)Those that masturbate.
2)Those that don't masturbate.

A virgin that masturbate would be selfish on bed. She would feel she can satisfy herself and probably doesn't require her husband for sexual fulfilment. Its their kind that would be faking orgasm in bed. They are usually the feminists.

A virgin that don't masturbate would be a sex maniac after marriage. Especially if her husband is really experienced on bed. All the urges she has failed to satisfy while in her youth would be burdened on her husband. Its their kind that won't get satisfied after 6 rounds

You see. Both kinds of virgin would pose some problems to their husband after marriage.

Imagine if your wife can't be satisfied from your penis, check closely she was/is probably a masturbator while in her youth. Worse of all when she fakes orgasm. Problems would start emerging.

Imagine if your wife has more libido than you do, after all the hectic pounding and pounding,she starts moving her hands over you while you resting and then you start feeling insufficient.

This is my opinion.

*dodges bottles from virgins*

And yet another virgin thread.with theories that are unfound.and its on the front page.why am I not suprised

nkemdi89:
Why creating the thread in the first place?your view about girl/womanhood is very poor, to you its an advert that's where your reasoning placed it, what do you see yourself a relationship expert or what? Sending wrong signals to gullible minds with your trashy writeup.

Good don't know why he is so much interested in virgins.now people are throwing words at each other over what.
Am sure in your mind now you have made an achivement

Ipledge:
because Nairaland girls will always want us believe they virgin,even if u see dick for their Lobito,they will tell u it's corn shaft

So still do sent explain y una wan die on top the matter

Why are naira land guys so obsessed with virginity. .
One would think you are on some kinda quest.
Toseyntoomuch hmmmmm

Relationship wise if I can go back I wouldn't have treated Seun badly.he was great.I was an ass.I still feel terrible so many things were left on said and its been years ooooo.
As regards my life I wish I had taken more risks I have been better off now than I actually am

EXCUSES EXCUSES EXCUSES BUT I LIKE THE CONFESSION THOUGH .AND A LOT OF THE RESPONSES HERE SOUND IMMATURE

MrsbigAss:
Tell me those that are fine.

https://www.nairaland.com/beennkumar
https://www.nairaland.com/djeezy
https://www.nairaland.com/vjsmiles


DEM TRY SMALL

Merryking:
lols, i object, but being single is somehow fun, but sometimes being in luv with the right person is cool but not just any person

BEING SINGLE IS LONELY AND NOT FUN.TRUST I KNOW AND HATE THAT FEELING.
IT MAKES YOU YOU WORSE.I KINDA LIKE THE DRAMA IN RELATIONSHIP. I MISS DAT

MrsbigAss:
1) www.nairaland.com/Kingcklent

2) www.nairaland.com/naijaboiy

3) www.nairaland.com/beennkumar

4) www.nairaland.com/logicalmind

5) www.nairaland.com/djeezy

6) www.nairaland.com/vjsmiles

7) www.nairaland.com/tallesty1

www.nairaland.com/tosyne2much
9) www.nairaland.com/chibwike

10) www.nairaland.com/kulboy

NOT ALL OF THEM ARE DAT FYN.LIKE TWO OR THREE.SOME LOOK QUITE YOUNG.SOWIE GUYS NO HARD FEELINGS

MrIncrediible:
No matter how much fun it is being single, there's that feeling of loneliness that comes around once in a while.

KWARET

gsalvatore:
Do you consider yourself short?

You are not short for a woman IMO .

EgusiSoup:
I think you should try to prove me wrong!

Am not the one who makes terrible choices in the girls he has been with. And that is y your experiences have been that way

MrIncrediible:
If that's the case then it's safe to say "most" Nigerian girls are shallow minded. That's the dude's point.

Nope his choice of female that is like one in a haystack

EgusiSoup:
Let's call a spade a spade!

They have all shown the same qualities. All the soups I've tasted from Otueke to Ijebu-Ode, From Crystals in Abuja to Crystals in Portharcourt.

I have tasted about 80% of the soups and after careful analysis, I've come to realize that they only thing they can offer you is SEX.

I'm yet to see a Nigerian Girl with brains, I'm yet to see a Nigerian girl that looks at your personality before looking at the Car you drive, the list goes on and on.... Buh seriously, Nigerian Girls need to change their way of thinking.

For all the money, time and energy that'll be spent today by the Men out there today just to please a "Nigerian Girl" because of some burrowed tradition called VALENTINE, it'll all end up in SEX. That's the only thing they have to offer In return.

May God help us.









Please do not quote me or else it won't be funny.












Egusi Soup

I wonder if your post should be taken seriously. Based on ya name.yes am a typical Nigerian Sue me.the male folks also do the same thing above.its seems you have been around some Shallow minded girls

And op what gave you the impression that they want tall girls so as I am not tall now I won't get a rich guy..DAT one na lie.correct lie.

pomide:
lol, most virgins are like that, check most thread about virgins and you'd see the same probs lol...as for marrying a virgin, i'm never gonna date one so am not gonna marry one lol...am hemophobic


nice pics in btw

I give up.but u never say never

Pomide pomide pomide ow many times did I call you.just bacuz one gal broke ya heart and she was a v doesn't make everyone bad.you might even marry a v

So I came across this in john 3:16 on someones post and you can literally spell Valentine from the words

Are u single like me.just broke up from a relationship. Your Partner isnt around.how are you spending your day .or for those of you working no time for relationships. Its the weekend what will you be doing

Did she leave you welcome to being single on Val's day

News reaching me is that jega has been replaced confirm please

BUT THE SEASON NEVER START NOW NA STILL APRIL