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livebullet:
What is wrong is wrong... Justifying Yahoo over kidnapping does not make Yahoo less a crime... Even if in Nigeria we are so accustomed to not calling a spade a spade because we will rather give it some coloration and rename it

statistics and social media has proved what marriage really is. Religion unsuccessfully hid what marriage is.everybody can see who is behind the mask so leave matter for matthias

maasoap:
Better go and work on your weaknesses and improve yourself where you are lacking relationship wise

this manipulation cannot work.if there's anything I've seen and heard,married men are the most promiscuous beings I have ever seen.theyre hornier than dogs.24 hrs they want to have sex with anything,they want a woman with the best character but don't want to work on themselves as a human being. Mr man abeg getat

Don't even get me started on who dey fund the likes of saidaboj and mandykiss.MARRIED MEN,so rest

nwirinedu:
Why does she sound miserable ?

the way these married folks talk about marriage and try to use gaslighting to drag others into marriage, you go think say their lives dey perfect until you near them

Btw nobody is as miserable as the wives of promiscuous and violent men.the numbers of suffering and smiling women in churches and mosques is another matter on its own.if you wan fi d miserable, look no further.marriage sweet na him married men dey beg 16 year old for sex.tuehhhhhh

livebullet:
No o make e dey revolve around rubber and rechargeable vibes...

as long as it brings orgasm, peace and good hormones


Don't even get me started with the number of married women using std drugs and dealing with other hormonal imbalance caused by their husbands pen1s wey no wan stay one place.you don't want me to open that file

Pastor and alfas wives included

livebullet:
This SAMBARRY two things:
1. It's either you have being frustrated out or still being frustrated in a marriage or...

2. You are just a simp hoping for feminists to applaud you defending them. Or...

3. You just want to test a different position and see what the responses will be like.

Whichever it is, just enjoy your day and know that 10,000,000 lies can only defame 1 truth but will never kill it.

lmaooo Sharap your mouth there

Na when them no have an point to defend their argument they start using gaslighting techniques

maasoap:
Everything has a phase. How old are you at the moment? How long are you planning to be driving around the town and taking pictures and alternatively burying yourself in your work? Are you planning to be lonely (sorry, I mean single) till you're 60? All these are coping mechanisms.
Don't you want relationship? Perhaps, it didn't work out for you the last time. One may give u trying but the alternatives can never be better in the long run

must you project on other people? Na you go tell single people how to live their lives? it's the audacity for me especially considering messy and irritating stories we hear about marriage everyday on instablog and other handles aka pls hide identity

If marriage was as blissful as the way you paint it,no be you go dey advertise am,na all the single people go dey jump enter am

livebullet:
All these talk na theory...
The simple question is;
1. You dey collect d* abi you no dey collect?
2. If 1 above is negative, then no doubt you must have a rubber d*...

Stop making single sound like abstinence.

We will only be amazed if you have conquered your sex drive. Otherwise, nothing special about your being single.. stop sounding like you are extra terrestrial and a super human.

yinmu

Wetin consain you about an unmarried woman's sexual status?

Na by force for a woman's life and body to revolve around men?

ppogba:
I don't engage PAs.

Give the phone to Toke.

another wailer

Meanwhile they're all over single women's dms begging for dates and awon just the tip


Phone kee you there you still wan carry hate enter 2025 abi? Ride on

Cj4charles:
Once their bad characters have taken them out from a relationship or marriage and put them back to the street, they becomes motivational activists 😁😂

once women decenter men and make their lives revolve around other things other than men,all those angry and bitterleaf brokies just start wailing everywhere

ppogba:
It us within your fundamental human right to self console.

Your eye go soon clear when the hair down below begins to turn grey.

Shebi you no dey ever pass 32 years every year.

all these angry men everywhere sef

Once women who decentre men talk,their ego must sha stand up

Negroid001:
Make nobody whine you. Relationship sweet die! Having a understanding and loving partner to navigate life with is underated.

This old cargo with many miles called Toke is frustrated and only trying to console herself.

bitter leaf people don see food chop this morning

Bad belle.make he no party again?

Eyan kotanarare bi iya ibeji

Crowntop94:
She knows the game she was playing and it's clear to we that knows it.

again what game is she playing nitori koyemi

Olabestonic001:
You be asking questions up-and-down like you're just coming from another planet.

rolls eyes.not every one cares to know what is going on in other people's private life.i haven't had the time to follow up on them so I sincerely don't know. If I knew I wouldn't be asking

Crowntop94:
Forget all this bro the game the woman is playing is well known to everyone even his late husband, the woman is part of his husband problem with the deputy governor now the governor..she always likes to be in charge of everything whereas she is not the one elected by the good people of ondo state.
So no eye service anywhere the woman is a real wicked and bittered soul.

what game was she playing?

Olabestonic001:
What if she is the frenemy? Her role during her husband sickness made me see her as the frenemy. She was more interested in politics than attending to her husband.

what did she do when her late husband was sick?

TOPCRUISE:
Which kind wife Akeredolu marry before he died and was regarded as First Lady.
By definition she is a pained, vengeful and manipulative wife. For someone to devalue the platform that brought her now deceased husband to the position of Governor and now despise the honor they want to give him with her comments that shows how much venom of a woman she has in her.

na by force to accept gift? If person say she no want,then she no want especially when there's an undertone of obligation attached to the gift

Any gift that comes with wahala is not worth it abeg

Crowntop94:
The woman ìs a troublesome person.

if you check well she's a firm woman with boundaries and who refuses to be manipulated because if not who does a honour party without the knowledge of the wife or other important if not eye service and abosi. I hate fake people and people who pretend to care when they really do not

I like that action of hers and calling out the eye service. Awon alabosi oshi

bro4u:
It's like the rumors about this woman and her attitude are all true. She should remember she's an igbo; her child is more of a Yoruba than her.

this is not a matter of tribe.if you see frenemies and people giving you Greek gifts so that they can use it to emotionally blackmail you tomorrow, you reject it

And one thing I know about politicians is that they don't give or offer you anything for nothing. There's always something they want behind it or something they want you to do for them later.

Let them carry their honour elsewhere.its always women who see through the bull shit and refuse to accept it that's always seen as the bad person or person without character

Once you don't put yourself in a position to be manipulated or used,you become bad

Dreal1247:
If you want to continually rule in the scheme of things around you and people you constantly or occasionally do with, learn to be liberal and always willing to forgive irrespective of the degree of provocation.

she's his wife meaning she's the closest to him and will likely recognise frenemies (who are more in number) enemies with a smiling face and actual enemies who make theirs obvious.its easier to deal with enemies who have made themselves known that they hate you but you see frenemies aka enemies with a smiling face they're more dangerous and can kill you slowly and steadily while you're still thinking that you have a friend.i don't blame her because alabosis plenty especially around those in power.they always have a way of covertly forcing and attaching themselves Into families and pretend to care.they do things for show and to pretend they love you even when they have another motive.

No be everybody wey offer hand of extension them dey shake especially when you see through them.

helinues:
I don't think Naomi is a good girl. Oni is cool now

definition of good girl please?

Tell her to cut it regularly. Problem solved.

Smh

The sky is big enough for everyone to fly.stop envying funke. She has studied the nigerian market and knows what to do to attract viewers apart from fact that she's excellent in her craft and skill

You too do a little charity and stop shading. If yo like shade,once it's funke,accept she's your boss and she knows how to play the game. Gbafoga e.toyin I love you but stop all this lousiness and go an read 48 laws of power by Robert greene and you will understand why she's doing well in industry .she has shown dat skill, consistency and hardwork beats beauty, bleaching ,over dressing, always clowning and doing the most

helinues:
Reality dawning . His Excellency actually answered most of the questions with humor

Shop at mart instead of mall

Annoyingly, those who are privilege hardly patronize road side sellers. They keep on giving their money to the capitalist . Buying fresh fruits at road side compared to mall or mart is almost 10% difference

Lately, I have been deliberately buying some things at the road side just to boost the economy

you go to the roadside to buy oranges and the seller is talking to you rudely as if you came to beg for whatever she's sell.if you even ask the price and you decide to price it she will respond with curses

Some will even be using you to answer call and be expecting your to stand there till she finish talking on phone.another issue is they're so rude to the extent that they have no customer relations. You will give them N500 and after buying whatever and you say madam please give me my change,they'll respond within annoying and saucy response like there's no change o,I no fit comot here o,I no fit find change etc

Again as you're carrying your shopping bag,you're avoiding reckless okada,private cars splashing water on you,people pushing you etc.

But at least if you go to shopping malls even when their stuffs might be relatively expensive compared to the prices at the local market but you know you will be treated with basic human decency and respect. Nobody is hurling insult at your face, you can use the pos for convenience etc.its more easier and stress free

Aside that you see the prices of each product and that helps in managing your spending and moving around. Ok today I went to the local market to buy onions. I was asking the seller how much is your onions, he ignored me,he was using me to press phone.that won't happen in a mall.infact I don't have to discuss with the cashier because I have seen the prices of whatever product.truth be told those local market traders are too caustic

Sonnobax15:

It's one hell of situation we (men) have found ourselves in .

Was in a my town's government hospital two weeks ago,and I was standing right behind three bannies......One of them was telling the others how her BF told her to invite her friends over so that they could do a threesomEE . Honestly,I was shocked.....The second one said how She loves her BF big diick and that's one of the few reasons why she's still with him.......Omoh,I was weak....

Op,the truth is that our society is presently stocked with iron-condemned kind of ladies.......The ones that will never add any meaning to their men's lives..... Sometimes I begin to wonder why God has decided to punish men of this generation for the sins of our forefathers

We,the single men are in deep shiit,jokes apart...Cuz there ain't no plenty sensible bannies out there anymore.

na your gender dey use indomie, meat pie or whatever to deceive girls. Even 3year old babies,7year old kids are not safe from pedophile r@pist but now You're suddenly looking for vargin. You go see for social media


I remember when Regina was still a kid and was just growing brez,some clowns were ogling at her and saying stuffs like she don die for chopping etc

Moral lesson: a society that protects, loves, defends,respects and care for women get the best wives, girlfriends, sisters etc. A society that destroys its women produces the worst,morally bankrupt, deranged and unmarriageable woman

Your gender sowed rape,domestic violence, forced child marriage, illiteracy and forced economic disempowerment yet you want the most decent, loyal,submissive and wifely women.dey play.

Go only fans ,yaba left,Allen avenue or dating apps you go see wife material

emkz:
He did a video where he rubbed baby oil on one of his fingers and was moving it up and down while saying: "ifuku-fuku-fuku".

A person who cannot control his mouth will end up allowing his mouth to control him into trouble.

I HOPE HE LEARNT HIS LESSONS.

As for the celebrity lawyer, he needs to influence his clients out of trouble. After this guy was released, a sensible lawyer would have advised him to desist and not even engage in innuendos, but not the dude who uses these people to build his profile. It is similar to the Bolt driver assaulted by a member of the house of representatives. While the celebrity lawyer was in court trying to get the person who assaulted his client to pay heavily, the client was said to have gone to the assaulter's house with his brother to eat chicken and collect AC, as well as ikebelicious babes.

A lawyer who cannot influence his clients should just remain an activist: a public nuisance without ethics in genuine activism.

no he hasn't learnt his lesson. He is an annoying clown who might likely repeat his actions again

jaksmillioniar:
why mentioned my family pls stop it if na insult I sabi dat very we I see u as matured am dissapointed In u. Wen I say women have baby brain is dat dey are not like men.can a woman be like a man.if a man got money more Dan women no problem evrybody enjoy. He even helped her family but women will run mad.see jenifa as she got money she dump her hubby see Tiwari savage she start to misbehave try to control her hubby cos of money.u women can not handle money more Dan ur hubby

ok make jenifa siddon there to continue collecting everyday beating insult and embarrassment because say she get money. If that's your definition of marriage then something is clearly wrong with you

BondRiv:
Dey play. A man is naturally meant to lead. You guys should stop going against the order of nature and find peace.

till he lead you go where you nor know

Men and unnecessary ego.them must sha carry ego enter every matter even when they know they're wrong

My gender I no say make you no follow man's leadership but follow am with common sense if not na die you dey.osinachi is an example. If you like follow men's mouth or all those religious bigoted misogynistic advice, you don die finish. Examples full all over nl for those ones following men without using their common sense. Again don't forget the person you married grew up in a misogynistic culture

When a marriage didn't work out.i don't care who was wrong or right, move and stop talking about a dead and buried matter because no matter how you talk about it,you cannot go back to the woman or man so stop resurrecting a dead and buried marriage.


It's just like moving out of a house and moving into another one and still talking about the old house. It makes no sense.resist the urge to talk about your ex.it doesn't help your healing process. It doesn't help you forget about the trauma. Continuously talking about your ex what he did right or wrong strengthens trauma bond and there's something I love about men.they don't love with emotions and they priortize self preservation over anything. Not just self preservation but the law of detachment.women need to learn this to reduce all this pity party talk and emotional injury.you fall down,get up, dust yourself and keep it moving without talking about how you fell and who made you fall.just get up move without looking back and you will see how sane you will be.

How can you be so attached to an efemeral human being like you that can say yes today and say no tomorrow. That faith and attachment should be only to God.

You owe every man and woman basic respect and a healthy level of love but you owe God absolute faith trust,attachment and loyalty because your love for God will be tested as a Christian and if you pass it With loyalty and complete trust in God,he will reward you in ways you didn't see coming because he said he's a rewarder of those who diligently seek him but if you put the faith you should put in God on man,see your back for ground.your breakfast go loud because the same God said woe unto anybody who puts his faith in man.

The bottomline is you don't owe any man faith in him.thats for God you owe them respect and a sensible amount of compassion and respect (if need be)