₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
the issue you women fail to understand is that: FOR THE RIGHT WOMAN, men would wait for a decade sef (and have side chicas to service them until you give up the good).... the important question IS: why do all men believe that the above woman aint the right one as soon as they interact a lil with her? whatever it may be, it certainly aint these men's problem and can only be hers.

life is all a playing field, A) if you act cheap and give up the cootie cat too fast then we wont value you, and B) if you dont give it up in a certain timeline. then we quickly lose interest and bounce (because we believe you aint worth the wait)... but if we believe that you are the one, then we will wait and build something with you. so there needs to be the right balance here. you cant be foul, with failed character but because you are a virgin, you expect people to dance to your BS as if you are the best catch in Nigeria.



all them E-virgins sef, as if virginity is now a confirmation of great character.



you see, i can already imagine the gibberish nonsense that this above woman will be saying, because of her yeye virginity (that she is probably putting on her head as if its an achievement) and give men the run around all day long.
look at that chef hilda something that also "claims" virgin but dresses like the biggest slut in Nigeria with most of her pics online with her tittays falling out of her dress and posing like a cheap wh0re to show her fake nyansh with dresses too small then, the type of men she will attract is just old ogas at the top who are looking for a trophy wife (aka Ned type) and not real men who want a proper wife.

but thats exactly the issue here... they all are quick to pose on social media, but are trying too hard and it shows their desperate state of mind. with their cheap pics portraying them as exactly that (cheap).

ok so what's she doing wrong that is making men japa from her?

I've not seen her dressing like a hoe or a promiscuous girl.for the last part her dressing has always been modest and decent. Also I have never seen her in any social media scandal or one sugar daddy,chief alhaji entanglement or someone threatening her with sex tape so what exactly is the problem? She's marriageable by all standards I have seen so far.

According to you now you said if she gives the cookie too quickly and to easily men will loose value for her.if she doesn't give it they'll be tired and bounce.yet the same men will be calling her olosho if she gives it easily, if she no give am easily she's too Stubborn and disagreeable. So again where una stand.what should she do to make her wifeable because all I just saw in your comments are just excuses to make it look like its her fault that she's not married.

Ok

MrBrownJay1:
if a few guys dont want to approach you, its understandable... if ALL guys stay away from you then the problem is YOU. either your character, you mindset, your attitude or whatever.

well Juliana is beautiful, educated, talented, good at her craft and also relatively financially successful at least at her level but I noticed women in the entertainment industry. I am talking about women who have never married at all.i am not talking about single mothers or divorcees hoping to remarry,single women.i noticed all the men that come around them just wan nack and bounce (I mean casual s3x) no man wants to stay long with them for long term goals,whys that? And then when the men see theres ni prospects of getting sex from them they claim shes a lesbian. I thought the men said they don't want liability or a lazy woman. She's none of the above. She ticks all the boxes of wifeable so Why's a woman as pretty as her finding it difficult marry.its really puzzling.she even said she's a virgin.

The men see goo girls and say she's too boring, not all that beautiful, too rigid and too prude

They see bad girl,ha this one too wild o.her eye no go dey one place. No man fit satisfy am

Book worm this one go dey form Itk.she no go dey submissive. She's too educated and exposed

Illiterate. This one wey no go school go be liability. She's not even presentable.

What exactly do men want sef

MrBrownJay1:
this has nothing to do with men's behavior as we all know that men will even fukc mad women sleeping in the streets next to garbage... but there is a reason why men are avoiding this woman, and unless she focusses on that, nothing will change.

if women actually believe that the problem here is men then its obvious you women dont understand us men... and this has nothing to do with her weight because even Gabourey Sidibe (the girl who played Precious) could find a man.

so what then is the issue because I don't understand again

We4all:
After all the shakara...

rest.so a woman's not supposed to have her taste the same way men have theirs?

MrBrownJay1:
if you are supposedly good looking, financially comfortable and cant find a man in Nigeria... then the problem is YOU!

stop wasting time asking your friends and instead look within yourself to figure out what makes good men avoid you for r/ship or marriage (unless you believe all Nigerian men are blind or crazy).

I don't understand. How's she the problem?

Since when did women have control over men's behaviour?

Ok

It's well

emmabest2000:
Wherever you live is your home
Charity begins at home

nigeria needs more protest than Ghana. Moreover you cannot cry more than the bereaved

Bros charity begins from nigeria

KEVIND:
When will Niger delta wake up from her slumber.
You can't continue to receive crumps while the land is been decimated by other regions in the name of oil exploration.
The world is gradually moving from oil. What will happen to Post Oil Niger delta?
I weep for the future generations of the Niger delta.

ken saro wiwa talk talk talk,them kill am.wetin you want make them do

Smh

This generation and their obsession with quick/abnormal wealth. Tufiakwa

MrBrownJay1:
HE IS A FOOL THAT GOT PLAYED BY A WOMAN, AND NOW DOESNT WANT TO ACCEPT IT!

who sent him to have a child and marry this worthless/useless woman, who now is bringing him down?!

nawa o

Why are you blaming the victim of a vicious and merciless woman. He's in trouble and you're still beating him.let us learn to be showing empathy to one another not tear each other down

If people followed the tenets of the bible,their lives will have been easier. The bible that says GODLINESS AND CONTENTMENT IS GREAT GAIN no lie.if she had stayed on God with CONTENTMENT, she might have grown at God's pace and made more than 650 million. Now the 650 million she no see,job,gone,life gone,freedom gone while raising children by a predator in inconvenient situations and those children might become likely predators and potential criminals if God doesn't rescue those children because of the circumstances and environment they were born (through no fault of theirs)

If you are earning 50k monthly and you have CONTENTMENT, your 50k will look like you're earning million every month and you know the thing with people who lack CONTENTMENT, if you like be earning 500 million naira every week,they will still be lusting after the money of another person who is collecting 2 thousand every week.it is the very reason politicians are collecting various entitlements and contracts running into millions naira yet they will be stealing carton of milk and spaghetti and depriving the vulnerable who really need those foodstuffs for their survival.

By now you should know its a mental disorder that you are collecting N700 million plus other bonuses cars,drivers and other utilities funded by government yet you're locking garri and rice inside store during covid period

dominique:
She was not dating the boy, they were neighbourhood friends. She took shelter in front of his parents shop when she got caught in the rain on her way to her IT placement. He suggested that she should come inside for better shelter and he forced himself on her and killed her afterwards. Her only crime was trusting a neighbourhood friend she has known for years.

ok so that's a reason to murder am innocent girl.well done sir.good deflection

Smh

To now have boyfriend has turned to risk,to go to work and come back na risk,you face your job , one untrained mannerless man who becomes a boss go dey sexually harass you. If them date men wey carry bar them go say she be gold digger she deserves to be killed. Now she date regular brokie them still waste am. May God have mercy on women in misogynistic societies

Zonefree:
Why's that lady's hands on Steve Wonder's blokos?

maybe his wife or girlfriend

BTW I find the word blokos funny and weird.

EreluRoz:
This one forming Chioma, I don't see any genuiness in this their fake onesided relationship. She's the one loving the guy and desperate to be Chioma, I don't see the guy loving her, he's just playing along and enjoying the moment. So much for a babydaddy

I thought I was the only one that noticed

E don do.priscillia and her fiancee keep a low profile.theres too many negative energy on social media. The attention you're drawing to yourselves especially before wedding is too much.learn from other peoples mistakes.
Again your mom has too many online and offline enemies because of the baba ijesha saga so for the health of your relationship keep your relationship off social media

When you love something you groom and protect it not expose it.for example if you're holding 1 million you don't walk on the streets with bales of money on your hand.of course you know what will happen to you.you will likely be trailed and attacked.your mom has made you inherit unknown enemies that are thirsty for your relationship to break so that they can say you see am.


And I'm saying this from a place of love before some untrained animals enter my mention

CyrusVI:
Nigerian Police intelligence Unit is top-notch

I wonder how and why they fail in other important and bigger cases

Rip to her

because there are some principalities behind the criminality too connected to be touched

TheBodybuilder:
Hope they arrested the herders.

lol those ones are too big to be arrested. They are above the law with strong Northern backing

She didn't wear makeup, she's also older.age will catch up with everyone no matter how beautiful or handsome you are plus issues of life

Blitzking:
No body don perform reach that female nafdac dg I don forget her name w4y dem kill her husband with bullet.

prof Dora akinyuli

Sonnobax15:

I just too like VDM..

I no just know why Women wey dey fear DNA and fake cream women just hate am

I'm a woman and I like him

His bravery masculinity and his daring to face hate from malicious Nigerians

obonujoker:
How is that possible??

Is 1000 per litre not high enough?

una carry psychopaths, kleptomaniacs ,druggies,drunkards, louts and illiterates full governance structure you still dey ask this kain question

Msheww

Even some profs enable bad lead.theyre now here crying over spilled milk

Stupid child. So you had to humiliate your dad because you cleared his debt.even if he was a dead beat dad why didn't you leave him for God and the universe to judge

Some of the mothers of the 90s who had useless husbands usually played their roles as wives and mothers even when their husbands didn't do their part because they knew a day of reckoning will come.

They are some of them that will leave their old and weak husbands to do omugwo or go for owanmbe while leaving their husbands alone to die in his house.abi you want to tell me before suebebe was sick and eventually died he didn't have wives? You think those mothers were stupid because they played the fool?

Even when those men will disrespect and insult them in the presence of strangers and one of the kids want to rise in defence of their mothers,its the mothers that will shut them up because she knows what she was doing and one of it was that she didn't want his misbehaviour to make the child act rudely (even when justifed) to the father so that in case he curses the child, the curse will have no effect and so that when his judgement time starts,the children will be a living witness of his foolishness so even if he wants to get manipulative, the children saw his misbehaviour first hand themselves.

You know the amusing part.some of those irresponsible men that are old now and have sons misbehaving just like them and know what their old age will look like are already flirting with the idea of polygamy thinking in old age when his 1st wife abandons him his younger wives will be there for him

Dey play.let your money finish and think say the younger wife will be your nurse and cook in old age.
no take care of your children. These generation zs have no filter or forgiveness. Na gutter you go die.them even fit post your unclothedness for twitter. Children wey dey post their own nudity for social media, wetin come be their papa own wey them no go post. Moreover there's a yoruba proverb that says a wicked person knows himself as a wicked person, na who go tell am he dey wait for

So na una definition of civilization be this. Isokay o but remember no idolator or people of unnatural affection will inherit the kingdom of God

She's right