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Azyne:
Awesome!!!

I know you will like it

Nemo dat quod non habet ( You can't give what you don't have)

proxillin:
She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

La marry la regret...try and see

viviangist:
Checkout the Different Types Of Barbers You Will See In Nigeria.

Mgbomgbo Cash,I don catch you here. Let me not call your real name...it's Makaranta Allo.

If they never go naked,they feel that never arrive... unclothedness na their arrival.

GboyegaD:
Is he a musician? I don't even understand the video one bit.

He is a musician also, his music was lovely though with one Kain lyrics

Love the place �

cucumbae:
I still don't believe that most of the death that befell Nigerian politicians are not coronavirus related.These men travel out of the country for medical treatment every month.But due to the lockdown they couldn't travel abroad.Hence,their health conditions worsen.Had it been they improve the health care system here they would be feeling better.

Very true

SegFault:
Why I like Muslim's. If it is igbo people they will be trying to make the man's family go bankrupt because of useless rites.

Have you seen where Muslims celebrate funeral after their 40 days prayer?. They equally spend money.

Karlifate:
An average Nigerian has turned corruption to a daily lifestyle. We are only seeing the reflection in the lives of the leaders. Anyway, more revelations to come.

Tommorow,one slowpoke will tell me to be a good citizen

kestolove95:
my husband don't like wearing it and I am tired of using drugs to prevent pregnancy, it's very good d one my sis sent mi from u.k is finished I need another packs Cox me ND my husband have sex everyday

Me and my husband have sex everyday...na waaooo, see energy

lwise:
Information has it that the heat in the conference room is too much due to the fact that the air conditioning system is not functioning.

and the heat from the questions too

It is real, I watched it live...but I think he did it to escape the precipitate and thunderous questions thrown at him which was very obvious he could not provide answers for. Those guys massacred money in NDDC

Me, giving info to Nigeria police? Chineke ekwela ihe ojoo.

<Retired nwanyi na gbara na iro

Muna4real:
I don't know why people are giving themselves unnecessary trouble. If the ikwerres are not igbos, then what are they, where do they come from and who is stopping them from going back? If the igbos were very bad as they are painting it, and other tribes were good, why on earth did they choose igbo language to copy and corrupt for crying out loud? Ehh? There were other tribes to copy ohh ! Benin , isoko, yoruba, even their neighbors ijaws were there ohh. I don't know why it is igbo that they choose to copy and then turn around to say that the igbos are forcing them to be igbo. What nonsense. Who does that? I don't know why nobody is asking them these questions but instead accuse the igbos of wanting their land and resources. Is that not stupid? This ikwerre issue is becoming very annoying. If they don't like igbo, they should go back to the one were speaking or the tribe they like.

Chineke gozie gi

Itohanprefa:
It's high time Igbos dump this feeling that ikwerre people must be assimilated into mainstream Igbo, since most ikwerre people are still having an identity crises let them sort themselves, I don't see what the average ikwerre man has to offer that makes him special, let them be there ikwerre tribe in peace

Tell your country Nigeria to let Igbos be also. I don't know what makes Igbos special that Nigeria doesn't want to let them go

Itohanprefa:
Mercy chinwo is ikwerre not Igbo, I really think ikwerre people have carved enough identity for themselves to stand alone, Not minding the fact that they speak an igboid language, bear Igbo names and other similarities, let them have their own identity if they so wish....When the time comes I recommend a democratic referendum process, if majority wants a saperate ikwerre identity I don't see why not, if we force ikwerre to be a core Igbo group then I don't see why we won't force ibibio, annang, Efik and even Izon people to be Igbo too cos all south south tribes are clustered closely with Igbo in every aspect....this ikwerre issue isn't really the big deal we make it, I know etche and other Igboid parts of rivers have no problem claiming their Igbo heritage same goes for most anioma people in delta states(except for agbor that has been greatly influenced by Bini) the funny thing is that igbanke people that are further inside Edo state itself have been trying so hard recently to change their name back to Igbo akiri to preserve their Igbo identity,......My recommendation is anytime in the future that an Igbo nation is to be carved out a referendum be called for all Igboid groups surrounding the Igbo heartland, assimilate people that vote Yes and carve out the No them we move, this doesn't mean we are enemies with anybody, if we are fighting for the right of self determination let's not deny others the same right, My two cents

They have lost their identify and language forever. No matter how they claim they are not Igbos,they will forever be Igbos

humilitypays:
After NYSC all those people that went to study:

Banking and Finance
Public Admin
Lawyer abi Law
Animal Science
Petroleum Engineering
Polymer & Textile Engineering
Marketing
Adult Education
Sociology
Psychology
Political Science
Microbiology
Etc, etc


Will then realize that they didn't actually went to school, they went to waste time studying irrelevant courses that are not useful in Nigeria and many countries!!


Last last na street hustling e go be


Pls if u have a younger sibling or relative aspiring to be a Lawyer or all those yeye courses, flog him well well oh.....people need to study trending courses with prospect.....look at the world now, think the problem your profession or course of study can solve, if not, e don be for you oh.


Study fashion designing
Carpentry
Nursing
Welding
Programming
Catering is even better than many courses today
Medicine
Lab science



Stop studying yeye courses that have outlived their usefulness on earth and in Nigeria, use your head!!

What a poor excuse for knowledge

[quote author=Godlovesyou28 post=89786879]I have been to my village twice (my grandpa's burial and sisters traditional wedding)since I was born and we never spent up to 48hours on both visit. We were also lucked up in my dads house (especially me), we only come out supervised and closely watched since my dad say everyone there is a witch or wizard. Come to think about it; I should trace that village. Please are you private investigator? If yes please may I know how you can assist and the financial implications.[/quote

Please be careful in your quest so that you don't fall into the hands of fraudstewrs, ritualists and the likes. Look for help from that area you are. U don't know who is who on nairaland. May you find love you are looking for and may God soften your heart on your decision on marriage

One0Random0Girl:
Nice one

Nice what?

Na powder una use celebrate car? o di kwa egwu.

fiizznation:
I will keep saying this; the only advantage Lagos have over kano is the sea-port. Well I believe with time and by electing the right leaders at every level of government in the state, kano state will surely overthrow Lagos as the real commercial hub of Nigeria.

God bless kano state.

Future impossible tense.

[quote author=Righteousness89 post=91770624]Nigeria Amaka !!

It's high time we delete and eradicate this tribal nonsense on this platform!

Until we disintegrate, we Remain one Nation!

Until we disintegrate, We Remain Nigeria and Nigerians..[/quote)

You and who remain one nation? How many political positions did Fulani political blood suckers give to your tribe in the same One Nigeria?

PROUDIGBO:
I thought the Archbishop of Onitshas' name was Valerian?

He appointed the auxiliary bishop not the Archbishop

tianshie:
But for FB dem say na person wey dey abroad, come back home dem come kill am. Now you're saying a different thing.

The guy is from Ubahuekwem, in Ihiala toyin Ihiala LGA, Anambra State... social media can peddle lies

Pls did anybody really get the real reason India is not featuring currently in football from this thread?

sexylassie2:
a dead person is a dead person.

Your car wasn't good, you blame it on the dead

Call the mechanic to fix your dead car.

That thing is real. I can give you so many real life instances where strange things happen at the demise of someone. This story here happened in my town. Though I am not the person that posted it here. The guy did strong strong things when he was alive. He sells Igbo (indian hemp) when he was alive. I can't say much here sha

Who checked name, come and pack here.

Vulcanheph:
The Nigerian police is among the three kinds of jobs i'll never go for, the others are:

The Nigerian army

N.E.P.A. (or whatever they are called now.)

me
Money dey NEPA, and besides,it is not risky nah