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Family / Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Sammieuwa: 5:31am On Jun 14, 2021
Ninobraw:
No need for a long story, I got married 2 yrs ago, during our friendship I mean courtship it was very sweet and lovely, we got married 2 yrs ago and I have 1 kid.

The problem I have is that, the girl's family come to greet almost every time and when they come they eat like elephant, anything eatable they eat it, they don't use eyes to see bread tea or butter in my room, they will finish it within a day, I will end up spending a lot during the time, when I noticed that it becomes offen i started telling my wife that I am broke, I don't have money. Although my wife is very nice she earns salary of 40k a month, and do funds and cook many times with her money.

Before now I was it okay, we are like a family, now i just realized that it is making me not think straight within a week oil and cooking things we bought will just finished the cartoon of indomitable that last the 2 of us before 1 month or month plus will just finish within 4 days of thier stay, some time 3 of her family will come once and another set will come again, my wife is the first daughter, the poor parents gave birth to 9 kids all in the name of looking for a boy, so she said although the 2 boys are number 7 and 9 position, her parents should be around man 60s and the woman 45yrs old. so now I am tired of the marriage, I don't know how to talk to my wife about it, that I don't like how thier family do come offend since we got married, my families has never come to sleep over in my place for a night talkless of spending holiday in my place my parents gave birth to only 3 of us 2 boys 1 girl.

Now i am just tired I can't be responsible for someone else burden why give birth to many kids and unable to train them, i plan to have only 2 or 3 kids only, and her family want to make me be like thier father sitting at home doing nothing depending on pension for survival, i have realized that I can't achieve what i should have achieved if i continue life this way.

Before our marriage, we agreed no family members is coming to stay with us, the issue now is they don't stay but come to eat and go, it's a big cheating to me I am tired for real, even if I say I don't have money and she use her own. The money should have be able to do other important thing . She spending is also affecting me a lot, we should have been able to buy land or car or live well, not feeding battalion. I am tired please I need advice on what to do.


Bro based on your write up, your wife has 6 younger sisters. Don't forget they must marry tomorrow. And their husband might be a blessing to your family by giving you and your wife a high paying job. They have been feeding b4 u enter the family and they will continue to feed.
It's the joy and love they have for your new family that make them to come to your house � and eat. Don't forget that hungry man Don't visit where he/she is not welcome despite how he/she is been beaten by hunger. Always support with the little u can bc they will support your family tomorrow.
From ur write-up, ur wife is a good woman. Sit her down with love, Remind her that you people has a future. Let her device how u people will manage the situation. You people can get a cupboard to limit how they consume some food stuffs.
Don't speak evil against a pensioner bc u r working. Remember rest is sweet after labour.
Always be nice to the family within ur financial capacity but don't forget to save for your car and land. Remember when the second child come by the Grace of God. You need one of them to assist in house chores. Remember you and your family needs a happy life. Pray for high paying job so you shall be a source of joy and blessing to them. Don't say u r tired of your marriage bc satan can use it against your family. God shall strengthen you. All the best.
Family / Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Sammieuwa: 5:29am On Jun 14, 2021
Bro based on your write up, your wife has 6 younger sisters. Don't forget they must marry tomorrow. And their husband might be a blessing to your family by giving you and your wife a high paying job. They have been feeding b4 u enter the family and they will continue to feed.
It's the joy and love they have for your new family that make them to come to your house � and eat. Don't forget that hungry man Don't visit where he/she is not welcome despite how he/she is been beaten by hunger. Always support with the little u can bc they will support your family tomorrow.
From ur write-up, ur wife is a good woman. Sit her down with love, Remind her that you people has a future. Let her device how u people will manage the situation. You people can get a cupboard to limit how they consume some food stuffs.
Don't speak evil against a pensioner bc u r working. Remember rest is sweet after labour.
Always be nice to the family within ur financial capacity but don't forget to save for your car and land. Remember when the second child come by the Grace of God. You need one of them to assist in house chores. Remember you and your family needs a happy life. Pray for high paying job so you shall be a source of joy and blessing to them. Don't say u r tired of your marriage bc satan can use it against your family. God shall strengthen you. All the best.

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Family / Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Sammieuwa: 11:17pm On Mar 15, 2021
This is the reason you must know who you are getting married to. Before you get married to her, she must have tell you that your money is ours and her money is for she alone. So when you fail to know her well. Take whatever married gave you.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Everton Vs Chelsea - (1 - 0) On 12th December 2020 by Sammieuwa: 7:57am On Dec 13, 2020
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Kyase:
Goal
Everton
Travel / Re: All TEF Candidates For Canada Immigration, Let's Meet Here! by Sammieuwa: 7:55am On Dec 13, 2020
I just received my TEF results and I scored as follows Writing C1, Listening C1, Reading C1 and speaking B2 (279). I studied for 5 weeks and was confident I could do well as I had done French in secondary school and was one of the best students in French class. To study I used the tips I read here on Nairaland, Youtube, Prepmyfuture app and listened to TV5 everyday. I am very disappointed that I was given a low B2 score in speaking given how hard I practiced over the 5 weeks, I do not think my speaking is that bad as I can hold conversations with French speakers I meet. I have been informed that I can remark my exam. I want to know has anyone one successfully remarked any sections of their TEF exam? Thank you.

@BabeX pls check ur mail.

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Travel / Re: All TEF Candidates For Canada Immigration, Let's Meet Here! by Sammieuwa: 7:54am On Dec 13, 2020
Good Morning, pls check ur mail.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 16 by Sammieuwa: 12:18pm On Dec 06, 2019
@Folmid pls check your mail
Congratulations


APPROVAL ALERT @ 1.49PM.

Let me use this opportunity to say a big thank you to all the contributors in this forum and my short prayer is whatever that is saying NO and NO to the YES of GOD in our endeavors shall be frustrated IJN.

This platform gave me JOB in 2008 and now a supernatural breakthrough in my life.. May God bless the founder of this platform.

My advise to all Canadian student VISA seekers should just read some of the threads as i read thread 16 from pali to pali(2x) and then back it up with prayers. No need to waste your money to hire agents as all what you need is in your "sokoto" here.

My timeline:

Route--Paper route
Submission--Oct 4 2019
Medical test request-Nov 1 2019
Medical completed Nov 12 2019
Medical Passed Nov 15 2019
BVL- Nov 20 2019
Approval Nov 26 2019

DOCUMENTS SUBMITTED:
My Introduction letter
Wife introduction letter
Salary statement of account
Family company documents
Children Birth certificates
Marriage certificate
Pension Statement of account
Insurance premium
Recent Promotion letter(husband and Wife)
Id cards
Training certificates
Commendation letters from my Boss
Property documents
Lovely SOP-3 pages

School--Windsor university winter 2020

**I finished from Madonna University--Private**

Do you know that "You will never know everything about something; just take that bold step and start while increasing your knowledge in that area." Forward ever and it will surely end in praises.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 16 by Sammieuwa: 8:01pm On Sep 07, 2019
Regina3:


Hi guys, been a silent reader here following all your advice, been a big source of encouragement & reference for me.
I got my approval yesterday.

First Application.
Applied online : June 22, 2019
Biometrics: June 26, 2019
Medical: July 17, 2019
Passed: July 20, 2019
Approval/Correspondence :August 1, 2019



Just want to say, I was really worried as all the documents I submitted for proof of financial ability were much and after managing to compress to 3.9MB, the documents didn't look to sharp, I thought that it would be an issue but I thank God, for favour. I will suggest if you are having same challenges as I did, you can use CamScanner on Android play store, I found out about it after submitting mine with poor resolutions.
Thanks.



Update:
Passport Request : August 5, 2019
Submitted: August 6, 2019
Passport return : August 16, 2019

Grateful! Wish you all success.

Please, looking for Nigerians in U of Regina, Saskatchewan.

Update:
I arrived on the 3rd Sept. From Abuja to Frankfurt to Calgary & then Regina.
Looking forward to having an amazing experience even though it's cold.

Thank you all.




Reginaf pls ineed ur assistance on UofR. PLS REPLY UR MAIL REQUEST.
THANKS

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Fidelity Bank Talent Resourcing by Sammieuwa: 4:42pm On Sep 01, 2019
Pls what should i read for the test and how can i contact you. Thanks.

blaze612:
Please who else got this email from fidelity bank today wnat to know how valid it is? Don't want to waste my t fare and risk and it happens to be all this networking biz.



INVITATION FOR APTITUDE TEST - FIDELITY BANK PLC
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Fidelity Bank Talent Resourcing
fidelitybank.talentresourcing@fidelitybank.ng
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Date:
June 26, 2019, 4:38 PM
Dear Candidate,



Thank you for your interest in Fidelity Bank Plc.



Further to your application, we wish to invite you for an aptitude test with us as scheduled below:



Date:

Friday, June 28th 2019



Venue:



Fidelity Bank Branch

Rangers Avenue

Independence Layout

Enugu



Time:



10:00 am



Please come along with the following:

1. A copy of this invitation.

2. Current Curriculum Vitae.

3. A valid means of identification.

4. One recent passport photograph.

5. Original copies of your Birth, WAEC/NECO, Degree and NYSC certificates.



Note: You must come with the documents above to be accepted into the test

Your contact person for this test is Chidi Eke. Please ask for him at the front desk.



For further inquiries, call 0907000****.



Kindly acknowledge receipt of this mail and confirm your attendance as we look forward to seeing you.





Thank you.



Fidelity Bank Talent Resourcing
Nairaland / General / Re: Re: Immigrate To Canada Through AIPP Part 1 by Sammieuwa: 4:04pm On Aug 27, 2019
Frankrobbn1:


Here I am o, cheesy may I know how I could be of help to you?

FRANK PLS I SENT A MAIL TO U. I WILL RESEND IT AGAIN. PLS ACKNOWLEDGE.
Nairaland / General / Re: Re: Immigrate To Canada Through AIPP Part 1 by Sammieuwa: 11:39pm On Aug 26, 2019
Hanna007:


If you don’t mind drop your education, age, work experience, IELTS, spouse details if any. Lemme check if you re eligible for EE



HANNA PLS I NEED UR ASSISTANT. ITS URGENT. CHECK UR MAIL
Nairaland / General / Re: Re: Immigrate To Canada Through AIPP Part 1 by Sammieuwa: 6:57pm On Aug 26, 2019
Frankrobbn1:


Yes designated employers in the Atlantic province must show proof at the time of applying for a provincial endorsement that the company has made effort in recruiting a permanent residence/canadian citizen (locally)within the province to fill up the shortage of labour. With that said, employer must submit proof of newspapers, and magazines where they advertised the job title which made it eligible for the company to recruit a foreign employee.

FRANK PLS I NEED UR ASSISTANCE. ITS URGENT.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 16 by Sammieuwa: 10:18am On Aug 24, 2019
Regina 3 pls i need your assistance to guide me on my application

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