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Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Kingcalls: 10:28pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Ardar: Will u help him with the mechanical work...use ur brain ...there are gender roles...seems like u are lazy in nature 7 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by lexy2014: 10:28pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
YorubaLord: U have a point. Most men dont no how to toast or talk to a woman. They just bring money as if sex& love are commodities to be bought 5 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by TemmyT002(m): 10:32pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Not 'some' ladies but 'most' ladies. Na their mama dey teach them. That's why their mama always want them to marry rich man. 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by TemmyT002(m): 10:35pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Offpoint1: See you talk as if understanding women are millions and many. Kikikiki |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by ABANGWABOI(m): 10:37pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
#ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv The Kain nonsense wey many men dey tolerate dey shock me.. ordinary girlfriend wey I no dey give shishi.. I dey control them like herds of cow talk much a wife wey I use my money marry.. if you no gree obey my COMMANDS I pursue you commot bring in another woman.. The earlier this weaklings called men stop being emotional and become rational, they scales would fall off their eyes.. but till then, premium tears dey wait them.. that useless man now go work tire to carter for the family only him, too much pressure and probably die when the kids are in the University and the wife would be alive to enjoy when dey graduate and become establish later.. most african men are suffering and I no pity Dem.. Weaklings 11 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by zcee: 10:38pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Stockquality:You are on point.. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by zcee: 10:41pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
knowhowk:if I get money,this kind plan go sure for me e de my mind.. I don't need a woman that will shorten my life span,those folks are devil's incarnate even the gentle ones.. 5 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Prodigee: 10:42pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Reex12:Bros you sef why you trying to reason with a feminists? A naija one for that matter. Modern marriage choke her there! Na so we see say a woman in the UAE filed for a divorce because the husband was too nice, too caring, provides and even does house chores. She talk say her spouse never argued or yelled at her and was always kind. You can never please a female. 7 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Thistrendblog(f): 10:56pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
I still cant conjoin my head around this saying... rubbish |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by witworth(m): 10:57pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Kriss216:but we can't stay away from our fellow country citizens, am sorry we can't stay away from Nigerian girls 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
knowhowk: Lol! Bad niggar |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by mechanics(m): 11:05pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
You are right. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by 001spice: 11:10pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Kebbiprince:That statement can only come from 2 tribes of pple in this country. Edo women and Delta women 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 11:10pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
A lady once told a guy, "Don't refer me to my salary again, it's a lady's right to ask a bf or any male friends for money". Lobatan |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 11:11pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar: Simp Pepe Lolo. 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Labadi69: 11:12pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
specialmati: Some women pretend and hide their true characters in order to cajole the men into marriage. Na after the wedding the man go hear am. 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by ProphetofOdin: 11:13pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
I think this habit boils down to their mothers. Most African mothers have that entitled mentality. Before you marry any lady pay attention to every details of the mum's character, their is a chance that your wife wud adopt 80percent of her mum's character. I knw a family where d mother waits for the father to get back from work bfor they can buy something as little as Maggi and grounded pepper, and she has money cos she trades but wud never spend a kobo out of her own money for the family upkeep, instead she prefers to join women meetings and buy very expensive wrappers. And I see the daughters following her foot steps. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by LyfeJennings(m): 11:13pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
U are right somehow but I grew up in a home where MY DAD DID EVERYTHING.I MEAN EVERYTHING. Even my stepmom who worked in a top corporate firm as a top tier manager NEVER DID A THING WHEN IT COMES TO HER KIDS. MY POPS DID EVERYTHING So I see life in such light that I should do it all but if U are rich enough, alaye sharing formula go dey o 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by SuperSupremo(m): 11:17pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Kebbiprince:In Islam that's the way it is....a man must use his money to take care of his wife,that's not foolish but responsible 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Sammieuwa: 11:17pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
This is the reason you must know who you are getting married to. Before you get married to her, she must have tell you that your money is ours and her money is for she alone. So when you fail to know her well. Take whatever married gave you. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Labadi69: 11:18pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Ardar: Most women will not mention these things you have written up there before the wedding because they desperately want to be married and answer Mrs. They will pretend to be the submissive wife to cajole the man. But after the wedding, true color will now come out. Believe me, no high value men will agree to marry a woman with the kind of attitude you have stated there. Unless say na lazy and broke fukk boy. 4 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by SonyaSpence: 11:22pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Ardar:Are you implying that a woman's maximum respect and submission for her husband be reduced because she contributes financially to the home? Also, why assume that the OP (Nigerian Man) doesn't assist his wife with house chores, did he at any point mention that? 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Labadi69: 11:23pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
chiommy123: No be only raining day. Na sunning day. Mtchew. 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by cooltola(m): 11:29pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
BUT here is some helpful tips to help and please do not ignore the Red flags when dating 1, if you do not trust your fiance with money before you marry her/ him, then please run away and remain single. I do not care how pretty or handsome he or she is. You will not regret this. 2. If your fiance is very stingy with his or her money, na you dey spend all time and common bottle water to buy for you, they cannot buy something small for you, even to buy a t-shirt for you is wahala. their excuse is always I do not have money, naija is hard, I do not have work. please run away and remain single. You just save yourself a lifetime of headache. 3. If your fiance has never bought you or rarely buy you a gift or food or cooked something for you, please run away and run very fast. It is thought that counts - sometimes even a gift as cheap as a slipper speaks volume. 4. If you do not know how your fiance makes his or her money and their explanation of how they are making their money does not make sense, please run away. They have money but how they make money na jamb question, please run. 5. Marriage is compromise , sometimes it is not always 50/50. The goal is to be open to your spouse with money, always have a discussion with your spouse when it comes to spending money or giving out money and as long both of you are in agreement then you can move on and enjoy your marriage. Do not cheat your spouse financially- It is wrong and it is create a seed of distrust 6. Sometimes the woman spend more, some times the man spends more, WHO CARES- IT is not competition. As long you and your spouse understand and agree with how money is spend , then there is no problem. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Labadi69: 11:29pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
luminouz: The time don dey come wey Nigerian men that are doing well will start paying women to have their babies and disappear after birthing the baby. Then just employ a nanny to care for the baby. Na the same money wey the man go give him wife on a good day he go give the nanny and she will be very grateful. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 11:29pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
ednut1: So, you'll rather employ the services of a maid to train your child or children?? |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 11:34pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Our society is evolving and it’s obvious that the income of a husband is no longer enough to sustain the home. In most cases, both partners need to work full time. For the partnership to truly work without resentment, if the woman contributes financially to running the house, the man needs to contribute equally to domestic chores and child rearing. If a man wants to complain about his woman not supporting financially, he has the moral obligation to be sure he is supporting his wife in her traditional roles as well. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Labadi69: 11:44pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Amb1045: Great points. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by ednut1(m): 11:46pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
StacyO:nope. We do the training she does the chores 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by carlos1(m): 11:48pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Very selfish statement from a couple that claim to be one 3 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Cousin9999: 11:48pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
If she wanted to pay bills, you would probably complain because it hurt your fragile ego. ¯\_( ツ)_/¯ Anyway, you should make her feel so amazing that she can't wait to give you her money. lol 1 Like |
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