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Prolificdeman:
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.

Oga, your body just dey sweet you abi? Its always like that with older ladies that are ready for marriage (or feel like time is ticking away fast, no offences meant), they are nice and caring. Ultimately, you need to be sure she's for real and you're not being carried away by a more experienced older woman who wants to settle down and is settling for a younger man even though she would not have ordinarily liked the idea.
You see, marriage is full of hurdles, whether you marry a younger woman or an older one, the hurdles will come, and after marriage is when the true nature of a person comes out. That age difference can pose a serious challenge for you later if its so much of a concern to you now, trust me. Never get into marriage out of sentiment!!! But be very sure of what you really want.
At the end, a relationship is what you make it.
I wish you best of luck sha.

Rugaria:
Very awkward name..

Very Awkward name indeed