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vizkiz:
its no power bro...with time, you will forget about her and move on. #believe me.

And then you'll learn never to love any biitch again...just play along with the game and keep furcking em all

lolzz...true bt learning neva ends

chowlade:
op is it u going thru break up?

it must not be me dear

YUNGLURD:
sambisa I think

bro be serious jare

I have wondered but couldn't get an answer to it...

RoyalBlak007:
Not in this planet

lolz..jst cnt stop laughing but still they reason am

Cherlene:
Good evening
Aaawwh, Yes Yes Yes Yes they do OBTAIN. Including MYSELF.
Cherlene

hmmmm..it's up to you but I don't think so

Girl: Baby pls I want to fix my hair and I need you to give me some money to do that, (the guy reaches his pocket, takes out N10,000 gave it to her and said)

Guy: baby pls take dis N10,000 I kwn it's too small bt pls manage it.. ( The girl collected the money jst as he said, she took N1,500 and returned N8,500 to the boy and said)

Girl: baby N1,500 will be okay for me so take the N8,500 balance and use it for something good, you don't have to start spending on me now, when we get married you can do that..does this kind of girls still exist..

A.YES
B.MAYBE
C.HELL NO
D.FOR WHERE?

My girlfriend is dating a solider, I can't take that anymore and I want to go and warn him in the barracks.

SHOULD I GO OR NOT...

Even until the end of her life,the pains would never leave her heart... ETENITY...

damiosy:
What's all this talk about friendzone...in as much as its a feeling we guys have I sincerely think its immature to think that way cuz you are supposed to date/marry your best friend not your enemy, I understand the few side chicks rule but I will be damned if you don't score her at least cuz that's what friends that close do they screw each other and never agree to date its a Win Draw situation and everyone is happy

thank you...so many reasons to believe you

K9blunt:
*in chipmunks voice* of you ask emi , na who I go ask, the matter Wei you type so, e heavy for mind, no be me go talk am............ don't remember the rest.
bros follow your heart or remain in the friendzone, capicse!








next!!!

thank you

sinaj:
lol as if u r d cause

hmmm.. Me! How?

sinaj:
i dnt

am sorry about that.

sinaj:
ur story made it seem lyk u r.

I am though.

do you really feel good about it

senatorken01:
if u like her, tell her because , she can't wait forever.

you said it all,she can't wait forever...I will heed to ur advice

Ipledge:
You might actually regret it If you dont ask her out,and if she didnt succumb within three months Please dont date ever date as that lies more regret than d former

...if she says no doesn't mean that's the end of the world nah

laplace12:
Dating a girl successfully goes beyond asking her out.

If You are not bold enough to ask her out, You won't be man enough to date her even if she says yes.

My advice. Remain in the friendzone until You get your inner game tight.

am not afraid of asking her out but distance would soon be a barrier

Slimzjoe:
I think I understand thiz kinda situation
Ask her out bro.....itz possible you can date her till whenever you're ready for marriage

Just ensure the relationship is transparent

thank you...

sinaj:
he is not a weak man.

I think op is xenophobic.

am not like that

rokiatu:
So you want to ask her out but don't want to risk your friendship? My friend you either ask her out or you live with the regret.

only the future knows my friend but hurting her I can't imagine

adesina1991:
@op please dont let her go or else you will regret doing so just follow your mind.the present predicts the future.Go for her

thank you

vislabraye:
Dont ask her out yet....Wait , it won't be long when one boy yoyo comes for her and then you will be what you've always wanted to be, a GOOD FRIEND or rather, a darling brother..

been with her alone makes me happy

ronald4lif:
I would suggest you ask in a joking way first, or tell her you want to know if she likes you. You can say 'hey not that I like you or anything, but do you ever see yourself with me?'

Also, you can just come out to tell her there is this movie you just watched where two best friends ended up in a relationship, a very sweet ending. And her reaction to the movie storyline might give you the kick to go ahead asking out on a later date. If she shows interest and ask that you narrate the movie further then it is a positive sign or green light but if she shrug it off then that's not an encouraging one.

Another way to ask her out is, You can tell you know what you want to say it's kind of awkward here and you truly don't want to do or say anything, ever, to jeopardise your friendship in any way. But, you're just curious and you're beginning to like her for more than just a friend, and you're wondering if she feel the same way about you?. If not, you would like for you two to still maintain your friendship with no hard feelings.

You must be very careful as you stand a great chance of losing the friendship and respect she's got for you if she turns down your advances. It's a gamble. You have to evaluate your friendship with her and consider the good and bad. Like if things didn't work out. Love is risk anyways. If you don't risk it, make that daring move, you may never get your heart desire.

so insightful of you...am grateful

gbemi514:
It is beta nw or neva........u knw procastination is d thief of tym.....if u delay nw dat gvs u a chieftaincy title in friend zone..in short d community leader in friend zone

thank you but distance would soon separate us

Fairgodwin:
Embrace reality. You have already answered your questions. But let me ask you, what do you really want? If you know she's this perfect for you and the both of you are single and available, why not just go for her at once?
Maybe you're thinking of FWB. But if I were to advice you, I'll say follow your heart and equally embrace popular opinion and approval [from your friends].

the truth is that distance would still separate us

phlio:
never let her go bro.not easy to get a good heart in a lady.go for her you may not know what the future holds but you know who holds the future which is God.my bro pls do the needful.

thank you

Cutehector:
No dnt ask her out. Continue to remain in d friend zone.

been friend zone doesn't means am afraid

klark3:
Your post is quite confusing.
U want to ask her out, at d same time u don't want to ask her out, I don't get it.

how old are u?
am afraid u're emotionally immature..

emotionally immature? If you say so but we are still learning...the truth is that with time distance would separate us for a long time

I met this girl 2yrs ago,she has a beautiful heart,the smile on her face,the truth in her eyes and the touches of her arms are so real with hope in them..her character and attitude are so natural,she'd jovial,fun to be with and in all she is a friend. hanging out with her made my friends tagged me mr lucky boy...the truth is that we are not dating but almost everybody believed. We are..my fear now is that I have feelings for her and she knows,they said real love come but once and to me the timing isn't right because I don't want to tight her down to myself ( I don't know what the future holds for her)..am afraid of asking her out not because am afraid but because of the love I have for her, am afraid of letting her go to the wrong ones ......I don't want to regret it,should I go for her...MATURE MINDS P/S..thanks

I met this girl 2yrs ago,she has a beautiful heart,the smile on her face,the truth in her eyes and the touches of her arms are so real with hopes in them..her character and attitude are so natural,she'd jovial,fun to be with and in all she is a friend. hanging out with her made my friends tagged me mr lucky boy...the truth is that we are not dating but almost everybody believed we are..my fear now is that I have feelings for her and she knows that,they said real love come but once and to me the timing isn't right because I don't want to tight her down to myself ( I don't know what the future holds for us)..am afraid of asking her out not because am afraid but because of the love I have for her, am afraid of letting her go to the wrong ones ......I don't want to regret it,should I go for her...MATURE MINDS P/S..thanks

When I don't show much concern, care and love to my family,can I tell a girl that I have feelings for that I love. Without hurt her in the future because I don't want to live with regrets....please help me out...

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