Dear Seun Osewa, I saw a thread you created the other day asking Nairalanders for their suggestion in running this forum. Here is my humble suggestion. 1. Pay your content creators. Not just creators but the ones with educative and informative contents. Some of these creators spend their quality time and money in researchers bring the knowledge here. A good example is that guy that always bring in topics on science. I have forgotten his moniker. He stopped doing that because there was no motivation. YouTube and other social media platforms pay their creators. This motivates them to do even more.
2. Let creators (OPs) have the ability to delete unwanted comments on their threads. I stop creating contents here because I realized that when I create contents, the misogynists will hijack the thread and make a mockery of it.
3. Have a dislike button. There are a lot of comments here that deserve the dislike button.
4. Stop bringing posts that degenerate women to the front page of the forum. Imagine this afternoon I saw a post where an allegedly married man sat in his office to watch his wife cheating on him via CCTV. Do we need a seer to tell us that was a skit and that the creator of that thread did that to create a room for women bashers to bash women?
chidiokay: As long as you gather dey Naija with us, you are just fooling yourself .. nobody save nothing wey fit touch me wey no fit carry you away pata pata sef
GistMedia0: A dramatic confrontation has gone viral after a Nigerian woman living abroad discovered that the girl her husband brought into their home—claiming she was his niece—is actually his biological daughter.
According to reports, the woman had accepted the girl into their home under the belief that she was just a relative in need of help. But everything changed when the truth came out. In the shocking footage, the wife is seen bitterly confronting her husband, shouting repeatedly, “Did you tell me she was your daughter?” as the visibly shamed man tries to calm her down.
The situation grew even more emotional when the teary woman ordered the young girl to leave the house. The girl, clearly frightened, is seen kneeling and begging the woman to let her stay, while the desperate husband pleads with his wife to calm down. But the woman stands her ground, replying firmly, “No!”
To make matters worse, the woman threatened to post the footage online—and she eventually did. The viral clip has since ignited massive online reactions, with many weighing in on issues of trust, deception, and hidden family secrets.
While some sympathize with the wife’s pain, others have raised concerns about the girl’s emotional trauma and questioned the husband’s motives for keeping such a huge secret from his spouse.
GistMedia0: A USA-based Ghanaian man has tied the knot with his longtime girlfriend through a virtual wedding, igniting widespread debate online as someone held the bride's hand for him!
Viral footage from the ceremony shows the groom attending via FaceTime while someone physically present stood in for him, holding the bride’s hands on his behalf. A microphone was placed near the phone so he could recite his vows. Despite the effort to make the ceremony appear normal, the bride’s straight-faced expression throughout the event raised eyebrows.
Social media users had mixed reactions. One person asked, “What’s the difference between this and a spiritual marriage?” while another questioned, “What’s the point of getting married if it’s virtual?” However, others defended the couple, saying that love is what truly matters.
While the debate rages on, the couple is now officially married—virtually or not!
Veteran Nigerian musician, 2Face Idibia, has been spotted in a newly surfaced photo shopping for Valentine’s hair with his rumored new love interest, Natasha, despite recent claims by his family that he had gone missing.
The photo, which has been making rounds online, shows the singer and Natasha at a hair shop, seemingly unbothered by the controversy surrounding his whereabouts. This comes shortly after 2Face’s mother publicly expressed her disapproval of his new relationship, emphasizing that his divorce process with Annie Idibia had not yet been finalized.
Furthermore, reports emerged that the family had petitioned the Department of State Services (DSS), alleging that the music star had gone missing. However, the latest image contradicts these claims, as 2Face appears relaxed while shopping with Natasha.
The photo has since sparked mixed reactions online, with some fans criticizing the singer for moving on too quickly, while others argue that he has the right to his personal choices.