MoonWater: You people with self deception all the time. There is nothing cool about being a single parent as a father. But it's easier for a man to provide for his child conviniently without doing hookup and troubling the society with all sorts of infections
By the way, that twitter post is stylish trying to manipulate men taking care of bastardssss.
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.
The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.
Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.
If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.
Olympuse: Hello guys, I created the topic to seek your opinion on something I intend doing.
I have been teaching for some years now and I feel I am not making progress, man don dey old and no achievement in sight. I have a skill I am learning by the side(web development).
I want to quit my teaching job and focus on perfecting this skill for next 3 months.
But when I think of the economy and responsibilities and expectations from home, I procastinate.
But now the teaching job is becoming tiring to me, what should I do brethren
Quit the teaching. Organize home classes during evening and use your morning/afternoon to develop on your skills.
seunoladele: BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...
You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.
Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.
I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.
At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!
One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!
Attitude matters.
God's will matters most!
If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?
When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!
Do not box God!
Still, don't do what your power can't carry!
Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.
In a unique and somber celebration, Sean "Diddy" Combs, the influential American rapper and music mogul, marked his birthday behind bars at the Metropolitan Detention Center in Brooklyn. Despite his current legal troubles, Diddy was able to connect with his children over the phone, allowing for moments of family unity amid challenging circumstances.
Diddy, who has built a successful career over decades and inspired millions worldwide, reportedly engaged in heartfelt conversations with his children, who rallied around their father during this difficult time. The calls allowed Diddy to share birthday wishes and words of encouragement, providing a sense of normalcy and closeness despite the physical separation.
The hip-hop icon’s legal issues have attracted significant media attention, with fans and industry insiders alike showing support for the star and his family. While details surrounding Diddy's case remain limited, this birthday connection demonstrates his enduring commitment to his loved ones.
Supporters around the world have been vocal, expressing their hope for a positive resolution in his legal matters, while industry figures continue to highlight Diddy's cultural contributions and influence. The rapper’s birthday, even under these conditions, served as a reminder of the importance of family bonds and resilience.
Contango: Na wa for your reasoning o. If they were recruited, they have the option of applying and qualifying for the infantry division from which army chiefs are made. But no! Women don’t want to join….but they want to be army chiefs by gender equality. Naija girls version of federal character.
Mind you, I’m not some kind of misogynist. I have very intelligent sisters and they don’t reason like you to be honest. No offence intended
Contango: Don’t be too quick to comment without reasoning. What I’m saying is such ranks are not just mentally demanding, they’re physically demanding. A woman is not biologically built to meet such demands but in the event that they do, no one will deny them.
Woman wants to be army general but if you check it, na dem dey lobby their way out of battle laden postings. Lol
If a woman is not mentally and physically fit for it, why were they recruited?