RALPHOW:


Men should please learn and prepare financially for your old age.

Don't send your children to private universities at the expense of your savings and investments (buy lands and build houses) .

Private or public university, brilliant and dedicated will graduate.

nice and very thoughtful contribution, exactly what I was thinking

sylve11:


Hmmm

correct, I personally know two from anambra

Gwan2:


I don't think it is a matter of taking advantage of gentlemen.....Men naturally water down their firmness, 'machoness', ruggedness with age in a marital setting. This could be due to being battered left, right and centre by socioeconomic issues, 95% financial responsibility in family upbringing and life generally. Wives on the other hand get more grip of the home as time goes, connecting more with the children and influencing the husbands decision through the leverage of the children.

Now, for some unreasonable women who unfortunately are the majority, they use this transition of power to their advantage and wreck havoc on the man, especially if he is not financially buoyant or has lost his financial sources. Some of the women that endured the man's womanising years use the transition of power to revenge.

super brilliant by you

my brother pursue this matter with the wisdom of Solomon, firstly discuss the issues with your father alongside your other siblings and all of you should expectedly be on the same page about the bulling and everyone should confront and caution her with clear expectations and specific behavior that y'all expect her to discontinue forthwith, your father doesn't drink, womanize and yet he gets treated like trash? And people expect you not to intercede? C'mon, who in Nigerian family this days can provide all thier family needs endlessly, even the big men are crying too so what audacity does she have to be treating him because of lack of money, women are by and large very vindictive and vile and like my father used to say, don't ever think you know a woman until few decades into your married life after you have trained children and he equally told me to never spend lavishly on our wedding but rather on the wedding anniversaries, cos you may actually be splashing fortune on a woman that may end up killing you the husband

Xiaohei:
Nigeria, a country divided by politicians who utilize ethnic, tribal and religious sentiments to score political victories. Keep hating yourselves while the politicians keep enriching themselves. Una mumu long!

just to support u bro, tinubu is a billionaire in dollars while Peter obi is equally one too but not as endowed as tinubu, I understand that the money the igbos in diaspora sent to PO for elections campaign alone is staggering with some complaining he had more than enough money to have planted more than enough polling agents north of Nigeria where did all that money go is still open for speculation, so guys don't hate, slander or kill each other for this guy's, before you do that go watch the film called hotel Rwanda

NwaIdeato:
Forget, Akwa Ibom women dey fine sha, they and Esan women are the most beautiful women in the South South and definitely among the top 5 in Nigeria.

so the order of the most beautiful women in Nigeria are 1) the shuwa of Borno, 2 the fulani, 3) the Ebira in kogi, ) Igbo women and five the calaba/ akwa ibom

Georgejeez:
Na so Cult take de start .
Before you know now, dem go begin mobilise go beat any Wife when dare confront one of their members to leave her husband alone

better talk my brother

Ijaycool:
This is a deeply tragic and shocking incident, reflecting an utmost loss of respect for human life and the sacred bond between a mother and a child. Our hearts go out to the family affected by this tragic incident.

It is important to note that this case not only brings to light the need for improved mental health awareness and support, as the suspect himself claimed to be mentally unstable, but also the importance of conflict resolution skills within our communities. Violence should never be the answer to any disagreement, let alone in a family setting.

As the young man is now in police custody, it is up to our justice system to ensure that a thorough investigation is conducted and that if found guilty, the suspect faces the appropriate consequences for his actions. We must trust in this process and hope for justice to prevail.

On a broader scale, this incident should serve as a wake-up call for our society. We must work harder to prevent such occurrences by investing in mental health support systems, education, and fostering an environment where respect for one another is paramount. Furthermore, it is crucial to promote open dialogues about these issues, to recognize signs of potential danger, and to intervene before such tragic events happen.

Once again, our thoughts are with the family affected by this incident, and we hope that they find the strength to get through this difficult time

brilliant and well said, kudos sir,

N3TRAL:
Peter Okoye, my favourite, the defense of threat to life doesn't suffice because even a child can string the pieces of the event together based on the short video clip of Seun Kuti assaulting a commissioned officer of the law.

It doesn't add up that a man with a gun threatened your life and you point fingers at him, insult him and slap him.
What's more life threatening than slapping a very calm policeman?

In the US, Seun's body would have been riddled bullets.

The policeman must get compensation through civil litigation after the criminal case instituted by the State sends Seun to prison.

You can't come out of your AC chilled Mercedes and assault a public servant labouring day and night under the sun and in the rain to feed his wife and babies without dire consequences.

super brilliant piece bro, no one would have said it better, infact if it's in the US, the civil suit against him alone would have sent his ass into everlasting penury, I pray they send him to jail so that our self acclaimed yeyebrities can CALM DOWN, if in doubt that the law is no respecter of the rich and famous go ask R Kelly, Bill Cosby, Boris Johnson and co

Greystone:
Is she receiving half of all the blows and punches in the ring? What rubbish.

hahahaha hehehehe hohohoho super hilarious

Win or lose we don qualify for champions league, abeg my people which competition chealshit go play next season sef

DennisEche:

How am I wicked, was the car not sold to him by another person? Forming holier than thou and na them corrupt pass

and if you are not wicked and dark hearted must he continue to perpetuate the wickedness and evil as u have advised?

IyaTola:
People dey run leave Abj you dey run eneter Abuja, Na onitsha wey suppose reason business u dey run comot

wetin dey pursue people wey dey run comot Abuja, oga enemy of progress, na the advise wey u fit give be dis abi, if not for anything tell me the safest place to live in this country with very cheap cost of food items, FYI, Abuja is bothered by three leading food basket case States of Niger, kaduna, nasarawa, benue

NaijaGoBetter2:
He resembles our Dear Apostle Suleiman...

People do forget their common sense when dealing with these religious leaders

correct

greenermodels:
I don't like living in Lagos for anything, most people there are probably better off financially living in another state.

lived in Lagos for donkey years and hopefully will never ever lived there again, I currently live in Abuja where I drive to city center in less than 25 minutes, and the icing on the cake is that I have never experienced any crime in more than eight years, glorified big for nothing slum

Mankindman:
The question?
The strength of the US $ is rooted in the vibrant and liquid NYSE, technological innovation, human resources and Agriculture.

The strength of the Chinese Yuan is in Chinese exports and the population.
The strength of Saudi Arabia Riyadh is in Oil and tourism/pilgrimage
The West will always be the West.
Innovation rule the World.
Underate the Americans at your peril.
US trust herself, her economy, her military and allies.These are the determinlnant of US$ strength.
Nigeria as a nation should identify with the West. The benefits will far outweigh any perceive misconception.
If our leaders can put Nigeria in order, in terms of Rule of law, security and electricity, most of the American manufacturers will dump the BRICS and establish industries in Nigeria.
The hidden agenda and utmost goal of China is to re-colonise Africa.
The Chinese target in Brazil is Agriculture, they plan to use Brazil as an alternative food basket for their population.
Time will tell if the BRICS will survive inequality of resource distributions.

brilliant

When this thread opened up and i read people's opinion, I branched at a car Mart in Abuja and priced the Pontiac vibe 2910 which has received a lot of excellent reviews and it was pricing for 5.5million, never knew the car was that bloody expensive,

OLEADTIPS:


Naija used to be a leading Tennis nation. Unfortunately our Tennis died when the military messed up everything.

Our Lagos Tennis Classic of the World Championship Series Tour (WCT) was huge world best of that era Like Arthur Ashe, Tom Okker, Jeff Birowiak, Wojtek Fibak, Karl Meiler, Bob Lutz etc featured in the1976 edition.

Fantastic bro, but you are not a young man ooo

HIGHESTPOPORI:
IGBO AMAKA

ole, barawo, thief, who tell you say na Igbo

Wagwanbrethren:
Lol. Why are the Christians on these thread denying the pastor and saying"this is not Christianity"?🤣
Hypocrites. How's it not Christianity when the pastor used the same bible to deceive them. I've said it severally, the average Christian is deluded and can be easily deceived. Imagine these ones too.

The pastor held the bible, quoted some verses about fasting, listening to God and other trash talk you can find in the Bible.
Hebrew 13:17"Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you" so according to the bible here you must obey even if your pastor say you should jump into a burning fire! 🤣

Here's another trash from the bible"When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show others they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full."
Matthew 6:16. So they were only following the bible.

absolute true and well said

SyrusdeHansome:
The sweetest revenge in a relationship is moving on after a bad breakup by redeveloping nd upgrading urself in every aspect of ur life to bcom the man or woman every opposite sex wants to have. Once that happens he or she will keep regretting 4 missing a raw diamond that has become a refined one. Sleeping with ur ex' sis or best frnd isn't a sweet revenge but rather a sign that u've not yet moved on.

super brilliant bro,

Spaxon:
Yes you were Hurt, we understand that.
Cheating is something African Women have endured and I'm not saying it's a good thing. But they've bottled it and salvaged their marriages.

An Average Man cheats.
Before you start quoting me, ask your daddy If he hasn't cheated on your mommy
There are instances the wifes find out and they shelve it under the carpet.

But because of quick money and fame, you opted to divorce him of course which is your RIGHT ... Hoping to cash out


You're only Shocked you came to the young boy's life to rip him of his Wealth
If not how do you expect to tie down a boy 12 years younger than you and distract him from fresh blood. Tell me if you were enough for him
What would be looking for in a younger girl.

Girl you're just pained you didn't make the headlines as the Victor. So chill

well said but you are wide off the mark with your unsubstantiated claims of African men as matrimonial cheats, haba this is intellectual laziness at it's height, women cheat as much as men do, world over, and you have not read the findings about Nigerian women nicking the world record of marital unfaithfulness? I suggest you take a stroll to short time hotels and find out if the women who sneak in and out of those sleazy rooms are coerced or forced for the sexual romps

mjuvey3:
You need to appease your ancestors.

You see,our parents are to be blamed most times we're going through crisis in life...Do you know why?

Most of them know the source of our problems but some of them are scared we might be pissed if they reveal the source.

Imagine a lineage where their ancestors has sworn with their blood to always worship a certain deity and their offsprings deviate, forgetting that blood covenant is sacred and special.

correct, this alone is responsible for almost half of the spiritual battles a lot of people face in thier life

Esortigress:
Marriage is now a joke. Never make the mistake of marrying the wrong person, you'll ruin your life by doing so. As a lady, never be too quick in falling for some mere sweet talks, you'll live to regret it if you do. Study your admirer or toaster for a long period before starting anything with them even if it takes years. Modern men are neck deep into leeching women these days. Modern world has turned upside down where men now depend on women for survival.

I am a man but I tend to agree with you on some lazy men out there who depend on women to survive and cater for thier joint offsprings, however marriage is not a joke and millions of people out there are joyfully in it and are finding it a helluva rewarding experiences, let's desist from using odd and few cases as a basis for generalizing

00FFT00:
People need to quit marrying these poverty of the mind ravaged women and bringing them across the pond. Also, avoid some of the ones you meet inland, they're only hustling. You'll become the hustle.

You cannot make someone who do not love you change the way they see you because you benefited them. She will use you, then transfer the benefit to the ruffian she's still in love with at okokomaiko.

Tell your friend to man up. Too many of us don see dis very shege before, but we bravely beat the challenge.

He need to lick his wounds, then go hustle like his last breath was about to leave him. He'll come back a Hakim.

brilliant bro

Japa007:
The way women insult and berates their husband because of money is so annoying. So long as the man has money, the home will be very peaceful, but pray hard that the money doesn't finish, you will know you're living with a devil under the same roof.

For God's sake, why can't she allow her husband to bath ordinary hot water, just because she refilled the gas with her own money. I'm sure when the man was refilling the gas himself he has never ordered the wife not to come close to it.
.....
Some months ago we read the story of a man that beat his wife to death because of mere loaf of bread.
After coming back from work, he saw some bread in the house and wanted to take some, but the wife refused, because she bought the bread with her money, that's how fight broke out between the couple, I pity some families sha.

RIP to the dead..

spot on bro

Agunesinjaweola:
My Children should start learning Hakimiology🤓🤗👍

When Hakimi said you're all I have got, MUMU woman was celebrating like parrot 🦜 😂🥳

hahahaha hehehehe hohohoho, super hilarious

Acidosis:


Igalas are more in Lokoja because they spent at least 20 years planting their brothers, sisters, and ghost workers in the entire head offices of government agencies.

If Audu had not died mysteriously, they will still be in Lugard House, ruling and running the affairs of the state till this very day.

The worst bigots any "minority" tribe can wish for.

you are absolutely right, and now what goes around is coming around

mistilink1:
Majority of Igalas sees Lokoja as their base because they refuse to develop their town,too local and inhabitable for them to leave, hence they see Lokoja as their retirement base. That's why it looks have the population you could see in Lokoja. Take for example,an Ebira man is comfortable doing business in Okene and still make it because of rate of development there. But if you are in Igala land and embarking on any business, you are on your own.

super correct and right on point

mistilink1:
I still maintain my initial stand that Igala is not the majority tribe in Kogi State. Igala is only fortunate to have big-for-nothing land mask. This is what made them to have nine LGA. Lokoja is more Ebira/Okun than Igala.Nature has created boundary between Igala and Ebira.You can cross over river Niger and be claiming the lands after it. I hope I have given you enough orientation now?

excellent bro

Ireportlive:




No long talk.. girlfriend allowance is the game changer

Most ladies these days need a provider

Most men just need a companion, sex mate and someone to vibe with

Getting a prostitute every other night is expensive , plus prostitute don't vibe with you

Marriage is a long time financial and emotional commitment most guys can't afford

Perfect solution, get a girl within your dating class who is right for you but below you financially, leverage your money to get her loyalty.


.

fantastic

rxmusa:
A Choirmaster!
No one will blame his RELIGION now because it isn't the other way round

wetin we Muslims eye dey see for our Christian Brothers hand no be small thing ooo, they can generalize? do you all know as an empirical fact that more Muslims have died way more than Christian's in the hands of the murderous disbelievers that call themselves Boko Haram?