Jennyclay:
There are so many ways to give her a clue. you need to indirectly ask her if she's aware her husband is a cheat.

That is why we need to talk please, can I DM you?

Themainboy22:
To think you are a man acting like a b*tch, is nauseating. I'm outta here!.

How do my actions negate my sense of love and responsiveness towards her? It is about doing the right thing.

obyrich:
Most unlikely.

I hope you know the bone of contention for me here is not the wife but the lady?

BigRocky:
Trust me,for every cheating husband,the wife already knows.

Just watch how things is gonna play out

Most likely. But what if she doesn't? The goal here is to set the lady free (not the wife) because I am concerned for her. She's my friend.

Jennyclay:
Do you know, that's why Nigeria is where it is now.

Someone is stealing and looting from your fellow citizen.. Mind your business
someone is planting bomb (terrorists).. Mind your business
someone is insulting your collective intelligence.. Minda ya business...

@op do not tell her directly, just give her a clue, or a pointer and let her figure it out herself, if she is not able to find out on his own, leave her alone.

As for me, if you get

Thanks for the response. How do I get on with that? Can I call you?

obyrich:
Who told you the wife is not aware her husband is cheating?

What if she is not aware?

MadamVanessa:



You don't even know if the wife knew the husband is a chronic cheater, so you going to report him is a waste of time. So mind your business. Or the best you can do is, if you are a guy, you can lure the wife to have sex with you so that it the wife can cheat on him too , if you're a lady, you can arrange a young hansom guy to knack the woman. I have been doing it to other ladies that I found out their husbands is cheating on them, at the end they're always appreciative.

I am not like that. Besides, I just want the best for my friend. It's a big concern for me.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga you're jealous, better mind your business

We can't be together after all these I have seen. My friend is still young and has a lot of good things to enjoy in life. She might regret it. Forget about jealousy.

nero2face:
(It disturbs me a lot cause I HAVE FEELINGS FOR THE LADY IN QUESTION). OP please can u explain what u mean by this, or are u jealous of the husband and trying to cause misunderstanding between them so u can hatch ur long term selfish *feelings* as u out it...

I want her to be free because I like her, not so we will be together. But it would have been preferred if it was a random guy not married. Dating or sleeping with a married man is not an option. It's so demeaning for the lady and disrespectful to the husband's wife. I'm just concerned for her.

Obalacam:
Report to the woman because you really care for her well being or because of jealousy that the man is getting what you think should be yours?

It's not about jealousy. The contemplations I have is about doing the right thing.

ggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

I am aware of a married man who is clearly cheating on his wife with a lady I know well. It disturbs me a lot cause I have feelings for the lady in question. Should I report to his wife or keep mute? I don't like women to be disrespected like this. The same lady doesn't care whether I am aware or not. Help a man with answers.

Thank GOD fr seeing me thru o, i got admission wth electrical engineering.

I applied abu elec eng. Wat waz d highest score in pst ume?