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PoliticsRe: Rivers State Re-run Election: Police deploy 6,000 personnel, 3 commissioners by SBhelper: 12:21pm On Mar 14, 2016
THE RIVERS RE-RUN IS AN ISSUE OF NATIONAL INTEREST! DEPOLYMENT OF MASSIVE SECURITY FORCES AHEAD OF THE ELECTION IS A GOOD MOVE. MEANWHILE, ALL SECURITY AGENCIES SHOULD EQUALLY DEPOLY PROPORTIONATE!
ALSO, THERE IS an URGENT NEED FOR THE people to think peace, and believe in Peace!
CelebritiesRe: Top Five Bachelors In The Nigerian Music Industry by SBhelper: 3:32pm On Feb 23, 2016
WHAT OF DIVORCEES?
PoliticsRe: Social Media Week February 2016 Summit In Lagos (Photos) by SBhelper: 1:52pm On Feb 23, 2016
Whaooo I missed this? When are u holding abuja edition?
PhonesRe: Why I Hate GLO Data Service With A Passion: What Of You? by SBhelper: 9:42am On Feb 23, 2016
Interesting: Glo data is truly cheap oooo. Using it on Bb10
PoliticsRe: Aminu Tambuwal And His New Wife Maryam (Photo) by SBhelper: 4:10pm On Feb 22, 2016
What of his older wives!
Nigerian Politicians love marrying new wives...at any time they are in new position!
PoliticsRe: House Of Reps Summons Diezani Alison-Madueke by SBhelper: 4:08pm On Feb 22, 2016
Waste of Time!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Manchester City: FA Cup (5 - 1) oN 21st February 2016 by SBhelper: 6:49pm On Feb 21, 2016
The. Reture real Chelsea!!
RomanceRe: Lady Breaks A Guy's Head For Touching Her ( Just Happening In Lagos ) by SBhelper: 7:42am On Feb 21, 2016
Anger!!! Is danger! Danger is near to death!!!
Christianity EtcRe: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by SBhelper: 1:51pm On Feb 18, 2016
SadNews
Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate [color=#006600][/color]



The following statement was written by Attwaters Jameson Hill, lawyers for Anita Ebhodaghe (formerly Anita Oyakhilome).

“We have been requested by Anita Oyakhilome to confirm that on the 8th February 2016 a decree absolute was pronounced in the High Court of Justice Principal Registry of the Family Division dissolving her marriage to Christian Onehirokpeana Oyakhilome.

Anita Oyakhilome would like to confirm that she is no longer involved in or part of Christ Embassy AKA Believers LoveWorld INC.”

Signed,

Attwaters Jameson Hill Solicitors
+44 20 3393 7265

Source: http://www.attwatersjamesonhill.co.uk/News/Anita-Oyakhilome.shtml
Foreign AffairsRe: Mugabe Refuses To Relinquish Power, Says Until He Dies by SBhelper: 1:48pm On Feb 18, 2016
Hebrews 9 : 27
27 And just as it is appointed for man to die once, and after that comes judgment,
He shall face God on the last day
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why You May End-up In A Bad Marriage. by SBhelper: 11:14am On Feb 17, 2016
5 Reasons Why You May End-up In A Bad Marriage.
Nowadays many people will come out shouting that 'my marriage is this my marriage is that' shortly after their marriage and you keep wondering what happened. I think I have some of the reasons.

Handsomeness or Beauty
This is the problem of some Nigeria girls but the guys are not also exempted. They are like, 'if I want to get marry, I will a tall guy, slim, fresh guy, dark, light, eloquent english, pink lips, big breast ( for guys),. Its good to have the image of want you for your life but I must tell you, few years after wedding, all this beauty will fade away. Its not as if the partner will loose the beauty or handsomeness but then, you will focus your mind on important issues like feeding, taking care of children and so on than facial look.

Faulty Courting
Courting should be like a training ground or should I say where what you really want for your family life is decided before marriage but unfortunately Nigerians see it as merry time. Moving from Kfc to Shoprite. If you see something wrong in your spouse to be, correct him or her then if he/she refuses, cancel the relationship so as to avoid 'you know me like this ooo before we get marry issue'

Two parallel lines
I know of some families where the husband will be a gentle going man while the wife is really tough then you keep wondering how it happened. Issues like this also break marriages. If you are the kind of guy that does not like trouble, please don't date a troublesome lady and thinking that you can bear it now. What you can bear now my not be so years later after marriage. Love may be blind but marriage is the tool that will open it. Choose carefully my brothers and sisters.

Respect
Respect is equivalent to love. You can't tell me you love a guy you want to get married to and you can't give him the respect he deserves even if you are age mates. This is where most Nigerians ladies are missing it. Some ladies don't want to marry men older than them by few years because they don't want to be controlled by any man. A lady who does not respect you as her boyfriend will surely not respect your family and that's it.

Don't let your parent or church choose your future husband for you
I have heard of some cases where some churches will tell you to marry your church member. For what reason my fellow nairalanders? Don't ever do that because when you finally face challenges in that marriage, all they can do is advise both of you. Finally, don't let your parent dictate the tribe to marry to you. You owe your life and not your parent's life

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