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Also a little cousin of mine came over to stay
the only things she could say then were mummy , daddy & her name (seki, short for sekinat),
( she has never made a full sentence)
then on this 9t her , her mum & my brothers & i were all gisting, we were talking & laughing loudly & i guess she was
pissed so she said " e ma soro mo o" meaning ( don't talk again o),
we were all speachless ( putting it mildly) for like 1min, she noticed  & then laughingly she said
"e soro mo o"  meaning ( you can now talk),  lol


on another occasion we were together while her mum was in the kitchen cooking beans
so i asked her to tell her mum she wants beans, she went, we ate the first plate together
i sent her again , she got a second helping, we ate it together then again i sent her the third time
& this time
her mum said-    "han han, seki ole ni iwo ati egbon e fe ya ", ( seki you & your sister want to become thieves?)
she ( seki)-         seki ko ni ole, mummy seki ni ole     ,( i am not a thieve, mummy is a thieve)
her mum-           emi ko ni ole ,daddy e ni ole ,       ( your dad is the thieve & not me)
seki-                 daddy seki ko lo le , mummy seki ni ole.      ,( my dad is not a thieve but my mum is).
LOL.

Reminds me of my neice, her & her mum came over to spend  sometime with us,( she was two yrs plus then),
on this day, my mum & hers went out together, ( she was sleeping)
on waking up , she stated trowing tantrums, my brothers & i did everything to make her quite, from giving her biscuits to
giving her rice, to backing her, all to no avail then the dialogue ensued, ( in Yoruba dialect)


me-  yetunde, aijebe abi maa na e o (stop crying or ill beat you o)
her- (she just kept on crying) >
me- oya kuro ni iwa ju mi, ( get away from my presence)

i and my brothers decided to ignore her ,she still kept on crying, when she noticed that no one was pampering her or talking to her again
she said to my cousin "broda kunle e wo mi mon ke",   ( brother kunle look @ me , i am crying)
we just started laughing & funny enough she joined in.

@ v3nom4eva  
Thanks , i think ave got it now.
u r d first to welcome me 2 nairaland.
tnx again.

Uhm, do they?

Are u now telling us that you have accepted ur fiancee back & dat u r going to marry her?.
Well if thats the case,I think that you are one of the few rare fellows around.
all d best.

Some ppl do it to rebel, some say they just like the man,& some didnt know at d initial stage and when they
do they are in it too deep,or cos "they just want to feel big"
well like some one said, the girl child should be empowered so that dating a married man
will be what she wants and not because of money or other things that entice.
Some girls do say no but some men won't take no for an answer.

Actually i dont think this is necessary, its not in all cases that blood is seen.
its only when there was a hymen that got broken or there was an injury(tear) that blood is seen,
some ppl loss their hymen due to other factors, so when they finaky have intercourse blood might not be seen.