₦airaland Forum

Keneking:
Where is TBoss sef?

I think Efe should make a big temple for Mother Mary with this rosary on his neck.

God is Good all the time

AsiwajuNdigbo:
Before she had the baby, before she got pregnant, before she became resident in Otobo Gbame, this woman belonged somewhere. She needs to return to that somewhere. Its called survival skill!

Humans have innate recall and strive to overcome adversity and survive. If a person is faced with a situation that threatens their security and life and refuses to shift, adjust, repose and remove the threat then they are mentally, spiritually and physically demented and retarded.

Lagos State is a land of survival, you either make it or restrategize and try again. No one should die trying, unless they have lost the instinct for survival.....and in that case they are better off dead than becoming burden and a threat to the security and life of others who strive and beat the odds.

No, Govt must not intervene. If you are not strong enough to find a way out of this and survive then you are weak and unfit for the hustle of Lagos life to begin with....Get out!

MisterGrace:
Forgive and move on?
How old are you?
Are you married?

ademola2017:
Hi Nairalanders,

I am in a state of dilemma as my marriage is shaking.

Before we got married, my wife treated me like a piece of shit and never gave me any regards or attention. Any little quarrel would be blown out of proportion and wouldn't talk to me for days. I did the calling always and each time I ask her why she doesn't call, she would say I should get used to it. There was a day when a baseless quarrel occurred, she accused me falsely and we didn't talk for more than two months. I stayed single and was already moving on until her friend came begging on her behalf. I wondered why she didn't come herself but all the same I accepted her back. She changed like she was doing me favor but I still persisted because I loved her genuinely.

Fast forward, we got married and I was hoping for a good future with her. As usual I was very open to her and discussed every issues with her. At a point, I found out the marriage was one sided. I gave more but got little or nothing from her. I never burden her with house chores or cooking at all. We sat always to talk about her attitude but she would say things are fine while I will be grieving and having sleepless nights. She will wake up in the middle of the night to check my phone to know if i was cheating. I swear I have never cheated on my wife... She knows my password and never hid anything from her.
As we went on in the marriage, her behavior became worse and couldn't condone it again. She never saw anything wrong with her attitude and would say her apologizes are expensive.

I decided to do a background check on her and found out she double dated all through when we started dating and gave the guy more attention for 2years of our relationship. When things went bad between them, she fell back to me and unknown to me, I accepted her back. She and her ex were still in good communication till the night I confronted her. She would rather confide in her ex than confide in me (Now husband) Now, I feel so hurt, betrayed and used and can’t trust her again.

She has been very apologetic and says she is ready to change. So if had not found out about her double ways, I will still be condoning her insolent ways. I am seriously finding it hard in my heart to forgive her. Even if I do, I can never ever forget because I do not trust her again.

What will you guys advice?

positivelord:
Please keep the votes coming.

While they are ranting on social media , please #BOSSNATION should keep the votes coming.

We appreciate the huge votes recorded within the last few hours.

Her Majesty MUST be crown on sunday.

Thank you, Thank you.

kestolove95:
Look at who is talking...ordinary pdp meeting u couldnt manage na d economy u won cum manage well?..mtseew drunkard

adem30:
What kind of comments are you expecting from Baby factory product before?

madridguy:
No man alive can withstand Sai Baba anyday anytime.

sarrki:
At this rate I doubt
That's just the truth
He must be firm in taking decision

sarrki:
They should go and work for their respective state

Kanu committed treason

Let him face the music squarely

sarrki:
Who created Angel Gabriel?

sarrki:
Ipobs, criminal Fulani herdsmen and Boko Haram are all the same they are all terrorist