LagosNIV:
No, you are not required to get a visiting visa first. We issue first time visas to pregnant mothers for childbirth when they meet the reqirements for the visa, and prior travel to the US is not one of the requirements. My advice with this post was simply to declare your true intention. This applies to all US visas. If your intention is to go to a community college, declare that. If your intention is to visit your brother, declare that. If your intention is to go camping in one of our National Parks, declare that. If your intention is to have childbirth, declare that.

drjustice17:




It unfortunate that ur mum use her hand to break her home. In marriage, each couple hv to b conscious of finance, and immediately one start to separate money from marriage, saying this is my money and that is ur money. hmm, if care isn't taken, that marriage will collapse.
it unfortunate that ur mum allow firm to control her. [b]That what the bible said" money is the root of all evil " ur mum allowed money to control her. Ur father pregantting a girl was as a result of ur mum denial her sex.
[/b]Ur mum hv bad influence. her friends must hv advice her not to mind ur father, and she will regret the action.
And on ur own side, ur mum is influencing ur with gift, money and making u to feel comfortable, it is time that, u tell ur mum, the truth. That marriage as u hv seen has collapse. what ur seeing is just shadow.

BrotherJesu:
My mum is very beautiful, and successful yoruba woman but dosent regard her husband a bit,
Trouble got out hands when she got her first car and her husband who is an engineer doesnt have one yet,she then became pompous and over protective of the car that even those around; church and family knew that popxy doesnt own the car. Mumc is an established fashion designer and holds several positions in Nigerian Union ofTailors, as a result of this she comes home very late not givin any excus. As time goes by she stopped cooking him as she is always busy with work or travelling on state sponsored trips she does not bother to notify her husband whenever she is travelling.
There was a day i was so angry kus even my friends have started to take note and it becoming embarrasing, so i spoke with her, while talking she broke down in tears, she said she is the one responsible for 80 percent of the house expenses that popcy recieves 400k monthly bt always complaining of bin broke, she said other things i cant really type here.
This went own for a long time, they soon became enemies in the same house everyone going there way doing things differently, admist all these popsy has never rised his voice on her even when mumcy somethings did very annoing stuffs.
In the heat of this, popsy impregnated another babe although i have never seen the woman nor the child since birth which is close to two years. He apologised and promised to never bring them to interfere in our lives.
However this literary set our house on fire. While mumc was gettin over the haertbraek, she promised to get back at him which i didnt undesrand then.
Early this year, mumc bought 2 cars at ones, i was very surprised as she normally tell me her moves, she gave me one while she uses the other one. What broke myy hear was that she kept the one she was using before under cover when i asked her why she didnt allow popxy have that one she said she he should go buy his own and warned me that the day she will see him use my car na problem .
For sometime now she has been joking about moving us out of the country without his knowlege.
Popxy right now has facilitated his tramsfer to delta state.
Now they dont even see neida do they communicate again
the whole thing is driving me insane as i dont see popman coming to the house again pls guys help a brother what do i do
excuse my typo and coherence.

makydebbie:
Big time hypocrites.

Dinocarex:
Who is in New York? Boredom is about to kill me.
Pretty ladies and gentlemen. PM me and I will drop my number. I just need friends �

idolda:


Thanks all. For clarity sake I filled the present form(2017) MYSELF. I only used agents for the visa lottery I entered between 2005-2008.

Derende:
From what I can deduce from your interview,
I can candidly tell you that the odds was not on your side today, tomorrow might be your lucky day. One thing about the us visa is that it is 95% luck and 5% ties to me. As for the aspect of you going with your family, I don't think that would have changed anything. All my visit to the us for the us in the past decade I have never applied with my family,though I was denied the first time. So just give it some time and apply again maybe next year. Better luck next time and pray very well.

idolda:


No I didn't win in any. Personally I feel the VO is in haste and I'm simply unlucky to have been assigned to him. He didn't even ask me my job responsibilities. Do you think I stand a better chance after my East Africa tour (Rwanda, Uganda and Kenya in fact I will even add Ghana join)?

FASTLINK1:

Hello, the VO must have thought that your real intention for the visa was different from what you answered, being that you are still at the child bearing age. Tourist trips are for the family, except as a group/organization. You can't go on a tourist trip like this without the children, your husband case is different as he could be busy with work during the time.

Sebastine1606:

Most of the questions are things your cash get answers to yourself, make use of google, most times you may not get quality response here but google ur your friend,use it
Cost of trip, road maps, baby sit or lapping, use google to make research, as for likely questions, concerning your tired will be asked

gbajike:
Hello @all and good evening. I must commend this thread/forum, esp those who selflessly take the time to answer questions from the wealth of their experiences. Kudos to all the pros in the house. Thanks once again and God bless.

I have some questions to ask. I have an IV to visit my uncle in Florida for Thanksgiving in November. I'm a first timer (32). Work: Clergy. Married with a kid. I intend travelling with my baby (17 months). My wife wnt be able to come along cuz of her job.

1. If I apply now, will I be able to get an appointment on time for the journey? Or do I use an agent? Can they really help to get a quick appointment?

2. Can I endorse my baby on my passport?

3. It was suggested that going to Atlanta and taking a road trip to Florida is cheaper. Does that make sense? Can that argument be defended when interviewed?

4. Do I lap my baby or put her in a seat for the flight? How do these options affect the cost of travel? Do i need to take a car seat along?

5. What are the likely questions i'll be asked considering the fact that i will be travelling without my wife and with my baby?

6. What are the basic/required documents i should take for the interview?

7. What airline(s) do you recommend for that route?


Thanks for your kind assistance.

Amberon11:
Nigga stop quoting me. You have zero sense to converse intellectually. Can't risk reducing my IQ. Won't read nor reply you. Receive sense too.

Proudgorgeousga:


The only fool everybody on this thread see is you. a mad person thinks the sane people are ones that are mad.

foolish man.

Amberon11:
I didn't wanna use this word earlier but its becoming more obvious that you lack common sense. Op didn't know what? That his father was a promiscuous dog who had moved in with another woman? Pls go pick up your sense wherever you must've left it

KaptainAfrika:
Part 2 of the things, I have observed on this forum:

1. Most Nigerian applicants don't know lying is a sin, in all situations. (the god of Nigeria is a flexible god)
2. Everybody initially planned to go for a conference, but now they wish to go for a vacation.
3. Nigerian agents point guns at the head of Nigerian applicants and force them to lie on their forms (sarcastic remark, abi is it Irony?)
4. Most Nigerian applicants don't do research, they are entitled to your answers and if they don't like them, their fangs come out unless you are the VO, then they become humble.
5. You ask us for your chances, we say you don't have a chance, then you say we are not God, so why ask us in the first place?
6. NO DOCUMENTS WILL BE CHECKED OUTSIDE OF YOUR PASSPORT, RECEIPT AND CONFIRMATION PAGE. Someone will still ask if documents will be checked, who will like to bet?
7. Most Nigerian applicants still don't know a VISA is a PRIVILEGE, not a RIGHT. Its like toasting a babe, take her to Transcorp hilton, she might not give you visa but if I take her to Mama Put, I might get the visa (its an analogy biko), you maybe the poster-boy for 'strong ties' but finally its the VO's decision.
8. If you know what you are doing is wrong, it is wrong. If you don't feel comfortable with it, then don't do it. Coming to us for validation of your wrong deed, won't make it any better.
9. The first step to restoring credibility, is coming clean without expecting to be issued a visa.
10. Nigeria is a great country, if only we make it so. A lot of African countries have little or no stress in being issued Visas, because their people don't abuse the system. A crocodile in Nigeria, does not become an alligator in the US.
I.M.H.O.

KaptainAfrika:
This mostly likely a lie. You were not going for the program and you only wanted to boost your chances of getting a US Visa. Now, how do you tackle this mindset a CBP officer might have, of you? do you have documented evidence for not going for that program, for example an official letter. If you don't, you might find yourself back on the next flight to Nigeria. Be safe.

Mindfulness:


Do you think you can hurt a woman and just because you later decide to be honest and faithful she will forget the scars you have left?
It doesn't work like that. Women are not machines that can be programmed as it suits you. You men take pride in being stronger and less emotional and yet you expect women to ignore their hurting hearts and the fact that you have failed to protect them?

SMH



You don't make sense at all at all.

Proudgorgeousga:


no you are the wayward wicked hypocrite.

you are the one that don't make any sense and a lot of people on this thread tried to make you see that and they are not even atheists but your brain is fool of shìt and you can't even see it.

stùpid hypocritical wicked idiot forming morality ode.

Proudgorgeousga:


your brain is bloked idiota they only return with shriveled testicles and prostate cancer for the mumu wife to pack shit and urine.

Mindfulness:


A man who is like a dog with his tail between his legs? Oh gosh, which woman will get any arousal from such a man?

Mindfulness:


Why don't you tell the husband to fight for his woman to live happily after later?
That's the same advice you were dishing out to women. I thought men are the stronger s.ex after all, naturally born warriors.

Proudgorgeousga:


I enjoying exposing the hypocrisy and delusions of your type idiota

Amberon11:
Sebastine1606

This is what the op said. Op never "confronted" his dad like he plans to do to his mom. He called him "man to man to know his motives".

Why do you people always try to sugar coat the truth? So the man is free to spread sperm everywhere but a few nude pictures and y'all go ballistic. Are you people that insecure and insensitive?

Proudgorgeousga:


which marriage are you saving? the one the husband of the house has moved on with a lover? your brain is paining you.

Proudgorgeousga:


you are the confused one. your bible says one thing you say another just to support your stupid argument that is dead on arrival.

Mindfulness:


No, it is not. It is a fight against selfish i.diocy, which you represent.

No woman here will call out a man who is reasonable and fair but many will challenge i.diocy and unfairness against women.

HUGE DIFFERENCE.

Amberon11:
Op didnt say so, dont put words into his mouth.

cococandy:
What does my happiness matter in this case? Or yours?

It's HER happiness that's important

Yes let's keep promoting mistreatment of women because women in the past have been talked into enduring trash.

If you will give this same exact advice to a man who's wife has been philandering from the day one of their marriage, then I will take you seriously
Calm down oh, this is the world we live in
It's not my make inugo

Otherwise you're just another sexist entitled male who thinks men's feelings and wants are more important than women's. You're the type I usually ignore.

elektra:


I know I am a helper. What is your point?

You have not answered my question! Did God give leadership of the home entirely to the man? Or did he give man leadership in other aspects and gave woman leadership in faithfulness and sex?