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|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 3:56am On Jul 24, 2013|
Nashville: I really pity you cos you do not know what you want. You do not want to marry a cheat and you are convinced your bf is cheating, so what are you waiting for? Sorry you are highly insecure and you should deal with your insecurity before you think of marriage. You are absolutely not ready for marriage and anyone that marries you will have a hard time.thanks o, but firstly I'll humbly advice you to pity yourself first. Like you said I know him better than you do. "ALmost" not "all" men. That a man cheats doesn't classify him as a bad guy, its all about nature. I'll also advice that next time, kindly read through the thread, understand it well before contributing.
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 5:50pm On Jul 23, 2013|
What are you even saying guy? .please read the thread well before u comment. Which one is july salary inside matter. Hian!
Morayo747: I bet my July salary even if you catch him red-handed nothing will change you will still be in this relationship. Now do you really want to do that to yourself? Let sleeping dogs li...what the eyes don't see the heart don't grieve.
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 3:26pm On Jul 23, 2013|
chidyhels: If your exclusive with someone, and the both are faithfull to each other, the very moment you start feeling he's cheating, forget evidence, he is cheating. You guys have been together for long, so the moment he changes you must knw. The question is, as much as you love him, will you leave when you get your evidence. Why not face it upfront, y is he cheating? how much have u both communicated about faithfulness and staying true to one another?exactly what I'll do
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 1:02pm On Jul 23, 2013|
I get u honey. Thanxx
alutacontinua: ^ ^ ^ ^ Just see the siggy of the poster above. What is that
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 12:48pm On Jul 23, 2013|
Like I sed, I'll jst take it slowly. Thanks anyway
freecocoa: You say you are sure he cheats,what else are you looking for na?your the confused being here. Please read through the thread before commenting
Oohrhii:its easier sed than done. The way a man feels when being cheated on is the exact way a woman feels.if a man respects a woman, why should he cheat. Its as good as saying, i can as well cheat and he should just concentrate on our relationship. Then everybody goes gaga. Even worse as the environment we find ourselves has claimed it to be a man's world. Like I sed in my earlier post. Its just a means to tackle the issue. Thanx sha
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 11:23am On Jul 23, 2013|
Wen you get him what will you do to him?[/quote]please read thru the thread before commenting
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 11:09am On Jul 23, 2013|
dmcdad: I truly understand your fears gurl.... It takes a sincere heart to worry on such matter to this extent. The thing I detest most and would be very hard to tolerate from my future partner would be unfaithfulness. I so detest it that I would rather remain single for life than being cheated upon for once.*sighs of relief* so relieving to know that someone truly understands me. Thanks so much. I actually hav a few clues I only want a situation where denial is impossible.thnks once again
emiye: tap in to his phone for just 2 weeks, if nothing special is detected, you are simply insecure.like I said above, there are clues. Seen couple of strange text messages frm a particular number, off course if I decide to confront him, he'll give some silly stories.besides that so many more.like the guy above sed, I'll just take it slowy when doing my findings out.you guys rock. Thanks once again
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 9:02am On Jul 23, 2013|
ibkaye: Are you going to leave him once you find your evidence?
Mynd_44:please read above
mr.drizzy:if I dint have the tiniest clue, I won't be here asking this
kliq: If u hav d cobviction dat he's not true to u,u really nid not bother urself bout catchin him in d act cus u will never...dats a true playa for u,he's smarter dan u(smooth operator).If however u catch him,what do u intend to do? Walk out/cry?...u really can get a St on dat cus ur next myt b worseplease also read my post above
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 8:27am On Jul 23, 2013|
Mynd_44:I get your point now. Believe me my case is completely different. I don't nag,cos I can't stand it either. No matter the issu I must find a way to sort it out, and nagging is way way out of my proceedures
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 8:15am On Jul 23, 2013|
Mynd_44: You already feel so strongly about this and you keep hurting yourself looking for evidence that he cheats.you say this because you are unaware of what it feels like to be in a ladies shoes
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 8:06am On Jul 23, 2013|
dBard:thanks for your advice honey. Trust me, no girl wants to find herself secured cos of marriage. The society we find ourselves puts that mentality of insecurity and completeness. Its totally different outside here.A large number of married ladies regret being married (find out yourself) They only admit it within themselves (the ladies) It all still falls down to the society
Its not about being ready or suspicious or even distrust. Its about fighting it now to avoid it later(not physically o). If I don't fight it now, then who I'm I to fight it later. Communication is what we hv built the foundation of our relationship on from day one till date. Now tell me, how can I communicate when he refuses to admit, when there's no evidence to bring the issues to discussion.Off course I've tried a number of times to bring the matter to table, it just becomes a waste of speech nd energy. Nothing comes out of it. That's the only reason I want him caught.
|Romance / Re: I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 7:40am On Jul 23, 2013|
Henry praise: so after catching him red handed what will u do? fight him or end the relationship? u better wake up.look dear, finding out about a cheating spouse/boyfriend is one thing. Him admitting to it another thing. It only helps me tackle the issues better
|Romance / I Want Him Caught In The Act by Seecreets: 1:47am On Jul 23, 2013|
So we've bn in dis relationship for over a year. I know he cheats, (which. Painfully gets to me, straight right into my bone marrow) but I cant seem to find any evidence to nail him. Gush! He plays his game neatly without a single trace. I've tried reaching him severally at night and my boos phone is busy for long minutes, he keeps claiming its an international call. Seen just a few txt messages with nothing concreate to hit on. Yeah I lov him but I honestly can't stand being cheated on. He introduced himself to my folks just last week which means he's wants to marry me. The cheating aspects drives me insane. I want to know what's up in his sleeves? I want to catch him. Cos I don't want to end up with a man who leaves his family at home and end up withother girls out there(I know its normal with almost all guys) but why can't mine be diferent? I need advices please, I can't stand it.this is one of the most thing scaring me away from marriage. And it stares right at my face, I'm scared, I want him caught red handed. How do I go about this?
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