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eazzzy1:
Are you a Nigerian? do you have friends and family in diaspora or home who are doing well for themselves but will ignore your request to send money all the time? before you call them stingy or wicked, here are some of the reasons why rich friends do not give out money;

1. They don't have enough: Enough is subjective, someone can earn as much as $100,000/annum but feel he's not earning enough, some people have these dreams of being wealthy and that salary isn't sufficient to get them there. So you have a friend/relative who works in a big firm abroad, you think he's rich, he thinks he isn't earning enough. Even millionaires have needs too.

2. You are not the only one making financial demands: You think you are his best friend because you went to secondary school together and were seat mate or bunk mates in the hostel so automatically he should be predisposed to meeting your needs, well there are primary school best friends, university best friends, first love, NYSC best friends, Neighbours, uncles, aunties, brothers etc who think their request should be met too. It is impossible to meet all these needs.

3. Making financial demand is never a one time thing: I had this habit of giving money to people who ask for financial favors the first time. I thought since they never asked for such before, they must really be in need. I soon found out that after that first time they run to me whenever they need money again, sometimes they space out the request like two months, some every month etc. I then realize that the $100, $200 i send them is never going to be sufficient, they will always come back for more. So i joined the God will provide gang.

4. Yahoo boys : Not every fraudster hacks into companies accounts, or forge the accountants signature, or even find lonely older women/men to scam. Some yahoo boys have resorted to begging, they send you message of how their dad is dying in the hospital, how their sister got arrested for a crime she didn't commit and they need a lawyer bla bla, they call these lies format and once you send them money they pop champagne and call you client.

5. General realization : One day i was going through my bank statement and i noticed i gave out about $500 monthly to family and friends. The same me who will walk into H & M, see a shirt of $40 and think it's too costly. I either buy it grudgingly or wait till it's on sale to buy. I realized i wasn't taking care of myself enough. Most people will come to this realization at a point in their lives.

This thread isn't limited to just people abroad, it include people who work and earn who are home based too. How do you cope with demands?Diasporans what made you rethink your generousity?

Feel free to add yours.

Please if you check my thread I opened I am in need of loan to finish my 4 self-contain rooms for rent.

I am a Federal Government Staff, will someone be kind enough to borrow me 500,000 naira . Then he/she gives me a repayment plan.

I want to use and finish it.

Please if you check my thread I opened I am in need of loan to finish my 4 self-contain rooms for rent.

I am a Federal Government Staff, will someone be kind enough to borrow me 500,000 naira . Then he/she gives me a repayment plan.

I want to use and finish it.

I used my experience to write what I wrote there, hahahhhhahha

My mind did me that thing years ago. I went for test HIV was far from me

Your mind is playing games with you, you have no HIV.

It has happened to me before go for HIV test and inform us.

Times are hard, it's not easy for a guy to stand on his fit after NYSC.

The Choice is yours, stay or leave it doesn't matter.

It's just experience that you need

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Ikjosh04:
I noticed the number is not on WhatsApp. I'm very comfortable texting than calling. I only call when it's of utmost important. If you're not on WhatsApp you can send me a pm here on nairaland and I'll reply you via email.
Cheers!!

please have you gotten the WhatsApp number

Ikjosh04:
I noticed the number is not on WhatsApp. I'm very comfortable texting than calling. I only call when it's of utmost important. If you're not on WhatsApp you can send me a pm here on nairaland and I'll reply you via email.
Cheers!!

pm sent, I am on WhatsApp will send you my WhatsApp line through your mail so you see who you are talking with.

Ikjosh04:
Ok, please remove your number.

Hope to get a call from you, Thank you

Ikjosh04:
Ok, please remove your number.

I will

I still await responses please. Thanks

Asquare84:
Can you give the house as a collateral

no problem, do you base in Abuja?

Ikjosh04:
Hmmmmm!! This is tempting. How soon do you need the money and what is the interest you're willing to give me if i help you with the money?
I still have more questions to ask but that should be private if I'm willing to help you out with the money.

Thanks for your response, the interest will be determined by you, if it's ok I will accept the offer.

Kobicove:
What collateral do you have?

How much is your monthly salary?

#95,000

Depends on the collateral that you want

Please I need a loan or anyone here to borrow me 500,000 naira. I have a building I want to finish and rent it out. It's a self-contained rooms here in Abuja.

I am a Federal Government Staff, so it will be possible to get your money back.

I live in Abuja.


Lalasticala

I am expecting responses please, people have the amount without using it . I will pay back according to agreed terms.

I really need help please, Thank you.

Please this is my phoneThanks

Esseite:
Let me see what I can do..

I will be glad if you could. Thanks

Enwhen:
In this lockdown that even banks and Nigeria are looking for loans ??

people are still giving loans, the right people will contact me.

Thanks for your response

Please I need a loan or anyone here to borrow me 500,000 naira. I have a building I want to finish and rent it out. It's a self-contained rooms here in Abuja.

I am a Federal Government Staff, so it will be possible to get your money back.

I live in Abuja.


Lalasticala

Please I need a loan or anyone here to borrow me 500,000 naira. I have a building I want to finish and rent it out. It's a self-contained rooms here in Abuja.

I am a Federal Government Staff, so it will be possible to get your money back.

I live in Abuja.


Lalasticala

Go and chop your own Prof..

3 Self contain room for rent.

Asokoro extension Abuja..... by inec quarters

Neimar:
download coinomi

who don download this,? What are the procedures

inderhappy:
2k each o

na audio ?

Ok

topsquino:
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This is an opportunity to make easy, free cash.

To win is simple. Just participate.

I will be posting the giveaway today by 6pm.

You can check my profile to confirm my credibility and history.

Thank you all

I book space

3 Self contain room for rent.

Asokoro extension Abuja..... by inec quarters

Price 300k

21,400 naira are you game?

BarristerEric88:
See below

give to your parents.