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MeZee:

IF WOMEN WERE AS SEXUAL AS MEN , HOW COME SEX SCARCE FOR MOST MEN??

You're the one that needs to do the thinking more bruv
Quote me for Explanation...

SEGUE1:
How to control emotions generally?
This is gonna be a long discussion but... Let's go!

Have you ever wondered why the villians in blockbusters laughs when battling with the super heroes?
Witches laugh each time they make out an evil plan... The devil is not exempted from this discussion...
The super heroes are always keeping straight faces to show seriousness or whatever...

As we all know... These movies play a huge role in destroying our mindset on the way life goes

In the real world... The super villians will beat the shit outta these boring heroes because the heroes are the ones emotional here...
The Super Villian Is operating in his subconscious while the superhero operations in his conscious state
The super villian's laughter is a form of gaslight and a way of controlling emotions as women use this a lot...
Women won't laugh goofily or make funny faces at you
They just throw the gaslight to your face like

Girl: Come now... Come and give me money
Boy: I don't have money on me right now but i will...
Girl: (interrupts him) mtchew... You're stingy joor...get out
Boy: (thinks) " I'm going to PROOVE to this girl that I'm not stingy" (exhales) oya take joor
Girl: (instead of showing gratitude) mtchew so you even have money before and you're using me to play... Is it because I'm begging you for money...
*.
That's GASLIGHT right there and women only use this when begging or when in an argument with a man... You'll hear things like "you are behaving childish", "you are so insecure", "you're embarrassing me","you're no longer the man i married"

The Supervillain's gaslight:
The Supervillain just laughs goofily to trigger the Hero, making him angry... Women knows these that's why they gaslight to shift you off balance

If you notice... The heroes get they ass beat to pulp in the first few fights... That's because they have shifted off balance either by the villians kidnapping their mom or girlfriend

The best way to be cool under pressure is to just "not get angry"

Women will only get annoyed when you're not falling for the constant gaslights they dish out to you...
JUST AGREE AND AMPLIFY
Even superheroes get boring at times
•SEGUE

Mtchew... I'm not surprised

Tonnyray:
Somebody who has an understanding of how things work may have the time and patience to break it down further for you. Cheers.

Yeah...Maybe someone crippled or dead...

MorningSir:
Samson’s gifts were not that hidden bro stop!

Yeah i know... He was always consistent at the gym... The last time i checked...he had about 13.6m followers and counting on Instagram
Ogamornsir

Tonnyray:
May I ask you what the job of a bouncer is?
What did this particular one do wrong?
Cos in the context narrated the bouncer was doing his job. These guys are employed to ensure security, orderliness and tranquility within the club perimeter. What exactly was he supposed to do in your opinion? Watch?
Imagine a VIP or an expatriate/tourist was there and someone was beating another person up and the bouncer was just looking, what impression do you think he/she will have of the club? Will s/he ever feel safe or rate such a place? Especially in this social media age.
So the guy was shot because he saved a girl? or because the assailant was a vengeful, vile mad man?
So last last bouncers should not interfere in cases of violence on their watch.
See reasoning.
SMH.

@the bolded
"He ended up pushing the guy out and taking the girl back inside the club"

He could have sent the both of them out in order to maintain,"ensure security, orderliness and tranquility within the club perimeter".
I mean, she felt safe with her boyfriend after the incident... In the same "social age" you mentioned
See poor reasoning
Smh.

MindfulMan:
Good day brothers

please i want to ask some questions

how do one control emotion generally?

how do one be in genuine touch with the emotions, feelings, ego?

how do one develop ability to withstand the pressure instead of pressure flipping?

how do one control emotions that thoughts from the mind attached it self towards and before one could notice or realises it the emotions already had control the individual?

how do one face and withstand the intense emotional pressure when dealing with something at the moment like a man to man rapport or with a woman at the moment in order to dertermine who will pressure flip and who will survive the pressure instead of pressure flipping under intense emotional pressure

how do one control emotions
towards men, towards women, towards animals, towards places, towards things, towards life in general

i am talking about emotional control from within your internal self

i mean internal control not the external

exprienced Gees that have over come over to you

Ubunja, Martinez, Caveadullam, Emotions, Capslocked, Jeshal, Mjbolts, Zabiboy, Pansophist, Pukkalolo

what has been your experiences when dealing life in general


pls i will want you all to contribute

How to control emotions generally?
This is gonna be a long discussion but... Let's go!

Have you ever wondered why the villians in blockbusters laughs when battling with the super heroes?
Witches laugh each time they make out an evil plan... The devil is not exempted from this discussion...
The super heroes are always keeping straight faces to show seriousness or whatever...

As we all know... These movies play a huge role in destroying our mindset on the way life goes

In the real world... The super villians will beat the shit outta these boring heroes because the heroes are the ones emotional here...
The Super Villian Is operating in his subconscious while the superhero operations in his conscious state
The super villian's laughter is a form of gaslight and a way of controlling emotions as women use this a lot...
Women won't laugh goofily or make funny faces at you
They just throw the gaslight to your face like

Girl: Come now... Come and give me money
Boy: I don't have money on me right now but i will...
Girl: (interrupts him) mtchew... You're stingy joor...get out
Boy: (thinks) " I'm going to PROOVE to this girl that I'm not stingy" (exhales) oya take joor
Girl: (instead of showing gratitude) mtchew so you even have money before and you're using me to play... Is it because I'm begging you for money...
*.
That's GASLIGHT right there and women only use this when begging or when in an argument with a man... You'll hear things like "you are behaving childish", "you are so insecure", "you're embarrassing me","you're no longer the man i married"

The Supervillain's gaslight:
The Supervillain just laughs goofily to trigger the Hero, making him angry... Women knows these that's why they gaslight to shift you off balance

If you notice... The heroes get they ass beat to pulp in the first few fights... That's because they have shifted off balance either by the villians kidnapping their mom or girlfriend

The best way to be cool under pressure is to just "not get angry"

Women will only get annoyed when you're not falling for the constant gaslights they dish out to you...
JUST AGREE AND AMPLIFY
Even superheroes get boring at times
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MorningSir:
wrestling is fake from any point of view bro…stop with the cap already!

Oya na leave am... If Samson bin tell Im friends say he tear lion mouth them no go believe am
If you no believe you leave am

AlterEgo00:
If any woman says something like:
"I see you as a friend/brother; I feel nothing romantic for you"

Respond with:
“I appreciate you being honest with me and I genuinely hope you find the type of man you seek as I also should. Take care for now”

If she comes back later with attempts to win your attention, time, energy and resources, remind her that you only reserve your MEAT for poeple you have a romantic relationship with.

If she decides to let you smash, smash it well and still maintain your stand. She must henceforth prove her loyalty to you untill you're comfortably satisfied she's yours. While at it, date other women including her sister, friends, and neighbours.

A woman who friendzones you must not be taken lightly. That's the first sign that she's hypergamous, manipulative, and unreliable.

Remain her friend but preserve your sexual energy for the next woman. If she finds the need to be lavished by your MEAT, make her work for it.

The level of disgust these women feel for these bottom feeders (manginas) cannot be described

Amaka the stallion even said it in a song she was featured in "CRY BABY"

" If i didn't let him hit tha' pússy by now...then that nigga lame if he still waiting"

DEEP THOUGHTS WITH THE DEEP

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@MorningSir
Wrestling is fake until you get into the Ring...
Experiencing is believing

Den don seize tha' yamayama guy phone

Common 12 years old boy

AlterEgo00:
Went to my neighbors crib today,Man was telling me how the new babe he just met is all claiming holy and innocent for him... Said he's told the girl to come visit him buh she said she's busy.... I just laugh because i already know what's panning out, though i noticed he bought food for the babe on Thursday and took it to her workplace but i didn't say shit... So today,my guy made his food,the babe told him she's hungry,he asked the babe to come to his house to eat the food and the fool was like he should bring it for her at her workplace as usual,so i was like what'd fucck bro? Your Food and your energy then one entitled deceptive Daughter of Eve would demand you bring it for her at her workplace?? At what cost bro But because one of his friend was there,he started saying he can't ever do that, and me in my mind was like,the one you did on Thursday nko Told him had it been it's me that the fool opened her filthy mouth to say that nonsense to,i would've blocked her asap.... Me that has blocked leeches for less,not to talk of something as disrespectful and demeaning as that ........ After i left to watch match,my guy still went ahead and did what was on his mind... Lolz

If i were a girl i would have been so entitled by the way these niggas be on my ass... 24/7
Like niggas just want to fúck and at that point... They're likely to say anything just to get some box... Some niggas would have your ass under the bus as soon as they see a chick walk pass y'all... big Bunda and vice versa

I know a nigga just like that ... We'll be all good until some chick with a big ol' Badonkadonk walks by and we talk... Of course i have to know the girl to talk but this nigga would just start flaming me for absolutely no reason... I don't know if he thinks girls can't see through that bull crap stunt he's pulling... He does this everytime... Na to avoid am now

He offers help to any girl that doesn't need help...
And he thinks he's all that

There was even a day he wanted to teach me game
Imagine this glorified simp of a human being trying to teach me how to rapport with girls...
The girls he struggles to talk to... I talk to them with ease... They even talk to me first (not because of looks tho)... I just have social proof to some extent
His brother always tells me "Omo guy... you good...This girl that you talk to just now...my brother has being trying to talk to her since... He dey call am everyday, she no dey answer"
Each time he sees all these, he gets annoyed and starts to insult me... He did all of that till the day he put up a fight and i challenged him... Then he realised i was not the one to play with...like i was down for the fight even when i knew i was gonna get whipped... My confidence was just top notch. He was my senior... And he came from the village... We don't sleep on village people... Their power no be here.
Since the day i challenged him... He stopped flaming my ass cuz it was no longer fun
He has gone back to where he came from so i would no longer be needed his simp ass on my nuts

specialofficer:
Something happened to me 2 weeks ago, I remembered a girl I had a crush on back in my uni days, I dropped out in 200l, she used to be one of my coursemates but we never spoke.



So i was going through IG and i saw her profile,I chatted her up and she was giving me one word reply, I wanted to confront her but just decided to delete our chats and block her, Guys please know your worth, you be king, no be person crown you but na you crown yourself, they're more than 100million girls on earth, so you can still see a better one to pick

Chatting with girls on social media is like buying by Auction... You can never win because you won't be the finest or the richest or the best looking guy...
Her inbox will just be like "Tobi, sneaky link, Ashe and 1342 others"
How can you battle with all those guys
You would literally die of suffocation trying to make it outta the crowd

That's why you would see a girl that ain't shit ignoring your text... Well that's just cuz the guys that are finer than you are already begging her in her DMs so you're nothing special... Just among others

But when y'all meet physically... You would be surprised by the way the girl would relate...
Laughing at your jokes... boring ones included
Depending on her mood tho... But it's all good
If you no knack Mercy from WhatsApp vcf file... You go knack Ada from fuel station ...onG
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FROGMAN101:
You condoned exploitation of a kind and I gave a piece of my own opinion.

Not gon lie dawg
Your opinion is ass

FROGMAN101:
Truly men are not valued. Truly men are suffering. Can you imagine this ridiculous take? I can bet a female wrote this?

For no reason should you allow a woman exploit you, especially financially. REJECT IT. Desire or no desire. Feelings or no feelings. Reject exploitation. Many men are suffering this. Don’t be one of them.

Whether you are fat, ugly, short, tall, handsome or whatever spec there is, you don’t need the decision of another mortal human being to decide anything. You don’t need a woman to be happy infact. You ARE PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE.

Also Pls safe guard your finances especially being in a third world country like Nigeria.

What has all this BS got to do with my post
It's doesn't even correlate with anything close to what i made metion of

Pukkalolo:
Its not that women want a man whose feelings are not clear; its that women want a man that they can't easily exploit or wrap around their fingers.

it's always important to convey to her that you can't be easily influenced by her feminine appeal.

Let's take note... Women will only want all these from a man they truly desire
Be it sexually or romantically... Desire is Desire at this point...

When a woman wants to exploit you and you don't bend over backwards for her or agree with any shii she says or does...
She will never be impressed with you, as long as there is no desire
You just imagine a skinny ass bitch with no sexual appeal extremely playing hard to get when you're not even chasing her... Vhatz mard fam!
If you don't let no girl exploit you... She'll never desire you for it if you were never desired in the first place
She'll rather stay on the sideline... Hating... Staying over there and being miserable because you have just commited a crime and you deserved to be locked up for not letting her have her way
Cause she has seen you as a toy she can play with but just imagine how frustrating it can be when you get 2k and it's showing you Call of duty... Arrrrrgggggh!
Yeeah! That's how she'll feel
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tosaino95:
Knowing The game save not knowing can cost a lot emotional feeling if money wouldn't be involve.

It great you know about it.

HAPPY SUNDAY.

Yeah bruv... wanna My niggas that just found bout' game shii is so crazy bout et
To Believe nigga thought that NAWALT but now he has found out what these girls do in the secrets hideouts and he can't stop disturbing me about it... He is so bluepilled( the gee is still bluepilled) that i had to break down game... To Atoms and indivisible particles for him to understand the game... Because if i feed him in excess he will hate me, women,himself included but I'll still teach him regardless
Receeeeba!

tosaino95:
First of all i will like to tell you that those signal are not chosen signals.
Not all everybody that look at you.
Mean they like or have interest in you,
some girls might look at you just because you're handsome and wish you were their.
And might not have interest in you.

I have experience where a two fine babes have choose me ahead of my more handsome and funniest friends.

Where all these guys are praising them or trying to get their attention, me on the other side am minding my business.

So why these girls fall for me instead of my guys.

Reason for that was that am a sacarsm and cunny guy not too funny to be precise this girls.

Am straightforward guy and also unpredictable guy.

A moment ago i might be funny
A moment later i sacarsm these girls or tease them.

I never say to anyone of them you're beautiful, you're this or that.
Instead i do the other way.

So the easiest way you can know a girl like you and choose you.

Is the way she reply you or behave when with you.

For Example

You : Hi

Her : Hello how are you doing.

You: Am great and you.

Her: Am Fine

At this moment you become silent because you don't know what to say again.

If she really likes you she will start from where you stop.

Like.

Her: I like this so so so things you wear.

She might be even touching you and looking at you.
And she will also be always smiling with you.

Anywords you say she smile.

A girl with genuine interest in you,
Would always smile as she is happy talking to you.

From my experience i don't think those girls really have interest in you.

The way i have experience the girls that have interest in me.
Is almost the same way i experience the girls that doesn't have interest in me,
the difference is how they react to my words when talking to them and their behavior.

All i did is talking to them and i figure out and immediately i forget i ever talk to them.

Next time you think a girl have interest in you.
Whenever you see her try to talk to her.
Don't think on how to conversate with her.
Just try having random chat with her and try to tease her to see reaction toward to you.

Remember don't ask her out that time
And don't invite her for shopping or dinner.

Those old women you were talking about please and please never think of them as your crush.
E get reason

Sexual Desire is the main goal cause it stays...
Interest can be lost at any given time
Besides I'm not the one for relationships of any form
So a girl being interested in me doesn't mean shit

Your friends fell through just cause they were throwing backflips for those two girls
You will also fall through for avoiding girls in the name of minding your business...
I've done all that in the past... From being more stoic down to not giving them attention... All that redpill shii...
I must say it doesn't work in the real world,sadly
Unpredictability, mystery are the only sure bets... But it has to be balanced or you will just be seen as a lost soul
No matter how good looking you are...you will loose girls by trying to make them happy... Going head over heels, making silly jokes like some dumb shii

Yes girls escalate and take the convo to the next level but that's only when she's familiar with you... No new chick will escalate with you unless you live in pluto

"You : Hi

Her : Hello how are you doing.

You: Am great and you.

Her: Am Fine

At this moment you become silent because you don't know what to say again.

If she really likes you she will start from where you stop.

Like.

Her: I like this so so so things you wear.

She might be even touching you and looking at you.
And she will also be always smiling with you.

Anywords you say she smile."

I get this a type of convo a lot bruv but i will talk about my problems more than my success so i can win more...

Approaching women has never been my thing... If a get choosing signals from any girl i just break the ice... Without saying a word ....
It works everytime... Maybe i get her cutting her eyes... I'll make a funny face or smirk... Or set leg for her... Just anything to break the ice and she's in my place the same week

The old women part was legit onG no lies bruv

tosaino95:
Most girls rather commit suicide than telling a guy they like him.
All they can do is showing greenlight and doing touching body.
But we still some girls that tell a guy they like him.
Like two of my exes

I get choosen signals on a daily cause of my looks and personality (i look foreign and my hair is curly and brown)
The problem is that I can't have a conversation of any form with any girl without her avoiding me or cutting her eyes... Or behaving shy when we talk
The one thing i hate is a shy girl...(like just say something at least)
I get choosen signals from both old women to young women... Some men even say they wish i was a woman but almost every girl pretend like they hate me just cause they don't want me to find out that they like me... Or maybe they think playing HARD TO GET will get me to see their worth... IDC
My only saving grace is my behaviour ... I am amoral and non judgemental so the girls are always free with me... Telling me their dirty secrets and doing dirty things with me
Omo... If you see wetin i dey see... You go look sharp wan tym... You go dey wise by fire by thunder
I was born with Follow - come redpill...
I behave like a thug... i am a thug
I am certain that the thug - like behaviour gets women wett cus i get women both old and young drooling over me cus why... Don't know
The place i grew up was filled with cultist and bullies... Brigaders, Royal rangers and soldiers... You had to be a monster to live there... Besides the hottest chicks were fighting for the cultists And thugs
So i was redpilled without knowing what alpha fvcks and beta bucks was ... All the shii ubunja has been saying... I have experienced all that before and i fúck with all he has been saying... At a time i thought i was the one writing all that because i relate to everything
I have many stories to tell and i will dish them respectively as the days are going by.
But my main point is that women don't like to be rejected... They believe that they can get any man they want...
Even the girls that opened up to me about their feelings and i rejected them became my biggest haters... Gossiping and flaming me... Like these niggas were praying on my down fall and were flirting with my gees to make me jealous...
Life with women is thrilling...
Once you enter that hole, you can never come out...
Vawulence Takeover!